the reduction+lumpectomy thread
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Newbie, my situation is somewhat different: had a lumpectomy in March of 2011 for what turned out be be ADH. Two months later had a bilateral reduction and went from a 34D to a 34B. Recovery wasn't bad at all. I was allowed to change from the surgical bra to a sports bra after a couple of days. Once the incisions healed, I could ditch the sports bra for a non-underwire bra. If I recall, ithink the surgeon told me the underwire was ok after 6 weeks. Likewise, after 6 weeks I was cleared for vigorous exercise. I don't remember any restrictions about sleeping on my side and I think I resumed that as soon as it was comfortable. Six + years out I have no problems and scars are nearly invisible. PS advised me to generally wear a bra but said there was no harm in occasionally going braless, say, under a sundress.
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Hi Newbiegirl and flaviarose, and momoschki, sorry I didn't see you there at first!
This thread is timely for me! I had a giant lumpectomy (G/H cup so plenty to spare, like you Newbiegirl) in Sept. 2016 and just today set a date to reduce the other breast to match. PS had talked about doing something to the affected breast too, but I have lymphedema (breast, trunk, arm) and I don't want to mess with that area--PS agrees. So, I have a date! August 10th. Even better news, my first post surgery mammo today was negative and that was very very nice to hear. I look forward to symmetry and I love the smaller size.
I just received my Bellisse Compression Comfort Bra ("garment") which I've ordered b/c of lymphedema, but it might be something to look at Newbiegirl. It comes down the trunk and armholes are high (above incision to axilla for me) and it has hooks for adjusting on the back but a zip for the front. Maybe ask your PS nurse? These are an "investment" at $200, so there's that too. I couldn't find anything soft and compressive at the big box store and believe me I tried. Good luck!
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Newbiegirl- I was diagnosed in January, 2016. I had an lumpectomy, brachytherapy radiation and chemo. I finished all of that last June. A lumpectomy/reduction wasn't offered at the time (I was a generous DD). Who knows if I would opted for that or not if it was offered. I did ask my BS about a reduction at my 6 month check, she told me that I had to wait a year after radiation. Fast forward a year, and I had a bilateral lift/reduction last week. Pain and movement-wise, so far, so good. Cosmetically, looks ok in clothes. Out of clothes, well, still in the Frankenboob stage.
I do know that radiation will slow healing a bit, so probably more patience than you may be interested in exerting is likely in order. Otherwise, Flavirose is right. Listen to your body with respect to lifting, wearing a bra 24 hours a day, etc. You will know when it is ok. Or, more likely, you will just do something (like roll over on your side when you are asleep) and realize that it was ok.
I think the bra fitting is an excellent idea. Those women are great!
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Is breast shrinkage from radiation still an issue, neither my BS or PS have mentioned this as a possibility. My lumpectomy, ALND and reduction/lift is scheduled for this Tuesday 6/27.
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Hi Newbiegirl
I had a lumpectomy-reduction on May 24.
My scars are still covered in adhesive strips, which are changed once every 7-10 days.
On surgeon's advice, I wear a soft sports bra which opens at the front. I have been told to wear it 24/7 - to prevent the scars from stretching while healing. I was told time and gravity will cause sag - wearing a bra doesn't prevent that.
I am seeing the PS 7 weeks after surgery. He will then decide if I have to continue with strips and 24/7 bra.
I start radiation - 15 fractions over 3 weeks as per Canadian/UK/AU/NZ practice - on 10.07. I am terrified.
I asked about shrinkage of breast but RO and technologists just looked puzzled and said it was unlikely.
I have been advised that hormone therapy is not recommended as side affects outweigh my survival benefits as per the Predict program.
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My surgeries went well Tuesday but I'm smaller than I thought I'd be. I think my breasts are now the size they were in middle school, it's a little difficult to accept but I'm trying
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Hi, lllmae - this is my first post here! I wanted to respond because I had my lumpectomy+reduction just a few days before yours and remember feeling the same way. Especially the first couple of days when I was told NOT to remove the surgical bra and left to wonder just what was going on in there.
I am starting to get used to the smaller size - and now that the post-surgical swelling is going down (including my swollen belly), I am just now starting to feel better and more confident about my decision. Hope you are feeling better every day, too.
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Thanks NJSqueeze, just missing my old DD's I guess. I didn't expect for this to be an issue as I never prominently displayed them and my DH only cares about me living as long as possible. I suspect I just need some time to get used to it like you suggest
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Update on “Thelma & Louise" (aka “the girls").
My first post-rads mammogram showed my tumor-cavity seroma was 14cm. Six months later it shrank to 10cm. By then, “Louise" (the operated R breast) was back to her original size vis-a-vis long droopy “Thelma," and was about a cup size smaller. A couple of months thereafter, I went back to Rigby & Peller for a re-fitting, and found that I was down to a 40G in Prima Donna (or 38H with a back extender), Elomi or Curvy Couture and 40F in Empreinte. But 2 weeks ago at my latest mammo, my seroma is less than 6cm. Because of some fibrosis remaining, “Louise" doesn't look deflated, but she also doesn't look like she's got a softball-size tobbaco “chaw" along her outside. She looks absolutely normal: nipple pointing straight ahead, perky, round, albeit still larger than normal. In fact, but for the faint incision scars you would have thought she's the “normal" one. But she's more than a cup size smaller than “Thelma" (who looks like a basset hound's ear with nipple pointing at the floor); and my cleavage now skews to the right. Naked, the girls now look more like Mutt & Jeff (if you're old enough to remember that comic strip).
Slept in a leisure bra with a Swell Spot tucked inside, for a bit less than a year, which helped soften the fibrosis and shrink the seroma. As for underwires, my incision wasn't along the curve of the wires so I was allowed back in them as soon as I found them comfortable…while still in radiation, in fact.
I have requested a PS referral for possible reduction on the left. Maybe bilateral. Why now? Because I am experiencing upper back pain, only partially the result of a deep muscle strain suffered while working out. (X-rays say no spine or rib fractures or lesions). I have also developed “wedging" between T7-8, and the resulting kyphosis is aggravated by the girls pulling me forward & down—hard to stand up as straight as my PCP and trainer would like me to. My BS' (new, thank goodness) NP says it might be too long after lumpectomy for symmetry to be considered coverable by Medicare, but the back issues might make reduction coverable, provided it's bilateral.
As to other surgeries, I chickened out of a trigger-thumb (AI-caused) release on the morning of surgery because the shot kicked in and the thumb stopped triggering; though I'm getting intermittent index-finger triggering it doesn't hurt nor does it impair my guitar-picking. But when LensCrafters couldn't visualize my retinas nor further correct my Rx for reading because my cataracts were too ripe for the optometrist to see through, I bit the bullet and had my cataracts replaced in fall 2016. (Wish I'd done it earlier).
Oh—and I am back to an annual mammogram schedule (just like pre-bc), though still semiannual for both BS and Prolia shots.
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Hey I am the OG of this thread. I am not sure if I mentioned this, but I'm against the whole making the cancer breast larger so it will shrink during rads. Didn't work at all that way for me. Breast swelled during rads and stayed that way for good. I liked my PS but she was dead wrong about that part.
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My PS went for symmetry and I did get some shrinkage during radiation so the treated breast is a bit smaller than its companion. Interestingly, the radiation really helped the dog ear. The untreated side looks like I have a small pointy extra breast on my back. I started with F /G breasts, but that was the size after a 100 pound weight loss so tons of saggy skin for the PS to try to address. I'm sorry that your swelling didn't recede.
Lyn
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Hi to all on this thread.
I had a lumpectomy with lift and reduction and margin shave last year in August and September, and radiotherapy in December. My surgeon said I needed to wait six months after rads to let any shrinkage happen. And I certainly got a fair amount of shrinkage. Then I had symmetrising surgery to the good side at the end of July, which didn't turn out as well as I hoped. The good side was still bigger, once all the swelling had gone down, and my nipples were still way out of line.
So now I'm a week on from a repeat operation, with a lot of swelling and still very bruised, but my nipples should hopefully be in line for the first time in fifteen months. And when the swelling goes down, I should be able to ditch the partial prosthetic that I've been wearing since January.
A lot of people have told me I was mad to do this, what does it matter what I look like naked so long as my husband doesn't mind? But I have hated my appearance ever since the first lumpectomy when I was left with very different sized breasts, I hated being naked while the radiotherapy techs did their stuff all around me knowing how lopsided I looked.
So I'm looking forward to shopping for new bras in a few weeks once the swelling has completely gone. Though I can see one downside, with a smaller chest, it's going to be harder to disguise the tamoxifen spare tyre that has settled round my middle!
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Hi, Dizzybee - I'd never say you were crazy. If you hated the way you looked and could fix it? Go for it. Good luck and congratulations.
I am still in the midst of neoadj. chemo and not slated for surgery for at least 2 months. I'm starting to really think about my surgery options and am happy I found this thread. The more I think about surgery the more anxious I get. I have a week until I meet with my surgeon for a chemo-progress-consult and my head is spinning with all the questions I have for her. Maybe you guys can help me.
Here's some info on my situation: I am large breasted and overweight. Depending on the bra I am 38G-40H (even before I gained all my weight I was 32F.) My tumor is in my right breast on the lower outer quadrant and close to the chest wall. It was 7cm before chemo and now that I'm half done it is palpable at maybe 2cm.
If it is on option for me I would like to do a lumpectomy on my right breast and EVENTUALLY get reduction/evening-out surgery after I'm healed. One reason is that I live alone and need to get back to work ASAP - two reasons for getting the least surgery possible so recovery is short and not that debilitating. On a side note, I am terrified of dog ear look under my arm.
What questions should I be sure to ask the surgeon given my dream scenario? I have a long list but I'm sure I'm missing things.
THANK YOU!
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hi Agatha
If you can handle chemo, I really don't think surgery should worry you. I have been surprised by how easy I found it, in terms of post operative pain and discomfort.By the time you get your operation if your tumour is small in a large breast, you could find that you don't have a problem with symmetry, most of the women I have come across haven't needed surgery to the other side. And I thought dogears were usually only an issue in MX, I haven't heard of any lumpectomy ladies who've had that problem.
When I had my first lumpectomy I told the surgeon that the appearance of my breast was really important to me, and he agreed to use oncoplastic techniques to reshape the remaining breast tissue into a new smaller breast shape. I had a large area removed and my nipple had to be resited. Then it was all done again when they had to go back in again. But my new breast shape is fine, just a lot smaller than it started out!
So I think you probably don't need to worry about surgery, they can do amazing things to give a good cosmetic result and most women don't need symmetrising surgery. This thread is picking up the few who do, but we're the exceptions.
Hope the rest of chemo goes well, and good luck with the surgery!
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Thank you, Dizzybee. I appreciate your taking the time to write. I will find out a lot more in 6 days when I see the surgeon. It's good to know what's possible going in to the consult.
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I have a large dog ear after reduction surgery. I had a smaller one on my left side, but it shrunk with radiation treatments. Still, compared to F / G breasts lying on my belly or tugging on my shoulders when wearing a bra, the dog ear, smaller size than desired and nipples that are pointing skyward aren't that bad of a trade-off.
I, too, live alone, well, alone except for two 50 pound dogs. I put everything I would need at chest level, including paper plates, bowls and plastic cutlery. I stocked up on frozen meals, "easy" fresh fruit like "Cuties," bagged lettuce and pre-cut veggies. I made sure I had plenty of dog food already in a wheeled container.
I only had drains for a few days and, luckily, no infections. It was definitely doable.
Lyn
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Thanks, Lyn. I appreciate your sharing.
I just wish Friday would get here so I can have my follow-up surgery consult already! My tumor hasn't totally disappeared after 4 AC treatments but it is much smaller. I really hope I can get a lumpectomy.
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That's my hope for you as well, Agatha!
Lyn
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Good news! I met with my breast surgeon today and she said she can't see any reason I can't have a lumpectomy + reduction. I am so relieved. After my 4 A/C infusions my tumor shrank from 8 cm x 6 cm x 3 cm down to 2 cm x 1 cm x 1.5 cm (measurements from surgeon and oncologist physical exam - won't get an MRI until I 'm done with Taxol.) There my be a little infiltration into the pectoral muscles still, but won't know for sure until I have the MRI. However, surgeon said that even if there was still a bit of muscle effected, she'd still be able to do lumpectomy.
After she gets the results on the margins I'll go in for part two, reduction on both sides by a plastic surgeon. I haven't met him yet but his bio lists his research interest is the relationship between radiation and reconstruction. That seems to be someone I'd like.
I am soooo relieved that I probably am going to be able to keep my breast, including the nipple - even if smaller version. Before my diagnosis I never once considered reduction, but now it makes sense.
Thank you all who have added your stories to this thread. You all have helped me so much.
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Agatha, yay! I’ll admit, I struggled at first going from a DD to a D but a few months out from surgery and I’m enjoying not needing a bra with 4-5 hooks, underwire and thick straps. Also, the all in one surgery option was great, the drains made me crazy, I would not want to go through that again. good luck
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Thanks, illimae! I'm a G/H. Although I never considered a reduction I think I'd still feel like myself as a D/C.
My surgeon would prefer I have a 2-step procedure. Because I have possible pectoral muscle involvement and my original tumor was so large, she wants to have the pathology on margins back before I proceed with the reduction - like a week to 10 days later.
My oncological breast surgeon works closely with the plastic surgeon even though he won't be in the OR. The plastic surgeon will mark up my breast before the lumpectomy procedure so any lumpectomy incisions will be within or along his lines.
I'm very happy that this is an option - I can't tell you guys how much better I feel today than this time yesterday.
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Agatha, that's great news! I know how it feels to really want to keep your breast, you must be a lot happier now. Doing the procedure in two stages means you don't have to worry that all that good work will be undone if they do need to do a margin shave.
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Hi, Dizzybee - Thanks!
I will know more when I meet with the plastic surgeon and oncol surgeon again. I'm assuming if we don't get clear margins with the lumpectomy that the margin shave can be done on the same day as the reduction - not separate surgeries.
One thing has been replaying in my mind since my onc surgeon consult on Friday. The surgeon almost closed the conversation by saying that she'd guarantee cosmetically pleasing results if I did the lumpectomy alone without the reduction. Just that off-hand comment planted a seed of doubt as to whether or not lump+reduc is the right thing for me. Ugh! The decision is really a lot for me.
Also, I've looked more into the plastic surgeon that was recommended. Just last month he published a study on the effects of radiation on reconstructed breasts. After following the conversation on that topic in this thread I was reassured he'd be very conscious of how radiation would effect the ultimate look of that breast.
Thanks again everyone for sharing - I'm learning so much from you!
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Agatha that is interesting and I understand the rationale.
With one surgery you are sort of gambling on good margins.
(That being said the typical lump/redution has huge margins so they are usually clean)
Good luck and glad you found your best plan
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I was told I had to wait four weeks after the first op before I could have the margin shave, they said it needed to heal first before they would go in again. I didn't ask why. But I don't think the pathology results are available here till a few days later anyway.
I didnt get big margins, mine were clear but close, so they wanted to get a bigger margin. But my reduction was a consequence of the amount of tissue they were removing, and now the reduction surgery to my good breast to finally match up. I'm still waiting for the swelling to go down to see how close they are, I've been wearing a silicon gel partial prosthetic for the last eleven months and can't wait to get rid of it! But even after two lots of reduction surgery the good breast is significantly bigger, I just need the swelling to go down to see how well this has worked.
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Hi ladies,
Jumping in here after reading through everybody's posts.
Agatha, I'm getting treated at MSK and I just saw my surgeon and the reconstructive surgeon in the past 2 days. We are doing the same thing that it sounds like you are. My initial surgery is 12/28 to remove the cancer (my biopsies showed DCIS and IDC right behind my R nipple, very close to the surface). Neither doctor is sure about whether it will be possible to save the nipple, but they are going to try. I'm not huge (I'd say a droopy D), but I went from a B cup to a D very rapidly about 2 years ago for no reason -- no other weight gain. My ob/gyn just said, welcome to menopause. None of my clothes fit, I got asked repeatedly by friends if I had gotten implants and I was extremely uncomfortable and didn't feel like myself. Totally unrelated to my bc diagnosis, I had already made an appointment with a plastic surgeon for February to discuss a reduction.
When I mentioned this to my bs on Tuesday, she said that if i was ok being smaller it would actually help her be able to take bigger margins in a really difficult area and maybe even improve the chance of saving my nipple. She works all the time with a reconstruction plastic surgeon to do reductions in connection with lx. Just like what you describe, she said that she does the lx first and waits for the path report to come back to make sure there are clean margins (and also to make sure that nothing surprising comes up that would suggest chemo). Then the reduction is done second. I met with the ps yesterday and my reduction is scheduled for 1/9.
I did ask about how the ps handles potential radiation shrinkage. He said that he would leave the R side slightly larger, and in a way where if he needed to do an adjustment because it did not shrink (or like cookie, it got larger) it would probably be able to get handled with lipo. He mentioned that currently I am a little larger on one side...something I honestly have never noticed. He said that the amount of difference in size after typical radiation shrinkage would be pretty close to the difference i have right now. That was really helpful info! Right now, my difference in size does not bother me, I haven't noticed it, and when I have on a bra, i can't really see it even when i'm looking. So if I wind up like this, I wouldn't even opt for a revision.
Let me know when you've got your surgeries scheduled. I'll be in NYC for mine.
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Hiya, Dagny - Thanks for writing. I really hope the surgeons are able to save your nipple.
Did your BS discuss brachytherapy with you for the radiation?
Thanks again for sharing your story. I PM'ed you a couple questions, too.
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I'm really glad I found this thread! Jumping in here...I am going in on 1/4/2018 for a lumpectomy and an oncoplastic reduction, at the same time. The breast surgeon will use the incisions created by the PS to remove whatever is left of my tumor, and then the PS will finish up. (I started with a small mass, only about 6mm in size; my chemo has shrunk it to the point that it is no longer visible on U/S or mammo. It was never palpable to begin with).
I know it's the best choice but I'm still nervous of the outcome. I've been full figured -- and happy with that! -- since my teens. However, my right breast (the one that tried to kill me) has always been significantly bigger than my left, by an entire cup size. It just gets worse as I've gotten older. Then, I lost a lot of weight about 2 years ago, and my breasts completely deflated -- they're like 2 sacks hanging off my chest. The PS said I'm only a DD because of all the extra skin, there isn't much tissue there, so it's really more of a skin tightening and removal vs. a "reduction." Nevertheless I may go all the way down to a B when he removes all the extra skin! I'm not happy about that, but I guess I'd rather be a B -- with even, perky breasts -- then the sad shape I'm in now. I also have to do radiation, so while I *could* have implants to get bigger again, I probably won't.
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Hi Autum...sounds like we're on a very similar timetable. My surgery is in two steps, so lx 12/28 and then reduction and reconstruction (if they can't save my nipple) on 1/9. So I'll be interested to hear how things go for you on the 4th. I'll be doing radiation afterwards too....so we can compare notes on that also.
Agatha, I'm going to see my RO on Tuesday and I want to talk with her about partial breast radiation. But, the bs said I was not a good candidate for brachytherapy because my cancer is so close to the surface, right under my nipple. She thought it would likely burn me and make it even less likely that the poor nipple could survive (and I've got to admit, i'm fairly attached to her!). But I plan to talk with her about all possible options....doing radiation 3 hours away from home is going to be really difficult and isolating.
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hi Agatha and autum. How are you doing? I had my lx and sentinel node biopsy on the 28th. The lx site is practically pain free (and really felt pretty good within 24 hours of my surgery). My SNB site has been the opposite, very painful and slow to improve. But slowly it is getting better. So far they were able to save my nipple, but my dr says not to get too attached. It all depends on the final pathology report (which we are hoping to have by the end of next week). I can already see that my R breast is noticeably smaller than my L after the lx. The shape is still about the same, since the cancer was behind the nipple / aerola things just look somewhat deflated and smaller. As long as the path report comes back ok, then my reduction will be on the 9th.
Autum I know you are scheduled for the 4th, so I will be rooting for you. Did you already get a post surgical compression garment? I ordered one from Marena which was waaaay too small, so I am returning it for a larger size.
Agatha, what are your next steps
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