lumpectomy vs mastectomy? NEED HELP!

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sourlemon27
sourlemon27 Member Posts: 19

so I started Chemo before surgery because from the time I was DX to the time of my MRI (about a month) the tumor had grown and the surgeon decided chemo was the best option to start with, I have been trying to do some research about younger women with a DX similar to mine (stage 2 grade 3 Triple negative I've been told it could be a fairly aggressive cancer in the way it spreads/grows), Anyway my surgeon suggested I have a lumpectomy instead of a Mastectomy, and my oncologist wont make a suggestion until after 4 rounds of chemo. After doing some research I am wondering if a bilateral MX is the best option. I don't have a history of cancers in my family yet I have had cancer before (stage 3 non-Hodgkin's lymphoma) and genetics testing came back negative,

I am looking for opinions? what surgery did you have and why? did you have a reoccurrence? can I request a MX? any suggestions are helpful! thanks!

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  • TechTeacher
    TechTeacher Member Posts: 11
    edited October 2016

    I have one fairly large are of DCIS (6cm) and one other area that might be (4cm), but couldn't get biopsied. In the end I opted for a R mastectomy (coming up on Nov. 15). The doctor gave me the option of taking both areas as lumpectomies, and seeing what the pathology was on the second area. But if the margins weren't clean, then I would have been back in for a mastectomy anyway. And removing the two areas would have meant taking a significant amount of tissue. So I had reconstruction in my future regardless.

    It was a hard decision. I realized that looking back a year from now I would rather feel like maybe we were too aggressive than realize we didn't do enough. With this choice I avoid radiation and reduce my risk of recurrence. I feel confident in my decision, but it was really hard getting there.

  • Lisey
    Lisey Member Posts: 1,053
    edited October 2016

    I am very happy I had a BMX with no reconstruction. I'm rocking my new look and have no other surgeries to worry about now. My boobs were huge on my frame and trying to kill me, so I considered them ticking time bombs and why would I want to play russian roullette with them when I was always worried about them. I'm young, so getting rid of them allowed me to bypass mammograms from now on (radiation) and if I get a recurrance on my chest, I'll notice it more easily... chest recurrance is reduced with BMX as well over L+R.

    Keep in mind it also depends on your age... Studies are now showing that younger women benefit more from MX than L+R longterm.

    A study suggests that younger women diagnosed with early-stage disease get more benefits from mastectomy than lumpectomy plus radiation, while older women get about the same benefits from either type of surgery.

    The research was presented on April 30, 2016 at the European Society for Radiotherapy & Oncology Annual Meeting. Read the abstract of "Long-term age dependent failure pattern after BCT vs. mastectomy in low-risk breast cancer patients."


  • LifeAloft
    LifeAloft Member Posts: 150
    edited October 2016

    I have a similar dx as you (I'm 46) and I chose a lumpectomy with rads. When I first diagnosed my first thought was mastectomy but after meeting with a couple surgeons I changed my mind. Supposedly the risk, etc is the same as with a mastectomy. That swayed me, I also didn't want to deal with reconstruction, recovery, etc.

    Chemo got rid of all but 2mm of my tumor, I also had a positive node which was 3cm at dx, that was totally clear at surgery.

    My surgeon had said that she would do a MX if I really wanted one, so I believe that you can request it.

    I just finished treatment a couple weeks ago so I can't help you with any long term data.

    It's a personal decision, do what's right for you. I wish you the best!!

  • Paxton29
    Paxton29 Member Posts: 221
    edited October 2016

    Hi sourlemon,

    Though my diagnosis was different from yours, I wanted to mention that BMX does not necessarily mean you can skip radiation. I did radiation as well as BMX because I had cancer in both breasts and the left margin was clear by a very tiny margin and the right side was not clear. Part of the problem was that I am thin and did not have large breasts (B-ish). My surgeon wanted me to consider a lumpectomy on the right since the biopsy report indicated that side was DCIS only, but surprise! The surgical path report found it was IDC, so he said it was a good thing we went ahead with the BMX as it saved a surgery.

    So, i just wanted you to be aware things can change during surgery, and if you do not have much breast tissue to work with that could be another factor. You did not mention exactly how young you are. I was nearly 46 at my diagnosis, which was a factor for me and my team as well. My cancer was not particularly aggressive (ER/PR+, HER -), but having it in both suggested they were plotting to kill me!

    Good luck to you and whatever decision you make, be sure you're totally comfortable with it (as much as any of us can be). Hopefully people with stats similar to yours will continue to weigh in.

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited October 2016

    Quite a while back, I put together a long list of questions to hopefully assist anyone making this decision. We are all different in how we see these choices, so rather than base your decision on what someone else did, this list is meant to take you through the pros and cons of each option, so that you can figure out what's important to you personally, leading to a decision that is right for you. Some women have gone through the list and decided to have a lumpectomy, others have chosen a single mastectomy and others have opted for a bilateral mastectomy. So the purpose is simply to help women figure out what's right for them - both in the short term but more importantly, over the long term.

    Please note that this list is written for women who have invasive cancer (Stage I or above). Some of the decision factors are different for women who have pure DCIS (Stage 0). A different version of this list, written specifically for women with DCIS, is available in my post on the first page of this discussion thread in the DCIS Forum: 'Topic: lumpectomy vs mastectomy - why did you choose your route?'.

    Here is a copy of my earlier post, with a few updates and some new / more recent research upfront.

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    Before getting to the list of things to consider when making a Lumpectomy vs. Mastectomy vs. Bilateral Mastectomy decision, here is some research that compares long-term recurrence and survival results. I'm including this because sometimes women choose to have a MX because they believe that it's a more aggressive approach. If that's a big part of someone's rationale for having an MX or BMX, it's important to look at the research to see if it's really true. What the research has generally shown is that long-term survival is the same regardless of the type of surgery one has. The reason that the choice of surgery doesn't affect survival is largely because it's not the breast cancer in the breast that affects survival, but it's the breast cancer that's left the breast that is the concern. The risk is that some BC might have moved beyond the breast prior to surgery. So the type of surgery one has, whether it's a lumpectomy or a MX or a BMX, doesn't generally affect survival rates. There have been a few more recent studies that have however shown different results. A couple of studies have shown that survival might actually be higher for those who have a lumpectomy, possibly because these women usually also have radiation, whereas women who have a MX don't usually get rads. But another recent study suggested that younger women may benefit, in terms of long term survival, from a MX.

    Here are a number of the studies that compare the different surgical approaches: (Note that a number of these articles are from Medscape, and you will have to register with them to be able to view the articles.)

    April 2016 Is breast conserving therapy or mastectomy better for early breast cancer? and

    August 2016 (this is another write-up of the same study as above) Young Patients With Early Breast Cancer Live Longer With Mastectomy

    December 2015 Ten-Year Data: Lumpectomy and Radiotherapy Trump Mastectomy

    December 2014 No Survival Benefit for Increasingly Used Bilateral Mastectomy

    January 2013 Lumpectomy May Have Better Survival Than Mastectomy

    October 2002 Twenty-Year Follow-up of a Randomized Trial Comparing Total Mastectomy, Lumpectomy, and Lumpectomy plus Irradiation for the Treatment of Invasive Breast Cancer

    October 2002 Twenty-Year Follow-up of a Randomized Study Comparing Breast-Conserving Surgery with Radical Mastectomy for Early Breast Cancer

    Now, on to my list of the considerations:

    • Do you want to avoid radiation? If your cancer isn't near the chest wall and if your nodes are clear, then it may be possible to avoid radiation if you have a mastectomy. This is a big selling point for many women who choose to have mastectomies. However you should be aware that there is no guarantee that radiation may not be necessary even if you have a mastectomy, if some cancer cells are found near the chest wall, or if the area of invasive cancer is very large and/or if it turns out that you are node positive (particularly several nodes).

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    • Do you want to avoid hormone therapy (Tamoxifen or an AI) or Herceptin or chemo? It is very important to understand that your choice of surgery – lumpectomy, mastectomy or bilateral mastectomy – will not change the recommendation as to whether or not you should have chemo, Herceptin (if HER2+) or endocrine (hormone) therapy (if ER+). So you can't avoid any of these treatments - if your MO believes they are necessary - by opting to have a MX or BMX. (Note that the exception is women with DCIS or possibly very early Stage I invasive cancer, who may be able to avoid Tamoxifen by having a mastectomy or a BMX.)

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    • Does the length of the surgery and the length of the recovery period matter to you? For most women, a lumpectomy is a relatively easy surgery and recovery. After a lumpectomy, radiation usually is given for 6 weeks. A mastectomy is a longer, more complex surgery and the recovery period is longer.

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    • How will you deal with the side effects from Rads? For most patients the side effects of rads are not as difficult as they expected, but most women do experience some side effects. You should be prepared for some temporary discomfort, fatigue and skin irritation, particularly towards the end of your rads cycle. Most side effects go away a few weeks after treatment ends but if you have other health problems, particularly heart or lung problems, you may be at risk for more serious side effects. This can be an important consideration and should be discussed with your doctor.

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    • Do you plan to have reconstruction if you have a MX or BMX? If so, be aware that reconstruction, even "immediate" reconstruction, is usually a long process - many months - and most often requires more than one surgery. Some women have little discomfort during the reconstruction process but other women find the process to be very difficult - there is no way to know until you are going through it.

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    • If you have a MX or BMX, how will you deal with possible complications with reconstruction? Some lucky women breeze through reconstruction but unfortunately, many have complications. These may be short-term and/or fixable or they may be long-term and difficult to fix. Common problems include ripples and indentations and unevenness. You may have lingering side effects (muscle pain, spasms, itching, etc.) on one side or both (if you have a BMX). If you don't end up with symmetry (symmetry is not a sure thing by any means, even if you have a bilateral mastectomy with reconstruction done on both sides at the same time), will you regret the decision to remove your breasts or your healthy breast? Are you prepared for the possibility of revision surgery?

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    • How you do feel about your body image and how will this be affected by a mastectomy or BMX? A reconstructed breast is not the same as a real breast. Some women love their reconstructed breasts while some women hate them. Most probably fall in-between. Reconstructed breasts usually looks fine in clothing but may not appear natural when naked. They may not feel natural or move naturally, particularly if you have implant reconstruction. If you do choose to have a MX or BMX, one option that will help you get a more natural appearance is a nipple sparing mastectomy (NSM). Not all breast surgeons are trained to do NSMs so your surgeon might not present this option to you. Ask your surgeon about it if you are interested and if he/she doesn't do nipple sparing mastectomies, it may be worth the effort to find a surgeon who does do NSMs in order to see if this option is available for you (your area of cancer can't be right up near the nipple).

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    • If you have a MX or BMX, how do you feel about losing the natural feeling in your breast(s) and your nipple(s)? Are your breasts and nipples important to you sexually? A MX or BMX will change your body for the rest of your life and you have to be prepared for that. Keep in mind as well that even if you have a nipple sparing mastectomy, except in rare cases, the most feeling that can be retained in your nipples is about 20% - the nerves that affect 80% of nipple sensation are by necessity cut during the surgery and cannot be reconnected. Any breast/nipple feeling you regain will be surface feeling only (or phantom sensations, which are actually quite common and feel very real); there will be no feeling inside your breast, instead your breast will feel numb. For some, loss of breast/nipple sensation is a small price to pay; for others, it has a huge impact on their lives.

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    • If you have a MX or BMX, how will you deal emotionally with the loss of your breast(s)? Some women are glad that their breast(s) is gone because it was the source of the cancer, but others become angry that cancer forced them to lose their breast(s). How do you think you will feel? Don't just consider how you feel now, as you are facing the breast cancer diagnosis, but try to think about how you will feel in a year and in a few years, once this diagnosis, and the fear, is well behind you.

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    • If you have a lumpectomy, how will you deal emotionally with your 6 month or annual mammos and/or MRIs? For the first year or two after diagnosis, most women get very stressed when they have to go for their screenings. The good news is that usually this fear fades over time. However some women choose to have a BMX in order to avoid the anxiety of these checks.

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    • Will removal of your breast(s) help you move on from having had cancer or will it hamper your ability to move on? Will you feel that the cancer is gone because your breast(s) is gone? Or will the loss of your breast(s) be a constant reminder that you had breast cancer?

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    • Appearance issues aside, before making this decision you should find out what your doctors estimate your recurrence risk will be if you have a lumpectomy and radiation vs. what it will be if you have a MX. Is the risk level you will face after a lumpectomy + rads one that you can live with or one that scares you? Will you live in constant fear or will you be comfortable that you've reduced your risk sufficiently and not worry except when you have your 6 month or annual screenings? If you'll always worry, then having a mastectomy might be a better option; many women get peace of mind by having a mastectomy. But keep in mind that a MX or BMX does not mean that you no longer need to remain vigilant; you must continue to be checked for breast cancer. Although for most women the recurrence risk after a MX is low, anyone can still be diagnosed with a recurrence or a new primary breast cancer even after a MX or BMX. This is because it is impossible for the surgeon to remove every cell of breast tissue; some breast tissue always remains even after a MX or BMX, around the edges of the breast, or just a few cells against the chest well or the skin. Be aware too that while a mastectomy may significantly reduce your local (in the breast area) recurrence risk, it has no impact on your risk of distant recurrence (i.e. mets).

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    • Do you know your risk to get BC again, in either breast (if you have a lumpectomy) or your non-cancer breast (if you have a MX)? Is this a risk level that scares you? Or is this a risk level that you can live with? Keep in mind that breast cancer very rarely recurs in the contralateral breast so your current diagnosis doesn't impact your other breast. However, anyone who's been diagnosed with BC one time is at higher risk to be diagnosed again with a new primary breast cancer (i.e. a cancer unrelated to the original diagnosis) and this may be compounded if you have other risk factors. Find out your risk level from your oncologist. When you talk to your oncologist, determine if genetic testing might be appropriate for you based on your family history of cancer and/or your age and/or your ethnicity (those of Ashkenazi Jewish descent are at higher risk for BRCA mutations). Those who are found to have a genetic mutation may be at very high risk to get BC again and for many women, a positive genetic test result is a compelling reason to have a bilateral mastectomy. On the other hand, for many women a negative genetic test result helps with the decision to have a lumpectomy or single mastectomy rather than a bilateral. Talk to your oncologist and determine if you should see a genetic counselor. Don't assume that you know what your risk is; you may be surprised to find that it's much higher than you think or much lower than you think (my risk was much less than I would ever have thought).

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    • How will you feel if you have a lumpectomy or UMX and at some point in the future (maybe in 2 years or maybe in 30 years) you get BC again, either a recurrence in the same breast or a new BC in either breast? Will you regret your decision and wish that you'd had a bilateral mastectomy? Or will you be grateful for the extra time that you had with your breasts, knowing that you made the best decision at the time with the information that you had?

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    • How will you feel if you have a bilateral mastectomy and no cancer or high risk conditions are found in the other breast? Will you question (either immediately or years in the future) why you made the decision to have the bilateral? Or will you be satisfied that you made the best decision with the information you had? Consider as well how you might feel if your reconstruction is difficult and the results not to your expectations.

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    I hope that this helps. And remember.... this is your decision. How someone else feels about it and the experience that someone else had might be very different than how you will feel about it and the experience that you will have. So try to figure out what's best for you, or at least, the option that you think you can live with most easily, given all the risks and unknowns associated with each of the options. Good luck with your decision!

    Edited to add: This list, and the research findings at the front of the list, has been cut and pasted into many threads over the years, whenever someone has asked the question about choosing between a LX, MX and BMX. I am not on the board much these days, so if you find the list to be valuable and you see a post where someone is struggling with this decision, please feel free to copy and paste.

  • sourlemon27
    sourlemon27 Member Posts: 19
    edited October 2016

    thank you all for your responses, it's terrible but I am glad that I can talk to people first hand that are going through similar experiences,

    I am still making my way through the articles( which are pretty insightful) I am definitely looking for what ever would give me the best long term survival, and want to make sure I have done my research, so I can talk to my ONCAL about both options, I am pretty concerned with making the right decision because I am only 25, and I would rather be more aggressive now then have a recurrence down the road.

    I am so grateful for all the support! and I feel like I have a better starting point for research then I did before!

  • Lisey
    Lisey Member Posts: 1,053
    edited October 2016

    Keep in mind that if you do implants, you are looking at decades of surgeries because they will need to be replaced every 10 years or so. That's a lot of decades left for you. : ) If you want to see what flat and fabulous is like, you could join our FB group that is closed. Also, remember that if you do pick a BMX w/ reconstruction.. you will NOT feel the lumps stuck on your chest.. There is no feeling there, so even though it may look good to others, it will be numb to you. The one thing I do miss is my nipples for sex... that entire area is numb now, so kind of ignored.

  • Paxton29
    Paxton29 Member Posts: 221
    edited October 2016

    My goodness, you're only 25? I hate this disease. Beesie's post is terrific and really goes over some of the issues you might not think of. I've been married 25 years and my husband was fine with whatever I decided (he didn't want vanity to be my primary concern but otherwise he stays out of it). But I don't know how my decision making would have been affected had I been in my 20s, especially if I was single. My reconstruction is going ok but again being thin limited my options since I wasn't a candidate for autologous procedus. But do check out the various topics on reconstruction and not reconstructing. My tissue expanders were not filled at surgery so I got a feel for what going flat would be like and I was glad I chose reconstruction. But that is just me and this is a VERY personal choice.

    Once again, Beesie: great post

  • LifeAloft
    LifeAloft Member Posts: 150
    edited October 2016

    Ugh, you are way too young to be dealing with this!! Like others have said, it's a very personal decision, you will figure out what's best for you.

  • sourlemon27
    sourlemon27 Member Posts: 19
    edited October 2016

    i still have a while to decide, i am doing chemo until december, but reading as much as i can now because it is a hard decision and very personal like mentioned, and everyone is different,

    I've never been really that "into" my breasts so no issues there and after reading about reconstruction stories of multiple surgeries and all the pain/recovery time, I wouldn't mind joining the "Flat and Fabulous" group and rock it and my husband is very supportive of what my decision may be.

  • Lisey
    Lisey Member Posts: 1,053
    edited October 2016

    Honestly, flat is amazing. No boob sweat, no bras, and the shirts you can wear are so light and airey. I've been told I look thinner and people say I look like a ballerina rather than top heavy and chunky - like I was with big huge 34DDs.. I just don't think younger women are given the flat option, I certainly wasn't. Here I am

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  • sourlemon27
    sourlemon27 Member Posts: 19
    edited October 2016

    lisey -you look amazing, I think I will need to check out that fabulous group, thank you for the support, this has given me a lot to think about on my options! I think I will bring up my feelings/concerns to my oncologist Thursday,

    sending lots of love

  • ChrisAsh
    ChrisAsh Member Posts: 38
    edited November 2016

    Bessie this is an amazing post - thank you so much for bringing all this information together in one place. I have been swithering for ages about the best surgical option and have actually booked my lumpectomy for mid December but have been wobbling lately. This info has once again confirmed for me that this treatment option is indeed the best one for me so I'm going to have the courage of my convictions

    This site is a fantastic support 😊

    Chris

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