breast pain and bone pain
I don't know if the breast cancer cells transfer to my bone?
I very worried about it, I have did 2 times ultrasound, and see a doctor at MT. SAINT JOSEPH, the doctor there is not helpful, when I ask him questions, he ignore me and send me home, but I really feel there is lump, and the doctor said it's a lump, but didn't do anything. I have wait to see him for about 1 month, and nothing I can do.
one month before I feel a little bit pain on my breast, and then right now my breast is not that pain, but all of my bone pain, I know once the cancer cells transfer to my bone, that's last stage cancer, I will die very soon. right now I can only wait to die. My family doctor is even worse, I ask him to refer me to see a specialist, and said I was getting worse, he only send the referral and said there is no urgent, I have been wait to see a Specialist for more than one month.
I saw many many walk in doctors, but nothing they can do, how can i get diagnose?. any advice would be appreciate, wait for the specialist ? go to the emergency? or go to another GP to get another referral ?
pls give me some advice, please, i can sleep every night...
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How old are you? Is it Mt. St. Joseph in vancouver?
Did you get the reports for the ultrasound and mammograms?
If you did can you post what they said here? If there was some reason to rush the doctor would see you sooner so try to relax. Did they say why they want to see you next month?
They must have given you more information.They don't just send you home without telling you why. We need more information here to help you.
Anxiety causes general pain. Talk to your doctor about your nerves.
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Thanks for your reply, I am 30 years old, Mt saint hospital in Vancouver.
the ultrasound said normal, no mammogram did.
the doctor who see me in 2 weeks later is another specialist, DR DINGEE.
I just feel it's long time, I am worried about if I get diagnose later, i will get worse
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It isn't that long to wait and I wouldn't worry if the ultrasound is normal. It is good that they are following up so you can relax but many people wait much longer. Try to find something to keep yourself busy until then. If you can't sleep talk you your family doctor (or walk-in if you don't have a GP) to see if they can help you with the anxiety issue. Try not to worry. I am sure you are fine.
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What Wrenn said is good insight.
A month isn't long.
It's hard, especially if one is feeling anxious, but try to separate your anxiety from the rest. With your U/S looking good, well that is very good thing! 
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