April 2017 Chemo
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DazzlingEagle , I feel ya, I always thought my hair was the prettiest thing on my body... I just have to try to get volume and style and such with my head scarves. I think we (and others) are going to see our beauty (both outer and inner) shine through in a multitude of different ways through this. I did get a halo hair thing from headcovers.com. It was $45. It's open on the top , and is meant to be worn under hats,beanies and scarves. They didn't have my dark red, so I got light auburn. When my hair grow back it will have TONS of gray! It will be interesting to see my natural hair color, and how much if it is left compared to gray hair when it all comes back.
Dodgersgirl, I still can't believe that this is all happening either. I love that we have these message boards to express our feelings, share things and compare notes with each other. I've heard of the digicaps. I am not sure if my hospital has them, but they sound like torture to me. It is good that some places offer them for those that want to use it.
Just know that it's OK to mourn the loss of the things that make us who we are. That's what my Sis-in-law's therapist told her after she had a stroke at 55 years old, and lost function of her left side. I still can't believe that this is all happening either. I love that we have these message boards to express our feelings, share things and compare notes with each other. Well, I'm off for my evening walk It's a nice comfy 53 degrees outside here near Pittsburgh. Have a good evening everyone!
~Kelly
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My first chemo went okay. They dosed me up with anti nausea meds and started the chemo. Whatever it was it made me sleepy. I have a slight headache my tummy feels jus off. No vomiting so far but I have hardly any appetite. I was there for about 4 hours
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Glad it went okay. Drink plenty of water!
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momojcbc - thanks for sharing . Sending you good thoughts for this part of the journey.
I am scheduled for first round Wednesday.
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Hi everyone!
Hope everyone is hanging in there. We can and will get through this.
Momojcbc- I hope you are doing as well as you can today.
It sounds like our placements are happening and seem to be going well for the most part. Mine is Wednesday. I am nervous, more about where the doctor will place it. My TE's seem to come up very high.
My head coverings from head covers.com came today. Very pleased with them but wish I didn't need them. My hair has been falling/shedding since my BMX in February. Can't help but take it as a blessing that it is getting me ready for no hair.
I am getting the nuelesta (sp?)pod but I have not heard about any copay. My MO said that there was no copay for chemo. I am hoping she is right.
I am glad we have each other for support.
Anne
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Anne - ref Neulasta: I called my insurance company Friday to make sure all was covered. I was told the chemo will be covered at 100% ( cause I have met my out of pocket, sigh) but the Neulasta needed pre-authorization because it requires my insurance to do a "high dollar review". So the insurance faxed my MO a form and they were to send it back to see if we can get it approved before my first treatment. Neulasta is expensive. I realize insurance coverage varies from plan to plan so no one else may encounter what my insurance has said but wanted to share with others.
My MO's office told me about a program where there is a co-pay, the Neulasta's company covers the cost after insurance and my co-pay so I feel better now about the cost. I could have 16 Neulasta pods during chemo which sure could get expensive
I looked at the head covers web site this morning. I am thinking about trying one of the halo wigs for the summer as a whole wig sounds hot. They had a great selection of eig
Grocery shopping was hard today. What will I be willing to eat? Not eat? Have some smaller meals in mind so hubby can fix himself a meal, if needed. I stocked up on water, rice, soup, crackers, popcicles, simple proteins, bananas, and bread. Feel like having a "going away" meal tomorrow night before the chemo journey.
It's all real and we are all going thru something we never expected to be doing. Thank you to all those before us who shared their stories. It sure helped me in my journey to be ready and strong.
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eating has been difficult.. my appetite is pretty much gone. I did enjoy a protien shake with almound milk and soup was okay but I am hoping this gets better tomorrrow. I have done nothing all day jus feel ick. I'm going to do my best to get out an about tomorrow.
Thanks ladies for the support. I have been trying to search how long I will feel so icky but it seems everyone is different I am shooting for kind of matter tomorrow 💪🏼
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Hi ladies. I am 28 years old and dx with triple negative breast cancer 3/7. I just completed IVF and will begin chemo on 4/7. Treatment plan is AC 4x biweekly then Taxol for 12 weeks with Carboplatin given every 3 weeks while receiving Taxol. The genetic specialist got back to me on Friday and out of the 17 breast cancer genes I have no mutations. They are saying I have a sporadic case. I'm remaining positive knowing I will get through this but as 4/7 is creeping up I am getting very anxious of the unknowns of chemo as everyone reacts differently. I'm looking for others to talk to during my journey.
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tls5141 - nice to meet you. Looking forward to the support and experiences of the brave people dealing with a nasty disease. I am scheduled to start AC on Wednesday but am awaiting the results of a biopsy that could push chemo back for me.
momojcbc - hope today is the turning point for you for this round of chemo. Let us know how you are doing.
Prayers to all of us -
HI all, so glad this group was started. Unlike a lot of you I had my MX first on March 2nd, 2017 and immediate reconstruction with tissue expander. I also had my port placed at the same time. Due to the size of the DCIS and nipple sparring not being an option, I decided that surgery first was best for me. As it turned out the Invasive component of my cancer was small and all margins are clear. No lymph node involvement as well. So early stage which is good news for me.
I start chemo on Tuesday, April 4th. I will have TCH (Taxotere, Cytoxan, Herceptin) every three weeks for a total of twelve weeks then just the Herceptin every three weeks to complete one full year of treatment. I will also have the Neulasta shot via on-pro the day after each chemo session.
I agree keeping up with all the appointments is a full time job. I hope to be able to return to work the middle of the month. My docs want me to wait and see how I react to the chemo before returning.
I have also been told my hair will begin falling out in a couple of weeks. I have purchased one wig and a few scarves and will see how that goes. I'm really not a hat person, have never worn a scarf before so I will be watching some you tube videos for direction. I did go to the Look Good, Feel Better program offered near me by the American Cancer Society and this was a big help in giving me some guidance with makeup. So I do feel a little better about appearance now.
Good luck to all you ladies. This is a journey none of us signed up for but with the support here we can all get through this together.
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Momojcbc , so sorry about your appetite. I hope your bad days are few and far in between. Hello to some of the new folks that have joined. tls5141, hello to another PA person!
I added another appointment to the mix this coming week. In addition to my MRI,US and ECHO, I am visiting the dentist tomorrow for a general check up and cleaning. my last one was in August. I had a root canal and filling done. I just want to make sure all my teeth are good so there is no chance for decay that may be present to be worse when my immune system is low. I am not having any teeth problems, but I want to make sure there are none starting.
I should have my chemo start date by the end of this week after my tests. I am very anxious to know!! For those that watch, Walking Dead finale is tonight, and I realized that I should be about done with chemo by the time next season airs in October. I'll really be looking forward to next season for reasons other than to see what happens next! OK Have a good Sunday everyone! It's laundry and dishes time for me.
~Kelly
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Port question - I had it installed Thursday. I have 2 steri strip locations that have a water proof clear tape over the steri strips. These are supposed to remain until Tuesday.
My question is - where is the "port" part? Is it one of these incision areas? Wondering where I put the Elma cream on Wednesday??
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kdarner- welcome. I hope Tuesday goes well for you.
Whirlwind- thank you, today was a little better. Still jus ick though.
Dodgersgirl- my port is jus below my incision. I can actually feel it there. It may be to sore to touch right now but I can feel mine just below the incision. That is where I would put the cream. I did not have cream and they used spray and it wasn't terrible port was placed Tuesday and chemo was Friday.
Good luck
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Momojcbc - thanks! There is a spot between the 2 incisions that feels puffy so I thought that might be the "port".
Hope tomorrow's a better day -
Good morning! It is a relief to have you all for support. This is scary but having others helps a lot.
Dodgersgirl- call my MO office today and I don't have a copay which to good.
Momojcbc- I was wondering what happens if you don't have a cream for the port. No one has mentioned it so I was going to ask before my port placement on Wednesday. My MO probably uses the spray.
I hope everyone is doing better with the SE this morning.
Anne
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Anne, so glad you won't have to worry about A copay for Neulasta!!
Ref port cream, I asked my MO about that after reading about it on these boards. Turned out it was part of the process and would have been prescribed along with the anti nausea meds
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for those who have started chemo already, what foods did you buy as part of weekly grocery shopping???
I have crackers, bread, fresh fruit, popcicles, water, water, water, jello, nuts, Cherrios and plain chicken breast and eggs for prot
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well..... my latest road bump. Uterus is atypical hyperplasia, close to cancer so it has to come out BEFORE chemo so chemo delayed a couple of weeks
Gotta admit that worries me.
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DodgersGirl, oh man, I'm sorry to hear about your Uterus. SO frustrating when you want to get things rolling with Chemo, and now that is further delayed. I hope that goes smoothly for you.
I had my dentist check up today. I had a cavity in a wisdom tooth that had grown in crooked. It never gave me any problems, but was very hard to brush. She said it needed to come out, so I had the extraction today. I should be healed up by the time I start chemo.
~Kelly
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hi all
I am halfway through chemo FEC x4 T x 4 ...I finish June.
Generally I find first 7 days of the cycle are slow on everything, appetite,energy & bowels !!.
Water is vital drink as much as u can it makes a big difference to overall well being... on food I have protein shakes ( I am vegetarian) which I can stand easy. On food little & often works best for me... the couple of days after steroids I am constantly hungry so I give my self a break and eat what I want ! Otherwise I try to eat healthy good breakfast of oats & fruit , hearty soups and snacks on fruit/ nuts to keep fibre & nutrition going.
Second half of the cycle I can eat normal as most side effects have eased by then.... so I make sure I enjoy the good days to make up for the off days.😀 .
Ginger cake / biscuits are great to fill a gap and settle the stomach... also rice pudding/ fromais frais are good protein/ dairy but easy on digestion. Frozen yogurt is great too.
Avoid your favourites around the days of chemo ... I have developed some kind of mental phobia to them now ! I can't stand my favourite biscuits it just transports me straight back to the chemo room !
Boiled sweets / gum help with the odd taste post treatment
Keep an eye on getting plenty of fibre it will be key to helping digestion issues ( I have them every cycle)
Overall remember your body is recovering constantly throughout the treatments so give your self a break...eat well but try to enjoy when you can too ... there's plenty of time to diet later.
Best wishes to you all xx
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Felloco1 - wow! Thank you so much for sharing what worked for you regarding your diet during chemo. I felt so weird at the grocery store Saturday trying to get food for hubby and food for me
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Kelly - glad the dental work is behind you. Hope the extraction helps quickly.
I told by daughter about the delay. She asked me " what happens if the cancer spreads while postponing chemo". Tough question to answer.
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I agree--plenty of water. For what it's worth, we had Thai after every infusion. I figured that if I got nauseated or it didn't taste good, or I developed mouth sores, I'd switch to something bland. Never happened, and now I eat there every time I have an MO visit.
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hello everyone.. I'm a bit nervous. I start chemo 4/04/2017. I have been reading the different post and I get courage from reading them. Ithe probably won't even hit me until I sit in the chair to get the first chemo treatment. I was running around today trying to find facial cleanser and lotion today like a crazy person. I stay in my head about chemo.. I did purchase a wig. I'm kinda nervous about my hair falling out. I did cut my as low as I could so hopefully it won't be so traumatic for me. I'm grateful for this site.. so many things that I worry about..my nails,skin datkening..you know all the benefits of taking chemo. But for now it's good to chat.. one more day before my first treatment..
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my port is a little below my cooler bone on my right side. The port looks like a bump to me.. it feels weird to me. I had my port inserted on 3/27/2017. I was scared at first until it was all done and over with. My next fear is them drawing blood for lab work so I can proceed with chemo.
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my newest update: got a call from MO. We are moving forward with chemo on Wednesday. I now have an appointment with a gynecologist oncologist the day after chemo so hope nauseous ness is under control the next day. Oh and I will have the Neulasta pod on so dressing will be fun
Feel better about not postponing chemo. Will see what happens next!
And thanks to the person who posted the chemo diva link. I have an appointment to get my long hair cut off so I can make a halo out of my own hair which sounds pretty cool.
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So everything went fine with the port placement. My shoulder and neck muscles are sorer than I was expecting but they're slowly getting better. Got some bad news from my MRI and CT scan though....2 dark spots on my liver so I have a liver biopsy tomorrow... I'm hoping for the best but knowing that CT is fairly accurate. Started praying that even if it's stage IV, the chemo will knock it down and keep it down for awhile. I'm not ready to leave my kids...ages 8, 11 and 13. I know even stage IV isn't immediately terminal however it makes me start counting down the years in my head. We've spent the weekend relaxing and trying to cope a bit. We should know for sure wednesday sometime about the liver involvement, but I'm trying to mentally prepare myself for a yes that it's metastasized... I only just found the lump 3 weeks ago. It's crazy how my life has spun out of control in just a few short weeks. Starting chemo thursday. So ready to get the drugs going and feel like we're doing something!
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eicats - will say lots of prayers for you, hoping for the best possible outcome on the liver biopsy tomorrow.
I agree with your comment about being ready to get the drugs going. As much as no one wants chemo, I am mentally ready to start this process so I can get on the other side of chemo and move on to surgery. Wednesday starts the chemo count down. 4 AC and 12 T....bring it, let's do it.
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Rikki320 - best of luck tomorrow on your first chemo treatment ......post to let us know how you are doing when you feel up to it.
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Dodgersgirl- so sorry about the news of your uterus. It never seems to end. Hang in there.
Eicats- I will be thinking and praying for you during your biopsy tomorrow.
Rikki320- I know how you feel trying to get everything for chemo. We should all be preparing for a fun vacation instead.
Whirlwind- I hope your extraction isn't too painful.
Anne
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