Unrealistic expectations for exchange surgery

After reading many of the posts regarding exchange surgery, I was expecting it to be "easy". While it was easier than mx surgery, it was not easy. Having it in my brain that this would be 'easy', made it disappointing when it was not easy. That was my mistake. I knew the MX would be difficult, so I feel I was better mentally prepared for the discomfort that was to come. I wish I had prepared myself better for the exchange surgery.

I've had two lumpectomies and one BMX, all were outpatient. In all 3 surgeries, only Tylenol was needed after day one, and no nausea from the anesthetic. Unfortunately, I was nauseated after the exchange surgery. Flexiril was needed all through the TE fill process. Those were painful. After the MX, I did feel like an elephant was sitting on my chest for weeks, that finally went away before the exchange surgery.

At the exchange surgery, extensive pocket work was done on both sides. I'm assuming that is the reason for the discomfort, at day 3, I'm still taking the pain pills and valium as needed. It's wonderful to not have the rocks sitting on my chest, I'm just surprised that using my arms and chest muscles is almost, but not quite as bad, as the MX surgery....I was not expecting that. It felt like I was back at square one, which terrified me for a few minutes, until I could get a grip on my emotions.

I'm grateful to have had the exchange surgery, but I would like to encourage everyone to keep an open mind on how you're going to feel after the exchange surgery. It is better, but its still surgery. I keep reminding myself to be patient and let it all heal. This process brings on many emotions, expected and surprising at the same time.

Best wishes to all of you.