Anyone completely refuse surgery/conventional treatment?
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ChiSandy,
I almost refused surgery when I found out I had BC. I was so scared of being put under, of being intubated, of what would happen after I woke up. I have severe anxiety and panic attacks and was afraid of going through all of that in the hospital, and also looked up all the things that could go wrong with anesthesia. I don't even take aspirin for pain, unless it is REALLY bad then I was take some Tylenol, but I have never done drugs, only drank a handful of times in my life, and really try to keep toxic poison out of my body, so when I was hearing about all the drugs they give you in the hospital for surgery it freaked me out. But I am 6 months out of surgery and am glad I went through with it because before I had surgery I kept thinking about the lump, feeling it, seeing if it grew or anything, but after I had surgery and more so now that it is months later, I don't think about it so much anymore. I do worry about recurrence and every little pain I have makes me think about "Is this cancer again?". My doctors try to help with that by telling me what to look for so I try to remember what they said. I am supposed to be taking tamoxifen, but again am scared to put toxic poison into my body, afraid of the side effects, and afraid of things like blood clots and strokes being caused by it. I am looking into natural estrogen blockers such as grape seed extracts and DIM. But do you or anyone know if I can take them together? I make smoothies in the morning with fruits and broccoli sprouts so I can get my fruits and veggies in me for the day since I find it hard to actually "eat" 5 servings of each. I found this way is great for getting those necessary nutrients into my body, but wanted to add DIM and grape seed extra to the blender and have them mixed in with my smoothie so I am getting them into my system as well. (To tell the truth I almost did that with tamoxifen but then wondered if it was OK to chop that pill up, also wondered since my smoothie mix fills up a glass and then 24oz water bottles that I drink throughout the day, if getting tamoxifen throughout the day would be harmful to me) so opted to not put tamoxifen in my smoothie. I am supposed to have been on it for 6 months now, and have still be too scared to take that first pill even though I have been very close many times. I have read about DIM and it's an amaratose inhibiter, just like the AI's given to post menopausal women with BC, so would it do the same or act the same way as the drugs? Is DIM just a natural form of an AI like Herceptin? If anyone has any info on natural estrogen blockers please PM me as I want to try both DIM and grape seed extract, but want to know more about them and if they are safe to use together, as there any dangers to taking them and can I crush them up in my smoothies and drink them throughout the day?
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exbmxgrl just reading your post have you been stage 4 for 5/1/2 years? Do you take anything else besides Femara now?
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Misty I don't want to put you off but I took DIM for 8 years prior to this new diagnosis. I don't know if it helped (I felt fantastic taking it) but it didn't stop my cancer from re-surfacing. I did every natural thing I could, exercised daily, ate well,took DIM and numerous other natural remedies ie had C infusions took various vitamins I was low in etc but still it came back 😥I have a friend 12 years out grade 3 large tumour 16/19 positive nodes she drinks doesn't exercise is overweight and has had stressful jobs and no re-occurrence so go figure. I can't work outthis stupid disease i
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Delvzy,
Yes, I have done very well. I had a bmx six weeks before the mets were discovered (long story). I had rads to my femur, two years of Pamidronate (older bone strengthening drug) and AI's. First I was on Arimidex, but se's got worse, so switched to Femara. I take melatonin and vitamin D, eat a balanced, mostly plane based diet (which I ate long before dx)! But am not compulsive. If I want meat, alcohol or sugar I will have it and enjoy every bite. I still work full time and love it, travel and enjoy family and friends.,I am happy, not because of bc but despite bc. I have no idea why I have done so wel but not being compulsive about eating and other lifestyle habits and simply enjoying life is my goal. Whether I live another 5 years or only 5 days, I hope to live well. Take care.
PS: I have great doctors and a wonderful medical facility. Everyone has been open, honest and caring. What's not to like?
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If we examine and shed some of our closed belief systems, indoctrinations and prejudices, which promote non-creative fear-based negative thinking, we'll all do better in our BC journeys. We are all connected through consciousness during our very difficult & diverse journeys.
Furthermore, we can choose to expand our thinking to embrace PSI empowered healing, metaphysics and Creative Arts (music & art) therapeutics, daily Meditation, Touch-healing, Yoga, Reiki, TaiChi, Kundalini, Acupuncture, Herbal Medicine, Alchemy, etc. Optimum healing is the mind-body-soul connection.
"Biology of Belief" is VERY real .... see Dr. Bruce Lipton's intro below. "Genes and DNA can be manipulated by a person's beliefs. He (Bruce Lipton) is the author of the bestselling book, The Biology of Belief, and is a former researcher at Stanford University's School of Medicine." Source: wikipedia
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We are connected- Are you saying that we just need to have positive thoughts, and our cancer will go away? I wish it was that easy.
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Abigail- I was wondering do you have any family members that live near you? Have they tried to get you get medical. YU care and you have refused? Not wanting to get yourself checked out because you are sure the mammogram will cause cancer is crazy. If you already have cancer, it seems like you would want to know so you know how to treat it. If it is truly just an abscess, then it can get treated, and they can stop the bleeding. I am surprised you are not anemic with all the bleeding going on. You are signed up for medicare I hope. I had a friend that treated her rheumatoid arthritis, strictly by becoming mostly vegan, and yes that does happen occasionally, but it does not work for everyone, and she was incensed that she had the cure for RA, and nobody would listen to her For a long time she did not sign up for medicare, because she felt she did not need it. She finally signed up for medicare when she was around 80, and several months later she suffered a mild heart attack.
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Peaches, positive thinking is an excellent start, but yet it is really only scratching the surface. I sure wish it was that simple. It's basically "mind over matter", which we all practice in our daily lives, but do not recognize this ability for what it potentially can be. All our imaginations & dreams are more part of our "reality" than the reality which we perceive as reality, if this makes any sense. Children are best at recognizing dual realities. If one can imagine it, then it is entirely possible, and thus it can become real. Positive thinking is key.
Children from wealthy elite families attend those so-called Mystery Schools, where these abilities are cultivated in the elite kids. There are reasons why this Psi Power is kept from the masses.
Dr Bruce Lipton explains a good intro in his presentations and book. In my opinion, psionics & para-psychology are the most important components. Study all you can on Psi Power. We all have these untapped abilities. Cure our own cancers? I don't really know, but we can surely keep our BC dormant for many years & decades, as some do. I don't really think that an imperfect medical modality deserves the credit in all instances. It's Psi Power of the Mind.
More general info : http://www.wyrdology.com/mind/psi/
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Ms Abigail,
What can we do to help you? I am truly sorry to hear about your breast problems. I send you a big hug!
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Positive thinking helps get you through mentally and emotionally. In some cases it may be mind over matter, but there are plenty of times I've been positive, for real, not even trying, and have been struck down. It's not a cure for anything except keeping your sanity really. Not to say it never works, but for something like getting cancer, no. I mean who can argue that it's better to think the worst than to think and hope for the best so obviously for your mental health, do think positive and if you need meds to help you through, nothing wrong with that.
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The entire Abigail issue is very very bizarre to me. To those who are offended by her statements/presence (like me), may I encourage you to just stop responding to her? It is obvious by her choices and odd use of words/phrasing that she is not like the rest of us, so no need to give her any more of our time/energy.
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we are connected...thank you for all the links...i really learned alot, and i still have 2 more to investigate...positive thinking and the subconsious sabotage of it really made sense to me...its alot like "the secret" where ALL of your being has to believe, and that is hard for people to achieve...it is hard for me.... Abigail,i dont know you, and i dont want you to feel like an outsider but i do wish you would have someone help you with your pain. At 80 you shouldnt be going thru this all by yourself and if you came here for support please dont stop trying to find what you need...I hope you can be guided to an empathetic doc or nurse who will help without judging...maybe getting help wont be as painful as you think...my lump grew so fast that in 3 weeks it was so excruciatingly painful that the relief i had from the docs "poison" was a beautiful thing. that was just my breast then it worked on my back pain (no idea that was from cancer ), of course i wasnt thinking strait..it is in my brain...continue to get support in what ever way will help...this is a horrible and scary disease and i too am offended when someone just plays the cancer card for whatever reason, but i also remember how scared i was to go get checked and if it wasnt so painful and growing so fast, i really cant tell you how long i would have waited...wrong wrong wrong...i know that now...you live and you learn...if coming to a site like this gives you the courage you need then please keep reading and learning...please dont send anyone down the wrong path when you dont know exactly what you're dealing with..that would be tragic..and lives could be lost. everyone take care...
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here growning what I concider slowly. four and five centemeters in say five years. today with the blizzared, but mostly snow fall I got the first calm time in months, and so slept and managed to cookmy breakfast forty minutes too long. still snowing. if only it would thaw without rain we'd get a silver thaw, one of the most beautiful sights in nature which I was privileged to see both winters I lived in the pacific north west
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Folks, please get your facts straight—whether or not you trust conventional medicine. Someone here mentioned “AIs like Herceptin." Herceptin is NOT an aromatase inhibitor—it is a "targeted therapy" biologic (monoclonal antibody) drug engineered for HER2+ cancer, i.e. tumors that overexpress the tumor growth protein HER2. Targeted therapies are designed to kill just the tumor cells, not the body's normal fast-growing cells. Unfortunately, Herceptin needs to be given with cytotoxic chemo or else it doesn't work well. An aromatase inhibitor is a non-biologic drug that interferes with aromatase's ability to convert the androgens made by fat cells and adrenal glands into estrogen. Two completely different treatments using two completely different mechanisms & principles for two different forms of breast cancer. If you're going to debunk conventional medicine, at least learn the basic science of your disease first.
“Dr." Bruce Lipton is not a physician—MD, DO, naturopathic, chiropractic, or any other licensed and peer-board certified doctor. He is not an oncologist either. He is a biological researcher, and though he once was associated with Stanford it doesn't take an Einstein to suss out why he is a “former researcher" there. “Epigenetics" is theoretical (studied only in animals, and any changes it allegedly produces in genes is temporary and not studied in tumor cells), and often used by Biblical fundamentalists to try and discredit Darwin. The closest it can apply to humans is the advocacy by some “aging specialists" (not all of whom are physicians) of early and consistent lifestyle practices to attempt to prevent telomeres (chromosome ends) from shortening to affect longevity in general—not with regard to any disease processes. Emotions do not affect the DNA of tumor cells—not even in animals.
I agree with exbronxgirl that this is a thread where diagnosed breast cancer patients can discuss alternative treatment decisions without being shamed. You shouldn't be posting on this thread if you (or someone on whose behalf you're posting) have not been diagnosed with breast cancer. Diagnosed, not self-diagnosed. And as for self-diagnosis of AIDS (as well as claims of “self-cure"), not only does it display a spectacular ignorance of that disease but insults the struggles of those living with it, those real scientists who worked hard to research its origins & treatments, and the memories of those people we've lost because of it. I have lost too many dear, dear friends to AIDS to keep my mouth shut on this.
Moderators, maybe there should be an “Alternative therapies" thread started in the “Not Diagnosed but Worried" forum, and posts such as those made by people not medically diagnosed with breast cancer or its precursors should be relocated there.
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Brava, Sandy and what a good suggestion to the mods.
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second to that
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Re: ""Epigenetics" is theoretical (studied only in animals, and any changes it allegedly produces in genes is temporary and not studied in tumor cells), and often used by Biblical fundamentalists to try and discredit Darwin. The closest it can apply to humans is the advocacy by some "aging specialists" (not all of whom are physicians) of early and consistent lifestyle practices to attempt to prevent telomeres (chromosome ends) from shortening to affect longevity in general—not with regard to any disease processes."
The application of "epigenetic" modifications in cancer is more advanced than suggested by the above. While I do not support alternative treatments in lieu of the current standard of care, I would like to note that certain approaches in the field of "epigenetics" have much more scientific evidence behind them than others.
One example of an epigenetic modification is acetylation and deacetylation of proteins, such as histones, and in fact, a number of histone deacetylase ("HDAC") inhibitors ("HDACi") have been approved by FDA for clinical use in the treatment of certain cancers. See, for example:
Zwergel, "Histone Deacetylase Inhibitors: Updated Studies in Various Epigene c-Related Diseases" (2015)
"To date just a few HDACi have been approved by the FDA: vorinostat [1] (Zolinza®; Merck) for the treatment of refractory cutaneous T-cell lymphoma (CTCL) [20], romidepsin [2] (Istodax®; Celgene) for the treatment of CTCL and peripheral T-cell lymphoma (PTCL) [21], and belinostat [3] (Beleodaq®; Spectrum Pharmaceu cals) for the treatment of PTCL [17]. In early 2015 oral panobinostat [4] (Farydak®, Novartis) has been approved by the FDA, as combination therapy with bortezomib and dexamethasone in patients with recurrent multiple myeloma who have received at least two prior treatment regimens, including bortezomib and an immunomodulatory agent [22], being currently studied also for other types of cancer."
It should be understood that these examples do not validate other unproven approaches to "epigenetic" modification.
A quick search on clinicaltrials.gov for "HDAC inhibitor and breast" reveals that HDAC inhibitors are also the subject of a number of on-going clinical trials in breast cancer.
To learn more about epigenetics in breast cancer research, see for example, these review articles:
Byler (2014), "Genetic and Epigenetic Aspects of Breast Cancer Progression and Therapy"
http://ar.iiarjournals.org/content/34/3/1071.full
Vo (2012), "Epigenetics and Breast Cancers"
https://www.hindawi.com/journals/ogi/2012/602720/
Jovanovic (2010), "The epigenetics of breast cancer"
http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1574789110000244
BarredOwl
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Another excellent well-studied objective viewpoint from Ms Barred Owl ... thank you for that. Good food for thought.
Dr Bruce Lipton, PhD, former Assoc Prof of Anatomy at a School of Medicine once stated: "Our health is not controlled by genetics... Conventional medicine is operating from an archaic view that we're controlled by genes. This misunderstands the nature of how biology works."
source: Biology of Belief : Unleashing The Power of Consciousness, Matter and Miracles
It's OK to curl your lips & snarl ... It's controversial, but it's not fake news.
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Thank you for enlightening me, BarredOwl. (As you frequently and dependably do). But your answer supports the validity of the actions of the conventional academic scientific community…as well as demonstrates that self-diagnosis and the self-administration of “natural remedies” without any knowledge of their supposed mechanisms of effectiveness is inadvisable. It is important to point out that you cite controlled double-blind studies using both standard and experimental medications…NOT “natural remedies."
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Awesome idea, Chi. I fear that people may take abigail's long time experience as something that'll work for their breast cancer not having read all these posts, and she's not even diagnosed with it.
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Do you believe in "miracles"? I do. "Medicine does miracles" ... But, it's"limited to trauma", Dr Bruce Lipton, PhD, had stated in aforementioned book (as evidenced on trauma).
Do you believe in the "Power of Blood"? For example in the blood of Christ, and America is a Christian nation.
Believe in all the miracles of healing
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Perhaps this thread will experience its own miracles, in that tribal hived minds will refrain from any gang-stalking and/or group prejudicial harassment.
Have you creatures no compassion & empathy for the weak, the sick & the elderly? Frankly, I have been appalled at the hived tribalism & discrimination toward a certain weakened sick elderly lady on this thread,
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There isn't one person in this thread or board for that matter that doesn't have a heart for suffering. You misunderstand. She has said she has bc (but never dx'd) and gives advice based on what's she's doing. This is plain wrong to give advice on any disease when you have never had it. I think everyone agrees with this. And we are to believe too that she had AIDs not once but twice and self cured it! Wowza.
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As is the case with several previous posters on this thread, I am offended and annoyed by someone who has decided, without diagnostic confirmation, that she has breast cancer posting in this forum. I really don't think it should be allowed but I don't run the board.
However, my greater concern is expressed by Artista928, above; that some innocent will stumble upon Abigail's ramblings and take them at face value, without ever realizing that Abigail has never been diagnosed and most likely does not have breast cancer and never did. Her unsubstantiated statements could contribute to some very risky beliefs and decisions.
It's not my call to say whether or not she should be here but perhaps her signature line (currently missing) could be written by the mods to reflect her equivocal (ahem) status.
Beyond that, I think we all need to be careful that, to the best of our knowledge, our comments on technical issues are accurate. Regarding our own experiences and emotions, it's a different situation of course.
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This is NOT a “Christian nation!” The majority of Americans may be Christian, but that spans a wide panoply of belief—from affiliation and identification all the way to strict belief. I’m glad you believe in “miracles,” but to say that should be the case for all Americans is insulting. (And “the power of the blood” is a minority viewpoint within organized Christianity as it is practiced in most of this country).
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W A C......creature?.....really?
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Yes, we are all "creatures" of God ... Source ... Creator .... Allah .... Jesus Christ.Forgive the biblical slip.
May God bless us all.
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My goodness, Ms Sandy ...
This board is not the courtroom. I asked a simple question!!!!!
"Do you believe?" Evidently, you do not.
Furthermore, the analogy regarding "the Blood of Christ" merely is indicative of American Christian religious populism. A reasonable analogy drawn to elaborate point.
Additionally, I do NOT appreciate your false accusation, as my comments were not dictatorial in nature, Ms Sandy.
Many BC patients are encouraged by hope for miracles.
Chill
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edited to remove reference to a line cited in and then edited out of the post to which I’m responding
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Your contention that a belief in the “Power of blood" and “blood of Christ" is “American Christian religious populism" is a gross overstatement: it is only one of many interpretations of Christianity in the U.S.
There is a Christian thread for “middle aged or older Christian women” over in the “Older Than 60” forum, BTW. I don’t post or lurk there—I’m Jewish.
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