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  • Molly50
    Molly50 Member Posts: 3,773
    edited January 2016

    Jill, you're beautiful and so is your family.

  • Molly50
    Molly50 Member Posts: 3,773
    edited January 2016

    I just got a fibit for Christmas. I would love to friend any of you!

  • LovesToFly
    LovesToFly Member Posts: 1,133
    edited January 2016

    awe thank you.

    To search for me,my email on Fitbit is zozosmamma@gmail.com.

  • Sally22
    Sally22 Member Posts: 16
    edited January 2016

    I am interested Molly. I also have a Fitbit and love it.

    My email Sally.Zoch@Comcast.Net

  • ChiSandy
    ChiSandy Member Posts: 12,133
    edited January 2016

    I just got a Fitbit too--Bob (DH) got me the Surge, which is also a smartwatch. First, I have to figure out how to get the box open!

    My biopsy path report originally said “DCIS is present focally,” but the surgical path report said “DCIS is not present.” Go figure. I had the radioactive seed implant rather than the wire, and it was done at the breast center in the same hospital where I had my lumpectomy a couple of hours later.

    I asked my MO about soy, and she said that edamame, tofu, soymilk, soy sauce/tamari and Tofutti were okay but to limit intake of soy protein isolates. So I avoid Boca Burgers, and avoid other fake meats as well (such as Bac-Os). I don’t like soymilk (almond and coconut milks froth better for cappuccino), rarely eat tofu and am very careful with soy sauce, ponzu and tamari because I don’t need the sodium. I do like edamame on occasion, though. She also said I could resume taking antioxidants once I was done with radiation (they interfere with destruction of any cells, but especially tumor cells--and the whole point of radiation is cell destruction). But I read an article on the Clinical Oncology website yesterday that antioxidants protect cancer cells in general--that they are beneficial for people who don’t have and never had cancer, but can sabotage cancer patients. There aren’t sufficient quantities present in food or red wine, but we should avoid antioxidant supplements. So there go the Vit. E, resveratrol caps, and megadoses of C. Fish oil and CoQ10 are okay, though.

  • LoveMyVizsla
    LoveMyVizsla Member Posts: 813
    edited January 2016

    I'm getting my port on Tuesday. I usually get sick with anesthesia. I will be having conscious sedation for the port placement. Any idea whether that will make me ill?

    Sally, my arm/armpit get better each day. I still have to be careful not to over reach though. I went grocery shopping yesterday and did too much reaching for things and was a bit more sore last night.

  • 614
    614 Member Posts: 851
    edited January 2016

    Hello Everyone:

    I missed about 8 pages of posting.  Now, I don't remember who to respond to!   Sorry.  All I can say is that all of you are amazing women and I appreciate all of you.

    Many of you are having/starting surgery, radiation, and/or chemo this week.  Good luck to all of you.

    I have heard that icing your hands and feet during all of the chemo infusions helps to ward off neuropathy. 

    LovesToFly:  How were you able to handle the stress of having your daughter's Bat Mitzvah when you were just diagnosed and about to have surgery, plus enduring so much pain and loss during 2015???   Hopefully, 2016 will be much better for you.  All I can say is, Mazel Tov.

    Thanks again to everyone here.

     


     

  • 614
    614 Member Posts: 851
    edited January 2016


    Dear LMV:

    I am glad that you decided to get a port. 

    I hope that you do not feel sick with the conscious sedation.   Thankfully, I have never had any problems with anesthesia or Twilight sedation, so I cannot respond to your question. 

  • ChiSandy
    ChiSandy Member Posts: 12,133
    edited January 2016

    I didn’t have chemo, but from what I’ve read the main purpose of icing fingers & toes is to minimize damage to or prevent loss of nails.

  • 614
    614 Member Posts: 851
    edited January 2016

    I did not have chemo either but women in my support group stated that the icing was to prevent neuropathy.  Maybe it is done for both reasons.  I don't know.

  • Molly50
    Molly50 Member Posts: 3,773
    edited December 2019

    My email is ronacompton@gmail.com if you get a friend request.

  • Molly50
    Molly50 Member Posts: 3,773
    edited January 2016

    I read icing is for both sparing damage to nails and to prevent neuropathy.

  • Molly50
    Molly50 Member Posts: 3,773
    edited January 2016

    I have never seen this thread move so fast since I joined. It's so fun to see you all chatting. Hugs to all of you starting chemo and who have upcoming surgery. Lx was pretty easy. Ice was my best friend during recovery. My ALND site still bothers me and I find my bras irritate some days. I think part of that is the incision hurt more after rads.

  • ChiSandy
    ChiSandy Member Posts: 12,133
    edited January 2016

    I had an epiphany yesterday. Was reading a NYTimes humor article about Spanx, and the author discovered that you're not supposed to pull them on overhead (which drove her crazy when they'd start riding up) but rather to step into them. Hmmmm.....could that be why I was finding those size 20 Amoena shelf-bra camis too tight? So I tried stepping into them, and whaddaya know? Just right! And it turns out they're normally sold as “tankinis" to be paired with swim bottoms (bikini, boy short, skort, etc). Appeals to the multitasker in me--I use them as combination bras/layering pieces.

  • Molly50
    Molly50 Member Posts: 3,773
    edited January 2016

    That's funny, Chi Sandy because I bought mine so I could step into them.

  • Cdixson
    Cdixson Member Posts: 6
    edited January 2016

    LoveMyVizsla I got my port in September. I was awake for the whole procedure and just very loopy. When sedation started wearing off I got very very nauseous. Only lasted about 30min and then I was fine. Hopefully you don't get nauseous, but if it happens, hopefully it will be short!

    Now I have a question... how was recovery from the lympectomy? Also did everyone have a lymph node or several removed during your lumpectomy? I will have surgery in March, most likely. My next MRI will be in a few weeks. Just to see how my breast cancer and lymph nodes did with chemo. I'm actually only anxious about 1 thing, and that's if they think the lymph node under my sternum needs to be removed. Unfortunately it would call for a cardio thoracic surgeon to open my chest. The lymph node sits between my lung and Aorta.

  • marijen
    marijen Member Posts: 3,731
    edited January 2016

    Cdixon, can an MRI find a node behind the sternum?

  • Melclarity
    Melclarity Member Posts: 388
    edited January 2016

    With my chemo, first lot, it didnt cause neuropathy, however it was the hard hitting one and you had to eat a lemonade icy pole at infusion. Taxol 8 infusions does cause neuropathy, however they don't Ice your hands or feet here, that's something I hadn't heard of,I was super lucky and didn't suffer with that. I did get severe cording of ,my vein and a blood clot in the arm. I have to do exercises and it will come good hopefully.

    Good luck all facing surgery, rads or chemo...kick butt!

  • LovesToFly
    LovesToFly Member Posts: 1,133
    edited January 2016

    thanks 614. To be honest I just did it! I had to, as it was already booked...but the distraction was good for me!

  • PontiacPeggy
    PontiacPeggy Member Posts: 6,778
    edited January 2016

    Molly, I'm with you. This thread IS moving fast. I suspect one reason is that this is a really positive forum. While ladies here do have problems and we help solve them, it is not negative. Some threads are not. We also have a wide variety of experiences with our lumpies and prior treatments and post-surgery treatments. Besides, we're just plain good! :)

    For the past few days I've had little stabbing pains in my underarm (yup, nearly 18 months later), like a non-dissolving stitch is trying to surface. I don't think I had any there but it is rather weird. But finally now all the numbness is gone - I'll take those little jabs.

    HUGS!

  • PontiacPeggy
    PontiacPeggy Member Posts: 6,778
    edited January 2016

    CDixson, Welcome! We're glad you're here. You've found out by now that we are warm, comforting, informative and a bit zany. It would help us if you would complete your profile and make everything public. Then those who have walked your path can answer you.

    I don't think your breast MRI can tell about lymph nodes under the sternum either. Do you know that nodes under it are involved? I've only heard of nodes being removed going up from the breast and/or into the arm. It certainly would be challenging if you do have to have a node removed from there. Ugh. Wishing you lots of good luck!

    HUGS!

  • brithael
    brithael Member Posts: 224
    edited January 2016

    LovestoFly - I drove home from my first infusion, and will likely drive home from them all, since it gets dark so early, and my DH can't drive at night. I had no Benedryl or Ativan with my infusion, so the Dr. said it was fine.

    Cdixson- I had 27 nodes removed - 3 positive, and that's been the most annoying thing about my lumpie. The whole pit area is still numb and there are numb patches all the way down to my elbow. The actual lumpie has never really caused me a problem other than now, since the swelling has gone down, I have a divot in the upper part of my breast.

    LovemyVizsla - I had no problem with conscious sedation for my port, but then I never get sick with anesthesia. I would not have been able to drive home from it though.

    Had a lost day yesterday, I was so tired, I could barely move, yet I was having to make numerous trips to the bathroom to get what was still inside, out. I finally was able to take a nap in the afternoon which made me feel much better, so I could watch Downton Abbey last night.

    I may have turned the constipation corner; however, since I feel pretty good this morning (up at 5:30 a.m.) but starting to feel the diarrhea part of the Taxotere. As

    Roseanne Roseannadanna said, "It's always something."

  • violethope
    violethope Member Posts: 32
    edited January 2016

    Hello everyone. I am new to this site and this page. Diagnosed November 26,2015 with IDC left breast following a lumpectomy for a Radial Sclerosing Lesion. My surgeon sent me for a repeat Mammo, an MRI and ultrasound of the same breast before deciding my surgery and treatment plan. The ultrasound showed another suspicious area in the same breast and I am having an ultrasound biopsy today.

    Has anyone ever had 2 lumpectomies in the same breast? The original area was at the 2:00 position and this one is at the 9:00 position. From what I have read if there are 2 sites in the same breast they will recommend a mastectomy and I am having a really hard time imagining that! I still haven't digested that I have breast cancer!

    This page seems to be a very informative and supportive place to be! Thanks!

  • LovesToFly
    LovesToFly Member Posts: 1,133
    edited January 2016

    hi violethope. I haven't had 2 lumpectomies, but I have heard of it. Perhaps some of the other ladies have some more knowledge in this area. I wish you the best of luck and know that no matter what the outcome, you can get through it!


    Wrt icing, I have heard that helps with neuropathy and nails. I haven't decided yet if I'm going to do it, I guess I will see if they offer it when I get to chemo clinic. To be honest it pisses me off! Is this the best they can think of? Chemo sucks, I cannot imagine having my hands and feet stuck in ice, and being unable to even use my tablet, read, etc.

    I looked into cold capping a bit for my head, it would be $2400 to rent the penguin cap. I guess we could suck it up and put it on the line of credit, but it just seems like an off a lot of money that could be used elsewhere. Still, now that it is probably too late for me to get it, I'm kicking myself a bit!

  • PontiacPeggy
    PontiacPeggy Member Posts: 6,778
    edited January 2016

    VioletHope, Welcome! You're right. We ARE very comforting, warm, informative and a bit zany. You certainly do have a confusion diagnosis. I don't think that you necessarily have to have a mastectomy with 2 different suspicious spots in the same breast. Be sure to question your BS closely as to what your options are. Remember, once your breast is gone - it is really gone. If you choose a lumpectomy then you still have your breast and, if later it becomes a problem, you can have it removed.

    Please fill out your profile as completely as you can and make everything public. We'd love to know where you are located, too.

    Good luck with your US biopsy today. I'll be in your pocket dancing!

    HUGS!!

  • PontiacPeggy
    PontiacPeggy Member Posts: 6,778
    edited January 2016

    LovesToFly, I think that if I were having chemo, I would likely not choose icing. I detest being cold and I, like you, wonder how you manage to read or use your tablet during the sessions. Is it possible your insurance would pay for the cold cap if you want it? It is now an approved treatment. Let us know what you decide Wednesday and good luck! I'm with you. Remember that chemo is KILLING CANCER!

    HUGS!

  • LovesToFly
    LovesToFly Member Posts: 1,133
    edited January 2016

    Hi Peggy. I checked with my insurance. It would not be covered. I could possibly get it covered by my health spending account, but that's only $1000 a year, and will get eaten up by the kids extra dental and orthodontic expenses!

    I have heard that dark nail polish helps a lot with protecting fingernails and toenails, so I will certainly be doing that. I always keep my nails polished anyway, and often wear dark colors, so that won't be difficult for me.

  • PontiacPeggy
    PontiacPeggy Member Posts: 6,778
    edited January 2016

    LovesToFly, well, poop. I can see where a $1000 HSA would not be very helpful when you have children. I'm envious of people who manage to wear nail polish, have it look nice AND still can type. By the time my nails are the right length for polish, I can't stand them - they get in the way typing on my computer. Many nail polishes make my nails feel like they are being suffocated (I never said I was normal!). So I generally go with plain, short, rather ugly nails.

    HUGS!

  • MLP3
    MLP3 Member Posts: 534
    edited January 2016

    Peggy... I'm fortunate to be a homemaker;)

    I couldn't imagine going through this and working full time. I can't even grocery shop with a clear head! Hats off to everyone here who has a job on top of this💪🏻

  • PontiacPeggy
    PontiacPeggy Member Posts: 6,778
    edited January 2016

    MLP3, I also don't know how the ladies manage home, family, work, living and BC treatments either. Kudos to them. I was glad I was retired though I did have full care of DH.

    HUGS!

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