January 2016 Chemo!
Comments
-
I had my radiation sim today, I admit that I found it quite fascinating, how it all gets done... I'm sure that fascinating won't be a word that I use about radiation in a few weeks.
Val, loved your post!! It actually helped me make up my mind to get involved with a couple trials. They are not drug related, one is looking at damage to the heart from radiation since my bad boob is on the left, it involves having several cardiac tests before, during and after rads. The second is just filling out a questionnaire each week during rads, they are trying to get all of the docs to be on the same page when describing skin issues. I'm happy to do my little part for the advancement of science and the people who will come after me.
-
So I will be 44 this month and will finish proton therapy on the 19th. Chemo and surgeries are done. I am stage 2B, ++- and I'm scared and confused about the hormone treatments. I never had a chance to have a baby and not it looks like I will never be able to. Darn it, my husband and I were so focused on completing our degrees and switching careers that it got put on hold. I feel like it's too late for me now.
I'm wrestling with the idea of skipping the treatments, but have nightmares that the cancer comes back. My oncologist told me to wait at least two years before having a child and then be careful since pregnancy boosts hormone levels. I will be 46 then!
Any advice? I'm a complete mess right now. (Adoption is not in the cards.)
-
Lifealoft, I was in a similiar trial through Duke University. I'm in charlotte so they sent my results daily. Yes, anything I can do to help those either with me or coming after me, I will.
-
Amie, families are made in all sorts of ways. Have you thought about surragocacy or adoption?
I've hesitated to post anything in response to people's thoughts to skip hormonal therapy since I'm already stage 4, but I will say that I would trade just about anything in my life to not be at an incurable stage. I don't wish for any of you ladies to join me but the stats say that some will. I just can't fathom why one might increase their odds, even if it's only a small percentage chance to avoid recurrence? That said it's truly a personal choice and I respect each person's decision
-
Songbird, I'm taking Arimidex not Tamoxifen. I started with Zoladex shot and said no more after the first one. I opted for having a hysterectomy. It wasn't easy, but my gyno was a great surgeon and I'm doing ok 3 weeks later. I'm back at work as a teacher and happy I don't need to go to the cancer center every month for a shot.
Thinking of you LovesmyVizsla.
Frill. Arimidex can cause Osteoporosis, but I'm taking a shot called Prolia every six months which has shown to have some cancer fighting side effects. I can't take Tamoxifen because of blood clots.
I'm going to start working out to maintain my post chemo weight. I'm worried about gaining weight now that I'm in menopause.
It is sooooo nice not having a period.
-
I haven't had a pain pill since last night, which is not to say that I don't need one. Took a nice long nap on the couch this afternoon, so I probably won't sleep well tonight. Might dig out the Ativan.
My MO's PA told me that I would probably be in menopause now that chemo is over. Yeah, not so much. I've started having mini hot flashes and a cyst in my breast is making itself known. It is on top of the cancerous breast. It hurt while they were doing the wire localization the other day.
-
Anyone else still feeling really tried months after chemo ended. I ended chemo end of March and rads ended beginning of June and I am still very tried at the end of my work day and could sleep in everyday if I could.
-
YES, and my chemo ended at the end of April. However, chemo was hard on me - I'm still fighting these pleural effusions.
Oh and I edited to add that my eyes are still watering. However, not as much as before.
-
Sheri - yes still feeling tired. Sounds like we were on a similar timeline. What I'm struggling with the most is the insomnia. How can I be sooo tired and not be able to sleep. I got my PCP to prescribe ambien, which has helped some. My MO and RO would not give me anything.
-
mltdd I know what you mean, so tried but still can't sleep and then I get the hotflash from tamoxifen around 2:00 each night so if I was sleeping it ends then. Then my DH alarms goes off at 5:00am.
-
I'm also still tired but I don't know if it's from the chemo or from the Herceptin/Perjeta infusions I'm still having every 3 weeks. Have quite a bit of joint pain. Still having hot flashes (from the chemo, not on any hormone treatment). It feels like a long slog: I started in January but I'm only half way through this process, with 2 more surgeries to go (reconstruction) and infusions until the end of March.
-
Hi Ladies, I saw my MO yesterday, I've been told from the beginning that I'm Triple Negative, well, my surgical pathology showed weakly ER positive (2%). My MO would like me to consider Tamoxifen which totally threw me for a loop since Tamoxifen was not even on my radar. She said with my age (45) it wouldn't hurt to possibly have a little extra insurance. I have until Nov when I see her next to figure this all out with rads in the meantime. Tamoxifen scares me, but she did say that we could just try it for 3-6 months and see how it goes. Anyone have any thoughts? My first thought is to give it a go.
Kelly
-
LifeAloft I say get it a try anything we can do to prevent it from coming back is a good thing.
-
I'd say try it if it has even a tiny chance of keeping the cancer from progressing. Therapies for Stage 4 (outside of the hormonal ones) are likely to have worse side effects than Tamoxifan
-
Thank you Sheri and Jen, I agree with you both, it was a shock more than anything...but yes, if there is a chance that it will keep things at bay, I will definitely go for it. I was actually expecting her to bring up Xeloda since I had a bit of residual tumor, I was not expecting Tamoxifen. I know this is actually a "good" thing, it just wasn't expected...but what is when we are dealing with this.
:::hugs:::
-
I've had no problems with tamoxifen starting zoladex shots next month though, then changing to an AI.
I'm tired all the time. Finished Chemo mid April and rads end of June.
-
Songbird I am taking Aromasin (Exemestane). Hot flashes galore and some joint pain, hands, hips and occasionally ankles. I'm also on Herceptin every 3 weeks until Jan. I've had a bone density scan and they said it was fine. I think I'll have to get that once a year. My MO said Aromasin for 5 yrs and then we will see if I need another 5 yrs. I just turned 56. I haven't posted in a long while. Finished chemo Apr 27 and just before starting rads my MO finally agreed with the BS and PS that I didn't need it. I've gone back to work and am trying to get my life back. My sister's husband died last month from cancer and our best friend just had a cancerous kidney removed but not before it spread to his lungs. Sometimes it is too much
-
Jill, why are you changing to an AI
-
Hi all:) Ugh the joint pain! I feel 100 years old - every time I get up after sitting for moe than 15 minutes, I am like a person with arthritis. Long car rides are the worst!! IT has crept up on me and I don't know what it is from - the Letrozole, aftereffect of chemo? Anyone else having similar issues? Once things "warm up" then I am better, but I am walking much more slowly just to get around than before...
-
Zinny - YES! I don't know if it's the post-chemo pain or what, but getting up in the morning my feet hurt so bad I can barely walk. My hands get stiff too. Getting up from chairs my knees do not like to cooperate. Today was 25/28 rads, had first Lupron shot 3 weeks ago, the second one will be next week which is when I start Letrozole. So it's not that, although I hear that joint pain will be an SE. I sure hope it's not any worse than it is now.
-
I have the same thing, and I'm not on any hormonals. Stiff in knees and fingers then it gets better
-
Thanks, ladies, it must be a chemo thing, then. I had heard it was really hard on tendons etc…I have a friend who started a bootcamp after finishing chemo, and blasted out her knee ( she was doing giant box jumps!)- then heard other stories of similar injuries. But I didn't expect this when I had no immediate aches or pains with chemo. Just gotta give my body some more time and patience:0
-
i'm with you Zinny. I now hear a lot of women talk about the leg aches, and knees. I know I'm impatient to feel totally better, if ever. Just didn't expect my knees to ache so much. My ortho says chemo aggravated the arthritis I already have.
-
I'm with you, joint pain especially in the fingers and knees.
-
I don't have joint pain though I do have some swelling I attribute to Tamoxifen.
I do however have shingles. Yay me. I had an appointment with my MO today and the rash started yesterday. She was not happy I was there in case I was contagious, but I didn't know for sure what I had. Nor have I ever basically been thrown out of a doctor's office for being sick. So I have to go to PCP in the morning to answer my firm's question about whether I'm contagious. I was really a little taken aback by her reaction even though I do understand a clinic full of immune suppressed people is not where one should risk an infection. But again--not a doctor, didn't do it on purpose. She didn't tell me when I left not to go out in public so I'll guess we'll see what PCP says. She did call in some prescriptions for me but would not do my exam. I found it all stressful.
-
Paxton, found this from the CDC: Shingles cannot be passed from one person to another. However, the virus that causes shingles, the varicella zoster virus, can be spread from a person with active shingles to another person who has never had chickenpox. In such cases, the person exposed to the virus might develop chickenpox, but they would not develop shingles.
The virus is spread through direct contact with fluid from the rash blisters caused by shingles.
A person with active shingles can spread the virus when the rash is in the blister-phase. A person is not infectious before the blisters appear. Once the rash has developed crusts, the person is no longer contagious.
Shingles is less contagious than chickenpox and the risk of a person with shingles spreading the virus is low if the rash is covered.
Hope that helps, and sorry she wasn't a little more sympathetic.
-
Thanks--that is helpful indeed. It seems like even if my rash was "active," which it probably is, it will be covered by my clothes and nobody will be touching it. I really don't think I would be endangering anyone. Interesting that it would transmit as chicken pox. We do have a pregnant legal assistant, which makes me nervous.
-
Sorry Paxton about shingles, that sounds extremely painful. Like you haven't dealt with enough!
My joint pain is pretty bad, and I haven't even started Letrozole yet. Does anyone know if these post-chemo aches and pains subside eventually? My RO is not helpful in this case.
-
Im happy to have finished rads yesterday. I will continue with Herceptin every 3 weeks until end of jan. Im starting tamoxifen this week too. im hoping side effects from it aren't too bad, ive been reading horror stories about it, then some people have no side effects. Im hoping side effects aren't too bad. its so exciting to finish each phase of treatment.
-
buttaflydiva...CONGRATULATIONS‼️ Keep going til you reach the treatment finish line
Categories
- All Categories
- 679 Advocacy and Fund-Raising
- 289 Advocacy
- 68 I've Donated to Breastcancer.org in honor of....
- Test
- 322 Walks, Runs and Fundraising Events for Breastcancer.org
- 5.6K Community Connections
- 282 Middle Age 40-60(ish) Years Old With Breast Cancer
- 53 Australians and New Zealanders Affected by Breast Cancer
- 208 Black Women or Men With Breast Cancer
- 684 Canadians Affected by Breast Cancer
- 1.5K Caring for Someone with Breast cancer
- 455 Caring for Someone with Stage IV or Mets
- 260 High Risk of Recurrence or Second Breast Cancer
- 22 International, Non-English Speakers With Breast Cancer
- 16 Latinas/Hispanics With Breast Cancer
- 189 LGBTQA+ With Breast Cancer
- 152 May Their Memory Live On
- 85 Member Matchup & Virtual Support Meetups
- 375 Members by Location
- 291 Older Than 60 Years Old With Breast Cancer
- 177 Singles With Breast Cancer
- 869 Young With Breast Cancer
- 50.4K Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis
- 204 Breast Cancer with Another Diagnosis or Comorbidity
- 4K DCIS (Ductal Carcinoma In Situ)
- 79 DCIS plus HER2-positive Microinvasion
- 529 Genetic Testing
- 2.2K HER2+ (Positive) Breast Cancer
- 1.5K IBC (Inflammatory Breast Cancer)
- 3.4K IDC (Invasive Ductal Carcinoma)
- 1.5K ILC (Invasive Lobular Carcinoma)
- 999 Just Diagnosed With a Recurrence or Metastasis
- 652 LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ)
- 193 Less Common Types of Breast Cancer
- 252 Male Breast Cancer
- 86 Mixed Type Breast Cancer
- 3.1K Not Diagnosed With a Recurrence or Metastases but Concerned
- 189 Palliative Therapy/Hospice Care
- 488 Second or Third Breast Cancer
- 1.2K Stage I Breast Cancer
- 313 Stage II Breast Cancer
- 3.8K Stage III Breast Cancer
- 2.5K Triple-Negative Breast Cancer
- 13.1K Day-to-Day Matters
- 132 All things COVID-19 or coronavirus
- 87 BCO Free-Cycle: Give or Trade Items Related to Breast Cancer
- 5.9K Clinical Trials, Research News, Podcasts, and Study Results
- 86 Coping with Holidays, Special Days and Anniversaries
- 828 Employment, Insurance, and Other Financial Issues
- 101 Family and Family Planning Matters
- Family Issues for Those Who Have Breast Cancer
- 26 Furry friends
- 1.8K Humor and Games
- 1.6K Mental Health: Because Cancer Doesn't Just Affect Your Breasts
- 706 Recipe Swap for Healthy Living
- 704 Recommend Your Resources
- 171 Sex & Relationship Matters
- 9 The Political Corner
- 874 Working on Your Fitness
- 4.5K Moving On & Finding Inspiration After Breast Cancer
- 394 Bonded by Breast Cancer
- 3.1K Life After Breast Cancer
- 806 Prayers and Spiritual Support
- 285 Who or What Inspires You?
- 28.7K Not Diagnosed But Concerned
- 1K Benign Breast Conditions
- 2.3K High Risk for Breast Cancer
- 18K Not Diagnosed But Worried
- 7.4K Waiting for Test Results
- 603 Site News and Announcements
- 560 Comments, Suggestions, Feature Requests
- 39 Mod Announcements, Breastcancer.org News, Blog Entries, Podcasts
- 4 Survey, Interview and Participant Requests: Need your Help!
- 61.9K Tests, Treatments & Side Effects
- 586 Alternative Medicine
- 255 Bone Health and Bone Loss
- 11.4K Breast Reconstruction
- 7.9K Chemotherapy - Before, During, and After
- 2.7K Complementary and Holistic Medicine and Treatment
- 775 Diagnosed and Waiting for Test Results
- 7.8K Hormonal Therapy - Before, During, and After
- 50 Immunotherapy - Before, During, and After
- 7.4K Just Diagnosed
- 1.4K Living Without Reconstruction After a Mastectomy
- 5.2K Lymphedema
- 3.6K Managing Side Effects of Breast Cancer and Its Treatment
- 591 Pain
- 3.9K Radiation Therapy - Before, During, and After
- 8.4K Surgery - Before, During, and After
- 109 Welcome to Breastcancer.org
- 98 Acknowledging and honoring our Community
- 11 Info & Resources for New Patients & Members From the Team