January 2016 Chemo!

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  • LifeAloft
    LifeAloft Member Posts: 150
    edited August 2016

    I had my radiation sim today, I admit that I found it quite fascinating, how it all gets done... I'm sure that fascinating won't be a word that I use about radiation in a few weeks.

    Val, loved your post!! It actually helped me make up my mind to get involved with a couple trials. They are not drug related, one is looking at damage to the heart from radiation since my bad boob is on the left, it involves having several cardiac tests before, during and after rads. The second is just filling out a questionnaire each week during rads, they are trying to get all of the docs to be on the same page when describing skin issues. I'm happy to do my little part for the advancement of science and the people who will come after me.

  • Amie0215
    Amie0215 Member Posts: 37
    edited August 2016

    So I will be 44 this month and will finish proton therapy on the 19th. Chemo and surgeries are done. I am stage 2B, ++- and I'm scared and confused about the hormone treatments. I never had a chance to have a baby and not it looks like I will never be able to. Darn it, my husband and I were so focused on completing our degrees and switching careers that it got put on hold. I feel like it's too late for me now.

    I'm wrestling with the idea of skipping the treatments, but have nightmares that the cancer comes back. My oncologist told me to wait at least two years before having a child and then be careful since pregnancy boosts hormone levels. I will be 46 then!

    Any advice? I'm a complete mess right now. (Adoption is not in the cards.)

  • Valstim52
    Valstim52 Member Posts: 1,324
    edited August 2016

    Lifealoft, I was in a similiar trial through Duke University. I'm in charlotte so they sent my results daily. Yes, anything I can do to help those either with me or coming after me, I will.

  • jensgotthis
    jensgotthis Member Posts: 937
    edited August 2016

    Amie, families are made in all sorts of ways. Have you thought about surragocacy or adoption?

    I've hesitated to post anything in response to people's thoughts to skip hormonal therapy since I'm already stage 4, but I will say that I would trade just about anything in my life to not be at an incurable stage. I don't wish for any of you ladies to join me but the stats say that some will. I just can't fathom why one might increase their odds, even if it's only a small percentage chance to avoid recurrence? That said it's truly a personal choice and I respect each person's decision

  • FLBuckeye93
    FLBuckeye93 Member Posts: 87
    edited August 2016

    Songbird, I'm taking Arimidex not Tamoxifen. I started with Zoladex shot and said no more after the first one. I opted for having a hysterectomy. It wasn't easy, but my gyno was a great surgeon and I'm doing ok 3 weeks later. I'm back at work as a teacher and happy I don't need to go to the cancer center every month for a shot.

    Thinking of you LovesmyVizsla.

    Frill. Arimidex can cause Osteoporosis, but I'm taking a shot called Prolia every six months which has shown to have some cancer fighting side effects. I can't take Tamoxifen because of blood clots.

    I'm going to start working out to maintain my post chemo weight. I'm worried about gaining weight now that I'm in menopause.

    It is sooooo nice not having a period.

  • LoveMyVizsla
    LoveMyVizsla Member Posts: 813
    edited August 2016

    I haven't had a pain pill since last night, which is not to say that I don't need one. Took a nice long nap on the couch this afternoon, so I probably won't sleep well tonight. Might dig out the Ativan.

    My MO's PA told me that I would probably be in menopause now that chemo is over. Yeah, not so much. I've started having mini hot flashes and a cyst in my breast is making itself known. It is on top of the cancerous breast. It hurt while they were doing the wire localization the other day.

  • Sheri64
    Sheri64 Member Posts: 113
    edited August 2016

    Anyone else still feeling really tried months after chemo ended. I ended chemo end of March and rads ended beginning of June and I am still very tried at the end of my work day and could sleep in everyday if I could.

  • EstelaLorca
    EstelaLorca Member Posts: 98
    edited August 2016

    YES, and my chemo ended at the end of April. However, chemo was hard on me - I'm still fighting these pleural effusions.

    Oh and I edited to add that my eyes are still watering. However, not as much as before.

  • mltdd
    mltdd Member Posts: 87
    edited August 2016

    Sheri - yes still feeling tired. Sounds like we were on a similar timeline. What I'm struggling with the most is the insomnia. How can I be sooo tired and not be able to sleep. I got my PCP to prescribe ambien, which has helped some. My MO and RO would not give me anything.

  • Sheri64
    Sheri64 Member Posts: 113
    edited August 2016

    mltdd I know what you mean, so tried but still can't sleep and then I get the hotflash from tamoxifen around 2:00 each night so if I was sleeping it ends then. Then my DH alarms goes off at 5:00am.

  • Maya15
    Maya15 Member Posts: 323
    edited August 2016

    I'm also still tired but I don't know if it's from the chemo or from the Herceptin/Perjeta infusions I'm still having every 3 weeks. Have quite a bit of joint pain. Still having hot flashes (from the chemo, not on any hormone treatment). It feels like a long slog: I started in January but I'm only half way through this process, with 2 more surgeries to go (reconstruction) and infusions until the end of March.

  • LifeAloft
    LifeAloft Member Posts: 150
    edited August 2016

    Hi Ladies, I saw my MO yesterday, I've been told from the beginning that I'm Triple Negative, well, my surgical pathology showed weakly ER positive (2%). My MO would like me to consider Tamoxifen which totally threw me for a loop since Tamoxifen was not even on my radar. She said with my age (45) it wouldn't hurt to possibly have a little extra insurance. I have until Nov when I see her next to figure this all out with rads in the meantime. Tamoxifen scares me, but she did say that we could just try it for 3-6 months and see how it goes. Anyone have any thoughts? My first thought is to give it a go.

    Kelly

  • Sheri64
    Sheri64 Member Posts: 113
    edited August 2016

    LifeAloft I say get it a try anything we can do to prevent it from coming back is a good thing.

  • jensgotthis
    jensgotthis Member Posts: 937
    edited August 2016

    I'd say try it if it has even a tiny chance of keeping the cancer from progressing. Therapies for Stage 4 (outside of the hormonal ones) are likely to have worse side effects than Tamoxifan

  • LifeAloft
    LifeAloft Member Posts: 150
    edited August 2016

    Thank you Sheri and Jen, I agree with you both, it was a shock more than anything...but yes, if there is a chance that it will keep things at bay, I will definitely go for it. I was actually expecting her to bring up Xeloda since I had a bit of residual tumor, I was not expecting Tamoxifen. I know this is actually a "good" thing, it just wasn't expected...but what is when we are dealing with this.

    :::hugs:::

  • LovesToFly
    LovesToFly Member Posts: 1,133
    edited August 2016

    I've had no problems with tamoxifen starting zoladex shots next month though, then changing to an AI.

    I'm tired all the time. Finished Chemo mid April and rads end of June.

  • Delight55
    Delight55 Member Posts: 20
    edited August 2016

    Songbird I am taking Aromasin (Exemestane). Hot flashes galore and some joint pain, hands, hips and occasionally ankles. I'm also on Herceptin every 3 weeks until Jan. I've had a bone density scan and they said it was fine. I think I'll have to get that once a year. My MO said Aromasin for 5 yrs and then we will see if I need another 5 yrs. I just turned 56. I haven't posted in a long while. Finished chemo Apr 27 and just before starting rads my MO finally agreed with the BS and PS that I didn't need it. I've gone back to work and am trying to get my life back. My sister's husband died last month from cancer and our best friend just had a cancerous kidney removed but not before it spread to his lungs. Sometimes it is too much

  • jensgotthis
    jensgotthis Member Posts: 937
    edited August 2016

    Jill, why are you changing to an AI

  • zinny
    zinny Member Posts: 281
    edited August 2016

    Hi all:) Ugh the joint pain! I feel 100 years old - every time I get up after sitting for moe than 15 minutes, I am like a person with arthritis. Long car rides are the worst!! IT has crept up on me and I don't know what it is from - the Letrozole, aftereffect of chemo? Anyone else having similar issues? Once things "warm up" then I am better, but I am walking much more slowly just to get around than before...

  • fightergirl711
    fightergirl711 Member Posts: 300
    edited August 2016

    Zinny - YES! I don't know if it's the post-chemo pain or what, but getting up in the morning my feet hurt so bad I can barely walk. My hands get stiff too. Getting up from chairs my knees do not like to cooperate. Today was 25/28 rads, had first Lupron shot 3 weeks ago, the second one will be next week which is when I start Letrozole. So it's not that, although I hear that joint pain will be an SE. I sure hope it's not any worse than it is now.

  • Valstim52
    Valstim52 Member Posts: 1,324
    edited August 2016

    I have the same thing, and I'm not on any hormonals. Stiff in knees and fingers then it gets better

  • zinny
    zinny Member Posts: 281
    edited August 2016

    Thanks, ladies, it must be a chemo thing, then. I had heard it was really hard on tendons etc…I have a friend who started a bootcamp after finishing chemo, and blasted out her knee ( she was doing giant box jumps!)- then heard other stories of similar injuries. But I didn't expect this when I had no immediate aches or pains with chemo. Just gotta give my body some more time and patience:0


  • Valstim52
    Valstim52 Member Posts: 1,324
    edited August 2016

    i'm with you Zinny. I now hear a lot of women talk about the leg aches, and knees. I know I'm impatient to feel totally better, if ever. Just didn't expect my knees to ache so much. My ortho says chemo aggravated the arthritis I already have.

  • Maya15
    Maya15 Member Posts: 323
    edited August 2016

    I'm with you, joint pain especially in the fingers and knees.

  • Paxton29
    Paxton29 Member Posts: 221
    edited August 2016

    I don't have joint pain though I do have some swelling I attribute to Tamoxifen.

    I do however have shingles. Yay me. I had an appointment with my MO today and the rash started yesterday. She was not happy I was there in case I was contagious, but I didn't know for sure what I had. Nor have I ever basically been thrown out of a doctor's office for being sick. So I have to go to PCP in the morning to answer my firm's question about whether I'm contagious. I was really a little taken aback by her reaction even though I do understand a clinic full of immune suppressed people is not where one should risk an infection. But again--not a doctor, didn't do it on purpose. She didn't tell me when I left not to go out in public so I'll guess we'll see what PCP says. She did call in some prescriptions for me but would not do my exam. I found it all stressful.

  • LoveMyVizsla
    LoveMyVizsla Member Posts: 813
    edited August 2016

    Paxton, found this from the CDC: Shingles cannot be passed from one person to another. However, the virus that causes shingles, the varicella zoster virus, can be spread from a person with active shingles to another person who has never had chickenpox. In such cases, the person exposed to the virus might develop chickenpox, but they would not develop shingles.

    The virus is spread through direct contact with fluid from the rash blisters caused by shingles.

    A person with active shingles can spread the virus when the rash is in the blister-phase. A person is not infectious before the blisters appear. Once the rash has developed crusts, the person is no longer contagious.

    Shingles is less contagious than chickenpox and the risk of a person with shingles spreading the virus is low if the rash is covered.

    Hope that helps, and sorry she wasn't a little more sympathetic.

    http://www.cdc.gov/shingles/about/transmission.htm...

  • Paxton29
    Paxton29 Member Posts: 221
    edited August 2016

    Thanks--that is helpful indeed. It seems like even if my rash was "active," which it probably is, it will be covered by my clothes and nobody will be touching it. I really don't think I would be endangering anyone. Interesting that it would transmit as chicken pox. We do have a pregnant legal assistant, which makes me nervous.

  • fightergirl711
    fightergirl711 Member Posts: 300
    edited August 2016

    Sorry Paxton about shingles, that sounds extremely painful. Like you haven't dealt with enough!

    My joint pain is pretty bad, and I haven't even started Letrozole yet. Does anyone know if these post-chemo aches and pains subside eventually? My RO is not helpful in this case.

  • buttaflydiva
    buttaflydiva Member Posts: 88
    edited August 2016

    Im happy to have finished rads yesterday. I will continue with Herceptin every 3 weeks until end of jan. Im starting tamoxifen this week too. im hoping side effects from it aren't too bad, ive been reading horror stories about it, then some people have no side effects. Im hoping side effects aren't too bad. its so exciting to finish each phase of treatment.

  • Cathytoo
    Cathytoo Member Posts: 667
    edited August 2016

    buttaflydiva...CONGRATULATIONS‼️ Keep going til you reach the treatment finish line

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