Hospital lost my cancer tissue. Desperate for support

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Joy-Anna
Joy-Anna Member Posts: 24

Hi Sisters, just a little background about me. I'm 43 and was diagnosed with triple negative stage 3 breast cancer the end of June 2015. A mammogram didn't pick up the cancer, the mammogram came back normal. I found a lump under my right arm which turned out to be cancer. I began chemo the beginning of July and did 16 rounds of chemo which ended the week before Christmas. I am the single parent to a beautiful 12 year old girl who is my everything. January 28th (few weeks ago) I had a double mastectomy and all lymph nodes were removed from under right arm. I had been waiting to hear the results from pathology regarding the tissue that was removed to determine next steps in treatment as well as to see how well the chemo worked. The latter part of last week I was informed by the surgeon that the tissue either never made it to the lab or the lab lost the tissue. He apologized and said this had never happened if his 29 years of experience. I am a very positive person and have fought this cancer bravely and courageously. I have faith in God and pray to him throughout the days. I've tried to keep my tears to the shower so my daughter doesn't see me cry through this. However, this lost tissue has pushed me to a place I was trying never to go to. I'm scared that now I will never know if in really cancer free. Now what?? Just pretend that all is good? I've been assured that the hospital and state will be conducting an investigation. Please sister's, any support would be treasured. I tend to try to deal with things on my own but I really feel like the only ones who can help me right now are you that have breast cancer or have been through it. Please pray for me today I'm really struggling. Love you all xoxo xoxo xoxo. In shock

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  • Lily55
    Lily55 Member Posts: 3,534
    edited February 2016

    What would happen if you tell them you are suing them for negligence? 

  • glennie19
    glennie19 Member Posts: 6,398
    edited February 2016

    Agree with kayb. I believe she has given you good advice. Consult an attorney and a 2nd opinion with MO. Wishing you all the best. glennie

  • Beatmon
    Beatmon Member Posts: 1,562
    edited February 2016

    What written changes are going to be made in procedure to guarantee that this doesn't happen again? What steps will be taken to figure out not how to manage your care with the least amount of pain? (Not even considering all of the legal ramifications)

    My lung biopsy was completed at 4 pm on a Friday afternoon, after about 40 times of manipulating the biopsy needle. When the tech came into the surgical suite to pick up the sample, I said to him, you make sure that sample goes directly to the pathologist and gets logged in! I see your name Tag. I know he thought I was high on drugs but I was dead serious....no pun intended!

  • Stephmoen
    Stephmoen Member Posts: 563
    edited February 2016

    they couldn't find my clip in my bReast and I was upset over that! If they lost my tissue I would be FURIOUS I would hire a lawyer

  • MargaretEleanor
    MargaretEleanor Member Posts: 42
    edited February 2016
    • Please, please consult an attorney! If not for yourself, please do it to protect your daughter! The uncertainty of this disease is stressful enough WITH the knowledge that you and your doctors have done everything possible to "cure" you. The information contained in that missing tissue is a huge piece of the treatment puzzle. I had my original breast tissue biopsy analyzed by two pathologists. Both agreed HER2+++. But, one reported ER-, no need for estrogen blocking. The other ER+ at 5%, estrogen blocking suggested. After neoadjuvent chemotherapy, all that remained of the 4.5cm multi-focal tumor was 4mm. The pathology of that tissue was HER2+++, ER+ at 80%, estrogen blocking required. It's a crafty, shifty, nasty, disease. Your doctors need the information in that tissue!
  • reflect
    reflect Member Posts: 576
    edited February 2016

    I am so sorry this is happening to you. What support do you have from your medical team? What does your MO say? You need a plan for your treatment and monitoring in place that gives you as much security as possible. I am sending a big warm and very gentle hug and positive healing thoughts for you and your daughter.

    (Sometimes legal action can cause great pain and stress on top of what has already happened. I would keep that option open, but I would focus on your health, sense of security and well being right now.)

    Love and light.

  • ShetlandPony
    ShetlandPony Member Posts: 4,924
    edited February 2016

    Joy-Anna, what a terrible experience for you. Do allow yourself to rage and cry at this latest blow. I hope you can find a therapist, family member, or friend who will support you in person, as well as the members here. Trying to put myself in your place, I think when I was ready I would ask the doctors, "What could the path report have told you, and how would that have affected treatment recommendations? Best- and worst-case scenarios and percent chance of each? I suppose additional chemo and/or rads were to be considered, and now this decision must be made without a path report? If blood tests and scans will help you feel more secure, they owe you blood tests and scans. They also owe you a fast-track appointment to whatever high-powered cancer center you want to visit for an expert second opinion on what to do from here. And a free massage and anything else to give you a break and help you deal with this situation. I hope this does not sound insensitive because I mean it as a way to help deal with the loss of your path report: None of us who have had bc get to know we are cancer-free. We all figure out as best we can how to live with uncertainty, even when there is a path report. I'm so sorry this happened to you. You will get through this and continue to be there for your beautiful daughter.

  • Joy-Anna
    Joy-Anna Member Posts: 24
    edited February 2016

    Thank each and everyone of you who replied I've read and re-read your responses and just as I thought, they did make me feel better and more at peace. Since it's all just happening now, I haven't even talked with my primary oncologist yet. I will contact a lawyer on Monday and follow the advise of all of you. I don't want anyone else to go through this. Someone needs to be held accountable for this "mistake". I will continue to pray and get a second opinion. I will also research what additional testing I would benefit from and I will take action. I will not be passive regarding this. I will follow up with you sisters too. Oh how your words comfort me. I'm also researching local support groups. I well keep you posted. I know God has my back too and won't leave me hanging. I just wonder how this could have even happened. It's going to be interesting what their investigation turns up and what they propose to do to "fix" it. Additional scans blood work?? I hope an attorney takes my case. Again, thank you for all of your support, I'll keep you all posted. God bless and hugs to you all. Peace xoxo xoxo xoxo

  • obsolete
    obsolete Member Posts: 466
    edited March 2017

    JoyAnna, I'm sorry to read about your issues. What you can also do in the interim:

    1) Visit your hospital Pathology Dept.to withdraw your biopsy slides. Say you need the biopsy slides to obtain 2nd & 3rd opinions. Keep your biopsy slides at home for safekeeping, before those slides conveniently "disappear" also.

    2) Meet with your Pathology lab and ask them to walk you through their "process" to educate and arm yourself.

    3) Consider seeking 2nd opinions on the pathology of your earlier biopsy slides. Also ask the 2nd opinion pathology lab for their process, for comparison.

    4) Speak to plastic surgeons at "outside" hospitals to inquire about the possibility of securing any additionsl tissue samples during reconstruction, to ascertain clean margins and to reverse the tissue sampling process.

    The steps above may or may not help your cause, but it's worth a try. Good luck. Hugs!

  • Joy-Anna
    Joy-Anna Member Posts: 24
    edited February 2016

    Thank you guys so much for guiding me through this I feel less like a deer in headlights. I'm ready to walk through this and get some answers. I'm also waiting on a return call from a lawyer I contacted. I'll keep you posted....hugs

  • BarredOwl
    BarredOwl Member Posts: 2,433
    edited February 2016

    Joy-Anna:

    I am so sorry. I have no relevant experience or knowledge about this situation.

    An attorney should be able to advise you about how best to ensure preservation of all existing patient medical records, all imaging, any pathology slides or tissue blocks, samples in any state of processing, and all associated hospital record-keeping, etcetera, as well as how to regain access to any that you are entitled to.

    This statement: "that the tissue either never made it to the lab or the lab lost the tissue" is vague and indefinite, on its face does not reflect systematic or intelligent follow-up, and is not an adequate statement of the fate of your samples.

    In connection with your care, please be sure to ask what could be done in the short-term, for example with the assistance of an independent patient advocate and/or attorney whose duty is to you, towards determining:

    (a) what labeling, record-keeping, and tracking practices are used at this facility and which of these procedures was actually applied to your samples based on hospital records

    (b) what does the information from (a) indicate about the possible labeling, forwarding, handling, possible current location, and/or disposition of your samples

    (c) in view of (b), what procedures have been used to search for your samples

    (d) were the procedures used in (c) to search for your samples appropriately thorough and exhaustive, such that it is essentially certain that the samples are in fact irretrievably lost or compromised (with no possibility of later discovery)

    For example, can it be determined whether the tissues actually arrived in the lab? If so, were they frozen, but mis-filed or discarded in error? If frozen and mis-filed, could a suitable search still locate them in time for the information to inform your care? You should be entitled to more exact information about the status of the samples.

    Perhaps an attorney can assist you in this regard and/or help you engage an independent patient advocate. Perhaps new providers and patient advocates at a wholly independent institution can assist you or direct you to appropriate assistance. Perhaps the State Attorney General's office can provide some advice or assistance about finding a patient advocate to help you definitively determine the current status of your samples.

    I send you my best.

    BarredOwl

  • Joy-Anna
    Joy-Anna Member Posts: 24
    edited February 2016

    First of all thank you for your email. So much great information in there. I contacted a very good attorney in the city where I live and I'm waiting to hear if he'll take my case. I pray that he does. I should know by Wednesday they said. The Administrator of the hospital called me yesterday to apologize. He's doing his job of trying to keep the peace. He said that he would be following up on things and working with the lab etc. Needless to say his words did little to comfort me. He offered to meet with me along with the surgeon and head of the lab. I really would love to have the guidance of a lawyer before I do that. He also offered me a PET scan. I know they just want this to quietly go away, but it's not going to. He said that the lab states that they never got the sample at all. When I questioned him further, he knew nothing and could give me absolutely no answers. I am working with patient advocate from the hospital, who is as kind and helpful as she can be, but has no answers and mainly just apologizes to me. States Attorney General office....good idea. Pray for me please that God guides me in every step and pray that this lawyer takes my case. I don't want anyone else to have to go through this. Someone needs to be held accountable. I'll keep you all posted, my dear sisters. Xoxo

  • Lily55
    Lily55 Member Posts: 3,534
    edited February 2016

    Good luck, its an appalling error on their part, make them pay.....and get the treatment you deserve

  • Hopeful82014
    Hopeful82014 Member Posts: 3,480
    edited February 2016

    Joy-Anna, until you have an attorney to work with, you might want to consider asking that all communications from the hospital be in writing. Also, many times patient advocates are employed by the hospital or the system that runs the hospital and thus may not be entirely as committed to your best interests as they seem.

    I'm not a litigious person, nor do I think I'm particularly paranoid but there are some instances where one needs to be very cautious and guarded and I think this is one of them.

    Good luck to you - I hope you can engage an excellent attorney AND I hope that your medical team is working overtime to ameliorate the impact to your health and well-being.

  • Joy-Anna
    Joy-Anna Member Posts: 24
    edited February 2016

    I have wonderful news. Around 4:30 this afternoon I received a phone call from one of the best law offices in the city in which I live (the law office I called about the missing tissue sample). They called to tell me that they would be interested in representing me in this case. I feel like God is really got his hands in this. I've prayed and prayed about this and shed a bucket full of tears. I feel like I'm not alone with you, my sisters and now with the support of a legal team. I am so grateful. I meet with my oncologist tomorrow as well as plastic surgeon... It's going to be business as usual follow ups. Im of course not going to say anything about litigation but just see what's the they have to say etc I will then meet with my attorney Friday morning. I will keep u posted my sisters xoxo xoxo xoxo hugs

  • ksusan
    ksusan Member Posts: 4,505
    edited February 2016
  • Beatmon
    Beatmon Member Posts: 1,562
    edited February 2016

    Don't be surprised if the hospital is unwilling to meet with you once they hear that you have legal counsel. They are hoping this will all go away quietly

  • Ridley
    Ridley Member Posts: 634
    edited February 2016

    Joy-Anna - sorry this happened to you. One additional thought is to ask your oncologist or surgeon about doing an MRI or a PET scan to check for any residual cancer. I suspect the chances are very low, but one of the checks pathology would do is on the margins of the tissue removed.

    Wishing you peace in resolving this situation.

  • reflect
    reflect Member Posts: 576
    edited February 2016

    Joy-Anna, how did your meeting with the oncologist go? I'm thinking of you.

  • Joy-Anna
    Joy-Anna Member Posts: 24
    edited February 2016

    Hi sister, sorry for the delayed response. A lot has happened regarding my situation and I also had a swim meet to attend for my daughter as well as a hosted a sleep over for she and some friends. I want to just be a mom and give her normal fun childhood joys despite having to manage my pain both physical and mental. By the grace of God we had a wonderful weekend. My oncologist appointment went just as I had imagined it. She assured me of what a good surgeon I had and how bad both he and she felt about what had happened. She wanted to hear my version of what I had been told. I told her that I understood that my tissue had been lost. She nodded yes and then said that she "felt" that the cancer was gone and we should be celebrating that right now. She said that we all needed to be optimistic despite what happened and move forward with the already planned 6 rounds of radiation. She thought we could do a PET scan after the radiation which will begin the middle of March. I didn't know what to say and wanted to just hear what she had to say about it all. Especially knowing that I was soon going to speak with a lawyer. It's been very emotional because she had nothing to do with the error and I loved her as my oncologist. I'm torn in many different directions and trying to come to terms with everything. She seems to be on the side of "let's just move on and assume it's gone". I did meet with a medical malpractice attorney... One of the biggest firms(if not the biggest and most powerful) in the city in which I live. They want to represent me in this case and feel I have a strong medical malpractice case. I did sign paperwork and retained an attorney. I felt heard and validated by having them take this case. I continue to sift through next steps, day at a time. Prayer, healthy eating, loving my daughter and family and trying to take for granted no moments is how I am carrying on right now. I have alot of pain under my right arm where the lymph nodes were removed so also managing that. I will be getting second opinions as well which will be my next step. I'll keep you sisters posted. Hugs, love and prayers sent your way.

    Xoxo xoxo xoxo

  • Joy-Anna
    Joy-Anna Member Posts: 24
    edited February 2016

    Also, I feel that my oncologist wants me to go away quietly and just be optimistic and Happy. She doesn't know yet that a lawsuit is coming. No offense to her, but she definitely is on the side of the doctor and hospital. I'm coming to terms with this and regarding next steps to take.

  • fifthyear
    fifthyear Member Posts: 225
    edited February 2016

    Joy Anna, I agree with Weareconnected that you should get the slides from the hospital. Anything related to your surgery, get them BEFORE your lawyer contacts them. They will shut down at that point. Good luck with this process.

  • ShetlandPony
    ShetlandPony Member Posts: 4,924
    edited February 2016

    It sounds like you are thinking clearly about this, Joy-Anna. I love that you have been able to enjoy your daughter's swim meet and sleepover in spite of it all. Those relationships and experiences are the reasons we do the treatment, right?

  • Sugar8
    Sugar8 Member Posts: 47
    edited December 2016

    Good luck Joy-Anna. I read your posts and pray that you remain strong through your journey. It's already so hard to cope 'normally' when care pathways are going smoothly so I can only imagine what a nightmare you must be going through. I wish you all the best .

    Love

    Sugar8



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