Recently diagnosed with cancer

Do you mean a person who is going to be doing the mastectomy? I have a general surgeon i am seeing now and he will be doing the mastectomy, but let me begin to tell you that there have been a lot of mishaps since the beginning. The Dr. said he sent in a referral to have me tested for BRCA 1 & 2 just to see if i came back positive so i could have both removed. I went up there and they knew nothing of the test at the lab, but even before all that he said that my insurance had approved me to have both breasts removed even without having the test. So, a couple weeks go by and i am still believing they are taking both breasts. I get a call yesterday, September 20, 2017 from my insurance saying that my non-cancerous breast could not be removed. I was told that it was approved by the insurance company at first and then someone above that person unapproved it. I go to get the BRCA 1 & 2 test yesterday also and they didn't even know what type or kind of blood to even draw or if it was supposed to be overnighted or not. I also was referred to a reconstruction surgeon and he had no idea why i was there, even though paperwork was sent to him. He thought i was just there for a reduction, not having cancer. I had to actually call my sister who is a nurse and works at the wound care clinic to explain to the reconstruction surgeon what it was he was supposed to be doing and then she called my Doctor and told him he needed to call the reconstruction surgeon to explain to him what was going on. I AM ALL CONFUSED and don't know what to do! I am scheduled to have the mastectomy next Thursday, 0928/2017. I don't want just one breast removed, my breasts are very large and saggy and i know it won't match when they are finished. I'm just pissed that i have been mislead this whole time.! Do you have any answers?