So...whats for dinner?
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Incredibly good news, Susan! I'm so happy those tumor markers are behaving. I have to admit to being a bit nervous.
SpecialK, you are my heroine in the kitchen! You are such a marvelous menu planner in addition to being skilled at the preparation stage. My favorite way to entertain guests is to go out to dinner with them!
Dh's brother arrives tomorrow afternoon. The plan is for dh to cook chicken and sausage gumbo tomorrow morning. He suggested that menu and offered to make the gumbo. He even did the grocery shopping today. We'll have a salad, maybe Caesar and garlic bread made with some French bread to be purchased tomorrow. If he knew about SpecialK's food plans, BIL would definitely go there instead of here. Appetizer will be cheese and crackers with some pepper jelly. Ta-DA! And a vodka martini with Smirnoff, not Grey Goose. I finished up the Grey Goose, which is so-o-o pricey.
I guess I should think about snacks for Super Bowl on Sunday.
Yay for rehab for Nance's dad. And Red's dad.
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Such good news Susan

You know we are all happy about the news
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Not eating or drinking actual grapefruit or grapefruit juice--just grapefruit flavored white balsamic vinegar (made from white grape, not grapefruit juice). Fear not!
Last night I wore the gauntlet all day. Defrosted some paiche filets from WF(farmed in Ecuador, sort of like a cross between cod & halibut) and brushed on some sugar-and-salt-free Mediterranean herb/lemon/olive oil marinade. Then sprinkled them with a little Sicilian orange sea salt and pan-seared them. Also blanched some broccolini and then sauteed it in olive oil, garlic, lemon juice, red pepper flakes and a dash of kosher salt. Drank lime seltzer with it. Unfortunately, got herb marinade on the gauntlet’s thumb & palm. Ick.
Today was a “good LE day.” Therapist declared my measurement have gone down a little since 3 wks ago. So I’m not wearing compression today. She also said my breast fibrosis is softening considerably. And I broke the 5000-step mark on my FitBit (hey, it’s a start). The new Mediven sleeve arrived, and my therapist confirms the top band is still too narrow and the sleeve itself 3” too long. So I returned it, too, and got a duplicate Juzo--with a Juzo glove that is flexier in the fingers than the Mediven (and its fingers are a tad shorter). So I can now wear a glove to play guitar--and not have to find a pediatric glove or get a custom sleeve!
Saw the MO--she’s delighted that I’m down 1 lb. since starting letrozole--she says if I stay the same weight all year it’s a victory. She also says that I should get Reclast instead of Prolia because Reclast is covered by Part D as a Tier 4 whereas Prolia is a Tier 5 or not even covered--and she says ongoing trials are showing Reclast more effective in preventing recurrence than Prolia. (My PCP is against Reclast, saying he’s seen horizontal thigh fractures with it). I see my DDS next week--he knows my jawbone better than anyone else, so it’ll be his call. I don’t need to decide till August. No med-MJ card--she doesn’t think it does anything for patients not having chemo anorexia or stage IV bone pain, and the smokable form of weed (mostly THC) can be estrogenic. No pure CBD oil in Chi-area dispensaries yet.
No idea what to make tonight--could do a choucroute garnie, but since the wine we ordered last Thurs. is in, I might drive to B’way Cellars instead and have some soup and tuna tartare (or an ahi Niçoise, hold the spuds). It’s up to Gordy--he’s home tonight after working the lights & sound at pH Comedy Collective for the kids’ standup open mic.
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Happy for you Susan!
Glad you LE is better Chi.
Had to use the ground turkey so sloppy joes on flatbread. Not to bad.
To all much live.
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Opted for the choucroute--path of least resistance. Kinda weird to have it w/o riesling or beer, but LaCroix cherry-lime seltzer was pretty darn yummy! (Had been hoping to find some Buffalo wings in the freezer--have a mani-pedi tomorrow and was not worried about turning my tips & cuticles orange tonight).
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Dh's brother arrived today. He lives near Chicago. In honor of his visit, I made three dips today. A sour cream and ranch dressing powder mixture, hummus, and grated cheddar cheese with diced roasted red pepper and mayo. Using leftover home-made tortillas, I made some tortilla chips but they are not wonderful. They're rather hard and probably not salty enough for most people. I have a bag of Frito dippers that are definitely salty enough. And also some good whole grain crackers. So we'll have snacks at cocktail time.
The chicken gumbo is made. I cut up the chicken and removed most of the skin and dh did the rest. All that remains is to cook brown rice and make a salad. And slice up a bought French baguette.
Today is a cool, sunny, lovely day, high in the 50's. BIL came from FL where he visited other family members. He enjoyed some 80 temperatures there. Too warm for me.
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Chi, do you cook your choucroute with Riesling? Great minds think alike. This is on the menu for tomorrow night after going to see my dad.
Chicken cacciatore with fresh pasta tonight. Was supposed to be last week, but we opted for something else at the last minute.
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Today was busy. Meeting with the tile guy, reviewing the new window placement [looks great!], electrician review [several errors], and shoveling. Two houses of shoveling. And that doesn't even include all the billable hours I snuck in. Lunch was our Chinese leftovers. For dinner, I made a leek and potato soup which I served with some sautéed sausage chunks in the soup. This soup grew! I started with 2 qts of last week's stock, and somehow the results are 6 servings. Now, I know we are eating less, but this is a bit "loaves and fishes." I know what we will have for lunch tomorrow.
I have lost track... are both of our Kitchen Table dads in rehab now or are you still waiting for those early morning phone calls? If they are in rehab, I hope that you are enjoying your full nights of sleep.
*susan*
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Lots of snow in our part of Rhode Island.
.Thank you Stouffers Mac and cheese family size and Campbell's soup. Kale will round out the meals
We have very wet snow with huge flakes. The trees are so beautiful. They took my breath away driving home. They are covered with heavy snow and in the evening light looked like a winter wonderland. Sorry about the cliche but they did. Some people have turned on their blue or white Christmas lights over the bare limbs, with the snow on them, which make me just appreciate the beauty of the snow storm so much more, even though there's snow! .
Drive carefully everyone up here.
Dang fireplace broke, but I have 2 excellent books to read.
Auntie I used to make chicken cacciatore for my second husband, He really liked it, can't remember where I got the recipe, but I think any recipe would be good. I made it with inexpensive chicken drumsticks or thighs
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My dad is still in the hospital and has come down with pneumonia so no transfer to rehab yet. We will see him tomorrow, so I'll see what's up.
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Bedo, I've been making that dish for so long I don't even use a recipe. Always good.
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Nancy, I usually make my choucroute with riesling and juniper berries--and start it out by sauteeing diced bacon. Since I’m watching both booze & calories now, I simply rinsed & drained the remainder of the raw sauerkraut & caraway seeds that was in the jar, put a veal bratwurst and a kosher hot dog on top and let it cook on “low” for 20 min. Cracked open a fresh jar of Dijon (Maille)--amazing how much zestier it tastes when it’s fresh. Used to drink Alsatian riesling, cremant d’Alsace or a pilsner with it. Seltzer this time.
Going out to dinner with Bob tonight--need to pick up the wines we ordered at B’way Cellars’ winemaker dinner last week (forgot that if I’d gone Tues. night the winemaker would’ve autographed the labels), so we’re driving instead of walking. Not sure what I’ll have--probably the strip steak chimichurri, or pork shank mole if it’s on the menu, unless there’s a killer fish or poultry special. If the entree is fish, I’ll stick to a glass of cava; otherwise, start with seltzer and pick a red that looks good. They offer almost as many wines by the glass as by the bottle. Not gonna have a salad--just polished off the last of the Israeli salad from Whole Foods.
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I'm sorry Auntie. I know it is hard.
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Thanks Bedo. Sigh, it always seems to be one step forward, two steps back.
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Chi, this is my first time making it with the wine. I was intrigued the last time you mentioned it so wanted to try something different since its one of my DH's favorite meals.
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Nance,
So hard. I really hope that he starts healing and regains his strength quickly. Best thoughts,
*susan*
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Nance, hope you dad gets back to normal and you can get some good care arrangements in place. I'm right there with you on the parents to your parents thing..
It makes me sad to see my once all powerful, all capable mom no long all powerful or all capable.....and I KNOW you feel the same way with your dad.
Oh, test #2 came back for Sharon....her CEA is 31... :-| Now it's the watchful waiting and repeat the test in a bit....i'm hoping it's her arm healing that elevated the number.
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Eric,
I know I know, the CEA is not the be end, but damn 31 is high. Did she also have the 27.29? For me, that is the accurate one. I can't imagine what her brain is doing right now. If she weren't eating Jenny Craig food, I would suggest a nice, comforting stew and lots of hugs.
*susan*
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Thanks everyone for the well wishes. First chemo done. It was a rough day, had to be there by 8:00 and then walk over to imaging department to get a US on neck because I felt a swollen lymph node below my jaw line. It was nerve wrecking all day BUT results were good and 'unremarkable' ( struck me how funny 'unremarkable' has such good connotation in this context) except for 9mm nodule on the thyroid which she is not concerned about at this time. Hopefully she is right.
It occurred to me that I must be living in the wrong house! I am not eating even as good as all your leftovers. You ladies are a remarkable lot, all this menu planning and creative recipes. I spent the last few years indulging in baking to connect with my heritage and now I am told that sweets are a no no! That is just not right.
@Susan, yay on results! I know how good it is to here great news.
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Kiks,
Who says that your heritage cooking isn't good? Yes. Sweets should not be a large part of our diet, but that doesn't mean that they are not "good." I am uncomfortable with calling any food "bad." Food is just food. During chemo, you should eat anything that appeals. I didn't have the energy to talk about this when you first asked, but let me chime in now.
For me, during chemo, I needed frequent meals. I went from eating two meals a day, to about 7. But none of them were large, and they were very protein/vegetable based. I used my three days of steroid energy to cook. I will list in no particular order, the foods that I had ready to reheat: oatmeal, breakfast every day, meatballs, mini quiche [those were a labor of steroids and love], hard boiled eggs, dumplings, mashed potatoes, soups with chicken stock, and then whatever appealed. I also made eggs and smoothies for my 10am meal. I did not eat raw vegetables at restaurants. The meals that I shared with my family included more standard fare, but only items that passed my "what can I eat" test. I made most of this food from scratch, but I believe that most of them are available in your frozen food aisle.
During chemo, eat the stuff that you can imagine eating. Now is not the time to ponder "healthy" whatever that means. Eat what your body wants. There is plenty of time later to consider lifetime options.
*susan*
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I'm going to attempt to catch up but I cannot match anything you've cooked. I made plain old spaghetti which lasted 2 nights and then kale, bean, ham soup that is leftovers tonight. Tomorrow I don't know what I'll make. I have the makings for lots of stuff frozen. Might be plain chicken breasts and vegies. Or also have stuff to make mac and cheese with roasted chilies (that are residing in the freezer). I might (fingers crossed) get DH to BBQ something - weather should cooperate.
I bought a wad of frozen pizza dough at WalMart of all places. It probably has minimal instructions on it but any suggestions on how to handle it would be welcome. It's about the size of a small-med sourdough loaf.
Sandy - that is a great story about your son and the mussels/oysters.
See that I missed Minus leaving for Hawaii. Waving and hope you are having a fabulous trip.
Red - I hope your DF sees the wisdom of staying there. Making friends at dinner can only be a plus and with a nice staff - Oh My.
Lacey and Susan - loved the story of the meet up. And the food sounds wonderful.
Oh Nancy see your update about your Dad. Much prayer going up for him. Have a safe drive out there tomorrow.
Kiks - so glad your 1st treatment is behind you and you have the weekend to rest up. Susan gives very wise advice for treating yourself during this phase.
Eric - hoping that the CEA is a flukey #. Not sure of it's significance in BC. I've only heard about the 27-29. For your sake I hope the weather stays calm.
Bedo - when do you hear about the new job in Cambridge? I too have never used a pressure cooker and don't see me starting. My DM was fearless with hers, a giant thing that I was terrified of too.
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I see my refresh missed a couple of things. That's what happens when I go back/forth between several pages.
Susan - Can't say how very happy I am to hear about the TMs drop. When is dear GB due?
Special - what a menu. You can certainly tell you know your way around a kitchen.
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Susan, she is just kind of ignoring things and continuing on. I tell myself not to worry; that Mickey and Sharon, besides being different people, had different cancers and there have been 3 decades of treatment advances....but the mind doesn't always follow the heart.
Kiks, Sharon had a huge steroid high-energy-buzz for a couple of days after each chemo. When it wore off, she didn't crash, but she did slow down a bit. Unremarkable does have a nice ring to it. There may be other such "incidentalomas"....the scans are so detailed and everyone is working so hard to find *something* on the scans, that stuff that isn't a problem, and never will be a problem, will be noticed.
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Eric, ((Hugs)) for Sharon and you. This CRAP is gut wrenching for sure.
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Eric, "ignoring things and continuing on" just makes sense to me....until she hears further diagnostics. I always think that the loved ones can carry more anxiety during watchful waiting and you are prime for that given your history. Wish we could lift your worry. Hugs to you and Sharon from me, too.
I did make it to the MO yesterday in the height of our snow storm. I ended up on the highway in the middle of a not small armada of giant snowplows! Yikes, that was an experience....especially since they just cut across lanes whenever they wanted to, cutting off several cars. I was strategic in avoiding their monstrous blades, and made it to the hospital with all fenders in tact.
. My appt. and blood work were "unremarkable" and for that I am grateful. I was also thrilled that I encountered several new nurses and support staff who were particularly pleasant and helpful. What a positive tone that sets!! I hope they stay. My MO did say that she would not at all be concerned about a cortisone shot in my shoulder setting off LE reactions, so that is a relief. After my appt. I took the side roads back to my town and dragged two large vases to a flower store to get one filled with flowers for an event for which I was asked to provide a simple arrangement. The center of our town was a mess with the snow piles, and icy slush and I was glad I wrapped the vases in towels as I was slipping and sliding on foot. I'd been told I could get a nice bouquet for $35, and when I arrived, the owner told me he could make me an arrangement for $135 and up! Fortunately the woman I'd spoken with before was there and told him how much I wanted to spend. He reluctantly gathered some flowers with my preferred colors, wrapped them in a bouquet, I paid, and left. Then my car got stuck in the snowbank surrounding it. I was very pleased to remember how I used to rock a car to get enough momentum to propel out of same. And as soon as a kind driver was willing to stop on our busy main street to wait for me, I rocked and rocketed myself back on to the road. I was happy to get home, where I intrepidly plowed through the mound at the end of the driveway.
Anyone in this area has probably seen the stunning sunset we had at the end of the storm. Here are two pix of the "golden trees" which Mother Nature gifted us..

Dinner was an after thought....Rao's marinara with meatballs I found in the freezer over linguini, and a big salad with lots of greens I have on hand.
I am about to make pizza dough with my 00 flour, so pizza it is tonight!
We have Winston the pooch for this week as DS2 and DGF are heading to St Lucia. My allergies are already acting up.
I think a trip to the groomer with him might help. His fur picks up everything on the ground. -
Lost one pic...

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wow.... Is that white stuff what's called snow? :-)
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Last night, it was time to refresh my rye starter. I really, really hate to throw out starter and it is not yet time to make bread. A quick google search, and it was clear. I needed to make discard starter pretzels. I divided the starter and fed the first half with more pumpernickel flour and threw it into the fridge. I added some white flour to this one, and left it on the counter. This morning, the white flour starter was having a party. White flour was like crack to this starter. The 100% starter on the other hand was just a bit puffy, as I expect. The pretzel dough is rising now. Stopped by the Japanese/Korean market and picked up some pork, in the katsu "style" and a Granny Smith apple. I will pound the pork to make a schnitzel like preparation, served with wedges of Meyer lemons. I will sautéed some red cabbage with apples, apple cider, etc. for a German-stype preparation. And then those pretzels, the inspiration for tonight's meal. If I can find some bits and bobs of green stuff in the fridge, I might make a second side.
Leftover potato-leek soup for lunch. I used the remainder of last week's rye bread to make some croutons which was a nice textural addition.
*susan*
p.s. Yes Eric. That was snow. The sunset yesterday was magnificent.
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Kiks, I hope you're feeling well today. You obviously had a big day yesterday.
Lacey, gorgeous pics! I miss New England. I lived in Boston for four years during college.
Auntienance, prayers out for your father. My dad was hospitalized for pneumonia twice in the last 3 years, and it's scary, but my dad came out thriving both times. It just takes a while to completely recover.
Tonight is shepherd pie, with ground turkey instead of lamb, and salad with a balsamic vinaigrette I made yesterday
Bedo, Love Stouffers Mac and cheese. It reminds me of my childhood
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Last night, Bob called from the hospital where he was making rounds, and said he wanted to go out to dinner at B’way Cellars. Normally, he’d drive directly there and I’d walk so I could be the designated driver home (or he’d drive home and we’d both walk to & from). But we had a half-case of wine to pick up, so he came home and we took my car. I usually start with a flute of cava and if my entree called for a red, I’d drink about half of that (and give Bob the rest). Portions are big, so we usually bring home leftovers. But since we both wanted the same salad, app & entree we decided to split all three courses. I also skipped the cava and drank water till the entree. Salad was julienne apple, baby greens, “craisins,” walnuts & sherry vinaigrette. App was mussels steamed in a white wine broth spiked with Dijon mustard, tarragon and a little cream (which I slurped with a spoon while Bob sopped it up with the included croutons). Entree was a NY strip, med. rare, with wild mushroom demi-glace, haricots verts, and roasted Brussels sprouts instead of mashed potatoes. I drank a Jovino Pinot Noir from OR--but I actually stopped at 3 oz., without making the conscious decision to do so. I’m noticing these days that with reds, once I’m done with the foods that accompany them I’m done with them as well, even after I’ve had just an ounce or two. (Before bc, I’d order or raid the fridge for cheeses to accompany it). Unfortunately, I have no such discipline when it comes to good sparkling wine. (Not a fan of prosecco or other bulk-processed sparklers). So full we couldn’t even think about dessert. Later at home I had a decaf espresso and a square of 85% dark chocolate (Green & Black, which tastes even better than some brands of 72%).
This morning, I made my son a bagel & schmear with lox, dill and capers. Had the same, but subbed out the bagel for a slice of low-carb 100% whole wheat toast, and added a little red onion and sliced tomato (which he hates). Bob left early for work and had brunch at the hospital. He has to stay over in Oak Lawn tonight so he can get home in time for B’way Cellars’ private Super Bowl party tomorrow. So for Gordy & me I’m defrosting a couple of salmon fillets (today is salmon day!), baking a purple sweet potato, and quickly stir-frying some sugar-snap peas. (Talk about "eating the rainbow"....). Will have either water or seltzer & lime with it.
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