7 years out, and maybe bone mets?
Hi ladies,
I've been doing so well until the last 6 weeks or so. I've been experiencing unrelenting back pain, not helped by Celebrex and Tylenol-4. I went to my orthopedist and got an X-ray, and he seems to think it might be due to degenerative disc disease. I'm not convinced, because I'm only 43 years old. Called my MO, and he's ordering a bone scan. It's not scheduled until October 11. I wish it was tomorrow. I just want to KNOW. How do I get through the next 11+ days without going totally out of my mind with worry? I want to be there for my students (I'm a teacher), but I'm SO distracted. Any advice?
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I'm sorry youre going through this. Try to keep busy and maybe see a movie, take walks, yoga, call a friend for coffee, anything you enjoy. Hoping all is benign. Good luck and keep us posted.
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can you ask your MO to schedule your scan elsewhere do you can get in sooner?
Hoping it comes back clear, but that you get answers
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I've come to a place where I can accept "what is, is" because I know that IF there is something bad on the test result there is a treatment that exists.
I was DX with bone mets in December and have come to learn and appreciate that people who walk down this road have a lot of treatment options and live quite full and long lives. Yes it's very scary, but not as scary as I had first thought at the beginning.
My hope for you is that it's not mets. But if it is, there is hope to be had. Good luck.
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Tx: Waiting has to be the WORST! I'll keep you in prayer.
Incidentally, I have a LOT of back pain to deal w/and it's not all from bone mets. I have degenerative arthritis in my thoracic and lumbar spine and four bulging discs.
Arthritis can show up in women in their 40's, unfortunately. Do you have a family history of it? My great-grandmother was totally crippled by rheumatoid arthritis, and so far I don't have that yet.
Best of luck,
Lita
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Thank you for the responses, ladies. It helps to know that other people understand the fears and doubt. Staying busy won't be too difficult, it's the quiet times when I wake up at night that the fear becomes overwhelming. I'm trying to remain positive, and I have friends here who are being as supportive as they can be. Fingers crossed for good results.
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Tx, remember that some of the treatments we take affect our joints and bones, so even if you would normally be "too young" to get degenerative diseases, the joys of the aftermath of treatment never make us young enough.
Crossing fingers you will get good results.
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