I look for other flat chested women. A rant.

'Going Flat' After Breast Cancer

Before Debbie Bowers had surgery for breast cancer, her doctor promised that insurance would pay for reconstruction, and said she could "even go up a cup size." But Ms. Bowers did not want a silicone implant or bigger breasts.

"Having something foreign in my body after a cancer diagnosis is the last thing I wanted," said Ms. Bowers, 45, of Bethlehem, Pa. "I just wanted to heal."

While plastic surgeons and oncologists aggressively promote breast reconstruction as a way for women to "feel whole again," some doctors say they are beginning to see resistance to the surgery. Patients like Ms. Bowers are choosing to defy medical advice and social convention and remain breastless after breast cancer. They even have a name for the decision to skip reconstruction: They call it "going flat."

"Reconstruction is not a simple process," said Dr. Deanna J. Attai, a breast surgeon in Burbank, Calif., and a past president of the American Society of Breast Surgeons, adding that more of her patients, especially those with smaller breasts before diagnosis, were opting out of reconstruction. "Some women just feel like it's too much: It's too involved, there are too many steps, it's too long a process."

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Sure!

Count me in.

What is the best way to organize? A Facebook group?

Never been to Seattle, but would love to go!

do you have a plan for Seattle...I'll be up there late February

I had a double mastectomy in August 2014 after multiple excisions and a lumpectomy. It was getting very stressful, particularly since my own mother had died of breast cancer mets. I had extenders inserted at the time of the mastectomies, but my body rejected them...fever, infection, pain, etc. They were removed after a month and another hospitalization. The skin was revised a year later, followed by another infection, and more stress, so I have made the choice to accept my flat chest.

It's now been over two years. My husband of 39 years was always supportive of the surgery and continues to be my biggest cheerleader. His attitude has been that my health is way more important to him than my breasts. We still joke like I have breasts, but he tries to make the situation as stress free as possible in every way.

There are some days and moments when I would like to be shaped like a "normal" woman, but it doesn't bring me down like it used to. Just hoping this helps others who may be in a funk over a flat chest.

Finally back at the pool since my BMX on 11/15, so first time in a swimsuit. I bought new racing suits in the next size down, figuring without my somewhat ample chest (36C), I would need a smaller size. They fit fine. A bit of my scar shows under the arms, but that's okay. I still think I look like a badass.

Kath, I'm going to steal flatitude!

I love this thread and the flattitude 😎 I have been completely flat post nursing three kids and a full D when I had implants then flat again when I decided implants weren't for me.

That was all pre-cancer diagnosis. I opted for DIEP reconstruction (small breast size). I am torn somedays and wish I had the courage to just be flat. The doctors don't seem to understand not all women want to be large breasted.

I support your choice and love your authenticity

I had my left side mastectomy last month. No plan to do reconstruction at all. I am now one month out, I start doing jogging, feels perfect normal like before.

I should mention that I have a small size breast, so, I don't see the value of doing reconstruction for me.

I am looking to go flat and fabulous this year.

I had a right breast mastectomy in 2014. I talked with 2 PS's about reconstruction but they couldn't pull from the normal areas of skin because I had colo-rectal cancer in 1999, where I had surgery, chemotherapy, and radiation on my butt, inner thighs, and surgery on my stomach. Plus I'm not comfortable with the surgeon pulling from the muscles in my back. I'm 59 this year and need all the muscle strength I can get.

Recently after 3 years of wearing prosthetics and my other boob hanging lower, with getting rashes and sweaty., especially in the hot, summer heat., last summer I became too hermitized in the house with the air conditioning.

New Years goal: go back to PS. I was scheduled for a breast reduction on the left boob from a D to a B size. Then I thought this week, what if I want to go flatter in the future. The PS said if I have an inkling of going flat., do not do the breast reduction.

I'm meeting with my oncology surgeon this Friday to discuss another mastectomy on the left breast. The breast co-ordinator said that I really have to convince her because cancer drs are trained to cut out the body part that has cancer in it. My left breast is okay per my last mammogram.

Wish me luck. I'm glad I found this forum. Take care to all going through this BC journey.

Almost 1 week out from the bilateral implant removal. Hate the drains but they are temporary. Still have considerable swelling and not quite flat, but I realize the healing process takes time and the tissue settling down will too.

At this point I'm thankful the back pain, shoulder pain and iron bra are gone. Ahhh

Wren, I keep thinking about getting the other one off too. Good to know they will cover symmetry, even flat symmetry.