prophylactic surgery
Has anyone else here decided to do a preventative double mastectomy? I have made that decision and am scheduled for July 29. I would love to connect with others who made that decision. I am 25 years old. I work with at risk and special needs teens. I enjoy garage sales, pinterest, music, jewelry making and hard apple cider. My favorite scent is black raspberry vanilla. My favorite bra is lavender. I bought it on vacation with one of my dearest friends. I am getting breast reconstruction but I have decided to go smaller. I grew up watching my mom and aunt go through cancer and their later double mastectomy surgeries when they tested positive for the genetic mutation. I feel at peace doing what I can to fight the cancer before it comes but as the date gets closer, im feeling woozy bracing myself for what's ahead. What are your stories?
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I am 54 years old and have the BRCA 2 mutation. I am meeting with a surgeon and plastic surgeon tomorrow to discuss a prophylactic double mastectomy. I am going to Roswell. I would love to here who you are seeing and also hear from other people who have had this surgery here in Buffalo.
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Hi hirisk,
I was also at high risk and chose to have a PBMX nipple sparing one step last December. It's a hard decision to make but once I made the decision to have it done, I was at peace with it. The morning of my surgery, I woke up with a peaceful feeling knowing that I wasn't going to have to go through what my mom, sister, and aunt went through. I will not lie, the surgery and recovery are hard. I know some women here have said it was easier than they thought, but for me it wasn't. The hardest part was not being able to use my arms. Some women on here have called it t-rex arms. This only lasted for me a couple of weeks. Once the drains were removed, I was able to start exercising my arms and getting my range of motion back. My PS put me a pain pump that lasted five days. I didn't have much pain, and didn't take pain killers. Once the pain pump was removed, I took advil. It is now seven months since my surgery, and I will be having some fat grafting done in the future to fix some divots. Not sure when I want to go through another surgery. The best part is not having to wear a bra, especially now in the summer. Good luck on July 29th.
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Hi Ladies,
I am brac 2+. Had I known this before my cancer, I would have had the surgery.
You can go to the breast reconstruction topic and ask questions. It's very active over there.
Good luck & hugs
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Good luck with your surgery Tuesday. I hope you have a speedy recovery. Get plenty of rest after surgery and don't try to do too much.
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Hi! I am 38 and tested positive for the braca1 mutation. I learned this when my youngest of three was 15 months old and was breastfeeding(A year and a half ago). I decided to do the surgeries. My mom died of cancer when I was 16(had ovarian cancer) and mom's two sisters died of mets breast cancer. So a about a year ago had a total hysterectomy and about 4 weeks ago had a PBM with expanders. The PBM was tough...very painful. I started to feel the pain about six hours after the surgery. It felt like a ton of bricks were on my chest. So I was pressing the pain pump as much as possible. When I was home the pain felt like my chest was throbbing and tight. So I made sure I stayed on top of the pain meds. Everyone is different. So you may not experience much pain. I was off the pain meds in a week. A huge mental and physical improvement was when the drains were removed. I had four drains and a pain pump attached to me. Mentally that was a drag and when all the attachments were removed I was SO HAPPY. Every day after the surgery gets better and better. The surgeries and mutation diagnosis have taught me to enjoy everything in life(especially those little things) and take nothing for granted. ! I have no regrets. I am happy to answer any questions you may have!
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I have just been presented with this situation as I received word that my BRCA2 came back positive. I knew what I wanted to do if I did, and now I am thinking whether that is the right thing to do or not. I know it is the right thing to do and will come thru it fine, but it still doesn't help how I am feeling and what is going on in my mind. I am 35 and have my family.
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hi td - I know our situtions are different, since I've been dx, and it's a highly personal decision, but for what it's worth, I would have surgery 10 times again before I would even consider chemo and the mental anguish of breast cancer at 35. Just my perspective. Good luck with your decision! Xo
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I had PBMX in July with TE reconstruction. Unfortunately, I have developed chronic pain with all of this. In my research before surgery, I only found one article about PMPS, post mastectomy pain syndrome. That being said, I had the surgery at a very stressful time in my life. My youngest just had a seizure, my mom and dad were moving, my mom was diagnosed with lung cancer again, and my dad's dementia was getting worse. I would also do it again. I was in great condition physically, an avid exerciser and I would never believe this could leave me with chronic pain. I started PT just over 2 months after MX and two weeks after exchange and I am only just now getting over my T-rex arms. I have two frozen shoulders, a torn rotator cuff, and tendonitis on both biceps. Not entirely sure how all that happened. I guess I could attribute some to lots of exercise before and being 44--so some wear and tear of my age.
I don't say this to make you or anyone scared because I do know I would do it again. I just didn't expect to feel like this afterwards and in all the reading I did on these boards prior to the surgery, I never once opened the topic on Pain.
eta. PT 9 weeks post BMX.
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I came up positive for PALB2 and Chek2 after I had my lumpectomy in Aug 2015. PALB2 is the Pathway And Locator of BRCA2 and my genetics counselor put my risk at 45%! Both of those mutations have m implications for other cancers, such as colon, thyroid, and pancreatic cancers, all of which are in my 1st or 2nd generation relatives. Given my dire family history of BC and other cancers, my MO has recommended BMX and oophorectomy after chemo. I just finished the chemo and I'm scheduled for BMX Feb 4, 2016.
In a way, I'm looking forward to getting the breasts off. As my MO said "You're breasts are gonna try to kill you sooner or later." Eek! She said the oophf wasn't as urgent, but she wants me to see a GYN next week to discuss whether I need a full hysterectomy. Two of my sisters have had uterine cancer, one had breast cancer, and my grandmother had cervical, uterine, colon, AND breast cancer. Hopefully, I'll be able to get all that taken care of later this summer, if I have enough sick leave left!
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katy, I'm so sorry. I've heard of PMPS and it just sounds awful. Sending you big hugs across the miles from one breastless mutant to another.
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cajunqueen, thank you. love this. ; )
one breastless mutant to another.
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Poodles, when do you think you'll have your ooph? I think I'm looking at April...last chemo is on Monday!
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