Surgery options--how do we choose?
How can we decide between the recommendations of 2 surgeons who are confident of their suggestions? An added factor: we met with the radiation specialist yesterday who said the tumor could actually be "borderline stage 2" because of the tumor's size(about the size of a cherry). No one else said that. We know that recovery from a lumpectomy is easier than a mastectomy. But we do NOT want to have to go back in at a future date.
Thanks in advance for your help. You've all been so kind since I found this board.
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Hi Swami,
There's a very informative thread here that addresses the lumpectomy vs. mastectomy issue. Please check out this post by Beesie for all of the considerations you should take into account when making this decision: https://community.breastcancer.org/forum/91/topics/806452?page=1#post_3598134
We hope this helps, and please keep us posted on what you, your wife, and her doctors decide!
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Hi Swami:
It is very important for you and your wife to fully understand the basis for apparently differing recommendations regarding surgery.
It is not clear to me whether the surgeon advising mastectomy was doing so in view of medical reasons or merely indicating that your wife might prefer mastectomy over lumpectomy, in response to her stated preference to limit interventions to the extent possible ("But we do NOT want to have to go back in at a future date.")
Re-excision surgery (and sometimes more than one) to obtain adequate margins is not uncommon with lumpectomy. You could inquire about each surgeon's re-excision rate. However, please note that with certain pathology findings, its is not always possible to avoid either re-excision and/or radiation even with mastectomy.
Did the surgeon recommending mastectomy tell you that lumpectomy plus a course of radiation versus mastectomy are both equally suitable options (and comparably effective in terms of overall survival) in her case, but that in view of your wife's views about going back in, she would recommend mastectomy? If so, from a medical perspective, the choice is up to you and Beesie's post should be helpful as you consider options and the possible outcomes.
However, if you are not sure why mastectomy was recommended, please do not hesitate to seek further consultation from the surgeon who recommended mastectomy by phone or in person to obtain further discussion and clarification. You can specifically ask whether lumpectomy plus a course of radiation versus mastectomy are seen as equally suitable options in her case or not. If not, why not? What specific factors, such as any specific imaging findings (e.g., extent or location(s) of disease or additional areas of suspicion that make her think obtaining adequate margins may be more challenging); any clinical or pathologic features of disease; or other concerns based on personal health history and patient presentation; and/or family history (including any genetic testing results), does she believe indicate that mastectomy would be preferred over lumpectomy in your wife's case.
BarredOwl
Information about "surgical margins":
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Since I sit here with lymphedema, go and see a lymphedema PT. They can explain what this will do to your lymph system.
Get measured as well. Before surgery will be the only time you have that measurement.
I advise you to take this seriously because the doctors poo poo this part, which is not good for you as a patient long term.
Good luck with your decision.
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May I also add that the TYPE of bc makes a difference in decisions. I had ILC, which has a tendency to be multi-focal (higher incidence that it could show up in the other "good"breast at a later date) which is what prompted me to have a bi-lateral mastectomy. Both my surgeon and oncologist agreed that was the right thing to do, and yes, the later pathology post-surgery showed hyperplasia (abnormal cells) in the "good" breast that were of course too small to see on screens or scans. I know I still have no guarantee of recurrence but I would like to look back on my decisions for tx with no regrets--that I did everything I could to eradicate it.
However, my bmx left me with no sensation in either breast. So essentially my upper half has no feeling and I've lost some sexual pleasure because of it. The risk of bc to me was greater than the loss of sensation (I had nipple-sparing surgery, which simply allowed me to avoid the plastic surgery of nipple rebuild, tattoos, etc, but still I lost all sensation because nerves were cut for good). The tissue of my nipples was biopsied, and my surgeon would have removed them completely had I not passed that "test".
I had both a lumpectomy (called an exicisional biopsy) and then rads, then the bmx. I had 6/11 nodes positive, which made a difference to me too. And with 11 nodes removed, so far I've not had one problem with lymphedema. I do keep my weight lower and have been super active all my life, lifting weights, hiking, and lots of bikram yoga, which might have made a difference in dodging that bullet so far. I don't know for sure.
The size, any + nodes, the grade, and the type should all factor into your decision. I know the overall risk is the same (lumpectomy/rads vs. bmx) but there are other variables that might make you feel better about your wife's decision that you should weigh, as well.
Good luck. I know this is a frightening time. Hugs.
Claire
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As for me, I had a lumpectomy. My thought was that if I wasn't happy, I could do a mastectomy later but once my breast was gone, it was gone forever. As time has past, I am even more glad that I made that choice. This is just me, but I would have had a hard time being flat, but the more I have learned about the problems with reconstruction, the less I think that I could ever go through that process (and it is a process, not a one shot and you're done type of thing). I also wanted as quick of a recovery time as possible, with the least chance of complications (which, like any surgery, the more extensive the surgery, the more chance there is of that). Radiation, for me, was the easiest part of the whole treatment. I had no bad SEs then or later. That breast actually looks 'perkier' than the other one. A friend of mine had BC about 35 years ago. Back then the only choice was a mastectomy. One reconstruction became widely available, she did reconstruct. She is a surgical nurse, so has seen the whole thing from both sides of the operating table. When I asked her advice, without skipping a beat she said, "If you have a choice, go with a lumpectomy!!!"
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Beesie is one of the resident experts on the boards. I am copying a very well thought out post she did on this topic.
"Some time ago I put together a list of considerations for someone who was making the surgical choice between a lumpectomy, mastectomy and bilateral mastectomy. I've posted this many times now and have continued to refine it and add to it, thanks to great input from many others. Some women have gone through the list and decided to have a lumpectomy, others have chosen a single mastectomy and others have opted for a bilateral mastectomy. So the purpose is simply to help women figure out what's right for them - both in the short term but more importantly, over the long term.
Before getting to that list, here is some research that compares long-term recurrence and survival results. I'm including this because sometimes women choose to have a MX because they believe that it's a more aggressive approach. If that's a big part of someone's rationale for having an MX or BMX, it's important to look at the research to see if it's really true. What the research has consistently shown is that long-term survival is the same regardless of the type of surgery one has. This is largely because it's not the breast cancer in the breast that affects survival, but it's the breast cancer that's left the breast that is the concern. The risk is that some BC might have moved beyond the breast prior to surgery. So the type of surgery one has, whether it's a lumpectomy or a MX or a BMX, doesn't affect survival rates. Here are a few studies that compare the different surgical approaches:
Lumpectomy May Have Better Survival Than Mastectomy
Now, on to my list of the considerations:
- Do you want to avoid radiation? If your cancer isn't near the chest wall and if your nodes are clear, then it may be possible to avoid radiation if you have a mastectomy. This is a big selling point for many women who choose to have mastectomies. However you should be aware that there is no guarantee that radiation may not be necessary even if you have a mastectomy, if some cancer cells are found near the chest wall, or if the area of invasive cancer is very large and/or if it turns out that you are node positive (particularly several nodes).
- Do you want to avoid hormone therapy (Tamoxifen or an AI) or Herceptin or chemo? It is very important to understand that if it's believed necessary or beneficial for you to have chemo or take hormone therapy, it won't make any difference if you have a lumpectomy or a mastectomy or a bilateral mastectomy. (Note that the exception is women with DCIS or possibly very early Stage I invasive cancer, who may be able to avoid Tamoxifen by having a mastectomy or a BMX.)
- Does the length of the surgery and the length of the recovery period matter to you? For most women, a lumpectomy is a relatively easy surgery and recovery. After a lumpectomy, radiation usually is given for 6 weeks. A mastectomy is a longer, more complex surgery and the recovery period is longer.
- How will you deal with the side effects from Rads? For most patients the side effects of rads are not as difficult as they expected, but most women do experience some side effects. You should be prepared for some temporary discomfort, fatigue and skin irritation, particularly towards the end of your rads cycle. Most side effects go away a few weeks after treatment ends but if you have other health problems, particularly heart or lung problems, you may be at risk for more serious side effects. This can be an important consideration and should be discussed with your doctor.
- Do you plan to have reconstruction if you have a MX or BMX? If so, be aware that reconstruction, even "immediate" reconstruction, is usually a long process - many months - and most often requires more than one surgery. Some women have little discomfort during the reconstruction process but other women find the process to be very difficult - there is no way to know until you are going through it.
- If you have a MX or BMX, how will you deal with possible complications with reconstruction? Some lucky women breeze through reconstruction but unfortunately, many have complications. These may be short-term and/or fixable or they may be long-term and difficult to fix. Common problems include ripples and indentations and unevenness. You may have lingering side effects (muscle pain, spasms, itching, etc.) on one side or both (if you have a BMX). If you don't end up with symmetry (symmetry is not a sure thing by any means, even if you have a bilateral mastectomy with reconstruction done on both sides at the same time), will you regret the decision to remove your breasts or your healthy breast? Are you prepared for the possibility of revision surgery?
- How you do feel about your body image and how will this be affected by a mastectomy or BMX? A reconstructed breast is not the same as a real breast. Some women love their reconstructed breasts while some women hate them. Most probably fall in-between. Reconstructed breasts usually looks fine in clothing but may not appear natural when naked. They may not feel natural or move naturally, particularly if you have implant reconstruction. If you do choose to have a MX or BMX, one option that will help you get a more natural appearance is a nipple sparing mastectomy (NSM). Not all breast surgeons are trained to do NSMs so your surgeon might not present this option to you. Ask your surgeon about it if you are interested and if he/she doesn't do nipple sparing mastectomies, it may be worth the effort to find a surgeon who does do NSMs in order to see if this option is available for you (your area of cancer can't be right up near the nipple).
- If you have a MX or BMX, how do you feel about losing the natural feeling in your breast(s) and your nipple(s)? Are your nipples important to you sexually? A MX or BMX will change your body for the rest of your life and you have to be prepared for that. Keep in mind as well that even if you have a nipple sparing mastectomy, except in rare cases (and except with a new untested reconstruction procedure) the most feeling that can be retained in your nipples is about 20% - the nerves that affect 80% of nipple sensation are by necessity cut during the surgery and cannot be reconnected. Any breast/nipple feeling you regain will be surface feeling only (or phantom sensations, which are actually quite common and feel very real); there will be no feeling inside your breast, instead your breast will feel numb. For some, loss of breast/nipple sensation is a small price to pay; for others, it has a huge impact on their lives.
- If you have a MX or BMX, how will you deal emotionally with the loss of your breast(s)? Some women are glad that their breast(s) is gone because it was the source of the cancer, but others become angry that cancer forced them to lose their breast(s). How do you think you will feel? Don't just consider how you feel now, as you are facing the breast cancer diagnosis, but try to think about how you will feel in a year and in a few years, once this diagnosis, and the fear, is well behind you.
- If you have a lumpectomy, how will you deal emotionally with your 6 month or annual mammos and/or MRIs? For the first year or two after diagnosis, most women get very stressed when they have to go for their screenings. The good news is that usually this fear fades over time. However some women choose to have a BMX in order to avoid the anxiety of these checks.
- Will removal of your breast(s) help you move on from having had cancer or will it hamper your ability to move on? Will you feel that the cancer is gone because your breast(s) is gone? Or will the loss of your breast(s) be a constant reminder that you had breast cancer?
- Appearance issues aside, before making this decision you should find out what your doctors estimate your recurrence risk will be if you have a lumpectomy and radiation. Is this risk level one that you can live with or one that scares you? Will you live in constant fear or will you be comfortable that you've reduced your risk sufficiently and not worry except when you have your 6 month or annual screenings? If you'll always worry, then having a mastectomy might be a better option; many women get peace of mind by having a mastectomy. But keep in mind that over time the fear will fade, and that a MX or BMX does not mean that you no longer need checks - although the risk is low, you can still be diagnosed with BC or a recurrence even after a MX or BMX. Be aware too that while a mastectomy may significantly reduce your local (in the breast area) recurrence risk, it has no impact whatsoever on your risk of distant recurrence (i.e. mets).
- Do you know your risk to get BC in your other (the non-cancer) breast? Is this a risk level that scares you? Or is this a risk level that you can live with? Keep in mind that breast cancer very rarely recurs in the contralateral breast so your current diagnosis doesn't impact your other breast. However, anyone who's been diagnosed with BC one time is at higher risk to be diagnosed again with a new primary breast cancer (i.e. a cancer unrelated to the original diagnosis) and this may be compounded if you have other risk factors. Find out your risk level from your oncologist. When you talk to your oncologist, determine if BRCA genetic testing might be appropriate for you based on your family history of cancer and/or your age and/or your ethnicity (those of Ashkenazi Jewish descent are at higher risk). Those who are BRCA positive are very high risk to get BC and for many women, a positive BRCA test result is a compelling reason to have a bilateral mastectomy. On the other hand, for many women a negative BRCA test result helps with the decision to have a lumpectomy or single mastectomy rather than a bilateral. Talk to your oncologist. Don't assume that you know what your risk is; you may be surprised to find that it's much higher than you think, or much lower than you think (my risk was much less than I would ever have thought).
- How will you feel if you have a lumpectomy or UMX and at some point in the future (maybe in 2 years or maybe in 30 years) you get BC again, either a recurrence in the same breast or a new BC in either breast?Will you regret your decision and wish that you'd had a bilateral mastectomy? Or will you be grateful for the extra time that you had with your breasts, knowing that you made the best decision at the time with the information that you had?
- How will you feel if you have a bilateral mastectomy and no cancer or high risk conditions are found in the other breast? Will you question (either immediately or years in the future) why you made the decision to have the bilateral? Or will you be satisfied that you made the best decision with the information you had?
.I hope that this helps. And remember.... this is your decision. How someone else feels about it and the experience that someone else had might be very different than how you will feel about it and the experience that you will have. So try to figure out what's best for you, or at least, the option that you think you can live with most easily, given all the risks associated with all of the options. Good luck with your decision!"
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Beesie's post can be helpful when one has the option, and both are seen as equally suitable from a medical perspective. However, Swami says one surgeon recommended lumpectomy plus radiation and the other "recommended" mastectomy. I am not sure whether Swami and his wife understood the basis for the advice they received (as explained above).
Swami and his wife should contact the surgeon who "recommended" mastectomy to inquire about the basis for that "recommendation." Example follow-up questions were provided in my post above.
BarredOwl
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Absolutely, you need to know the WHYs of the recommendations (I missed your post BarredOwl).
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If there was any way I could have gone with the lx, I would have done it. I get the question. I first saw a BS who recommended that I go that route. I sought a second opinion because I had 30 year old breast implants and he told me they would be fine after lx and rads and every single other doctor on the planet said otherwise. He also said it wasn't for sure they were leaking due to their age. Other doctors said they mostly likely were. Original dx had me at 2.9 cm and MRI said 3.5 with 2 likely + nodes. Got a second opinion who did further imaging. She found more areas of cancer in the same breast and since I had ILC and for symmetry, I had a BMX. The decision was easy for me. But honestly, if I could have had an lx and that was all, I would have started there.
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I do want to share that my bmx followed in the same surgery by immediate reconstruction was absolutely a non-event--I had no problems--one stop surgery and done-- and did not have to endure those awful-sounding expanders, because I stayed my A+ B- cup size, "sporty", my surgeon called it.
Claire in AZ
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I am really happy with my mx and DIEP reconstruction. No radiation and it looks good.
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