Are my implants going to feel like part of me?

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Pepper01
Pepper01 Member Posts: 19
edited August 2017 in Breast Reconstruction

I just had my double mastectomy and they put in tissue expanders which I know are gonna feel different from the implants. My question is: do the implants feel like there is just something stuck on top of my chest or is that the discomfort of the expanders? I know I'm not going to have sensation there, but will the implants feel more like a 'a part of me' ?

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  • Pepper01
    Pepper01 Member Posts: 19
    edited August 2017

    I am just trying to find out what other peoples experiences are...

  • muska
    muska Member Posts: 1,195
    edited August 2017

    Hi Pepper,

    Eventually they will but it will take time. In my case, I would say it took up to two years.

    Best.

  • Pepper01
    Pepper01 Member Posts: 19
    edited August 2017

    whoa! Two years! I am such an impatient person too. If anything this whole ordeal has taught me to have more patience and acceptance of my life situations.

  • ABeautifulSunset
    ABeautifulSunset Member Posts: 990
    edited August 2017

    I did feel like something was sitting in my chest. My breasts were cold (very common) and fairly firm). The muscles around the implants always felt tight. Mine was worse because of the radiation. Without any natural tissue, it's hard for it to feel a part of your body. Eventually I had them removed in favor of a fat transfer. Everyone is different. You might have an a better outcome, but be prepared for it not to be perfect. I am not trying to get you down, but I wish people had been more honest with me about what to expect.

  • Pepper01
    Pepper01 Member Posts: 19
    edited August 2017

    thanks. A reality check is always nice. I felt like they didn't tell me a lot about the ROM recovery before I did this. I don't expect any feeling back, and I know TEs are different from implants, but I was wondering if it would always feel like something is just stuck onto my chest.

  • MTwoman
    MTwoman Member Posts: 2,704
    edited August 2017

    Pepper, After my mx, I didn't have to have radiation, so my situation is different to Stefajoy's. I never really felt like my implant was cold (and I live in a COLD winter climate) and I don't remember it feeling "foreign" either. Now, it is possible that it did for awhile and I have conveniently forgotten that part ;) but it feels just normal to me now. I do remember that the sensation in my skin took quite a while to come back, but it did return. So I would try to give yourself some time and be patient with your newly reconstructed body.

  • beach2beach
    beach2beach Member Posts: 996
    edited August 2017

    Pepper,

    I'm only two weeks out from my BMX and I had a direct implant at that time. Natural, nothing is unless its your own tissue. I'm still dealing with recovering and the nerve sensitivity from surgery etc, but I don't really notice having the implants. I'm not any bigger than I was prior to surgery so maybe that makes a difference. I don't notice anything in the way of cold, but maybe that is also since it's summer. A few more weeks and I'll really know for myself but so far so good.

  • Calamityjane12
    Calamityjane12 Member Posts: 2
    edited August 2017

    Hi Pepper! Someone really needs to educate the medical community about this issue. The difference between the TE's and the implants is night and day! It kills me when they say "oh they feel the same." NO! The day of the exchange is like having a weight lifted off your chest. I've had this discussion with other women who have gone through it and they have said the same thing. If you go with Silicone implants, they're softer, much more natural feeling. I'll be honest, my non-radiated breast you would be hard pressed to know it's completely reconstructed. It's that good. Hang in there through the TE's. Those really are not fun

  • Pepper01
    Pepper01 Member Posts: 19
    edited August 2017
    1. Thank you. Yeah I know the TEs don't feel like implants. I was wondering if they still feel like they're just sitting on top of you like some foreign object stuck to your chest. I am not sure if I have a choice of implant though because I am having all of my care done at a teaching hospital. I was fortunate to get 100% financial coverage because of low income.
  • LemonMom
    LemonMom Member Posts: 13
    edited August 2017

    I've had my implants for about 15 months. I always wore a light bra to sleep for almost the 1st year. I think I got more used to the implants and PS said I didn't have to wear it anymore so I stopped. They don't feel uncomfortable like the expander ROCKS at all but they are slightly "heavy" compared to my original flesh albeit a bit higher 😁

  • Beatmon
    Beatmon Member Posts: 1,562
    edited August 2017

    My implants are very soft....nothing at all like TE. Now do they feel like me? The answer is no. But they don't feel bad

  • Artista928
    Artista928 Member Posts: 2,753
    edited August 2017

    I had TEs for 16 months as I had setbacks as well. Got perm implants in last Dec under muscle/skin. Doesn't feel like breasts and is kind of tight and a bit uncomfortable. Having a revision sx this Fri to get better symmetry and take off some loose skin on the right side. The left side looks great because it was radiated and so it's firm. The right side though is lower more tear drop looking. I've gone this far to not go for the fix. I don't think it'll ever feel a part of me if I'm to compare it to real breasts, but I got used to these perm implants so in that sense, it's a part of me. TEs though, never. They were more round and unnatural looking, hard as a rock and sat too high up, and too far apart.

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