Anyone go to a therapist? Does it help?

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Ever since being diagnosed, I've been anxious and depressed. My MO has prescribed me medications to help but I'm wondering if some sort of therapy would help more. This really does feel like PTSD to me.

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  • Hopeful82014
    Hopeful82014 Member Posts: 3,480
    edited February 2017

    Pepper, help from a therapist can make a real difference in getting through this. In my opinion, however, it is VITAL that you find someone who has extensive experience in working with cancer patients. Your MO's office, a nurse navigator, other member of your team or the medical center where you're being treated may be able to provide some suggestions. Some cancer treatment facilities offer a range of services at low or no cost but if these aren't available, check with your insurer regarding coverage. Good luck with it.

  • gardengypsy
    gardengypsy Member Posts: 769
    edited February 2017

    Pepper~ I am agreeing with Hopeful. The oncology experience is absolutely essential.

    Since July, I have been seeing my therapist right here in the oncology part of the hospital. She KNOWS what I am going through and what the research is. She has the expertise and the compassion.

    Yeah, I have gotten to know PTSD since diagnosis. The symptom clusters can be very frustrating because sometimes it's impossible to separate out your experiences, treatments and medicines.

    Sending well wishes.

  • MTwoman
    MTwoman Member Posts: 2,704
    edited February 2017

    I agree with GardenGypsy and Hopeful, even thought I AM a therapist (and was practicing at the time of my diagnosis and treatment) I went back into therapy and found it incredibly helpful. My therapist was not connected to the cancer treatment center or local support center, but one I had used previously and knew me, which can also be useful. Also, I went to a local support group "bosom buddies" to spend time with women who were/had gone through treatment. Good luck!

  • Chloesmom
    Chloesmom Member Posts: 1,053
    edited February 2017

    Therapist was awesome. I did sand tray and art therapy. Brought out feelings I couldn't get in touch with otherwise. Feel strong now

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited February 2017

    I saw a therapist, and she did EMDR with me which is used for ptsd. Think the Disney movie "inside out" and trying to make sure everything is filed correctly It helped me a lot, and I have techniques to use now when I do get anxious or stressed. My therapist was one I had used and known previously not one from my cancer center.

  • Nel138281
    Nel138281 Member Posts: 2,124
    edited February 2017

    Therapist also and have always had one off and on over the years.  My current is not from the treatment center -as all my challenges are not cancer related, but someone who understands medical issues and the impact.  A good match so far 2+ years.  I find it helpful to have someplace to "dump" other than friends and someone with an objective (hopefully) perspective.  Whether it is someone from your cancer center or not - it just needs to be a good match.   Like anyone else you are hiring, plumber cleaning person, interview decide if it works and move on if you don't; think it will  You are paying and have every right to interview   And if the therapist is not up for this - they clearly will not be the one

    With the right person - it will be a tremendous support

    Nel

  • Kicks
    Kicks Member Posts: 4,131
    edited February 2017

    PTSD is a very real! Not at all what some 'think' it is. Anyone can have to deal with PTSD after a traumatic incidence - it is not just what some believe is limited only to those who have been in 'battle' situations. The sooner PTSD (if present) gets approlriate TX - the better the outcome. However if is VERY important to work with someone, sooner rather than late,r who is experienced with PTSD - unfortunately not all Drs or Therapist are.. Also need someone 'you' feel comfortable with and can be honest with.

    PTSD does not only effect the person experiencing it BUT the entire family! They need help also to understand, be able to comprehend what is going on and support their loved one instead of not understanding what is 'going on' for them. It can be harder (in some situations) to be the support people.

  • Artista928
    Artista928 Member Posts: 2,753
    edited February 2017

    Support groups can be quite helpful too.

  • Artista928
    Artista928 Member Posts: 2,753
    edited February 2017

    Support groups can be quite helpful too.

  • LilacBlue
    LilacBlue Member Posts: 1,636
    edited February 2017

    Like nbnotes, I too a went to a therapist, and she did EMDR and it was what kicked the PTSD into the long grass. I'd not experienced PTSD before being waylaid by cancer treatment and EMDR quickly moved me forward without having long term cognitive therapy. I highly recommend finding a EMDR therapist and giving this a go.

  • Outfield
    Outfield Member Posts: 1,109
    edited February 2017

    Pepper, that was the one way my cancer center at the time of my treatment sucked. They didn't even have a referral list.

    I can't remember how, but someone did recommend a psychiatrist, I saw her for meds, and she recommended a therapist. He had worked with at least one person wtith cancer before, but his main thing was military PTSD. That was way more than good enough. He really "got it." Just that was hugely helpful to me.

    I too have found EMDR very helpful.

  • cliff
    cliff Member Posts: 290
    edited February 2017

    so far, my only therapy is physical therapy. helped me with several physical problems like stiff and unsteady, lymphedema, just getting old, and such. I am not too depressed right now, a lot of support from family and keep busy at work..also, pictures and visits with my new granddaughter have ruined me on feeling sorry for myself.

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