Winter 2015-16 RADS
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sos, calling for clarification seems like a good idea. I had chemo in between surgery and rads, so was more healed than you are, (at least as far as the breast goes) but I'd still not have been happy to have been asked to do a mammogram before rads started.
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I had my 12th of 16 today. I super fair too. I can just barely see a blush to the upper area of my treatment. My RO prescribed Mometisone cream to start using from the first day. It's a corticosteroid. My nipple is starting to become a little tender as well. I'm small breasted, like a n A/B cup, I'm wondering if small breasted women might have it easier. Tomorrow the doc and techs will do a planning session for my boost which will be 5 more treatments after the whole breast is done. My center is closed on New Year's Day so I will end up having two three day weekends off in a row. I hope this doesn't make my treatments less effective. My RO couldn't give me an answer for that one.
sos1125, I did not get a mammogram after surgery or before radiation, just a ct scan and x-rays. That would just be cruel!
Thr yet, you need at least a month or more off to heal from surgery before starting radiation. I don't know where you live, but ask your RO if you can stretch the time out until you start rads toMarch or so when the weather starts getting better. 50 miles each way is tough!
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Hi sos1125 - I also needed further imaging (in addition to CT scan at sim) to plan the boosts part of treatment which was an MRI with dye injection - I can't imagine you would be facing a mammo at this point.
Thr yet / jerseygirl - lots of support here; hugs to you
PattyMeg/Octogirl - re skin reactions, from what the RO nurse and rads techs have both mentioned, I believe it is completely individual response regardless of skin tone. I am olive skinned (rarely burn) and seeing a fair bit of pink following 8th treatment
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I just started radiation therapy this week. The plan is to have 16 treatments. Reading all the posts has been very helpful to me. I will check in as often as possible.
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shopgal2, glad to hear we're rads buddies!!!! To everyone out here, I'm so thankful for you all.
Warrior On!
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Just wanted to come and wish everyone a happy and much healthier new year! 2015, for obvious reasons, has been the worst year of my life and I can't wait to put this all behind me. Here's to having an amazing 2016 to all of us!

I asked my nurses about type of skin and degree of reaction and they said they've noticed that the fairer the skin, the redder the patient gets, pretty much just like being in the regular sun. Who knows, because everyone is definitely different. I finished #19 of 31 (25 regular, 6 boosters) and my skin is starting to get angry. I can see the tan line forming and under my breast and all around it I'm getting little red dots. Plus the itching!! I need to go get hydrocorizone cream tonight ASAP!
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Happy Last Day of 2015 Everyone - I for one am looking forward to saying Goodbye to 2015 and Hello to 2016... even though I still need to complete Rads, Reconstruction Surgery and Oophorectomy Surgery - Chemo will be done this Saturday and I am doing a Happy Dance (in my mind - body too worn out) .
Welcome Welcome LiDu, Tessio, TulipsAndDaffodils, JerseyGirl22, sos1125, Thr_yet and ctgal48 .. so sorry you are here but glad you found us. Lots of great sharing here -we will get thru this together.
JerseyGirl22 - love your screen name - my favorite Bruce song and my happy place every summer is Sea Isle City, NJ
Hope your anxiety gets better .. if you not talk to Dr - Ativan could help sos1125 - agree with Octogirl - call for clarification on your screening - you have to feel comfortable with all treatment
Thr_Yet - Hugs to you - I think we all wish this were just a dream .. let us know how and if we can help! It is overwhelming!
ivy2 - sorry no Water for you - hang in there!
LiDu - Hope your skin & scar holds out and the red/splotchy does not get any worse
Tessio - I am with you just finishing chemo this Saturday - and my body feels like it just can't move - can't imagine adding more fatigue. RO said 4-6 weeks before starting Rads to ensure chemo side effects are less .. MO said takes 6-12 months to fully recover from chemo
TulipsAndDaffodils - fingers and toes crossed no more delays for you!!
StefLove -thanks I will ring that bell really loud on Saturday - this last one has knocked me down hard - neuropathy and body pain horrendous! Hope you continue to do well thru Rads ..
Peachy2 - love the comparison Rads is a Spa Treatment compared to AC+T chemo .. I'll take it! And love the idea of putting Kleenex over the aquafor or you could try Saran wrap too
justmaximom15 - Congrats on 1st Treatment & getting started and it is OK to be a grumpster - hope the schedule stuff gets better.. I would be frustrated too as I live by my calendar
Jabe - glad you are hanging in there and fatigue not as bad as chemo ... and funny the phrase "chemopause" - I am 46 and have it full force sleeping on cool-gel pillows -sucks! I never thought I would want to get my period..
Lindab142 - glad your treatments are back on and hope all stays smooth for you! Sorry you are having anxiety - hope it gets better
Creativevintage- sorry the fatigue has gotten worse - hope it gets better soon and your skin hangs on ...
Cubbie2015 - it would drive me crazy to not have same appt time - ugh!
tshire - Congrats on 1st treatment and getting started.
Octogirl - have fun in your Dry Suit - hope you don't have any more on the table anxiety
Keepwalking - glad you have your start date 1/6 ... During my RO consult last week I asked my RO about fair skin and easy to burn correlation and she said it is not the same and they have found that some fair skin folks do well and others don't and then some dark skin burn and others don't.. everyone different! I am concerned because my skin reacts to everything so fingers crossed.. Good luck!
Hugs to all in treatment facing anxiety, skin issues and fatigue - hope it gets better and the sharing and support here is just awesome!
Happy Happy New Year!!
Mary
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mdoc524, Sea Isle City is my summer go to since I was born!!!! Love it! As for the anxiety, I was taking Ativan during chemo and then they took me off of it when I had my BMX. I've taken it twice this week and it has helped. Looks like I'll be keeping that prescription open for a while. Hate the thought of more meds, but they do help.
To everyone, may 2016 see us all done treatment, on to recovery, living life without the cancer cloud hanging over everything, and enjoying every moment!
Happy New Year!
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Hi everyone. Got a good night's sleep, so I'm feeling much better. When I got to clinic today, the "table" was broken and they had to delay treatment until they got an engineer. It seemed like computers were down and they had to call IT. Luckily it was OK and I had treatment 6 of 16 and some will be to lumpectomy area only.
I'm working from home today, thank goodness.
Are you guys having any fatigue issues? I'm already tired after work and I seem to be more tired everyday. I may ask RO if I can work from home for the last few days and send that in to my HR for my FMLA leave. My boss has been great to work with on this. I'm very grateful.
My Dream: I would love a vacation someplace warm after treatment. Reality: I hope to get at least a weekend out of town in the Spring.
sos - I had CT scan before rads too.
jerseygirl - welcome to the group. There's lots of support here.
Thr-Yet - Welcome, I'm also fair skinned and am having some pinkness. I'd like to wake up from that dream too. Thinking of it as healing energy working on my body.
Suz-Q - I had redness from Aquaphor that I used before rads. I'm now using an anti-inflammatory cream and RO says I don't need another. My breast is pink and a little tender. I position a pillow under it for sleeping.
ctgal48 - I find a lot of comfort and support here.
StefLove - hope that cream helps you. I had to take 1 week off rads with antibiotics and anti-inflammatory cream.
Sadly, my RO and nurse were not very clear on skin care instructions before and during treatment. It was like a big mystery and nurse would only talk to me after 1st day of rads. I'm like a girl scout and want to be prepared, not rush out to get something. Now, I'm scared to use anything else since I had a reaction to the Aquaphor. I do agree that it's a case by case basis, depending on skin sensitivity.
Mary - thanks so much for being the moderator and for your warm welcomes and kind words.
I do wish everyone a happier and healthier 2016.
Linda
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JerseyGirl- It's too hard on you to be anxious...Ativan helps? That's great! Lower stress is the goal at this point. Glad you are giving yourself some room. Hugs!
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MDoc- Yay for last treatment but boo for the side effects. Think the cumulative effects start to hit hard near the end...but, near the end of chemo you are so rest, rest ad more rest whenever possible. Thinnking of you!
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Hi Mary! I was with you all on the chemo board, started rads on 12/18. Would love if you could add me to this list.
Thank you! Pa
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I'm happy to report I finished my 16 session radiation treatment last Monday (12/21). My skin fared much better than I expected and I feel pretty fortunate. I do have a rash that broke out on my chest that is itchy at times, but it could be much worse. I'm wondering if anyone has found lumps just under the nipple post radiation? I have one that I found yesterday that is making me nervous
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mdoc, I was surprised yesterday to find out that I do now have a regular time, starting next week. I've gotten the last appointment of the day, so I can miss as little work as possible.
Steflove, I'm getting the itchy dots, too. I need to pick up some hydrocortisone cream today.
I had a cold this last week, and I was so worried I'd sneeze in the middle of a treatment! Fortunately, the nose stayed quiet while I was one the table.
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Had my simulation done for my upcoming boost this morning! A CT scan and one more tattoo. After my radiation treatment the tech said "we will go next-door for the CT scan." I had not even remembered being in that room for my set up the first time around. I could've sworn it all took place in the same room where the radiation was done. I must have been really losing it. Once I got into the room and got under the CT scan I remembered the little sticker that was on the machine. It was little cartoon sticker that was starting to wear off. The first time I had radiation one week after the sim, I thought to myself "where's that little sticker that I saw when I was here before." Well Duh! The sticker was on the CT machine in the other room, and not the linear excellerator! Thank goodness for Celexa my antidepressant. I'm feeling great, thinking clearly, and positive for the first time in months!
My boost area is about a three inch circle over my scar/ tumor bed. They will be using 6 MeV electrons. Electrons only go so deep before they stop. The use of photons or electrons depends on your anatomy and the location of your tumor. It also depends on how deep your tumor bed is.
I'm still barely pink. The only irritation is my nipple. After I take my bra off I can't stand it rubbing on my nightgown. Hoping the effects won't get much more worse before the end.
My RO said I may start experiencing fatigue next week. I've been working out 30-50 minutes a day stretching, using weights, and doing cardio since I've been off of work for the holidays. I usually only workout 3-4 times a week. I hoping exercise will mitigate some of the fatigue problems. I go back to work on Monday and really worried about fatigue hitting me. Both of the RO's I talked with were happy to hear that I exercise. They said it may help. I'm hoping it will!
I'm not a super workout kind of person, however I have been exercising regularly for the past 3 years to stay fit. After I went through menopause I noticed a few extra pounds and I noticed my physical strength had really decreased, so I started working out on a consistent basis.
If you need a laugh, my daughter and I went to see Sisters(Tina Fey, Amy Poehler) at the movies this week. I thought I'd bust a gut I laughed so hard. I started thinking about one of the scenes during treatment and had to stop myself thinking about it. I was afraid that I would move too much from stifling a laugh. Be warned the F word is used frequently throughout
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all: Here's to a happy (and MUCH healthier) 2016!!!
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Evening, I have been reading all your posts and hope you will let me join your team. I had my CT today, it was not to bad, I was scared but the tech was so good and explained every step. Got 3 tattoos, I must say that was like a nasty bee sting. I should start my treatments next week. 25 with 8 boosts. I am so glad to finally get started, I now feel like I am doing something to fight back. I feel as if the last 2 1/2 months I have been in limbo.
Happy Healthy New Year to all. 2016 is going to be my year!!!!!
Helen
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Today I went and had a CT scan. She marked me with X's and put stickers over it and molded me with a squishy thing that filled up with air. I only see three marks, one in the middle and one on each side. They are going to call me and give me my appointment date for my first treatment, I assume I start next week. Is what I did today the simulation or is that something else they do later? She said my first treatment would last a bit longer than the others, because they will have to position me and line things up. Im so ready to get this started, although it does make me a bit nervous!
Happy New Year to everyone!
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Thank you, everyone, for your kind words and hugs. I know there are so many more that are going through this process and I am blessed with my pathology results, so I should not complain at all.
Suz-Q, I may ask if radiation can wait just a few more weeks since the roads in March are "usually" more dependable. Iowa is no fun in the winter and many of you from the Midwest already know that.
Blessings on everyone that fights this fight in the new year.
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Many of you mentions "boosts". What determines if they are needed? Is this something I should ask my RO about? I don't want any surprises at the end of my treatment. Happy New Year to everyone.
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ctgal48 - My RO told me the boosts are because of blood flow as I asked the same thing. He said the surgery area does not have good blood flow because of scaring and the regular dose of radiation does not work as well in that area that is why the boost with a higher power. Made sense but my mind was hearing bacon frying.
I hope to get my first treatment appointment next week, I know it may sound strange but am glad to get started. I can handle anything if I know what it is and how much, guess I need to see the goal line.
When I had my MRI they measured my cancer at .4cm so I was pleased. After surgery the pathology measured it at .9cm so then I was scared. I waited for a month for my Oncotype which came back at 18. Just over the line for chemo and my cancer was .9 cm which was just under the line. My surgeon sent me to the MO and I was so nervous for 2 weeks till that appointment, she said no chemo for you, I just cried. Although I was glad to not have to do chemo I am still nervous and hoping the radiation and hormones will keep me from hearing the "C" word in the future.
So far I can't say enough good about my surgeon and both of the oncologists that I have seen. They are so patient and caring. My husband has been my rock. My faith has kept me calm through all this. I am grateful that I do not carry the gene to pass this on to my 2 girls or my 4 grand daughters.
I can't say enough good about this site and the boards where everyone shares what their treatment is and how it is going. It has been the quiet thing I have done to keep me sane through all the waiting and not knowing. I feel so much better prepared for my treatment from reading everyone's comments, thank you all.
The past 2 months I felt like an airplane circling the runway without direction from the tower. Now I feel as though I have landed and am coming home. My mind has been numb like this is not happening to me. Every time the doctors tell me something I must have the strangest look on my face.
I work full time and plan on my treatments not interfering with my work schedule. I am hoping for early appointments so I can go in a bit late and work a bit late. My boss is the best and will work with me on it. I know I could take the time off if needed but working and keeping thing as normal as I can will help me more.
Boy now this has been a long post, sorry for rambling on. Have a great New Year's day all. I hope you all enjoy family and friends today.
Helen
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Happy Healthy New Year to everyone!
I'm enjoying the new year with my coffee and my kitty this morning! He is a beautiful mut that I rescued from my brothers farm two years ago. He's quite a lover boy and lap kitty!

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Welcome to all the newbies here. Although I haven't had surgery yet and so no breast rads scheduled, I did just complete 10 treatments to T11 & ilium. Thought I would need 15, but RO decided 10 would do. He was concerned I'd have some esophagus irritation, but all went well with no SEs at all, and I'm so thankful. I'll be perusing the surgery board more for a while, but will keep up with this board, too, because I'll be back! Thanks to everyone for the awesome support and information you provide.
Mary, great news that you are finally finished with chemo!! Hope you rang that bell loud for the New Year and that you are doing well.
Here's to a happy and much healthier 2016 for us all!!
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Hello everyone, I am joining your Winter Club -- gee, that makes it sound so posh...... like sitting around the fire, apres ski, feet up [cat on lap], drinking a jack frost! I just might make that my image as I am getting zapped. I started with chemo, then did surgery - diep, and had been hoping to be able to stop there, but it turns out rads are strongly recommended, so after some waffling here I am. I too am rather girl scoutish, so reading the fall rads and then you guys has been invaluable and your knowledgable tips and support really helps with the stress. And because they won't tell me what lotions potions they prefer til I see the nurse mid week, I am already prepared with aloe and a cooling cloth, and even miaderm from a friend in california as it's not available in Canada.
I had my sim already [hands were so chilly gripping the bar I declared I am wearing mittens next time] and 3 dot tattoos. I begin 28 treatments on Monday Jan 4, and they said only 1.8 greys each time [normal is 2] to be gentler on the flesh of my new boob.
My wish for you all -- a quote from Alfred Lord Tennyson: ' Hope smiles from the threshold of the year to come, whispering "It will be happier".
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Happy New Year Everyone!
Welcome Welcome theearthlaughsinflowers, 1957-2057 & phoebe58 - sorry you have to be here but glad you found us! So much awesome sharing here
JerseyGirl - what a small world about SIC ... I would take the Ativan if you need it at least for a little while - I plan too.
theearthlaughsinflowers - absolutely you can join us here - how many treatments/weeks?
Jhmomof4 - WooHoo for you on finishing.. About the lump I am not sure if could be from rads I know I would call & at least ask a nurse
Cubbie2015 - so glad you now have a regular schedule- hope your itchy dots don't get worse.
Suz-Q - thanks for sharing all details .. Hope your boosts go well & fatigue does not get any worse! Good for you on the exercise ..
Meme2006 - glad you are getting started - good luck
Thr_yet - I understand about driving to rads in winter & I am nervous about that - I would ask you RO if it can be delayed & any impact on your treatment.. My MO let me takes few weeks already paid for vacation before starting chemo
Ctgal48 - about Boosts - at my initial RO consult she 1st said 7 weeks and I asked her to break it down & she then said 34 treatments & I asked if that included boosts & she said yes 28 regular treatments plus 6 boosts so I had to specifically ask ..
BJSMiller - glad your spine zaps went well and are done! Good luck with surgery... My last chemo is tomorrow - can't eat to ring that bell!
Happy 2016 Everyone!

Mary
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Welcome to all just starting the rad road! It's easier to walk it with the ladies here!
Octo--I totally understand the panic. I had a total meltdown yesterday that started during rads. Was supposed to have 2nd Herceptin only tx in the morning, but my absolute neutrophils were .09, so I refused it. MO not available, but nurse agreed with my decision, having already been hospitalized 3 times with neutropenia. I was ok at the time, but I think being on the rad table, it all hit me. Awesome rad nurse sat and talked with me for awhile. Helped but was still teary rest of the night. I was great fun at the New Years Eve party. Not.., but we'd already paid for the pkg. Had rads today and was better, but anxiety still there about lab work. See MO on Monday.
Ativan is my best friend, btw. I figure it's probably the least harmful thing I'm doing to my body.
Seems like there are so many different opinions on lotions and creams! Mine says use nothing except Bass Farms Triple B cream. It's a blend of lanolin, coconut oil, bees wax, shea butter, goat milk, honey, aloe, neem oil, frankincense and myrrh. Smells and feels wonderful! Using it 3-4 times a day, extra heavy before I go to bed. So far, after 7 tx, I'm a little pink in the evening, but normal by morning. A little tender and achy tho.
Has anyone heard of using a cabbage leaf??? I have a friend, stg 4, who swears by it. Used leaves every day thruout and never burned. Nurse says it's ok to use, haven't yet.
Happy New Year and like so many others, truly glad to put 2015 behind me!!!
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Mary, I've got my days all mixed up with the holidays not knowing what day it is! hahaha
Hope all goes well for you tomorrow! Ring that bell hard and say goodbye to 2015! I know I'm glad to see it go.Hugs, Barbara
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Catfurr...SO sorry you are on the anxiety train but glad you found Ativan to help. Often, I only have to take 1/4 or 1/2 of one for rads....maybe it's the meds, maybe it is psychological and helps because I know it's in the system- whatever it is....the Ativan and my Pandora on headphones make ALL the difference AND no anxiety attacks in about a week...
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Helen, I understand your anxiety and I also was anxious to get started with treatment. The sooner we are done with rads, the sooner we can get our lives back.
Suz-Q, your kitty is beautiful. He is a lucky boy. This is who was stealing my blankets today, while I was being a couch potato, and binge watching Peaky Blinders on Netflix

Mary, good luck tomorrow. Ring that bell!!!
Catfurr, I haven't heard of cabbage leaves for rads, but my mom uses them for arthritis in her knees. She keeps the cabbage in the fridge, so the leaves stay cold.
Phoebe58, I love the quote you posted, and the image you painted of us at a ski resort. AND. The Jack Frosts were delicious!
Ladies, a few questions: What are the cooling towels and where can I get them? I feel like I am being cooked from the inside out. I guess we are actually being microwaved. I don't know if it's menopause kicking in or a result of the rads, but my youngest daughter caught me with my head in the freezer the other day! LOL. Also, is anyone experiencing heartburn? I don't know if this is a side effect or a coincidence. Thanks girls! Stay strong! Patty
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