One in Six Women Choose Double Mastectomy

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  • Wildplaces
    Wildplaces Member Posts: 864
    edited April 2017

    Tara,

    You have obviously put a lot of work into making the right decision for you.

    If you scroll up you will see I am supportive of mastectomies as treatment for breast cancer in certain populations. I have had both a mastectomy/axillary clearance and radiation to left breast. I have managed to get through both without problems and do not have any sensory loss - apart from the loss of my nipple of course.

    I have a good scar (so far the rads can sometimes play up with it later on) and no plan for reconstruction - happy to be done with that part of my treatment plan.

    StillI just wondered whether part of the supporting thought behind your BS recommendation for lumpectomy/rads did not have something to do with the adaptive immune response one can get from radiation.

    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3907847/

  • Tara17
    Tara17 Member Posts: 386
    edited April 2017

    thank you wildplaces for your reply and the link.


    I have a somewhat dumb question ( and i will ask my surgeon too ) --do they remove all the breast skin with mastectomy ? Thank you

  • Sitti
    Sitti Member Posts: 230
    edited April 2017

    Not a dumb question at all. I think it depends on your surgeon and certain other things. Sometimes they can so a skin sparing MX, sometimes a skin & nipple sparing MX, but then sometimes i think they have to remove skin/nipple due to location of cancer.

  • Sitti
    Sitti Member Posts: 230
    edited April 2017

    Not a dumb question at all. I think it depends on your surgeon and certain other things. Sometimes they can so a skin sparing MX, sometimes a skin & nipple sparing MX, but then sometimes i think they have to remove skin/nipple due to location of cancer.

  • Tara17
    Tara17 Member Posts: 386
    edited April 2017

    thank you Sitti --i have already had lumpectomy and sentinel node biopsy --- nodes were negative and now instead of undergoing radiation, i want to have mastectomy--but i just want to make sure lumpectomy scare skin will be removed as part of mastectomy. ( its on upper inner breast )--i suppose this may be a question for surgeon? I dont want to spare the skin, i want to decrease my chance of local recurrence as much as possible thanks so muc

  • NotVeryBrave
    NotVeryBrave Member Posts: 1,287
    edited April 2017

    Thanks to those of you who continue to respond to this topic and to those who have specifically tried to help me with your intelligent and kind responses.

    I still feel undecided even though my scheduled surgery is 5/16 for lumpectomy with SNB and removal of previously biopsied lymph nodes. They will use wire localization for both biopsy sites. I can't believe that I still don't have peace about it.

    Probably the best thing I've heard was from the second BS - if I do the lumpectomy and nodes are negative then I could still choose to do the BMX if I wanted to avoid radiation. Yes - it would mean another surgery and more scars, but it also means that the door isn't closed and that's something.

    I'm meeting with a PS tomorrow to discuss options. I have questions for him about immediate reconstruction and also about reconstruction options after lumpectomy or with radiated tissue/skin.

    I realize that we all (myself included) just need to make the best choice we can with the information we have at the time. And try to not regret it later

  • lisa2012
    lisa2012 Member Posts: 652
    edited April 2017

    When I was diagnosed with a stage 1, grade 3, .8 cm tumour, my surgeon looked at his little pad of paper that showed 3 options. He crossed out #1 and 2 and said,"You are having a BMX." I am BRCA1 pos. No nodes so did oncotype to see about chemo. My score was 38.

    Are people now saying that survival rates are the same? Though recurrence is lower? How could that be? Is it because of distant recurrence, though your breasts are essentially gone?

  • ElaineTherese
    ElaineTherese Member Posts: 3,328
    edited May 2017

    lisa,

    Yes, those with lumpectomies are more likely to have local recurrences than those who choose mastectomies. But, local recurrences aren't what lead to death; it is when the cancer finds a new home in the major organs (e.g. lung or liver) or in the brain.

    Tara, you're right -- it's not just mastectomy or lumpectomy in many cases, but it's mastectomy or lumpectomy + radiation. But, what some miss, is that some of us would have gotten radiation even if we'd picked mastectomy. I was diagnosed at Stage IIIA with a very aggressive cancer (Grade 3, triple positive). I was getting "the works" regardless of my surgical choice.

    I tended to think about my choices in this way:

    mastectomy + radiation + reconstruction (which can involve multiple surgeries) or lumpectomy + radiation. I achieved a pathological complete response with neoadjuvant chemo -- why take off a breast if there's no detectable cancer left? My surgeon removed a golf-ball sized amount of tissue that surrounded my surgical clip. I was a C-cup, and surgery really didn't alter the size of my breast.

    Best of luck to all you, making these decisions! I certainly would have done a BMX if I tested positive for BRCA.


  • MamaOz
    MamaOz Member Posts: 432
    edited June 2017

    girls,

    I just recently may 20 had a bmx my choice tumor was in my right side with lymph nodes involved

    I chemo A/C and paxitacil first , the mri and pet showed shrinkage and none of my drs MO, OS , PS and Radiation dr could feel tumor

    However I opted for removing both as i had very old implants that were leaking silicone into my nodes

    I also opted for no recon, at 63 , I just dont need the added surgeries

    Anyway my path report after durgery shocked and disappointed my drs as well as me

    The tumor apparently took refuge in the implant and was still 3 cm and positive and 3 of the 29 nodes removed positive too.. so I will require radiation as well as hormone suppressor pill ptobably arimidex

    Also they discovered a tiny new tumor starting in my left which would not have been detectable for awhile.. so I made the correct choice on bmx. This is all such an emotional roller coaster for us all .and we have to try to make the best choices for ourselves.. its very personal I really struggled with to recon or not but decided I just difnt want added trsuma of surgeries I just want to be healthy again if thats possible

    Nervous about the radiation, any advise?? Mamaoz



  • ready2bedone
    ready2bedone Member Posts: 95
    edited June 2017

    I am new here and had BMX a week ago. I read the article and the comments here. For me, I had made up my mind before I even was diagnosed. I had thought about this for years, since I had a excisional biopsy on my healthy breast 11 years ago (turned out benign.) I researched, read everything I could, talked to quite a few BC survivors about their experiences with different surgeries and considered how the different options would affect my life overall, not just survivability rate. I also thought about what I would want as far as reconstruction. I think I always had a gut instinct that I would get breast cancer, though I have no family history.

    So, I was grateful that I had made that decision already and didn't have to make it in a hurry during a highly emotional time. I imagine there are quite a few of us who already had thought about the what ifs long before their diagnosis. Although you can never know exactly how you will react until you are in the driver's seat yourself, breast cancer is so prevalent that I'd be more surprised if no one else had already considered their options before diagnosis.

  • Clarasophia1
    Clarasophia1 Member Posts: 5
    edited June 2017

    Totally agree!,, Symmetry! Okay with flat... however I was butchered. Left with all sorts of tissue, no chance of wearing just a t shirt! Terribly disappointed! Surgeon doesn't care! Right arm numb most of the time. Left shoulder, horrific pain. Electric like shocks down left arm any times daily. Don't know what to say. 5 months out and they are totally done with you!


  • Tara17
    Tara17 Member Posts: 386
    edited June 2017

    clarasphonia --am so sorry that you are having symptoms with numbness and pain and shoulder issues. I have had some issues with my arm three months out with cording, and also have a h/o left frozen shoulder. There's really not anything the surgeons can do --they have done their cutting . I am seeing an excellent physical therapist who has experience with cancer patents ---may I suggest seeing a physical therapist if you havent already done so ? Neurontin can also be excellent for nerve symptoms and its very well tolerated except for some sleepiness ---it wont hurt to ask your doctors about trying neurontin. I hope this helps you .i hop eyu feel better soon. Also if you dont like your residual tissue --can you get a nice second opinion from a plastic surgeon about this

  • Tara17
    Tara17 Member Posts: 386
    edited June 2017

    mamaoz --completely understand feelign nervous about radiation. I myself didnt have radiation but did read the radiation forums extensively to get an idea of the experience and it was very helpful. Many ladies have posted information about skin care, the questions to ask the RO etc etc. So definitely check out the radiation forums on this site

    And yes you will be healthy again!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited June 2017

    I've finally made part of my decision. I am going t forego radiation. This means I either go back for mastectomy, or I go against standard of care and go straight to tamoxifen. This will be hard decision, but I'm so relieved to have finally just made a decision re radiation.

    My lumpectomy was successful: wide 3mm+ margins on all sides, no signs of lymph or vascular invasion. The tumor is er+ and not aggressive. Only reason I don't qualify for the IDEA trial is that i am 49 and perimenopause rather than 50+ post menopause. I guess I will be putting a lot of eggs in the tamoxifen basket if I don't do mastectomy.. will need that 50% relative risk lowered that tamoxifen promises. If I don't tolerate it well or something.. I can always get mastectomy later, yes?

  • sbelizabeth
    sbelizabeth Member Posts: 2,889
    edited June 2017

    Clarasophia1, you don't have to settle for a butchered-looking chest. Seriously. Your insurance will pay for a plastic surgeon to remove the extra tissue, smooth out the lumps and bumps, and create an aesthetically acceptable result. You'll feel much better about the way you look, I think.

  • MinusTwo
    MinusTwo Member Posts: 16,634
    edited June 2017

    I agree. I did have reconstruction, but I know my PS worked just as hard on women who are staying flat. And yes - it should be covered by your insurance.

  • shortcake42
    shortcake42 Member Posts: 18
    edited June 2017

    Love your answer. My BS never mentioned BMX. Wish I had had that info before. And I agree about them having dollar signs in their eye.

  • Jbauer_78
    Jbauer_78 Member Posts: 8
    edited June 2017

    I am one of those women. I have been diagnosed with DCIS & I have chosen to have a double Nipple saving mastectomy. To be clear I also carry the BRCA2 Gene & lost my mother to Breast Cancer in 2005 (and many more women in my family have been diagnosed). For me it is a no brainer ... If I have a lumpectomy I still have a 80% chance of getting cancer in the rest of my breast tissue; if I only have the effected breast removed the other breast still runs the great risk , one I am not willing to take.


    I have to say being able to keep my nipples & wake up with breast (I will do the nipple sparing DIEP reconstruction) is a huge relief & to be honest I would have done it before being faced with DCIS if I'd have known that these options where now available... Its HUGE for me.


    Over all it is a very personal choice, I still am very sad & scared even though I have been faced with this since I was 25 (now 38) when I first had my genetic testing done. It is a loss, it is scary... I am scared


  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited June 2017

    Jbauer-

    We recognize that this is a very personal decision for many women, and we're glad you made the one right for you! You're right, it is a loss, and many of our members live with that fear for quite sometime. We hope you're doing well!

    The Mods

  • mmbNaplesFL
    mmbNaplesFL Member Posts: 23
    edited July 2017

    Apparently, my ILC went undetected for (maybe) years as it is generally slow growing and I had it all the way up to my collar bone.

    The big shocker is that even after path reports from biopsies ( first one on tumor found beneath my collar bone) and second one on right breast, that showed ILC; subsequent mammograms and ultra sound did not show any BC. Needless to say my radiologist was stunned and said he had never experinced this in 50 years. Left breast biopsied clear.

    Helpfully, none of my doctors disagreed with me when i opted for BMX. Why would I keep a breast when I might yet again get cancer in it with no way to detect it until it did more damage?

    BTW -- my BC was found because 'fingers' of the ILC travelled all the way up my breast to the brachial artery/vein/nerve root that led to my right arm. The cancer wrapped around this bundle to cause the blood to collect in my arm. When my arm was swollen and red I went to the ER where a CT scan found the 'tumor' and was biopsied to report ILC.

    I had bmx on 05 July and am experiencing a lot of pain still 3.5 weeks later. I am assuming this is normal as my BS spent 3.5 hours removing tissue from beneath my collar bone, accessed through my armpit. While I don't expect anyone to have my exact experi nice I was wondering if any of you have also experienced this much pain almost 4 weeks post-op

  • KayaRose
    KayaRose Member Posts: 183
    edited July 2017

    mmbNaplesFl,

    I just had my right breast ("healthy breast") removed on July 17th. In Sept of 2014 my ILC was found. I had a clear mammogram the previous year and yet when found it had already spread to one of my lymph nodes. You are fortunate your doctors agreed with you and removed both breasts at the same time. Mine didn't want to remove both breasts together. They wanted to focus on treatment of the breast with cancer. It took a couple of years (and mammograms, ultra sound and MRI) but I finally had them agree it was time to remove the remaining breast.

    I will say that this mastectomy has not been as difficult as the first one. I think the difference is in the fact that I had no lymph nodes removed this time. I had 14 removed on the left side. I did not have the collar bone involvement like you but when you mentioned they accessed it through your armpit, I knew you must be having a lot of pain. It's been almost 3 years and I still am not totally pain free in the underarm area. Maybe I should describe it more as discomfort rather than pain. Just doesn't feel normal. I think it's mainly due to nerve damage.

    I had to go through physical therapy just to get my arm above my head. I needed to be able to do that in order to start radiation. It was a difficult time. If you are having a lot of pain you may want to talk to your doctor about seeing a physical therapist. They may be able to massage some of the painful areas and help you improve movement. However, I have to say 4 weeks doesn't seem like a lot of time considering all the surgery you endured.

    Wishing you pain free days soon. Take care.


  • Icietla
    Icietla Member Posts: 1,265
    edited September 2017

    Another ILC-er here. By my calculations, the little-to-no-statistical-difference-in-outcomes so often used to argue against our mastectomy and CPM choices is roughly 93% weighted by IDC and DCIS cases. Somebody tell me if I am wrong about that, huh?

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    "Bilateral involvement is reported to be 20–29% in lobular carcinoma [10, 12, 16, 41, 42]. In our dataset the incidence of contralateral breast cancer in women with ILC was nearly double that in women with IDC." Source: https://breast-cancer-research.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/bcr767

  • Lula73
    Lula73 Member Posts: 1,824
    edited September 2017

    shortcake brings up a good point about dollar signs in their eye. No one does DIEP or SGAP flaps near me. Due to radiation to the chest for treatment of childhood cancer all the docs including my primary care and OB/GYN said the chest wall wouldn't hold an implant properly and that they would migrate up to the collar bone area or down into the upper abdominal area. Therefore My best bet was to go with natural tissue recon without implants. Where did they send me? To a PS who specializes in Lat Dorsi recon which requires an implant!!! Why? Oh well no one in the area does the natural tissue recon. So why not find out who does good work that's nearby?!? I really don't care if they're not your buddy across the street. I just want excellent end results. I Ended up traveling to New Orleans (14 hrs by car) for skin & nipple sparing BMX with immediate DIEP recon at the center for restorative breast surgery. Best choice I could've made

  • mmbNaplesFL
    mmbNaplesFL Member Posts: 23
    edited September 2017


    @kayarose -- thanks for your words.

    Between traveling to tampa for treatments and hurricane Irma I'm a little behind on reading these forums.

    To the MODS-- you need a way to notify members when someone responds to them. It is done on other forum sites-- why not this one?

    Thanks for your words and information. Yes, 2-1/2 months post surgery, I am still in what I consider quite a lot of pain. Some of it caused by the radiation. Now I am having to get PT to control the lymphedema in my right arm. My right 'breast' area keeps filling with fluid also. My surgeon emptied it several times via aspiration, but changes in tissue from the radiation and fear of infection has essentially put a halt to that. I may need a small procedure soon to close the pockets to keep the fluid from collecting there. not what I want at this point obviously unless it is necessary.

    Yes myPT is wonderful and a great help to me. I need to find a good one in Naples for when I return there next week. Right now, most businesses in Naples are still closed due to no power. Need someone to recommend a good one.

    Good news is that I will soon (25 Sep) complete my treatments and will be able to start my recovery. I am hopeful that I will eventually be strong and healthy again.

  • KayaRose
    KayaRose Member Posts: 183
    edited September 2017

    mmbNaplesFl,

    Going to Tampa for treatment must be difficult. It's not a short ride, especially when you're in discomfort. I hope you didn't have too much damage from Irma. My husband and I own a condo down in Bonita Springs - just north of Naples. We were fortunate and did not have any major damage. We're right by the Gulf so we were very nervous. The fact that the "surge" didn't happen really was our saving grace. We just heard that our electricity was back on and our hurricane shutters did their job - no water in the condo. So very grateful. A lot of Bonita is under water as is a great deal of Naples and Marco. We're going down in a couple of weeks to see what we can do to help out. Wish we could get there sooner but we have family obligations up here in Illinois.

    When you look for a PT, make sure he/she is certified in lymphedema and works with breast cancer patients. There's a great deal of information on this board under the lymphedema forum. I've been lucky and have not had any swelling in my arm but I do sometimes get it under my arm on my side and it is very uncomfortable. I do wear a sleeve when we fly just as a preventative measure.

    Finishing treatment is a major accomplishment. Congratulations. Give yourself plenty of time to recover. Be good to yourself. I'm done with treatment too but I'm still taking anastrozole and will probably be on it for a very long time. It has several side effects that aren't fun but if it helps keep the beast from returning, I'll keep taking it.

    Wishing you a quick recovery.

  • Jadalulu
    Jadalulu Member Posts: 57
    edited December 2017

    Maureen I completely agree with your post. I have just been diagnosed with multifocal IDC stage 1, a mastectomy was recommended yesterday by my surgeon. When I mentioned the option of a bilateral mastectomy he was very hesitant saying that the left breast was perfectly fine. My concern that I stated to him is that I am a very large breasted gal, EE on a very petite body. I don't believe that they will ever be able to get them to match even with a reduction. His comments have frustrated me enough to seek a second opinion so that I can have a doctor that will be at least if nothing else a little more understanding of my thoughts and feelings. I have enough to worry about to not have the full support of my surgeon.

    Jada

  • NotVeryBrave
    NotVeryBrave Member Posts: 1,287
    edited December 2017

    My first BS initially made it sound like it was up to me about what kind of surgery I wanted. After NAC and good results, she stopped even entertaining the idea of a MX - acted like I was crazy for considering it. I went back to my second opinion BS and she was much more understanding about my concerns in the other breast, my desire for symmetry, and the fact that I was 50 years old with many more years to get BC again. My PS said it was what he would advise his wife to do if she had BC.


  • EastcoastTS
    EastcoastTS Member Posts: 864
    edited December 2017

    Jada:

    I think you should definitely get the 2nd opinion. YOU have to live with this decision -- and some of our decision-making is cosmetic in nature. Mine was, in part. I was very small and every PS (but not BS) I talked to told me not to do a lumpectomy because they would never get an even match. That isn't the main reason I chose BMX but it factored in. I was 49, family history though BRCA-, and just did what I felt was the best thing for me. With full support of my surgeon.

    P.S. My mom is larger, and went with lumpectomy, and she has issues with symmetry. However, they didn't do a lift. She wishes she had gone with BMX.

    GOOD luck and peace with your decision.

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