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  • Allydp
    Allydp Member Posts: 520
    edited December 2016

    Annie - what wonderful news about your granddaughter!!! You WILL hold that little bub!!! Will this make you an official great grandmother or do your other grandchildren have children? I'm so sorry you're having to deal with the crappy side effects of steroids. I hate them too. Hopefully you're able to get some liquids down soon though. I'm not sure if you have Ensure drinks down there, but if your appetite isn't the greatest, those can be a great supplement once you can tolerate them. I'm glad you're home resting...even if you're having duvet wars with your old fellar. :) We're all here for you when you get your results. And we'll all be here for you when you put your treatment plan into motion and kick cancer back to the curb. Sending all my love. xo

    Happy Birthday to you both, Val and Cathy!

  • ALHusband
    ALHusband Member Posts: 344
    edited December 2016

    Cocker it was nice to see your big BUT! LOL!

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited December 2016

    OMG how could I forget to say Happy Birthday to Val and Cathy. So sorry ladies but I hope you both had an awesome day.

    Thanks Mike that made me giggle. But aren't you about to become a granddad.

    Ally thank you so much. First call this morning was from the oncologist who wants to see me urgently on Monday afternoon. It's small cell lung cancer and the thought of going through chemo again fills me with dread. So tomorrow it's the respiratory specialist, Monday morning I have to see my GP, then a visit to the support office to get assistance with travel funds and then onco in the afternoon. Quite a full itinerary that I have zilch energy for. I will be a great Nana to my granddaughters babe, its the only thing keeping me going plus one other little babe (((???))) I am waiting for.

  • Cathytoo
    Cathytoo Member Posts: 667
    edited December 2016

    Annie...how like you to feel sorry because you forgot our birthdays‼️ You are truly such an amazing woman. Well, at least you have a diagnosis and a plan to be formulated. I hate to ask you questions, but is it unrelated to the TNBC?

    They say we are given only what we can handle...but I wonder about that. I wish you didn't have to deal with upcoming chemo and all that comes along with this disgusting disease.

    I'm sure others here will have wise and supportive words for you...I am just sorry and without words. However, you do have my love, caring and constant prayer.

    You just need to stay strong for those little ones ‼️I have no doubt that you will be an extraordinary Nana. ❤️

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited December 2016

    Cathy you can ask me any questions that you want. I don't know if its related to TNBC but I will ask tomorrow and let you know. I've got a feeling it's not but I could be wrong. Yes I wonder too about the saying we only get what we can handle because I am barely handling this, not even going day by day but minute by minute at the moment. Your words are always wise and supportive and your caring and constant prayer are a great blessing to me. I thank you and each of the ladies on here for all of the love and hugs which I so badly need at the moment. xxxxx

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited December 2016
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited December 2016

    Hi Cathytoo,

    I am just wondering what happened to your breast/shoulder pains? Did you try turmeric?

    My hubby's chronic back pain was relieved and my arthritic knees got better with it.

    We tried it for two weeks, we took about 1/2 inch peeled & grated raw turmeric, 1/4 tsp freshly crushed peppercorns and a tsp of raw wild honey or stevia to lessen the bitter taste. The turmeric must be raw, to get most of the curcumin from it.

    We also use turmeric, ginger, garlic and coconut milk in most of our veggie stew and soups now.

    I have already tried the Turmeric Smoothie recipes i gave you, and they tasted fantastic!

    Maybe you can also buy the Curcumin capsules with the highest stable curcumin percentage content available.

    I consulted both my Breast Surgeon and MO if it is ok to use turmeric, they both approved it, just use it in moderation.

    Curcumin Benefits

    Just my suggestion, I hope this helps.

    Gina


  • anotherNYCGirl
    anotherNYCGirl Member Posts: 1,033
    edited December 2016

    Dear Annie,

    The new baby is surely an exciting distraction to think about! I am not a grandma, - but I hope to one day join that club!!

    You are so much like family to all of us, - how we wish we could make you all better!!

    Do what ever makes you comfortable, and be GOOD to yourself. You are wise and compassionate and so well spoken, - you never cease to amaze us.

    Hugs to you, - and your 'ole feller', too!


  • aterry
    aterry Member Posts: 290
    edited December 2016

    This is to share a link with you all that is a thumbnail description of the research that my MO is conducting and that I'm participating in. I hope that's OK. It is somewhat hopeful that more research seems to be happening in the TN area.

    https://www.bcrfcure.org/researchers/hanna-irie

  • ALHusband
    ALHusband Member Posts: 344
    edited December 2016

    Cocker yes I am going to be a granddad (April 1 is the due date. Yes, April fool's day) and I found out yesterday it's going to be a boy!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited December 2016
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited December 2016
  • Luvmydobies
    Luvmydobies Member Posts: 766
    edited December 2016

    Cocker I have been busy at the Doberman rescue so haven't had time to be on the board until tonight. I am so glad you posted and love hearing your stories about your old feller! It's just good to hear from you, period! You're on my mind every day and are first on my prayer list! I agree with Another that you are so well spoken, compassionate and you truly amaze us constantly! We're always here for you, as you know! Love you sooo much!!! I know you'll update when you can after your appointments so until then, try to just hang in there!! Well...ALWAYS try and hang in there, but you know what I mean... XOXOXO!!

    Hugs and prayers for all you awesome ladies and men!! XOXOXO!!



  • Shopgal2
    Shopgal2 Member Posts: 649
    edited December 2016

    cocker so good to hear from you. I am hoping when you meet with the mo on Monday that he will have a good treatment plan. I smiled reading about your duvet wars with your old feller. And huzzahs to you and al husband on new grand babies. That truely is a blessing.

    Happy weekend to all. Its really getting cold here in philly and just in time for the holidays. This past Sunday I saw the Macy's holiday light show in center city phila with my sisters. I hadn't seen it since I was a little girl and visited the city with my mom. I thought about her while watching the show and can't believe she's been gone 3 months. After the show we went to the Christmas village shops that were set up outside of our city hall. There were little tent booths set up with local crafts and foods for the holiday. Plus there was an ice skating rink there too. I was feeling adventurous to try ice skating for the first time but my sisters were not. I kept thinking the whole afternoon that this time last year I was getting my last chemo and had neuropathy so bad I could barely walk. What a difference a year makes.

  • amw5
    amw5 Member Posts: 189
    edited December 2016

    I haven't started Taxol yet. I'm wondering for those that have already done Taxol or are doing Taxol now, what were / are you side effects? What have you been doing / taking for your side effects? Let's discuss.

  • Valstim52
    Valstim52 Member Posts: 1,324
    edited December 2016

    HI amw5 I finished taxol back in april. I found it much more tolerable than AC. I took claritan (not the D) for bone pain. I started on the day of chemo. It was recommended by my MO and NP. It really worked. The bone pain was intense for me for about 4 days. with the claritan it was so much better.

    Hydration, and some iced to avoid neuropathy. Don't want to be negative, but I iced fingers and toes (with frozen veggies in a sock , the nurses helped with it) and i still have a pretty bad case of neuropathy in my hands. So I guess if i had not iced, i would have it worse. Overall I found it much easier than AC and when it was over I felt better quickly.

    My hair started growing back on taxol. There is a taxol thread, but I think it has slowed down.

    Just my 2 cents.

  • anotherNYCGirl
    anotherNYCGirl Member Posts: 1,033
    edited December 2016

    Hi to all here!

    amw5, - I also found taxol easier than AC. I didnt have bone pain, and was ok with side effects. I was advised to eat foods rich in magnesium to help prevent neuropathy. I hope you, too, find taxol to be better than AC! Good luck!

  • VLH
    VLH Member Posts: 1,258
    edited December 2016

    I'm glad you asked about Taxol, Amw5. I knew to take Claritin related to the Neulasta I've taken with AC, but didn't know it could also help with Taxol bone pain. Good info, Valstim52. It's disappointing that the icing didn't prevent neuropathy, but I'm hoping it might help with nail damage.

    Lyn

  • LoveMyVizsla
    LoveMyVizsla Member Posts: 813
    edited December 2016

    I did the weekly taxol. I found it harder than AC, but maybe because my AC was every three weeks, instead of every two like most people. I ended up being allergic to taxol too, so I am not the norm. I had 3-4 neupogen shots a week on taxol, slight neuropathy, nails partially lifted, constipation (the opposite after I became allergic). I'd have to look at my list to see what else. Yes, I kept a list, in case I ever go through this again.

    Thinking of you, Cocker

  • VLH
    VLH Member Posts: 1,258
    edited December 2016

    Thank you, LoveMyVizsla. I think you may have shared it here's our on the weekly Taxol thread, but can you remind me how your allergy presented itself? Did you terminate your treatment early? Your posts are of particular interest to me since our diagnoses and treatment plans are so similar, but you're farther along, timewise.

    Lyn



  • LoveMyVizsla
    LoveMyVizsla Member Posts: 813
    edited December 2016

    I didn't have an infusion reaction. After about 5 weeks, I broke out in hives. I don't tolerate Benadryl very well, so my dermatologist put me on four days of prednisone. That knocked it down, but my lupus rash flared up immediately after that. Every week that I had taxol, the rash would get angry for 2-3 days, then calm down a bit until the next week. They even switched me to Abraxane for the last three doses in case I was allergic to the castor oil the paclitaxel is iced in, didn't matter. I completed the full twelve doses and was never so happy as when I was finished.

    The list of side effects from taxol is twice as long as from AC. I had constioation until the hives hit me, then diarrhea after each dose, super dry skin and mucous membranes, bloody nose, slight neuropathy, nail lifting, folliculitis, dry cough, nightly fevers, rash on my fingers. Near the end I had fatigue, weakened and stiff muscles, especially legs and feet. The fatigue cleared about 2-3 weeks after completion.

    Wishing you the best, Lyn, and minimal side effects.

  • VLH
    VLH Member Posts: 1,258
    edited December 2016

    Thanks for the reply. LoveMyVizslas. Ohmigosh, you got almost every possible Taxol side effect, didn't you? I'm so sorry that you endured so much.

    I've had problems already with a nasty infection when my seroma was drained by the surgeon and AC has kicked my butt. I want to move forward, but while my foot is healing nicely from mild hand / foot syndrome from AC #4, I've developed an infection in my eyelid that will probably delay my first Taxol. My first lumpectomy was way back in July so the treatment process seems to be dragging on forever with months of treatment still ahead. Recognizing things will never be quite the same, I'd like to return to something of a normal life.

    Lyn


  • NormalNorma
    NormalNorma Member Posts: 5
    edited December 2016

    amw5, I had 12 weekly taxol treatments with carboplatin added every 3rd week. Then I had AC after taxol.

    I think it is important to stay ahead of the nausea and take anti-nausea meds before you start feeling sick. I also made sure to take stool softeners regularly to keep constipation somewhat under control. For the neuropathy, I took a B-complex vitamin and also used Glutamine (15 grams mixed with apple juice twice a day). My taste was really affected and sweet things tasted horrible. I ate a lot of roast beef from arbys. Drink LOTS of water!! And, of course all of my hair fell out about 3 weeks after starting taxol, but I am happy to say it is growing back now (started growing back about 8 - 10 weeks after last chemo).

    Also, since chemo affects your nails, I kept my nails trimmed short and kept them painted with the darkest nail polish I could find. My nose got dry too sometimes, so I used the Ayr nasal saline gel to keep it moist.

    There is a thread for the weekly taxol folks on here, you should check that out for lots of good info!

    Good luck with your chemo!

  • PeggySull
    PeggySull Member Posts: 686
    edited December 2016

    Cocker, I'm not a regular on this board like I was before, but I am amazed at the number of women and AL husband who love you. I get a wonderful image of you from their comments. I am so sad that you are going through all this and pray that your meeting with the oncologist gives you a plan that helps you feel positive about what's next (so glad that what's next is a great grandchild!). Hugs, Pegg

  • LoveMyVizsla
    LoveMyVizsla Member Posts: 813
    edited December 2016

    Lyn, some of the side effects went away quickly, like the cough and dry nose. Others take a little longer. It all seems like a surreal dream now.

  • Valstim52
    Valstim52 Member Posts: 1,324
    edited December 2016

    Lyn just wanted to add had no nail damage. If I remembered I painted my nails dark. They are strong now as they were before. I do take 5000mg of biotin a day. Have been since chemo ended. I don't regret icing because I feel if I had not done so, my neuropathy wold be worse. Just my case.

  • Allydp
    Allydp Member Posts: 520
    edited December 2016

    Annie - I know getting the official diagnosis is hard, but like I said, stay strong and fight for that little great grandbaby on the way! xoxoxo

    And speaking of babies...I am over the moon to share that after 6 years of trying to conceive with failed IVF's, losses, and a breast cancer battle in between...I am finally going to be a mom and watch my husband be the amazing father I know he'll be!!! We're beyond grateful to our friend for carrying our baby and helping our dreams of having a family come true!!!

    Our little miracle is due May 26, 2017!!!

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  • jenjenl
    jenjenl Member Posts: 948
    edited December 2016

    Ally, OMG congrats. I am thrilled for you. Million virtual hugs!!!!!

  • jenjenl
    jenjenl Member Posts: 948
    edited December 2016

    cocker, let us know what's up. Sounds like this is not BC but lung cancer. We are all going through this with you. Im not a mushy chick but you are our matriarch. Yay to babies!! xo

  • jcpriest0469n
    jcpriest0469n Member Posts: 86
    edited December 2016

    Hi to all Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays. A quick note to Normalnorma,I had the opposite problem with eating. Any meat made me sick. I ate A lot of cracker.

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