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cindyanne
cindyanne Member Posts: 44

I just had to call my children and let them know......tears are flowing. So a little history....Thirteen almost fourteen years after my first breast cancer, I have been diagnosed with a recurrence .....this time HER+ I am very scared this time and my anxiety is through the roof. I live in Destin FL and have spent the last eleven days trying to see a surgeon trying to get all of my lab results and trying to hold it together. I have battled each and every day, as the surgeons and doctors down here are on island time all the time. This lead me to research further and I have decided to go to the Moffitt Cancer center in Tampa...anyone been there?

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  • Meow13
    Meow13 Member Posts: 4,859
    edited November 2016

    Her+ what about herceptin? Don't despair there are drugs to knock it out.

  • cindyanne
    cindyanne Member Posts: 44
    edited November 2016

    I am sorry, HER2+ I have been reading here and it helps to read about all of the success! I know that once I finally get a Doctor's appointment and a treatment plan I will feel better. The waiting is torture and my first appointment is not until next week. The Histology analysis was a score of 3+ and 80 per cent. I do not know a lot about HER2+ but I think that is pretty aggressive. Our decision to travel 6.5 hours to Moffitt was partially based on this.

  • ElaineTherese
    ElaineTherese Member Posts: 3,328
    edited November 2016

    Hi!

    My cancer was HER2+ as well, and it's very treatable these days. Thanks to Herceptin and Perjeta (targeted therapies just for HER2+), HER2+ cancer now has similar survival rates/recurrence rates as other forms of breast cancer. It think that the most challenging part of being HER2+ is the length of the treatment. For example, not only did I spend five months getting chemo, but I then did Herceptin (every three weeks) for a year. It's definitely a marathon, not a sprint, but it's doable if you just take it one appointment at a time. ((Hugs)) and best wishes to you!

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 19,757
    edited November 2016
    If the pathology changed then isn't it a new primary??? HER2+ is good news these days compared to say, triple negative.
  • SpecialK
    SpecialK Member Posts: 16,486
    edited November 2016

    cindyanne - I agree with barbe1958 that you may be dealing with a new primary, not a recurrence. Also, I am wondering if you would be willing to make the drive from Destin to Tampa every three weeks for a full year for the necessary Her2+ treatment, it is a long haul. Have you considered going to Mayo in Jacksonville? It is a couple of hours closer than Tampa. And although I am not familiar with the details of your new diagnosis beyond your Her2 status, you might also consider Florida Cancer Specialists in Tallahassee, at least for the medical oncology part of your treatment.

  • cindyanne
    cindyanne Member Posts: 44
    edited November 2016

    Yes I know it is a long haul but I am willing to make it. I say that now but of course we will see once reality has set in.

  • Janetanned
    Janetanned Member Posts: 532
    edited November 2016

    Cindyanne - I'm so sorry! I can't imagine facing cancer again. I don't know much about The Moffitt Center. However, my surgeon moved from U of Penn to the Moffett Center last year. He is wonderful surgeon and well respected. His name is Dr. Brian Czerniecki. I don't know if he is focusing more on research now, but if he is still practicing surgery I highly recommend him. While he takes a little getting used to, I found him to be very compassionate and knowledgeable. Good luck!

  • cindyanne
    cindyanne Member Posts: 44
    edited November 2016

    Janetanned,

    Thank you for the information. We moved to Destin from Pittsburgh, so the slow reaction to everything is frustrating for us. In Pittsburgh my doctors were great and coordinated everything.....quickly. I think Moffitt will be a good choice.

  • Ramonica60
    Ramonica60 Member Posts: 23
    edited March 2017

    Dr. Czerniecki did my bilateral prophylactic mastectomy at UPenn. He is rather blunt, but I really don't care about bedside manner as long as the doctor is skilled. I think my outcome was fair to poor. He did a procedure prior to the mastectomy to increase the survival of the nipple (I did nipple sparing). He never biopsied the nipple (they did for my sister who had the same surgery at Sloan Kettering). He said it wasn't necessary. Even though he did a nipple delay procedure to increase the chances of the nipple surviving, I still had some necrosis and lost some pigment in one nipple. I wish now that I had stuck with Sloan Kettering. I was scheduled there, but backed out and decided to go with the docs at UPenn. Big mistake. I think my DIEP flap reconstruction was poorly done and the PS lied to me.

    I would rate the quality of my surgery as sloppy.

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