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  • Rosevalley
    Rosevalley Member Posts: 3,061
    edited April 2016

    Ebru that's beautiful!

    Thinking of you Nancy and hoping you are enjoying these sunny days. May hospice support you well and your family get support too. Lots of love your way.

  • Bestbird
    Bestbird Member Posts: 2,818
    edited April 2016

    Nancy and Rosevalley, sending you both hugs along with wishes for a comfortable day filled with sunshine!

    Ebru, yourpicture is beautiful - we all took a moment's vacation!

  • fujiimama
    fujiimama Member Posts: 800
    edited April 2016

    joining you nacy in the no more chemotherapy. Body is just plain worn out. We'll see

  • Heidihill
    Heidihill Member Posts: 5,476
    edited April 2016

    Fujimama, wishing you the best in planning the next steps. (((Hugs)))

  • Woodylb
    Woodylb Member Posts: 1,454
    edited April 2016

    Nancy , i hope you are comforable, pain free and surrounded with those you love.


    Fujimama, wishing you the best on your next step .

  • Groovywilma
    Groovywilma Member Posts: 450
    edited April 2016

    Hi Nancy! Thinking of you. I hope your dogs are keeping you company! Dogs make me smile and I hope yours make you smile too! I hope you are having a good day.

  • fujiimama
    fujiimama Member Posts: 800
    edited April 2016

    This Oscar, fujimama's husband. I had no idea as to where to start this. my wife went back home to her lord Jesus on April 4th at around 10pm. She went peacefully with all her family and some best friends being by her side. Her mother was by her side all the way till the end of this journey. I want to apologize if this is the wrong place
    to bring this up. She has helped and support so many other in her long journey that I am sure I will never know how many peoples lives she changed. Thank you. She loved bring able to share and figure out what to expect from each treatment....

  • annieoakley
    annieoakley Member Posts: 870
    edited April 2016

    Oscar, I am so sorry for your loss, my most heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Your wife was an amazing woman and inspired many on these boards with her positivity and sheer determination. It is a sad day to know we have lost her. Sending love and light to all of her family and friends. She will be missed.

  • Shutterbug73
    Shutterbug73 Member Posts: 791
    edited April 2016

    Oscar, thank you for letting us know. As Annie said, your wife meant a great deal to us on the boards. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

  • Rosevalley
    Rosevalley Member Posts: 3,061
    edited April 2016

    How sad and sudden. Thank you for posting and letting us know. Blessings on your family and friends, rest in peace.

  • kt1966
    kt1966 Member Posts: 1,326
    edited April 2016

    I'm sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your children and the rest of the family.

    We'll miss Fujimama here too.

  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited April 2016

    fujiimama's husband, I'm terribly sorry to learn of the loss of your wife. It is never easy to lose a member from these boards to this disease. I will very much miss her, she's always contributed so much to the conversations over these past several years. Please accept my deepest condolences to you, your children and the rest of your wife's family and friends. May she rest in peace

  • Woodylb
    Woodylb Member Posts: 1,454
    edited April 2016

    Oscar, thank you for letting us know of fujimama passing. May her soul rest in peace and my deepest condolences to you and the entire family. I am glad she was surrounded with her loved ones.

  • RonnieKay
    RonnieKay Member Posts: 2,067
    edited April 2016

    Dearest Oscar...my heart is breaking. I'm sorry your dear wife, our sister, is gone from this earth. She certainly did love & support us...all the while sharing her zest for life & her family. Her thrill in riding horses, swimming, trying new exercise programs, walking the kidlets to school...it all was shared with joy & excitement. We talked about walking Manito Park together. I wish we would've had more time with her...but really wish she'd had many more decades with you and your children. We will remember her sweet spirit...may you feel her love around you.

  • artistatheart
    artistatheart Member Posts: 2,176
    edited April 2016

    Oscar, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I was not super familiar with your wife as i have not been on these boards for long. But it is always heartbreaking to hear of us losing another dear soul who has contributed so much to everyone. I wish you peace and comfort in this difficult time for you and your family.

  • Rosevalley
    Rosevalley Member Posts: 3,061
    edited April 2016

    Nancy- I was thinking about you and wanted to join in the BCO sisters in that circle of love and support. I know you felt good and happy with hospice and your team. That's fantastic. I hope they continue to support and hold you comfortably. I just wanted to send out loveingkindess and peace your way. (((Hugs)))

    Fugimama-To Oscar and your children, friends and family may you be comforted in the memories of your loving wife/mother. She is with you in your heart.

  • NewGardener
    NewGardener Member Posts: 109
    edited April 2016

    Dear Nancy, I am thinking about you in hospice. I hope you are comfortable and enjoying a lovely spring. I checked your blog and your husband seems wonderful in his help and care of you. You are very deserving. Heather

  • artistatheart
    artistatheart Member Posts: 2,176
    edited April 2016

    Think of you every day Nancy! I always love your picture of you and dh on here, it sticks in my mind when I think of you. Virtual hugs sent your way. I miss your lovely and supportive posts.......

  • RonnieKay
    RonnieKay Member Posts: 2,067
    edited April 2016

    Nancy...getting ready to walk & just wanted you to know that each walk I take, I dedicate to you, my dear Sister. I doubt you have been to Southcenter's Seattle Chocolate's warehouse (they may have one in your north end), but there's a huge poster of people climbing Mt Rainier, during the climb for cancer research. That was you!!! People wrote amazing things on it...to me, I only see you...in the picture of your half-marathon with your SILs, on the ship with your DH, in your vow-renewal splendor...so many visions locked in my mind. See...you & your spirit are everywhere! That's the impact you have on us...now and forever. I'm wishing you peaceful moments each day...I miss you too.

  • Woodylb
    Woodylb Member Posts: 1,454
    edited April 2016

    Nancy, thinking of you and sending you warmth , comfort and prayers

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited April 2016

    Sending good thoughts and wishes Nancy's way while feeling so sad about fujiimama. I knew she needed brain SRS but I had no idea things had gotten so dire

  • AmyJM
    AmyJM Member Posts: 665
    edited April 2016

    Nancy - sending prayers and love - you are in my thoughts - sending hugs your way. I'm glad that hospice is a help and hope that you are having peaceful, pain-free days with your family.

    I am so sad to hear about fujimama. Thank you Oscar, for letting us know. She was loved and will be missed by us here. My thoughts are with you and your family - my deepest condolences.


  • Longtermsurvivor
    Longtermsurvivor Member Posts: 1,438
    edited April 2016

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    Remembering you, dear Nancy!

    It is wonderful to get a sense of your gutsiness through your blog and your vast heart through the eyes and words of your well-wishers here.

    Wishing you well on this beautiful spring day.

    Love from your sister in hospice, Stephanie

  • JFL
    JFL Member Posts: 1,947
    edited April 2016

    Nancy, just thinking of you today and hoping your discomfort and pain are under control. We have many similarities based on age at original diagnosis, age at mets, on the cusp of starting a family when diagnosed with mets, running including the occasional half marathon . . . and I am from Seattle. I have always looked to you as inspiration on these boards and continue to do so. Also, you have such a wonderful, supportive husband. I am amazed at his strength when I read his blog posts. Few spouses would be able to communicate through words like he does. He does a great job sharing what you are going through with all who love you.

  • Groovywilma
    Groovywilma Member Posts: 450
    edited April 2016

    Nancy,

    I hope you are resting well and enjoying time with your family and friends. Sending you big hugs and smiles today!

  • diana50
    diana50 Member Posts: 2,134
    edited April 2016

    Nancy

    Been thinking about you pretty much on regular basis. Sending comfort and peace; your loved ones are right beside you; close. Praying you are comfortable and feeling the love.

    Diana

  • RonnieKay
    RonnieKay Member Posts: 2,067
    edited April 2016

    Sending warm, loving thoughts to you, Nancy. Hope you're feeling out hugs around you...XOXO

  • artistatheart
    artistatheart Member Posts: 2,176
    edited April 2016

    I'm thinking of you too Nancy! Hope you are getting some spring sunshine on your face and feeling comfortable. I miss your posts too....

  • steelrose
    steelrose Member Posts: 3,798
    edited April 2016

    Nancy,

    I came on here today especially because I was thinking of you! I'm following Jake's posts on your blog, and sending you both my love and best wishes. Miss you!

    Rose.

  • Rosevalley
    Rosevalley Member Posts: 3,061
    edited April 2016

    Joining the sister circle here of caring and love for you and your husband. I hope hospice is going well and you are enjoying this crazy wonderful warm sunny weather. Hugs from the next state under.

    rosevalley

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