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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited January 2003
    Hi My name is Pepper - 40 yrs old
    I live in Vancouver, WA
    Married 22 years with a 12 yr old son
    No family history

    My journey began like this:
    Sept. 12, 2002 - painful breast - see GYN
    Oct. 16, 2002 - Scheduled mamog.
    Oct. 31, 2002 - second diagnostic mamog.
    * Califications visible - 2 tumors
    Nov. 22, 2002 - 1st biopsy
    Nov. 24, 2002 - positive dx extensive DCIS
    Dec. 19, 2002 - 2nd surgery unclean margins.
    Dec. 26, 2002 - 3rd surgery Partial mast
    * unclean margins 1.5cm tumor.
    Jan. 8, 2003 - first radiation 8 weeks w/ 8 boosts
    Feb. 28, 2003 - completed radiation
    April 3, 2003 - started Tamoxifen
    June 25, 2003 - two new tumors discovered
    Aug. 7, 2003 - Taken of Taxom developed an
    allergic reaction.
    Aug. 13, 2003 - two new tumors BENIGN
    Sept. 18, 2003 - Started Raloxifene

    Thank you ladies for always coming to my rescue when I needed it the most.
  • jessie
    jessie Member Posts: 3
    edited January 2003
    I am 60 year old postmenopausal with invasive ductal carcinoma. Had lumpectomy on 25 Nov 2002. Dx on 26 Nov 2002. Had clean margins.
    Tumor did not show on Mammogram, but did show on ultrasound. Found thru BSE.
    Intermediate Nuclear grade.
    Nottingham grade II.
    Tubule formation-3
    Nuclear pleomorphism-2
    Mitotic rate-2
    Maximal tumor dimension is 2 cm.
    Although given option of lumpectomy w/rads or mast, I chose mast as the best option for me and am happy with that decision. Opted not to do reconstruction.
    I am ER/PR positive and had no lymph node involvement (out of 25 nodes), and was given option of taking chemo. After a lot of thought and second opinion, I decided to do the chemo. Had to know I'd done everything I could. Have port put in Jan 30th and first chemo (AC) on Feb 3rd. After chemo, I will be put on Arimidex.

    Grandmother and aunt had breast cancer.

    I live in Okla-have been married for 40 years. I have two sons and two grandsons (5 & 9). I'm retired secretary. I help take care of my grandsons.
    Jessie
  • bcsal
    bcsal Member Posts: 1
    edited February 2003
    Hi all,
    I'm Sally from Cincinnati, am 52 yrs old, no family history of BC. I have one daughter and a very supportive husband.
    3/21/02 annual gyn check-up. ALL OK
    4/19/02 annual mam. ALL OK
    5/21/02 revisited gyn - dimpling by left nipple, and husband found lump.

    5/31/02 saw breast specialist, had ultra sound
    which showed TWO lumps (one suspicious)in left breast.

    6/3/02 Biopsy surgery found 1 invasive tumor, and 1 non-invasive, and margins were filled w/ DCIS.

    7/8/02 Mast, clean lymph nodes(6), reconstruction using expander.

    8/21/02 First of four chemo.
    10/23/02 Last chemo.
    No problems with chemo except bad taste in my mouth, lost ALL hair - EVERYWHERE, and moved at a much slower pace, physically.

    11/15/02 began Tamoxifen.

    12/9/02 final reconstruction w/ saline implant.
    Will get nipple in March.

    Today is 2/1/03 and I will begin going without may hats on Monday. Hair is back, with a vengance(especially on my face). And my energy is back. I've been exercising throughout this ordeal except post-op.

    POSTIVE ATTITUDE IS VITAL. And I kept mine by learning everything I could about this disease and it's treatment. I had lost my mother-in-law to BC 1 year to the day of my dx.

    Thanks to all of you for sharing your stories and encouragement. As a 14-year survivor told me, "it's a great club, but a hell of an initiation."

    Sally from Cincy
  • SVLove
    SVLove Member Posts: 12
    edited February 2003
    Hi All,
    I am Cindy from Austin, Texas. I am 51 with three daughters ages, 22, 24 and 26. This has been a lot for them to deal with also My annual screening mammogram picked up a spot in mid December, 2002. From there I went through an additional mammogram, an ultrasound, core biopsy and then on the afternoon of 12/31/02, I got the news that I have invasive ductal breast cancer. My New Year's resolutions were suddenly tossed out the window and I thought about this coming year.

    I had a mastectomy on 1/13/03 and the findings are clear margins, 1 positive node of ten, ER/PR strongly positive, HER 2 negative and moderately differentiated cancer.

    I have my first appointment with the oncologist tomorrow to discuss my treatment and I plan to have my port put in on Feb. 10th.

    And I am still wondering what this year will bring. But to date I have learned what wonderful family and friends I have and I am so very thankful for this website and the wonderful members of this not so lucky club.

    Hanging in there,
    Cindy
  • Jandi719
    Jandi719 Member Posts: 1
    edited February 2003
    Hi all - My name is Diane and I am 50 years old.
    Back in 1996, I was dx with invasive ductal carcinoma in my left breast. 5 cent. tumor, E/R
    postive, Her 2 negative. 5 of 12 lymph nodes positive. I had a mastectomy and 4 chemo treatments at that time. I was fine until September of 2002, when I was diagnosed with a new primary in my right breast. Same type of cancer. They suggested chemo first, 4 treatments, a/c starting in Sept. and ending in Dec. of 2002. I then had a mastectomy on January 7th. Again, 5 of 12 positive lymph nodes. I will have 4 more chemos of taxotire and then rads. I had some complications during my chemo including a TIA (transeschemic attack, collapsed lung due to being punctured with a needle during port installation, and and infection in Dec. due to low white cell count. I was hospitalized several times during the fall. If anyone would like to email me, my email address is Jandi719@msn.com. I don't mean to scare anyone by my complications, as I understand what happened to me is rare and they do not know if the TIA was chemo related. Thanks for this website!!!!!
  • lawrencekjbc
    lawrencekjbc Member Posts: 1
    edited February 2003
    HI,
    Thanks,Diane, for your post. I had 6 positive nodes, and everyone I have met seems to have 0 or only 1. I have felt somewhat isolated and terrified. Knowing you have been okay from '96 to now is inspirational and reassuring. Sorry to hear about your new occurance, but feel you will make it through as you did before. I will be hoping for another positive outcome for you.

    I am new to this site. I was diagnosed on Halloween, 2000 at age 42. Stage IIB, lobular invasive bc, 2.3 cm tumor, with 6 positive nodes. Had lumpectomy in November 2000, but because margins were not clear, and another small tumor was found in the same breast, surgeon recommended modified radical mastectomy. Lobular cancer apparently can occur simultaneously at different sites, and a simple mastectomy of the other breast was recommended. Surgery was in November. I elected to have reconstruction, and expanders were inserted at the time of surgery.
    Had 8 rounds of chemo (FEC) and 30 rads.Complications included a massive clot from my port which required 2 nights hospital admission and about a month of treatment with blood thinners. (Yuck)
    Also, the other usual side effects of nausea, low white count, etc. I was able to continue working, as I have a flexible schedule.
    Have been on tamoxifen since fall of 2001.
    Reconstructive surgery was completed in November and December of 2001.
    I am feeling fine now, but still frightened of recurrence. I have 2 young daughters. This has been hard on them and I worry about their risk of bc in the future.
    Best of luck to all,
    Karen
  • elizaw
    elizaw Member Posts: 1
    edited February 2003
    My name is Eliza and I live in Australia. I am a 29 y.o. wife and mother of a 3 y.o. I am also a post doctoral research fellow studying cancer cell and molecular biology. I was diagnosed with invasive ductal carcinoma (Her2/neo, ER and PR positive) and ductal carcinoma in situ throughout the upper 2 quadrants of my right breast in August 02. I have had a mastectomy (positive margins at the chest wall) and axillary lymphectomy (node negative), 6 cycles of carboplatin/docetaxol chemotherapy, continuing Herceptin therapy, am contemplating a prophylactic mastectomy and have decided against radiotherapy and tamoxifen.

    I am sure there must be an alternative to these harsh treatments. I do not believe that we have to feel so terrible in order to beat our illness. We can get well without feeling so unwell.

    I believe that I have had this experience so that I can help others. But at this stage I don't know how. I have some ideas and I guess I just need feedback. I tolerated chemo quite well perhaps because I incorporated complementary approaches eg. various vitamins and mineral supplements, ginger tonics and garlic as an anti-microbial/anti-fungal. I would love to do a controlled study of these. I also maintained a healthy diet, meditated, spent lots of time at the beach, walked and continued a 'normal' life as much as possible (such as continuing to work).

    I am very lucky to have had unconditional support from my wonderful husband, son, family and friends.

    As a medical researcher, I am keen to use my first-hand experience and that of others to contribute to the formulation of new diagnostics and less harmful treatments. If anyone has any experience on the incorporation of complementary therapies and conventional medicine or has had other illnesses (such as viral or bacterial infections) prior to diagnosis of b c, I would be very happy to hear from you.
  • denisa
    denisa Member Posts: 160
    edited November 2010

    My name is denisa.

  • MaryWAV
    MaryWAV Member Posts: 1
    edited February 2003
    Hi All,
    My name is Mary and I live in Illinois. 39yrs old now. I have a wonderful fiance & 3 wonderful kids, son 22 in the navy, daughter 18 in college & son 13 at home.
    Will be a grandma in a month thanks to my son & his wife! I can't wait!!!
    I was DX in April 2001 at the age of 37 yrs. Found painful lump myself, thought it was fibrocystic. (NOT)
    Went to my GYN for a pre surgical on a hysterectomy and told him of the lump, he sent me ASAP for an ultra-sound. They also did a Mamo. Found a suspicious lump in right breast. (SUSPICIOUS is not a good word!)
    Hyster of course got put off. Had a Lumpectomy within a week and it was positive. Infiltrating ductal carcinoma Grade III, 2.5 X 1.5 X 1.5CM.
    All margins dirty. ER+
    Had a Skin sparing modified radical mastectomy with bi-lateral tram flap reconstruction in May 2001. 5 of 15 nodes positive.
    Had Muga Scan, Bone Scan, Chest X-Ray etc... all were good.
    July 2001 started chemo, 12 rounds of ACF. My whites kept bottoming out and ended up in the hospital on reverse isolation. (Neutropenic)
    I really hated chemo!!! It did not sit well with me and I don't know why I gained 25 lbs!!! (have since lost it)
    Finished chemo in Dec 2001 and started rads in Jan 2002 33 rounds, every other day they put the bolist on me and I really got burned, still have scars on my collar bone from it! Also started Tamoxafin in Jan 2001.
    June 2002 finished up the reconstruction.
    October 2002 finally had my Hysterectomy! It was a piece of cake after what I had been through!!!
    I was all better in 2 weeks time.
    All along I have had trouble with the mesh in my abdominal area. Since they took both of my abdominal muscles I have a rather large piece of mesh in place and it is driving me crazy! Therapy just made it worse, I went to the "pain clinic" and the Dr. there just caused more damage. Now I have 5 areas where they injected me with steroids and it ate the fat between the skin & the mesh. So there is even less protection in those areas, not to mention you can actually see the dents!
    Wow, I am really going on & on! Sorry if I am boring any of you.
    At this point all of my tests have come back good!
    I just have to deal with the physical limitations I have.
    I wish all of you the very best!!! Mary
  • iodine
    iodine Member Posts: 4,289
    edited February 2003
    So very sorry about the loss of your father. I would feel very good about haveing the opportunity to say goodbye, not everyone has that chance.

    Assume nothing, please. Call your gp's office and ask for a review of the chest film. It will go far to relieve your mind. Mistakes happen and your report could have been filed by mistake, instead of contacting you.

    As to the pathology report, ck. out the booklet available on this site: How to read your pathology report. It was a big help to me and most of the others.
    If you are not satisfied with this info, and even if you are, call the onc's office and talk with him or his nurse to further understand how this report affects you.

    So sorry you have to join us, but glad you found this wonderful site.
    Warm hugs.
  • mcoder
    mcoder Member Posts: 2
    edited February 2003
    My name is Karen, I was 45 when diagnosed with bc and am 46 now. Diagnosed July 30,2002. 1.9 cm, SNB Aug. 10, 2002, all four nodes clear but some rare cytokeratin cells in first three and fast growing tumor so onc said treat aggressively. Had 4X A/C, will have last Taxotere Feb. 20, out of 4. Started rads Dec. 23, 2002 had last one Feb. 11. ER/PR-, HER2+. I have fuzz growing and am looking forward to this Thurs. (20th)!!!!
    I found out I'm HER2-, which is better. I had a lumpectomy no mast., which I sometimes wonder about. I am married, live in Idaho and have two grown (kind of) boys ages 20 and 22. I'm all done with treatments and am looking forward to life.

    edited April 2, 2003. I should have said I have fuzz growing on my head!!! I had port taken out March 24.
  • tmystoy
    tmystoy Member Posts: 1
    edited February 2003
    Hi my name is Tammy.I'm 32 and live in Baldwinsville,New york.Found lump in bed one night mid july 2002.Like somone else said tried to leave it there but it followed me.Went to gp the end of sept,sent me for mammo and made referall for surgeon as he said it felt solid.
    well sono done when mammo came back.Seen surgeon on oct.6,2002.he says large solid mass at 2 o'clock, biopsy scheduled for oct.8,2002.Got call with results of idc on oct.9.Twenty minutes later got call from relatives in Florida that dad was in the hospital dx cancer in stomach 3-6 months to live.

    So lumpectomy with sentinal node biopsy on October 29,2002.
    idc with insitu components-tumor 1.6 cm
    2 nodes removed negative
    closest margin 0.7
    Grade 1 well differentiated
    What does insitu component focal mean anyone know send private mess if you do?
    high grade nuclie-no
    angiolymphatic invasion identified (what ever that means?)

    strongly er&pr positive
    Well doc said I was stage 2b
    so off to onco.
    rescheduled first onco to dec 2 as dad was not good so i took a trip to Florida to see him Nov.20-25 lost him 5 days later.very ugly to see
    Port put in dec.6th
    enrolled in study and got taxol 12 weekly cycles(two more to go thank god)
    then ill be off to rads for 6 weeks
    So thats my story so far all scans were negative but had a bad chest x-ray at gp never heard on the retake so assuming it must have been good.Have that fear that they missed somthing and all that normal crap we fear...So that my story so far have decided im to stubborn to die so refuse to stress it anymore...Well many hugs and thanks for being here to all....Tammi
  • lorna1966
    lorna1966 Member Posts: 5
    edited February 2003
    I've been a member awhile, but didn't have surgery until Feb 3rd, so I am just now doing my bio.

    I am 36 yrs. old. Married 14 yrs., mother of 13 yr old daughter and 7 yr old son. Live on Beale AFB, CA since 09/02. Found lump in 07/02. Had clinical exam in 08/02 & mammo 9/02. Moved from FL to CA late 08/02.

    Dx 10/04/02
    4 Rounds Adriamycin & Cytoxan 11/02-01/03
    Lumpectomy 02/03/03
    1/16 nodes positive
    Poorly differentiated infiltrating ductal carcinoma
    Stage IIB
    ER pos
    PR neg
    HER 2 pos
    4 Rounds Taxotere 02/03-04/03
    Rads: 5-6 weeks starting 05/03
  • Cherrie
    Cherrie Member Posts: 1,423
    edited February 2003
    Hi,

    I am 48 and from Portland, Michigan. I am married and have two children 20 and 16.

    Found lump in June 2002. Mammo in July, Ultrasound in August, Met surgeon in September, Core Biopsy Oct. 4, Dx Oct. 9, Lumpectomy and SNB on Oct. 21.

    DX Oct. 9, 2002
    IDC 1cm stage1 grade1 er/pr+ her2-
    No nodes

    I did 33 rounds of radiation.
    On Tamoxifen and Lupron.
    Experiencing flushes and night sweats, but not disabling. On high blood pressure meds for the night sweats to see if I can sleep better.

    I have been very positive, but am missing my "old" life.

    I am interested in hearing more about Lupron if anyone is on it.

    Cherrie
  • DebbieB
    DebbieB Member Posts: 161
    edited March 2003
    For all the newbies, if you would like, please update your bios on this post.

    Thanks.

    Debbie
  • Ladycadillac50
    Ladycadillac50 Member Posts: 1
    edited March 2003

    Just found I have breast cancer on left breast. Found out in January and had the biopsy in February and had surgery Tuesday. Took all nodes out. Don't know yet how many was infected. Have to take chemo for sure. Scared, but happy I'm alive.Doctor she thought it was in stage 2.

  • Sprite
    Sprite Member Posts: 5
    edited March 2003
    Sorry to hear you had to join us, Cadilaclady but I welcome you yo a great place. Keep us posted. We've been there, too.
    Kathy
  • my4sons
    my4sons Member Posts: 1
    edited March 2003
    Hi-
    I was diagnosed with IDC on 9/18/02 after finding a lump on BSE 9/16/02. Age 44. No family history of BC.

    Surgery:
    Lumpectomy 4 nodes removed (-)
    1.2 poorly differentiated rt breast mass
    4:00 position
    Stage 1c, Grade 3
    ER+/PR-, Her2+++
    Nodes negative

    Treatment:
    Lumpectomy 9/26/02
    4 rounds AC 10/17/02-12/18/02
    Lupron injections 12/18/02,1/18/03,2/18/03
    30 Rads 1/10/03-2/24/03
    Arimidex started 2/22/03
    Oophorectomy 3/4/03
  • janka
    janka Member Posts: 2
    edited March 2003
    hi I'm JanKa age 52, 2 grown kids, 1 grandson on
    the way in June 2003.
    mass, left breast under the arm
    I was Dx last March 2002, first lumpechtocmy marjins clear, second to remove more tissue and
    sentinel node removal, all neg. all clear
    tumor size 1.5 - stage I
    ERPR+
    low grade
    no overexpressor
    had AC 4 rounds, 33 rads
    first mamogram since treatment lst week. Neg.
    It wasn't so bad, although did get sore afterward
  • janka
    janka Member Posts: 2
    edited March 2003
    TO Crissy05 in St. Louis,
    I also live in St. Louis, this is JanKa (jan)
    I read about that accident where that MD was killed.
    If you need another really good MD Let me know. i
    love the drs I have. my dx is similar to yours.

    I also love St. Louis.....
  • Aggie84
    Aggie84 Member Posts: 67
    edited May 2003
    My name is Laura and I live in Nebraska with my husband of 19 years and 4 sons. I am 40 years old. I found my lump in the shower, actually had to bend over to feel it. Thought it could've been a cyst, but had mammogram to be sure. Received dx a week later on March 31, 2003 from core biopsy. Lumpectomy on April 9 with SNB.

    2.9 cm Invasive Ductal Carcinoma
    No nodal involvement of 3 removed
    Highly Agressive Grade 3
    Er+

    Port installed May 5
    First Chemo May 8.

    AC -day 1
    MF -day 8
    four cycles every 3 weeks.

    then...
    Taxol and perhaps herceptin (sp?)
    either weekly or on 3 week schedule for 3 months.

    Radiation, Tamoxifen, maybe ovary removal.

    Very aggressive regimen, but Onc. gives me a 90-95% of being cancer free in 5 years.

    I have great faith in God and know that this is his plan and trust him and have handed it all over to him. I do have moments of sadness, but all these ladies on this board have been an answer to my prayers!
  • ParrotHead
    ParrotHead Member Posts: 6
    edited May 2003
    I am 29 and have been married for 9 years and have a 5 year old. We live in NC. I was DX in March with Stage 2, IDC, 5 cm with one lymph node. I am having TAC chemo first to shrink the tumour. Had my port put in on March 27th then chemo on March 28 and will have my third treatment on the 15th of this month. My tumour has decreased in size approx 50% [Smile] so I may only have 2 more treatments left. Then I will a lumpt, hopefully and if not then a mast. I don't know the specifics of my cancer but will know when I have surgery. So far, the chemo has been doable. Very pleased with my oncologist and my surgeon so feel I am lucky to have them both.

    Cyber hugs,

    Update: Tumor shrunk down to 1.5cm. Had a total of 4 TAC treatments. Had a lumpectomy, 2 nodes removed from a SNB and 18 lymph nodes removed. One came back postive. Grade 3. I start CMF chemo plus radiation August 1.
  • baker2002
    baker2002 Member Posts: 1
    edited June 2003
    My name is Cyl and I am now 50.

    I was 48 when I discovered the lump in my lower left breast in early August 2001. On September 11, I went for a mammogram and ultrasound of the lump but it came up clear. My doctor decided on surgery anyway as she could feel the lump and my breast was twice it's normal size.

    Biopsy done on 10/31/01 and diagnosed with Stage III, high grade infiltrating ductular carcinoma on 11/1/01.

    The lump was described as dumbbell shaped as a portion of it was in my left breast and the 2nd. part of it was attached to the pectoralis muscle -deeper than the first lump.

    A mastectomy was recommended but I chose lumpectomy. The lumpectomy was performed on 11/6/01. Became part of a study group when the sentinel node biopsy was done as well - 13 nodes were removed to be on the safe side as the procedure was considered new to our hospital.

    Overall: Dx with high grade infiltrating ductal carcinoma left breast, multifocal disease as a portion was located in chest wall - the lump in the breast was 5x5x3 (9mm) and the smaller lump was 4x3x1.5 (2.5).

    Nodes negative
    Her 2/Neu negative
    ER-/PR-

    A port for chemo treatments was inserted on 12/20/01.
    Began chemo 12/21/01 and completed chemo 2/22/02 (4 rounds in all)

    34 rounds of radiation - Began radiation 3/20/02 and ended radiation 5/16/02. Due to severe burns, I had to take a 2 week break.

    Developed lymphedema in June after a bout of severe cellulitis in the left breast. I have been battling lymphedema since then. I've gone from a left arm sleeve to a sleeve and body suit.

    To this day, I have severe pain in the left breast and left arm. I do aerobics and have lost 32 lbs. I intend to get what's left of this body in shape again. [Smile]

    Thanks for this post - it helps!!
  • dianek31
    dianek31 Member Posts: 1
    edited June 2003

    my name is Diane I'm 31,found lump in breast 7 years ago..was told it was just a fibrocystic cyst. always monitored it to make sure not getting bitter, about a month ago i noticed i thought all of a sudden it was definatley bigger, had an ultra sound and mamogram only. and was told via phone that yes i most likely had breat cancer and that i would definatley need surgery which could lead to a full masectomy. im scared as heck..dont even know what to think,, trying hard not to think the worst but i cant get those words out of my head..have appointment on tuesday. can hardly take the waiting...please talk to me

  • LynnLouise
    LynnLouise Member Posts: 1
    edited June 2003

    I'm a newcomer here. I'm 53 yrs. old,menopausal since age 49, mother of a 14 yr. old son.In fall, 2002, my cat gave me a deep scratch in my rt. breast. It bled, then healed. Afterwards,I would have horrible stabbing pains on that side from time to time. I thought it might be an infection, but I ignored it. The holidays were coming up & I didn't want to be bothered with doctor visits. I'd had my first and only mammogram a year earlier and it was clean. Well, in January the pain was screaming at me so I went to my MD. She immediately found a lump & showed it to me (I said "so that's what it feels like"). Ordered a biopsy & by February I was on a course of preadjuvant chemotherapy for a 3cm.+ grade 3 tumor, which my surgeon described as "going wild in there". The preadjuvant chemo (4 AC's) shrunk me down to about 1 cm. On June 3, I went in for a lumpectomy and came out of it having had a mastectomy. She (my MD, onc and surgeon are all women) sent the lump section to the lab and outside the localized wire was a 1 mm. tumor, same grade. I am now recovering from the mastectomy, due to have another 2 rounds of AC, the first one this coming Thursday. This has all been such a whirlwind & I guess we're never ready for it. I took a leave of absence from my job as a kindergarten teacher. My cancer is er/pr negative, her2neu negative, I have zero family history. I haven't eaten meat since 1974 when I became a vegetarian. I am active, but over my ideal weight. What makes us get cancer? I've cried and stressed over the reasons many times. Glad to be among fellow sisters in bc.

  • koko
    koko Member Posts: 1
    edited June 2003
    Just saw this thread for the first time. Glad someone moved it to the top. I live in sunny South Florida. Have been a single Mom since my kids were 4 months & 4 years old. Finally got them out of the house and was ready to finally have "my time." Was planning a great trip to Tahiti for this summer and instead have spent it in Cancerland. I have no family history of BC & had none of the risk factors. I went through menopause at 48, was never on HRT & was DX with Osteoporosis at 50; indicating there wasn't much Estrogen hanging around. Given this scenario the last thing I expected to get was BC.

    Found a lump in my left breast while trying on bras at Victoria's Secret in mid-January. Finally got a doc appt in early Feb & had diagnostic mammo, echo & core biopsy. Pre-op diagnosis was 1.5cm IDC. Opted for a mammo as tumor was almost directly under my nipple & surgeon felt it would have a poor cosmetic result. Had my surgery with immediate reconstruction in early April.

    When I got my surgical path results the DX had changed to ILC & tumor was 3 X 2 X 1.5cm. Had SNB & nodes were negative. Because of tumor size I am Stage llA, Bloom-Richardson Grade 6, ER/PR+, HER2/NEU -. I have had a bone scan & a PET and all were OK. I was really impressed with the PET. It even picked up that I had GURDS (chronic heartburn)!

    The ONC recommended 6 cycles of FAC, followed by Tamox. I did a lot of research and decieded to opt out of the chemo as it would only add a 2-3% absolute gain over Tamox alone. It just didn't seem worth it in view of the long term risks, many of which are still unnknown. I have been on Tamox which I take with a baby aspirin (to help with clots) & also Lexpro to help with the hot flashes. It's probably too early to tell, but so far my side effects from Tamox are zero. I never had hot flashes going through menopause, so I'm hoping my luck will hold out. I have 2 more fills and should have the second stage of my reconstruction the end of July.

    I know things will never be "normal" again, but trying to get on with the business of living. As soon as I was able I started swimming every day again & that has really helped to keep up my energy & get my arm back in shape. No Tahiti for me this year, but next year I'll be there for sure!
  • Catherine
    Catherine Member Posts: 305
    edited June 2003
    That is so sad. You just never know what will happen and it's doubly hard when such a fine person passes away.

    When my grandmother had breast cancer in the 50's one of her "friends" said, "How could she get cancer, she is such a good person." Can you believe how ignorant that sounds? As if being a good person made any difference when it comes to any cancer. It can happen to anyone at any time. The important thing is to deal with it as best you can and make the right decisions for you. The doctors like to push Tamoxifen and Arimidex, but it's not going into their bodies and the male doctors don't have a clue about the side effects. If they did they would not be so quick to recommend these drugs. Every patient has to make her own decision about what side effects to put up with.

    Take it day to day!
  • mar8dar
    mar8dar Member Posts: 23
    edited July 2003
    Hi my name is Melissa I live in New Jersey. My mother died of B/C at age 49. In Jan this year I found a lump in my right breast or should I say on the side of my breast. I thought that it might have been hormonal changes (perimentopausal in the fall of 2002). In March the lump seemed to have grown. Went to the Breast Care Center in MD. Had a FNA and mamo. Mamo was good, FNA B/C. Next day had a core biopsy and a week later a lumpectomy. Invasive ductal carcinoma stage 1b, HER/ER negative, 0.7cm with 0 for 15 nodes. Four cycles of A/C completed in June. Genetics testing revealed BRAC2 have elected to have bilateral mast with ovaries removed in Aug.

    Have a wonderful husband, 3 children: 22, 19 and 17. Soon to be a grandma in July (any day now).
  • Ruth57
    Ruth57 Member Posts: 4
    edited July 2003
    Hi, my name is Ruth and I live in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. I am almost 46.

    I was diagnosed on November 18, 1999 4 months subsequent to a clean baseline mammogram, when I discovered a large lump on my right breast then found a small lump in my armpit.

    I had a modified radical mastectomy and axillary dissection on November 30, 1999. There was a 5x4.5x4 cm tumour, nuclear grade III, ER/PR negative, 17/20 positive lymph nodes.

    Then had 6 months of chemotherapy (CEF)in the following 28 day cycle: Days 1 & 8 - i.v. epirubicin, 5-fluorouracil, days 1-15 oral cyclophosphamide.
    (They recommended high-dose chemo but I declined.)

    I developed phlebitis in my left arm and they switched to my right arm (which they recommend not to do) then inserted a "PIC" (percutaneous intervenous catheter) line for delivery of the rest of the chemos starting in the 4th month since my veins were shot at that point. (I wish that I had had that earlier - no more needles!)

    I was hospitalized twice for febrile neutropenia (high fever with low white blood cell counts) and low platelets. I had multiple i.v. antibiotics, platelet and packed red blood cell transfusions. I was never isolated even though I was concerned that the worst place for strange germs was the hospital.

    I self-injected Neupogen during months 3-6.
    I developed allergic reactions (called erythema nodosa) to both sulfonamides and ciprofloxacin that were given to me for prophylaxis during my chemo.

    Then on July 4th, 2000, started 25 regular and 8 boosts of radiation to the chest wall, finishing the entire episode in a mere 9 months!

    I continued to work through the entire time except for hospitalizations.

    I am not on any meds as I am ER negative. Was thrown into menopause in Feb 2000 and have experienced intensive hot flashes since. (I feel lucky to have something in common with my fellow survivors on tamoxifen!) I tried Effexor and Paxil for hot flashes - worked not bad - but don't want to be on any meds I don't absolutely need. I have developed a low bone density (osteopenic) and am on Actonel 35 mg once per week to prevent further bone loss.

    I spent the 6 months after treatment running to the doctor and fretting over every pain and ache until I decided that it wasn't worth the effort, so now I wait 2 weeks before calling the doctor - funny how those aches and pains go away if you wait 2 weeks. (My support group says that it's part of the process and that many of them say that they did that too, which helped alot because I was beginning to feel foolish.)

    I'm feeling great - I changed my life dramatically by dumping my husband of 24 years who decided that my cancer was too hard on him so he went to another women for support and comfort. (And to take care of his other "needs".......).

    I started anew pretty much from scratch and happy that I did. I now do some volunteering for the Canadian Cancer Society (Reach to Recovery) and run in various BC support runs to raise money.

    I'm glad to be here today and glad for these discussion boards - helps both the writer and the reader.

    Hugs to all. Every day's a good day.
  • Carmelle
    Carmelle Member Posts: 388
    edited July 2003
    To Ruth,
    Thanks for that great story!
    I am on Chemo (CEF) right now and was having a bad day but you have inspired me to keep it up.
    Thank-you.
    Michelle

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