April 2017 Chemo

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Momojcbc
Momojcbc Member Posts: 94

Hi ladies-

I am actually starting chemo 3/31. They told me my total treatment will be 6 months but I shouldn't have to get chemo after surgery and radiation. So I am doing chemo first. Anyone else?

My doctor very bluntly told me my hair would come out two weeks after I start 😳. I am not sure if I can wear a wig, maybe a scarf or a hat


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  • ksusan
    ksusan Member Posts: 4,505
    edited March 2017

    Hi, Momojcbc. I'm sure others will join you soon. I'm just stopping in from the April 2015 chemo group to cheer you on!

  • whirlwind
    whirlwind Member Posts: 20
    edited March 2017

    Hello! I will be doing chemo first as well. I most likely will be starting neoadjuvant chemo in April. I am waiting until I get my breast MRI and Axillary US on April 4th, then my Echo-cardiogram on April 5th. (My Daughter turns 9 that day <3) The MRI & US are for staging, since I am not getting surgery first. They are also checking lymph node involvement, node biopsy if needed. Once those results are in, my proposed treatment plan will be finalized or tweaked and Oncologist says I will be starting Chemo soon after that. So far I am looking at 4 doses of AC (Adriamycin/Cytoxan) every three weeks, then 12 doses of T (Taxol) once a week. I am so scared, but ready to start this. I have been taking this time to prepare and get educated. I was told I will lose my hair. I don't want to wear a full wig because I think it would be too hot for summer, so I have been shopping for scarves, and looking at hair halos. It's not a complete wig, but it a little hair that goes under a scarf or hat. I'm looking ofrward to cheering each other on, and sharing our stories, strengths, weaknesses, difficulties and truimphs with each other!

  • Annbee
    Annbee Member Posts: 208
    edited March 2017

    Hi! I will also be starting chemo on April 10rh. I am having 4 rounds of A/C and then 4 rounds of Taxol. I think my MO called it dose dense. I am having them every other week. I am very nervous about all of this. I have been looking at wigs too. We can do this!

  • whirlwind
    whirlwind Member Posts: 20
    edited March 2017

    So, I mentioned my Daughter turns 9 in April, and wanted to add that I will turn 40 next month. I was all down about this. I sarcastically said, "Happy Birthday to me, here's some Chemo!" I have since turned around my thinking to "Chemo isn't a gift, but it will save my life so that I can have MORE Birthdays." So, Happy 40th to me, lets get through this, so I can have 40 more!

  • Momojcbc
    Momojcbc Member Posts: 94
    edited March 2017

    Ksusan- HI! Thank you!

    Whirlwind- That is my same treatment plan, i think. Did they tell you 6 months? I get my port placed Tuesday and Start Friday. I had a MRI but now im concerned that they should also do a CT or PET scan because my MRI did show it had spread to my lymph nodes more then what the US showed. Have they mentioned those scans to you? I see your turning 40 im young too, I am 37. This is crazy stuff we are going to be dealing with.

    HI Annbee-I am nervous too. My son has cancer so I kind of know what to expect as I watched him go through this all back in september and he is still getting treatment.


  • eicats
    eicats Member Posts: 11
    edited March 2017

    Just wanted to introduce myself... I will be getting my port this Thursday and starting chemo next Thursday. I am ER-/PR-/HER2+ so we're going with TCHP every 21 days for 6 cycles (about 4 1/2 months). I'm stage IIB though I'm having an MRI and CT scan on Wednesday to see if it's spread farther at all and then they'd probably restage it. I'm doing chemo first followed by surgery and possibly rads or more chemo. We'll see how the chemo goes. I'm only 40 and would have had my first mammogram this year though I found the lump myself first. I was very surprised as I'm sure we all were! Would love to support each other as we go through this...

  • whirlwind
    whirlwind Member Posts: 20
    edited March 2017

    momojcbc, , yes, they did say 6 months. My Oncologist and Breast surgeon that that they are not going to order a PET or CT scan right now. The MRI results could change that. I don't know what findings in MRI would prompt them to order more tests. That is a good question for my Onco. I do know that if they find suspicious lymph nodes, or evidence of spread, they will do a biopsy of my nodes. Yes, we are considered on the younger side for a Breast Cancer diagnosis. I'm right on the cusp. As a matter of fact, before I found my lump, I was going to ask my regular DR about starting yearly scanning mammograms at the age of 40. I had my first mammogram due to the lump I found, and well, we know how that went. It's going to be a challenge, a challenge I wont say I'm ready for, but I am willing to fight so hard to win. I know this will forever change me.

  • Momojcbc
    Momojcbc Member Posts: 94
    edited March 2017

    Hi eicats- We sound like we are in the same boat. My MRI did show more lymph node involvement. And we are doing chemo first then surgery then radiation. My RO wanted PET scan but MO said no we are just starting chemo. I was so overwhelmed I didn't question her, now I am. I noticed my nipple inverted before I noticed the Lump, then I lost weight and the lump was very apparent.

    whirlwind-Keep us posted on the MRI. Yes this will forever change us.

  • utjoy
    utjoy Member Posts: 56
    edited March 2017

    Hi all...I'm so grateful for this site! I've been learning so very much about a topic I previously avoided.

    I have an Echo and node biopsy scheduled for the 6th, port placement and chemo on the 12th. AC every 2 weeks (4) then Taxol (4)...then mastectomy and rads.

    So scary. Being a horse person all I can think is that it's like having a young colt that is saddled and ready for his first ride...now to get my foot in the stirrup cuz the longer I wait the more I dread it.



  • Momojcbc
    Momojcbc Member Posts: 94
    edited March 2017

    utjoy-

    Good analogy, I'm grateful for this site as well. I'm glad there are people who understand what we are going through. I'm off for port placement in the morning

  • Momojcbc
    Momojcbc Member Posts: 94
    edited March 2017

    I got my port placed today. Not as much pain as I was expecting but to not bad eother

  • DazzlingEagle
    DazzlingEagle Member Posts: 112
    edited March 2017

    I had the port placement five days ago and it is still really sore and black and blue from my neck to halfway down my breast. It was done by a general surgeon. I saw Dr. at the Cleveland Clinic today for a second opinion. I am starting chemo Wednesday April 5. TCHP. Six treatments, one every three weeks.



  • Momojcbc
    Momojcbc Member Posts: 94
    edited March 2017

    dazzling- did they say that was normal? How did it go at the second opnion?

  • DazzlingEagle
    DazzlingEagle Member Posts: 112
    edited March 2017

    the dr. at the second opinion was a medical oncologist and he agreed with the treatment plan the original medical oncologist set up. So that was good to hear. A breast surgical fellow was also there and they both thought the bruising was excessive but said it is healing pretty good and the bruising will fade fast. And they also suggested a breast surgeon specialist who will work with a plastic surgeon for future surgery instead of the general surgeon who put the port in. The port site isn't very sore anymore but the black and blue marks are shocking and I wasn't prepared for how it was going to look. But I'm glad I got the port in and that part is over.

    Very grateful for this site and glad your port placement is over too.

  • DodgersGirl
    DodgersGirl Member Posts: 2,382
    edited March 2017

    Hello everyone. I will be starting chemo in April, too. I was diagnosed IDC Stage 3 on 3/10/17. Have had a PET scan and Echo. Will go in Thursday for a port. No date yet to start chemo as MO is waiting for results of HER2. First pathology said ER+ PR+ HER2 - But 2nd pathology showed HER2+ So until MO knows what HER2 state is, treatment plan is not solidified. I have bought so many of the suggested items found on this amazing web site to prepare but am still concerned about what SEs I will encounter.

    Best part of luck to all of us as April nears. Together we can do this

  • cdv4251992
    cdv4251992 Member Posts: 158
    edited March 2017

    I was supposed to start chemo 3/30, but I have developed an infection. I'm on antibiotics for 7 days, so now I'm looking at staring Taxol + Herceptin sometime in April. Different treatment than I had last time around, so I'm not sure what to expect.Sorry that we all find ourselves here, but I'm happy to find the support I have on these boards.

  • DazzlingEagle
    DazzlingEagle Member Posts: 112
    edited March 2017

    eicats, i was just thinking about you and hoping your port placement goes well tomorrow.


  • DazzlingEagle
    DazzlingEagle Member Posts: 112
    edited March 2017

    eictas,

    your diagnosis looks similar to what I have. I'm a few years older though. I'm 44 and the only one my age at the cancer treatment center. The patient coordinator or whoever she is, perfectly nice lady, but keeps on trying to get me to reach out to someone by phone to talk to someone about this and I just really can't talk about it yet without completely breaking down in a crying fit. I'ts really nice but it means nothing to me at this point; I've been given so much phamplets and information about all the outreach it is actually too overwhelming to go through.

    My tumor is in the tail, basically it's taken over my armpit, and I'm told it's 11 cms big. It's been just horrible. I actually am very glad to start the chemo treatment finally and see how the tumor responds.

    I was planning on going by myself to chemo, driving myself there too. Just curious how everyone else is doing it, if you have family or friends going with you.


    I forgot to say about my port placement that the surgeon tried to attach it to a vein in my neck which that vein ended up being too small, so that's why that area is so bruised. Then he attached it to a vein closer to the collar bone and that area is still bruised and swollen.

    It almost looks like there's still bleeding under the skin instead of just regular bruising. I have another doctor's appointment tomorrow morning at the gynecologist oncologist to check a cyst or mass on my ovary that showed up on the PET scan, and I am going to ask her about the port bruising too. I've never been in the hospital before or had any surgery or been under anesthesia so this is all new to me.

  • Momojcbc
    Momojcbc Member Posts: 94
    edited March 2017

    dazzling- my doc said I would definitely need a ride. Can someone pick you up at least?

    What are you bringing with you?

    CDv- I hope you get to feeling better I am sure your anxious to get started.

    Dodgers girl- good luck with the port tomorrow. I did not get a pet yet my doc is waiting I guess.

  • DodgersGirl
    DodgersGirl Member Posts: 2,382
    edited March 2017

    Momojcbc - thanks.


    venting for a moment: I know I am early in a journey that will be long and winding of ups and downs but am getting so frustrated from my doctor's appointments that have been made for exact date/times of existing doctor's appointments which were known by the person making the duplicate appointments. SIGH. Just today my MO office called to tell me chemo is scheduled for Wednesday....... But I already have an RO appointmen for that same day and had reminded MO's office of this last Friday. Thought navigators would help prevent these scheduling issues.

    How the heck is everyone working full time dealing with all the appointments with little notice before hand? (My job does not have FMLA as it is too small).

    In keeping with the theme of April Chemo, I am scheduled for 4 cycles of A/C (cycle being every other week) followed by 12 weeks of T weekly. So chemo thru August.

    Will post later this week regarding port placement.

    Best of luck to all of us!!

  • Momojcbc
    Momojcbc Member Posts: 94
    edited March 2017

    Dodgers girl- I had a similar issue, I do not have an nurse navigator though. I hope it works out well with your work. I got lucky with my job I work from home and it is pretty flexible. My a/c is every three weeks. That is what I start tomorrow.

  • Lovemyfurbabies
    Lovemyfurbabies Member Posts: 22
    edited March 2017

    DazzlingEagle. It looks like we have a very similar chemo/targeted therapy regiment. I will be having my fifth round of chemo on April 5th and then just one more after that and then surgery. I will be thinking of you as you start this journey. Let me know if you have any questions or ever just want to talk!😊

  • DodgersGirl
    DodgersGirl Member Posts: 2,382
    edited March 2017

    momojcbc-- thanks for the well wishes!

    I also work from home so feel blessed in that regard. Just hate that I have to keep finding someone to fill in for me for this meeting or that meeting at the last minute! Work people have been very supportive just dislike the situation.

    Had my port installed this morning. Feel a little sore in through my neck. Weird event was that my long hair was blood soaked so I wore a bonnet home so as not to get blood all over the car. Then first thing I did when I got home was to wash my hair. .... All while being very aware that in a matter of days the hair will be gone.

    Question for all - I just got a call from oncology about a card to help pay for Nuelasta. Anyone here signed up for such a thing? Seems Nuelasta is very expensive. The co pay card sounds interesting


  • Momojcbc
    Momojcbc Member Posts: 94
    edited March 2017

    I get what you are saying. This is not going to be easy. What day do you start chemo?

    I have not heard about the nuelasta for me my son gets it and it's 100 co pay each shot.

  • DazzlingEagle
    DazzlingEagle Member Posts: 112
    edited March 2017

    Lovemyfurbabies: Thanks. I will ask if I can think of anything. Are you doing surgery next?

    There is something strange going on. Wondered if anyone had heard of this. I had a PET scan a couple weeks ago that showed an ovary mass and the medical oncologist referred me to another specialist to look at it, a gynecologist oncologist.

    So when I had the port surgery last week, the pre-surgery pregnancy test, urine and blood, came up positive. I know 100% there is no chance of pregnancy. But the hospital wanted an US which the ovary mass showed up there as well and the US report indicated it was a fluid-filled cyst.

    I finally had the appointment with the gyn. onc. this morning. She didn't think we needed to do anything with the ovaries and she also agreed it was an ovary cyst. She wants me to keep my ovaries for now. (which I am happy about) She ordered a blood test for the ovarian cancer tumor marker to make sure. And another blood pregnancy test. Then I might need another US and possible a pituatary gland MRI. The gyn onc. doctor could not have been nicer but she really doesn't have any answers for me yet, said I'm a medical puzzle right now. Well, the medical oncologist and the gyn. onc. will talk when they get the blood test results and let me know. I hope they decided to do n othing right now and I can just go back to the gyn. onc. in a couple months to get re-checked. And I hope my chemo is not delayed.


    Ironically when I got the blood drawn, they wouldn't use my port because it's still too swollen and bruised. So I got blood drawn from my vein again. I asked the medical oncologist nurse to also look at the port site and she said it looks good and it's just still healing. The nurse, Courtney, said some people just take a little longer to heal. It really feels a lot better than it did just a couple days ago.

  • DazzlingEagle
    DazzlingEagle Member Posts: 112
    edited March 2017

    Dodgers Girl, Happy to hear your port surgery went well. I have long hair too for now. Are you going to cut it? I am just going to leave mine alone and let it fall out. Sometimes I think others are more concerned about my hair than I am. Other times I'm a little sad about it.

    Are your MO and RO offices in the same building where you will get your chemo? Is it possible that the RO could do your appointment while you are getting your chemo? 99% of that appointment will probably just be talking. That's how my RO consult was at least. Scheduling doctor's appointments and follow-ups and tests and then actually going to all of the appointments is a full-time job on top of my full-time job.

  • DodgersGirl
    DodgersGirl Member Posts: 2,382
    edited March 2017

    DazzlingEagle- RO and MO in different buildings. My app to track all this new stuff now shows chemo starting at 10 am on Wednesday and still shows RO at 1230 pm so guess I will have to call the see what's going on. I believe all of this settles down once chemo starts I am planning on cutting my hair next weekend. Silly as it sounds, if I have to lose my long hair it will be because I cut it!! Hoping to be strong enough to embrace the bald most of the time.


    Momojcbc- it looks like I start chemo Wednesday. 4 cycles A/C then 12 weeks T.

    Are you guys should icing hands/feet/head? Painting nails dark? Taking B6 to try to ward off neuropathy?

  • whirlwind
    whirlwind Member Posts: 20
    edited March 2017

    I wont be icing my hair, hands or feet. I am just going to deal with being bald. I already ordered some scarves and hats. I have been coloring my long curly hair red for the past 15 years, and I just colored it yesterday one last time. While hair loss is the least of my worries, it's still emotional. I got all teary eyed when I went to sally's to get my hair color the other day. I will be cutting it short before it starts to shed, and I will probably take clippers to it when shedding starts. I don't think I could tolerate icing my hands and feet. I will be painting my finger and toe nails dark colors. I hope that helps somewhat. I am going to try to suck on ice pops or ice during treatment, as I hear that helps with mouth sores.

  • DazzlingEagle
    DazzlingEagle Member Posts: 112
    edited March 2017

    I won't be icing either. Hair is emotional. I feel like I won't be pretty without it. I've basically had the same hairstyle my whole life. Natural blond and as I got older when my hair got darker, highlighted blond. Always long. I would probably have never changed it until chemo is changing it for me. It is going to be odd to be bald and then have dark short hair. I have some scarves and hats. I don't have a wig right now.

    I walked my dog around the whole neighborhood with the ice pack for my port hanging around my neck and half out of my shirt and didn't even care so hopefully I won't care about the hair either. or else I'll be a mess.

  • DodgersGirl
    DodgersGirl Member Posts: 2,382
    edited March 2017

    whirlwind - while not exactly the same as your visit to Sally's, I noticed my shampoo was almost empty while washing out the dried blood from my hair this morning. Then realized I won't need this shampoo for a while.

    I hope to eat lots of ice chips during chemo in hopes of minimizing mouth sores. I will ice hands and feet to start to see how "doable " that process will be. Hubby coming with so changing out blue ice will be his job, Some chemo centers are starting to have digicaps (think that's the right name?) onsite. My city isn't there yet

    Still can't believe this is all really going to happen. Looking forward to the chemo count down.


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