June 2016 Surgeries!

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  • Maya15
    Maya15 Member Posts: 323
    edited July 2016

    4boysmama, side sleep: yes, there is hope! I couldn't even contemplate it for the first 5 weeks, weeks 6 and 7 I could do it but with pain when I moved, and now I'm sleeping on sides without any pain. For me stretching for the chest, trunk and underarm area has made a huge difference with pain, along with massaging all the hard scar tissue (gentle, circular movements). It helps with swelling too as the scar tissue can stop things flowing.

    My TE officially has an expiry date. My second mastectomy and bilateral DIEP recon is booked for sept 29.

  • SPECTER55
    SPECTER55 Member Posts: 77
    edited July 2016

    FBUC,

    My guess is that the severity of the effects of the Lupron would depend on the dosage. Mind you, my fibroid was the size of a cantaloupe! I'm wondering if I was on a larger dose, hence the aggressive side effects. My hot flashes made me feel like I was on fire! Ask your doctor to really explain things to you. You don't have to feel intimidated. You have a right to have things explained to you to your understanding.

    I'm glad you are getting some relief from the problem with your incision. Hopefully the swelling will go down some.

    I've only had one fill (Last week) and it felt just a wee bit tight then, but now I don't even notice it. I'm hoping the rest of my fills are as easy, but I'm not counting on it.

  • tsoebbin
    tsoebbin Member Posts: 474
    edited July 2016

    If you had BMX with SNB when were your lifting restrictions lifted?

    I'm only 4 weeks and understand all surgeons are different, but I'm just curious what others experiences are.

  • FUBC
    FUBC Member Posts: 137
    edited July 2016

    Thanks Specter,

    If tomorrow I am fine, (considering I am not taking the arimidex today and tomorrow), chances are that it's not the Lupron giving me all the problems. Maybe switching to Femara will help, I don't know, I need to talk to my MO. However, having a monthly injection of Lupron is scary in itself. I need to find the one hormone therapy that will give me the least SE.

    Tsoebbin, I was given the OK to lift small things after my drains were removed. No more than 5 lbs. If I am not mistaken, the 5 lbs rule is lifted after 6-8 weeks.


  • Hopefloatsinyyc
    Hopefloatsinyyc Member Posts: 211
    edited July 2016

    I was given the 5lb limit until 6 weeks as well. But was told that at 6 weeks I could go back to golfing.... Which seems absurd if not impossible at this point! I can't imagine doing so in only 2 short weeks!

  • 4BoysMama
    4BoysMama Member Posts: 25
    edited July 2016

    Maya15- okay, that sounds right. I'm in all the weird pillow tacos trying to angle myself so I at least feel slightly sideways. I keep buying more and more cheap pillows. What will I ever do with all these pillows?! :D My PS hasn't said anything about massage but that seems super logical- I should start doing that. Along my incision? Where my TEs are sewn in? I'm going to start that right away.

    Specter55- I'm so relieved to hear your first fill was not too terrible. I'm so nervous for those to start, I'm 5 weeks out on Tuesday and my first fill is at 6 weeks! Eek! Nerves!

    Hopefloatsinyyc- my PS said 5lbs total for 6 weeks, a gallon jug of milk approximately per side- then to take it as easy as possible until exchange because she didn't want scar tissue building up. But- you're straight to implants right? So maybe that's why she's encouraging movement. I can NOT imagine swinging a golf club though :

  • SPECTER55
    SPECTER55 Member Posts: 77
    edited July 2016

    4BoysMama,

    I was nervous about my first fill too, but only because my breasts are super sensitive to touch near the scars. The surgeon suspects it's a neuropathic pain. My skin crawls even to be touched there, but "there" is where the ports are. The needle shouldn't be that bad because you're supposed to be numb. Right.? I'm not. That's the worst part for me. I only get 50 ml per fill because I'm still having some pain. Good luck

  • 4BoysMama
    4BoysMama Member Posts: 25
    edited July 2016

    Specter55- just got home from the Dr with a bottle of gabapentin/neurontin. So I'm crossing all my fingers and toes that it works. He said he'll try nortiptyline next if gabapentin doesn't work and his last ditch effort would be lyrica. He said they have a spinal shot they can administer too with the help of an x-Ray so that's another option. So much to think about!


    I have a funny question - has anyone else been able to use a magnet to find the port on their TEs? I saw a silly blog post back before the surgery that said we'd be magnetic but without sounding like a loon- I've spent way too much time trying to get a fridge magnet to stick to me with no luck! Lol!! The things we do when we're bored/stir crazy I guess :)


    Hope everyone is having a good start to their week

  • FUBC
    FUBC Member Posts: 137
    edited July 2016

    4boysmama, the nurses at my PS' office always use magnet to find the port, but I wouldn't try to find the port myself. I wouldn't want to damage the port or whatever, maybe the magnet in the TEs are not as strong as the magnets used on everyday items. I also have a card that was given to me, with TE serial numbers and explanations in case I travel and need to show it to the TSA agents. Although I would love to drive them crazy at the airport and let them figure it out where all the beebing is coming from. They'd probably strip me naked only to be terrified at the site of what once used to look like woman breasts :-) (mind you, my nipples are gone also)

  • SPECTER55
    SPECTER55 Member Posts: 77
    edited July 2016

    FUBC,

    I I would love to go through airport security right now and drive them crazy. I would be happy to bear my scarred up mishapen chest and let their hand wand light up over my naked breasts. Your move TSA! I don't remember getting a card validating my TEs for security purposes. All I have is a fill sheet. I'll have to go over my paperwork.

    4BoysMama,

    I am taking Neurontin right now. I don't notice a big difference yet. It hasn't been a week yet. I'm hoping I'll see an improvement by 2 weeks. I won't go beyond Lyrica. No spinal injections of me. I'll deal with the nerve pain.

  • 4BoysMama
    4BoysMama Member Posts: 25
    edited July 2016

    FUBC- oh I laughed hard at that image! TSA would be shaking their heads!! 😂😂

    Specter55- I got the impression from my Dr and then again when the pharmacist did the mandatory "new med consult" that it takes time, sometimes a few weeks- so let's keep hoping for you! Your poor skin needs a break!! Are you titrating up? I'm doing a schedule of 1 pill for so long, then 2, then 3 which is my "full dose". Hoping I get some relief {fingers crossed}.

  • SPECTER55
    SPECTER55 Member Posts: 77
    edited July 2016

    FBUC

    I am on it twice daily. It hasn't been a week yet. It may take some time before I begin to feel a change. Also, my PS said that the fills may help as the skin stretches, the irritated nerves may settle down. Let's hope

  • silviah
    silviah Member Posts: 46
    edited July 2016

    I just got a call from the MO - preliminary test results of the bone biopsy lean towards it being cancer. They are not sure if it is related to the BC - so tentatively, I still start chemo on Friday. If it is related, they are coming up with a new game plan - as that would make it stage 4. Sounds like it may be radiation first. She's hoping to know by Thursday.

  • Maya15
    Maya15 Member Posts: 323
    edited July 2016

    OMG Silviah I'm so sorry, my thoughts are with you. I wish I could do something to help. Please keep us updated.

  • 4BoysMama
    4BoysMama Member Posts: 25
    edited July 2016

    oh Sylviah, I am so terribly sorry. I'm going to keep you in my thoughts for health and healing. Please let us all know what happens. You are strong and brave, hugs from us all.

  • FUBC
    FUBC Member Posts: 137
    edited July 2016

    Oh wow Silviah, I am so sorry. I am praying for you. Be strong and remember we'll be here for you when you need us and when you don't.

    Gentle hugs

  • SPECTER55
    SPECTER55 Member Posts: 77
    edited July 2016

    Silviah,

    Tears are in my eyes as I type. I am so sorry to hear of you diagnosis. I'm not going to tell you to be strong, because I wouldn't be. I will say, be you, let whatever emotions you feel come out. I am praying that you have the support around you that will help you through this. Hugs and prayers to you. Your sisters on this board are here for you

  • Hopefloatsinyyc
    Hopefloatsinyyc Member Posts: 211
    edited July 2016

    Specter said it perfectly.... Allow us to be your place to vent cry and scream... We are here for you- hugging you from far away and knowwe are walking alongside you

  • silviah
    silviah Member Posts: 46
    edited July 2016

    Thank you so much everyone!!!! With all the reading/research I've been doing - I'm feeling a little better, but not really. Every little ache and twitch is freaking me out.

  • kellychameleon
    kellychameleon Member Posts: 100
    edited July 2016

    Silviah - I'm sorry that you didn't get the greatest news, but I'm glad you've been doing research that's helpful. I wish you so much luck with whichever treatment you go forward with. I can so relate to over analyzing every pain in your body. When I was waiting for my PET/CT results back in December, I had diagnosed myself with every type of cancer possible. Keeping your mental state in check is half the damn battle. But agree with those above, please vent, complain, scream, or whatever you need to do here. I am rooting for you!

  • tsoebbin
    tsoebbin Member Posts: 474
    edited July 2016

    Sending gentle hugs silvah!

  • ScotBird
    ScotBird Member Posts: 650
    edited July 2016

    Silviah, everything everyone has already said, I want to say as well. Thinking of you and remember we are with you and all sending positive thoughts and energy to help you. XX

  • Mom2fourplusmore
    Mom2fourplusmore Member Posts: 183
    edited July 2016

    Silviah, I am so sorry for all you are going through right now. I think Specters said what we are all thinking. We are here for all of it. The ups and downs, anger, scared, determination, and all of your emotions. Just know that even though non of us really know each other we are all bound together by this stupid disease. We are here for you through your journey. God bless you.


  • pab
    pab Member Posts: 53
    edited July 2016

    Silviah, big hugs.

  • Lunderwood
    Lunderwood Member Posts: 125
    edited July 2016

    Silviah - Please know that we care and understand your anxiety. We are here for you!

  • Mom2fourplusmore
    Mom2fourplusmore Member Posts: 183
    edited July 2016

    Just got back from my PS. I got another fill. I mentioned the nerve pain. She suggested that I use a washcloth and rub the area while I'm in the shower. She said that it helps to desensitize the nerves. I never would have thought of that. So I thought I would pass the information along to you guys in case you have nerve pain also. It's worth trying and it's not a medication.

  • SPECTER55
    SPECTER55 Member Posts: 77
    edited July 2016

    Mom2fourplusmore,

    Thanks for the info. I don't even know if I can they the suggestion from you PS. When I say sensitive, I mean even light touch is so uncomfortable. I've been on Neurontin for one week. I really haven't noticed a difference yet. I'm hoping it will kick in by next week. Hopefully I'll be able to try this technique soon

  • FUBC
    FUBC Member Posts: 137
    edited July 2016

    Mine is almost completely gone. I kept massaging constant;y the areas that I felt the nerve burning/hurting and by constantly I mean the whole time I was sitting in a couch watching TV :-) I tried a hand towel, not in the shower though, and that didn't help me much. Massaging helped with the numbness also.


  • 4BoysMama
    4BoysMama Member Posts: 25
    edited July 2016

    Specter55- when the Dr gave me neurontin, he was very optimistic about how quickly it would kick in and I'd have relief- but then at the pharmacy the consult was much different. He said repeatedly that it could take a couple of weeks, it could require building up to a higher dosage, etc. It's so crazy how the info is different everywhere we go. The pharmacist explained to me that Lyrica worked in a similar manner to neurontin so if I didn't feel relief- to try nortriptyline first because often people who didn't like one, like the other. A friend of mine who had her BMX 2 years ago had what you describe, the skin that was just "on fire" as she called it. She had great luck with nortriptyline so maybe that will be your ticket. Thinking of you and the most gentle hugs ever! ;)

  • SPECTER55
    SPECTER55 Member Posts: 77
    edited July 2016

    FUBC,

    I never expected immediate relief. Your pharmacist's explanation sounds more realistic to me. My pain is only with touch, even very light touch. I'll manage. Lyrica may be more effective, but it can also be habit forming. I'm trying to reduce my medication, not become dependent. Off to my second fill. I'll let you know how it goes.

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