Waiting for Surgery - Vancouver BC

I am in my early 40's and I have always been very active, health conscience, and born into a family where cancer (any kind) was something that happened to other people. 'Never-say-never' seems appropriate because in July 2017, I joined the club that no one wants to join: I was diagnosed with IDC (one breast; 9 mm) and with microscopic atypical hyperplasia in both breasts. My doctor talked about a lumpectomy followed by radiation treatment and tamoxifen.

I would very much appreciate any advice that members in Metro Vancouver could kindly offer about my two main concerns at this stage: (1) How long does it take from diagnoses to surgery? I thought that I would be scheduled for an operation within 2 months of diagnoses; yet, I am still waiting to hear about getting an appointment with a breast surgeon despite the fact that my GP has made a referral back in mid-July.

My 2nd concern relates to whether I would have a choice with regards to the 'treatment plan'. I want a bilateral, partial mastectomy with immediate reconstruction. Radical perhaps, but I do not believe I actually have an option given my atypical hyperplasia (ATHP) diagnosis. To my mind, the latter is akin to having a ticking timebomb in both breasts as I already have IDC. Moreover, opting for only a lumpectomy despite of the ATHP, borders on adopting a 'softly-softly' approach that seems wholly inappropriate to me. Any advice would really be appreciated. Love and blessings to all of you!