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Hi All, it's my 1st post and brand new to all this. I found a lump about 3 weeks ago, had mammogram 3 days ago which immediately led to a biopsy same day. I've been told to get results from family Doc in 10 days. The Doc that did my biopsy told me she does not expect a negative result, but that it is small (less than 1cm) and I am going to be o.k...she told me that 2x. Told me to expect an appointment with surgeon in 2 weeks after the 10 day wait, then surgery about 2 weeks after that. I am stunned she can know all this with no biopsy results....I had no idea and am just trying to remain calm and positive. I am very sore after biopsy though, and right now I wish it would just feel better. Now my mind is starting to go a little crazy, wondering with so little information. Can they really know so much already? I am married with an 8 year old girl, and I am so worried about them too. Looking forward to any support and connecting with others in similar situation.
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A good radiologist/breast surgeon can indeed know from the imaging that it definitely appears to be cancer. They are usually right but there are a few things that can look that way and not be cancer, so it is not final until the biopsy results are in. I'm sorry you find yourself here.
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Daisy, sorry you found yourself here. You will find this forum a great place for support. I think an experienced Radiologist can have a pretty good idea about a result through imaging, but the only sure way to know is with the biopsy. Hang in there, stay off of Google and stay busy while you wait. I'm sure others will offer other helpful ideas. Best wishes!
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Hi!
My radiologist -- looking at my initial scans -- said that my lump's appearance was consistent with cancer. She was right. But, it was only after the results of the biopsy that we knew the kind of cancer (invasive ductal carcinoma) and some of its characteristics (it was hormone positive -- ER+PR+, and it was aggressive -- Grade 3). Later, we found out that it was also HER2+. After you get your biopsy results, you will be more sure of your situation and the possible treatment plans available for it. Hope you get your results soon!
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Hi Daisy,
Try to remain positive -- it's true you can't be officially diagnosed without a biopsy, though a trained professional can offer an educated opinion. We, too, are sorry you find yourself here, but as you can already see, we are a wonderful, supportive group. We're all here for you, no matter the results.
Please keep us posted!
--The Mods
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Daisy - My radiologist who read my mammogram and ultrasound came in to prepare me before the biopsy.
My mom's radiologist told her after biopsy that she was 99% certain it was breast cancer and wanted to prepare my mom as she was 80 at the time.
They know what they are looking at and I was grateful they prepared us. It is all so frightening. What I learned is do your homework while you are waiting for official results which you are already doing by posting here. You will find great support. I see you are from London, Ontario so good time to connect on these boards with other London, Ontario ladies as I see them on here.
In case the radiologist is wrong, you will have gotten a lot of knowledge that may prove helpful to someone else. Sending all my best to you and your family. Waiting is awful and one of the most stressful times.
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Hi Daisy777,
I am in Ottawa, ON. This just happened to me. I had a follow up ultrasound from my regular mammogram, and the radiologist came right out and said it was cancer. They can tell a lot from how the image looks.
Luckily here in Ottawa they have a great Women's Breast Health centre and so they immediately put me in a rapid assessment program. I had a biopsy the next day and an MRI the day after that. Tomorrow I see the surgeon and get the results from the biopsy. I saw my family doctor yesterday who read me the ultrasound report, there is another smaller mass adjacent to the tumour so I think there's no doubt it is cancer.
I have been around the block with this stuff several times before as I am at risk for a type of blood cancer. I can tell you for sure that the waiting for the results of a biopsy is truly the most difficult thing in the world. I have had a total of seven biopsies over the last sixteen years. I am still in shock over the breast cancer as I always thought I would for sure get the bone marrow cancer. Stage 1 breast cancer (I am hoping that is my diagnosis) is a far better diagnosis than the other......very treatable and often curable (don't know the stats on that) but the outlook is good. It does takea while to adjust to the "cancer" diagnosis.
Try to keep busy and good luck with getting your results!
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Wow, thank you so much for all the replies and thoughts!...I will continue to look here for support and thoughts from this forum. I am so grateful to be able to connect with you all that have been, or are going through similar situations....my husband and I both need it...he is also overwhelmed.
Now, somehow we shall try to remain sane while we wait for the official results. I will keep you posted.
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There's a reason why, in the BIRADS tumor-image classification system, it doesn't stop at 4 (0 means needs more imaging, 1 means no anomaly, 2 means definitely benign, 3 means probably benign, and 4 means suspicious for malignancy--4A slight suspicion, 4B moderate suspicion, and 4C highly suspicious and probably malignant but still possibly benign). A BIRADS 5 means definitely malignant, but biopsy is necessary to analyze the histology and receptor status, i.e, determine the exact kind of breast cancer. BIRADS 6 means already confirmed malignant by biopsy. When your radiologist says it's cancer after just looking at the imaging, that's BIRADS 5. If it were always medically impossible to identify cancer without a biopsy, the BIRADS system would stop at 4C.
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Yes, it is breast cancer. My Doc called and told me, apologizing for giving this information over the phone, but thought I would want to know. Said she is refering me to surgeon and it shouldn't take long. Said she didn't have any details there, so I called the Breast Centre at the hospital. They tell me again it's small, invasive, grade 2 is what she said....I really have no idea what that means??....she did say just because it is called invasive, doesn't mean it's gone anywhere else. Also, said a lumpectomy was suggested from what she was reading....Also said maybe I should consider surgery in smaller centres, as many surgeons are going on holidays right now. I cried for a bit, told my husband when he got home, and have yet to tell our 8 year old daughter. Something tells me compared to some, I should feel lucky, but I'm not quite there yet. : )
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Daisy777 - oh so very sorry about this...so hard and trying. And you are in the worst part until
you know what is going on and have a plan. Sending hope and encouragement!
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The invasive term means that part of the tumor has grown into the normal breast tissue and the rest is still in the milk duct or lobule tissue. It does not mean that the cells have traveled beyond the breast and have set up housekeeping elsewhere in the body.
Any cancer beyond a stage 0 ("in-situ": still in the cell) is considered "invasive."
As you can see from my diagnosis line, I was diagnosed at Stage 1 with a very aggressive cancer type almost 10 years ago and I am now healthy with no sign of any breast cancer.
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hi Daisy,
Very hard to hear. Friday I met with the surgeon and they confirmed mine. We were there for two hours and I came out with a treatment plan and piles of reference materials, including a coil-ring book of about 175 pages! I will have lumpectomy in about a month. If you have to wait a bit for surgery, they say these are slow growing. If I were you I would prefer to be in a larger centre, preferably a teaching hospital. The "grade" is not the same as stage, it means the types of cancer cells. Grade 1 is "organized" moving to Grade 3, which is disorganized (worse than Grade 1) I have grade 3 but they didn't seem overly concerned with that.
I really feel for you having an eight year old daughter. I feel lucky that my kids are grown, they are taking it pretty well (I was actually more worried about my parents as they are in their 80s)
I hope you get more information soon, the more information you get the better you will feel.
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Hi All, thanks for the info and encouragement...
Fiddler-I think you are right about waiting to be seen in the larger centre,,,for some reason it gives me more peace of mind going there. It sounds like things are moving quickly for you...and wow 175 pages of reference material, that's overwhelming I'm sure. We told our daughter on the weekend and since she had a lump (non cancerous) removed just before she was 2, we were able to compare it to that. She just wanted to make sure it wasn't in my lung, as my mom passed with lung cancer (smoker) before she was born. She's just worried about me having surgery, but then she said "I guess I'm perfectly fine after mine". They told me at the breast centre to not wait to long to tell her, but I still feel bad. As for your grown children, they are likely more upset than they are letting on...sorry not to upset you : ), but I was the daughter of a mom that had cancer as a grown woman, and in my mom's presence I was strong, but when I was not, it was very tough. I can't help but wonder too, if it's not tougher on the kids when they are older because they understand more?? As the mom of a small child though, I cannot stop thinking about her and how important it is to do everything I can to get better for her.....quite sure all mom's of kids all ages feel the same.
Sending positive vibes for your upcoming lumpectomy.
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Daisy,
If you are anxious and want more info, you can get your full pathology results either through a patient portal or through the medical records department where your biopsy pathology was done. Or through your MD, but I found it easier to just get the results myself.
I also bought some books on breast cancer. I recommend the one put out by Mayo Clinic that is available on Amazon.
You will get info on type of cancer (for instance, ductal or lobular), stage (1 without nodes since it is small), grade (you were told 2), estrogen and progesterone sensitivity of your tumor (if positive this means treatment with anti-hormone medication will help), HER2 status (this can take a couple of weeks; mine was positive after biopsy but negative after surgery, so I had it retested and it was negative), and possibly ki67% (which is a measure of proliferation).
If Her2- you will have an Oncotype Dx test done, usually after surgery. This is a major determinant of treatment. If low, then chemo will do more harm than good and recurrence risk is lower. I had a grade 3 tumor but my Oncotype was very low. There is some uncertainty about chemo for intermediate Oncotype scores. Also, the Oncotype uses 5 measures of proliferation so the ki67% is not the only one.
The other issue is lymph node involvement, which you find out about after surgery (good prospects for you). And lymphovascular invasion, which can be present with clean nodes and just means some cancer cells have gotten into the lymph or blood vessels. This can be focal and probably not a problem, or extensive. You didn't hear anything about "LVI" so you are probably fine.
I don't mean to overwhelm you, just want to give you an overview to the best of my ability from experience. For me, it was good to know the lay of the land, so to speak. Every cancer is treated individually. Many many people do just fine.
You will meet with the surgeon and decide on surgery. And you will meet with an oncologist and radiation person to decide on treatments after (sometimes before) surgery. Your main MD will be the medical oncologist. I personally think surgery is fine in a number of places but I was very picky about the oncologist.
Don't read too much. Watch movies and stay busy. A little Ativan or Xanax is not a bad idea at this stage. Just having it and not taking it helped me!
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it is a scary time and my heart goes out to you. Try to stay busy and keep your mind off this as much as you can. Worry won't make it go away and worry robs you of your energy. Just know that treatments today are very good. Being told you may have breast cancer isoverwhelming. Winding shores gave you lots of good information. Hang in the region. Big hugs.
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hi Daisy,
Glad you told your daughter and it sounds like you did it just the right way and she is dealing with it well. We are waiting, any day now, for our daughter to have her first baby so I think she is pretty preoccupied with that! In the space of a couple years, we now all of a sudden have four grandchildren. Our son married a girl with two boys ages 8 & 9, and they had a baby girl this past December. I'm glad my lumpectomy isn't for a month so I can go to Montréal and help out my daughter. Still waiting to hear the surgery date. Trying not to worry about the fact that they said it was grade 3. They didn't make too big a deal about it but from what I've read it doesn't sound good
Also in really awful news just found out my aunt, who I am very close to, has also been diagnosed with breast cancer! I am very worried about her, she is 81 and her son just died of pancreatic cancer in March. It sounds like hers was found early too. Also my room mate from university was just diagnosed! It's like an epidemic or something!
Sending you good wishes while you deal with your diagnosis and wait to hear more information.
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