Is anyone else an atheist with BC besides me?
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I was just thinking about all of this earlier today. I pass 2 churches on my morning walk, and one of them has someone sitting out front every day with their stacks of propaganda. They never approach me, though. Maybe it's the bright purple hair. Or the dirty looks I throw their way. Whatever. I'm just glad they leave me alone.
My rant has to do with people I know who insist on praying for me, or over me, or whatever the hell it is they do. I don't mind that part so much; my thought is if it makes you feel better, then go for it. Just don't try to give credit to your imaginary sky fairy for the results my doctors and I worked so hard for. That pisses me off to no end. I'm looking at you, MIL and FIL.
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Trishyla, it is absolutely he purple hair, tattoo's have the same effect. They are (most, not all) an incredibly judgmental group from what I've seen first hand. I rarely see anyone practice what they preach unfortunately.
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Trishyla, I get you on the "praying for you" thing. I usually just say thank you if anyone says it to me. I presume they mean well.
It's when you think about it more, that it seems like a cop out. They get to feel good about themselves, without actually having to do anything helpful. I prayed for you, my job here is done.
In context of Houston, it's akin living in a house that is not flooding, and instead of inviting your neighbours in, who are flooded, you just call out the window, I'm praying for you!
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Freya - LOL for sure!!!
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You're right about the judgemental part, illamae. Though I have to admit, one of the sweetest, kindest, most non-judgemental people I've ever known is extremely religious. But that's because she is a "christian" in the truest sense of the word. Never wears her religion on her sleeve. She's also politically progressive and unlike most christians I've known, she would be the one taking every neighbor she could squeeze in if there was an emergency. She was our neighbor for about 18 years until we moved a few miles away. She still loves to joke about how much she misses her pagan neighbors.. The funny thing is her name is Inamae. Every time I see your name, illamae, my brain substitutes Inamae. So I'm kind of predisposed to like you, even though we've never spoken before.
Trish
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Trish, "predisposed to like me", lol, I like it.
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Interesting discussions going on here. I figure for those that believe, perhaps their deity exists. But for them not me, I can live with that.
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I love the mega church that had to be shamed into opening it's doors. Contrasted with the furniture store owner who opened his stores and brought mattresses from his warehouses and invited everyone in who needed a place. One of those is doing something Jesus would approve of.
Perhaps I'll dye my hair purple. At my age they would probably think it was alzheimers tho and not hip.
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Yes - that was my favorite "shame" moment. What a phony.
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Go for the purple hair, wrenn. I turned 59 yesterday, and I've had more compliments on my periwinkle/purple hair than I ever did on my normal hair. And most them came from cute guys in their twenties and thirties. Instead of being embarrassed by my short crappy chemo hair, I was having fun with my short, crappy, purple chemo hair.
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Yeeeessssss Wrenn😍😍😍.
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Yes, Wren, go purple!!
I was really glad to see Joel Osteen's church shamed into opening its doors to help people out. It was about time!!
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saw an article about that Osteen jerk. Basically called him and his ilk hipoChristians.
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Basically called him and his ilk hipoChristians.
I would agree. He makes my skin crawl. He's just a snake oil salesman.
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They all are, Freya. He's just better at it than most.
Maybe it's just me, but if someone tells me they're a born again or evangelical christian, I run, not walk, in the opposite direction. Their fervor creeps me out.
Trish
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HipoChristians,,, I like that!!
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Lol Freya!
Also, I typed "Amen", can I have that stack of cash now, please.
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ananda and bareclaws, so very accurate. It's great to see communities coming to together to help each other.
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Mr. Osteen, you will INDEED have your day of reckoning with the Lord, my dude.
And millions of decent, generous Christians are shaking their heads in dismay and shame all across the country.
Yes, this is how we demonstrate "the Love of Christ."
Thanks a lot, pal.
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Ugh. So insensitive:
Joel Osteen Tells Harvey Survivors Not To Have A 'Victim Mentality'
"We're not going to understand everything that happens, but having a 'poor old me' mentality or 'look what I lost' or 'why did this happen,' you know that's just going to pull you down," he said in his first sermon at his Lakewood Church since the storm.
Instead, he urged his followers to "turn it over" to God.
"God won't allow it unless he has a purpose for it," he said. "We may not see it at the time, but that's what faith is all about."
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What is gods purpose for chiggers and ticks and mosquitos?
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Food for bigger critters?
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what is God's purpose for me?
I have just been Dx'd with 20 PLUS brain mets. And two of them are over 1 inch and 2 inches.
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YIKES!! That is definitely not good news. Do they have a plan?
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Crap that its a holiday wkend. Will try to get referral to onco neurologist after holiday.
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Lita, this is why I am an atheist.
I know you believe, and it must be so hard to understand why God would let you suffer like this. If there is a God, then he damn well better beg for your forgiveness.
That was probably inappropriate, but I'm just so angry that you are going through this.
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