3 Failed Implants
I am beside myself because my surgeon confirmed yesterday afternoon what I suspected: my 3rd implant is "bottoming out." Even though I suspected, I was still shocked and could not think of all the questions I needed to ask before I left. So I called his nurse this A.M. and have an appt. on Monday afternoon. Now I am in the process of writing down questions that I need answered. I would appreciate suggestions from anyone who has had a similar experience. I had a right mastectomy June 2013 followed by chemo and 33 treatments of radiation. I waited until late fall 2014 to begin reconstruction process. 1st implant bottomed out, 2nd (anatomical) was rejected by my body, and now 3rd has failed. Thoughts, anyone? Thanks.
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Have you consider going flat? There are a ton of beautiful women rocking it... (Facebook: Flat and Fabulous) no more surgeries ever again and just a lot more freedom. You could ask your surgeon about removing the whole mess and cleaning you up.
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Yes, last night I began to seriously consider it. My vanity is clouding clear thinking, however, because prior to the cancer, I was endowed so to speak, and I think I have not sufficiently mourned the loss of my breasts. Happy to be alive, of course, but ambivalent about going flat.
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I am so sorry this has happened to you again.
Maybe there are alternative types of reconstruction--a flap maybe? Fat grafting before an implant?
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Did you use the same surgeon for all 3 surgeries? If so, perhaps it's time for a new set of eyes on the situation.
So sorry this has happened.
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Yes, I am researching autologous reconstruction, and yes, I used the same surgeon. I had 2 other opinions b/t the 1st/2nd surgeries but returned to the original dr. for the 3rd because my body was rejecting the 2nd implant, and he was willing to do the surgery pronto. Now I am second guessing my decision, of course. Thanks for the concern; it helps more than you know for someone to reply.
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Yeah I would talk to another surgeon (or two). One that has worked with difficult cases. Also get an idea of all the different options that are available to you.
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Oh, what we put our poor bodies through! I am so sorry you are having such a miserable experience with this. How many surgeries have you had? I had my breast reconstruction (right side mastectomy) done 27 years ago, with silicone implants, at a time when they were not really safe. Three years later, the implant was leaking, so I had saline implants put in on both sides. After all these years, the saline implant on the reconstructed side was leaking and was severely encapsulated. About a month ago, I had surgery to replace it, with a large incision for the replacement and a small incision to remove all the stubborn scar tissue and adhesions. The surgeon had a difficult time removing the old implant. This surgery really hurt! I am not a young cookie and do not heal as fast or as well as I did 27 years ago (but I am happy to be a long-term cancer survivor). Three weeks after the surgery, the doctor removed the stitches. The very next day the incision reopened--and I could see the implant. Apparently, my very thin tissue and loss of muscle could not support the new implant. So, more surgery last week to remove the new implant. Now I am flat again, still have stitches that need to be removed in a few weeks, and need at least 2 months or more to heal before the surgeon will even consider another implant. We are all different in how we see ourselves and what is important in our lives. For me, I hate being flat and concave. The fake breast made me feel whole. I have friends who have no problem with being flat on one or both sides; for them, it is just a flap of skin that covers something that was diseased and needed to be removed. Whatever you decide to do, please seek help and advice from friends and professionals who care about helping you. I will see another plastic surgeon for a 2nd opinion, after these stitches are removed. If I am able to have another implant, I will have the surgery, even in my late 70's. Most important of all is your own happiness. Please put yourself first.
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Have you considered lat flap? It's not a simple procedure, but I was unable to keep even a small implant without this procedure. (I had thin skin from previous radiation. ) If I were you, I'd look for the best surgeon for the procedure you opt for.
Good luck!
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Can't do the lat flap because I have scoliosis and need all the muscles in my back to help support my crooked spine. I will have to seek more than one opinion, apparently. Thanks for your suggestion!
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