Baldie out tonight!

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stagefree
stagefree Member Posts: 2,780
edited August 2017 in Stage IV/Metastatic Breast Cancer ONLY

Oh yeah!

We are meeting a bunch of friends. I made up, dressed up and put! A syrian kid just made fun of me.. oh well he already is living the life he deserves..

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  • NineTwelve
    NineTwelve Member Posts: 569
    edited June 2017

    Beautiful! Hope your night out is a huge success.

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  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited June 2017

    Forget that kid! You look beautiful, Ebru!

    Hope you have an incredible time!

    --The Mods

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  • AnimalCrackers
    AnimalCrackers Member Posts: 701
    edited June 2017

    You look beautiful! You go girl!

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  • Tina2
    Tina2 Member Posts: 2,943
    edited June 2017

    You look stunning. Have fun!

    Tina

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  • melmcbee
    melmcbee Member Posts: 1,119
    edited June 2017

    You have a strong beauty inside and outside.

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  • Bestbird
    Bestbird Member Posts: 2,818
    edited June 2017

    You are totally, wonderfully beautiful! I hope you thoroughly enjoyed your special time in the town!

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  • Beatmon
    Beatmon Member Posts: 1,562
    edited June 2017

    Don't let a stupid person ruin your day. You are beautiful inside and out

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  • illimae
    illimae Member Posts: 5,710
    edited June 2017

    You look great and kids are brats. Rock that baldie!

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  • Nancy2581
    Nancy2581 Member Posts: 1,234
    edited June 2017

    Sorry if I'm intruding, but just wanted to say how beautiful you are! And yeah kids can be brats.

    Nancy


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  • susan_02143
    susan_02143 Member Posts: 7,209
    edited June 2017

    You are gorgeous! The Syrian kid... he is just woefully uneducated.

    *susan*

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  • stagefree
    stagefree Member Posts: 2,780
    edited June 2017

    it was great! I felt like a star! :)))

    It's weird, when you have cancer, people feel sad, when you are bald they laugh. İt was not just the kid, some grown ups did that too. People are phony! Not sincere!

    Know what? I'll be walking around more bald.

    Not my choice to become like that, so be it. They can laugh and look at me weird all the time. I'll enjoy my 3rd time.baldness :)))

    Thanx for all the compliments btw. :))))


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  • lrwells50
    lrwells50 Member Posts: 254
    edited June 2017

    I wonder if they are just clueless that you are bald because of cancer. I can kind of understand kids (at least ones that haven't been raised properly,) but surely no adult would laugh if they knew why you'd lost your hair!

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  • Tina2
    Tina2 Member Posts: 2,943
    edited June 2017

    My take is that their laughter is because 1) they assume you shaved your head and are trying to be hip and trendy, since you are made up and "don't look sick," or 2) they realize you might be having chemo and, taken aback, they laugh with nervousness. Maybe some are even wondering if you might be Tilda Swinton trying on another persona for an upcoming role!

    Tina

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  • sbelizabeth
    sbelizabeth Member Posts: 2,889
    edited June 2017

    You look like an exotic French model, Ebru. You rock the look.

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  • Sadiesservant
    Sadiesservant Member Posts: 1,995
    edited June 2017

    You look amazing Ebru. Hold your head up high.

    I made a decision when I was first diagnosed in 2001 - I would wear a hat to work but once there, hat came off and too bad if people had issues. I took the same approach this time as well and everyone manages to deal with it (or they don't say anything).

    I hate wigs. They are itchy and really bother me after an hour or so. I have one for those 'special' moments but so far, I've worn it once. I'm a professional in government but refuse to be uncomfortable for anyone. Dealing with too much other stuff to care!

    😁

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  • artistatheart
    artistatheart Member Posts: 2,176
    edited June 2017

    You rock that look Ebru and I hope you partied like a rock star. I think we have to get to the point where we can just look people in the eye with a "screw you" attitude (while smiling of course)

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  • stagefree
    stagefree Member Posts: 2,780
    edited June 2017

    abso-effing-litely!

    This time tound, I feel more cmfy bald.. so don't really care about the reactions. The pregnancy belly -congrats all the time- are weird enough.. let me have the liberation of up to some point.

    And still in Istanbul! Half summer passed altedy. Hope new treatment is tolerable and works!

    Hugs

    Ebr

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  • artistatheart
    artistatheart Member Posts: 2,176
    edited June 2017

    Me too Ebru, I hope to get into a nice long stretch of great Tx and a glorious summer...

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  • Anne45
    Anne45 Member Posts: 1,037
    edited June 2017

    Ebru you look absolutely beautiful <3


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  • PattyPeppermint
    PattyPeppermint Member Posts: 11,162
    edited June 2017

    you look amazing. What does that kid know. ?

    You made me chuckle You said made up dressed u and put! Were you saying put out ??? Wow now that's a good night.


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  • artistatheart
    artistatheart Member Posts: 2,176
    edited June 2017

    Oh haha Patty! funny!

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  • stagefree
    stagefree Member Posts: 2,780
    edited July 2017

    baldie at mount eda at last! Weather is great!!!!


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  • Tina2
    Tina2 Member Posts: 2,943
    edited July 2017

    Ebru, you make bald beautiful.

    Enjoy your time in the countryside!

    Tina

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  • illimae
    illimae Member Posts: 5,710
    edited July 2017

    Agreed, you look beautiful

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  • Southernsurvivor
    Southernsurvivor Member Posts: 632
    edited July 2017

    Ebru,

    You really look stunning! Love your confidence and your wanting to live all aspects of life despite this dumb cancer - awesome!

    Are you now on Halaven? I thought I saw you posting once or twice on that thread but wasn't sure if you actually started that treatment. I'll be starting that in a few weeks.

    Take care and keep your lovely pics coming

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  • susan_02143
    susan_02143 Member Posts: 7,209
    edited July 2017

    So glad that you have made it to your favorite place– with or without hair!

    *susan*

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  • Kandy
    Kandy Member Posts: 1,461
    edited July 2017

    Ebru, you rock. Glad you made it to one of your favorite places. En

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  • JFL
    JFL Member Posts: 1,947
    edited July 2017

    You look stunning! Such a beautiful face, you don't need hair to look good :)

    Anyone who was laughing must have thought you are trying to go for that edgy, rock star, model look.

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  • bluesky111
    bluesky111 Member Posts: 1
    edited July 2017

    You r very brave and I respect it! But kids are kids, no matter where they are from, Syrian, American or Chinese, they are innocent. They do not realise. We alI have seen some videos, it is all over the instagram of Siriyan kids being killed with chemical weapon, when they die slowly in crazy pain, their parents being killed there and I can not stop crying when I think about them. I am also a mother. No human or animal deserves the life they have there.

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  • MinusTwo
    MinusTwo Member Posts: 16,634
    edited July 2017

    bluesky - this is a group for ladies who are living with Stage IV cancer, not a political forum. Perhaps you didn't read the header that this forum is for Stage IV members only. The BCO custom is to respect that these ladies are dealing with issues that we are not, so we don't post here if we are not diagnosed with Stage IV breast cancer.

    I know I'm not Stage IV, but like lots of other long time BCO members, I often read your forums and am so admiring of the strength you all show. And Ebru - you look spectacular.

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