Stage 4 Fitness 2015
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Thanks, Wendy. I walk briskly and dance regularly, so I think my cardiovascular fitness and balance are good. But I would like to improve my upper body strength and be able to try more yoga (currently doing restorative yoga only). I've considered asking a personal trainer to help, but I'm afraid they might not understand how these drugs impact me and I don't want to get hurt. At the same time I know that being in shape ought to help prevent injuries.
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officially have become a couch potato.. Watching my belly and butt grow. Now I'm a sexy mama!
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The 48th xeloda cycle starts next week.. Well, deal is deal. Still alive.. Hope to regain energy for a bit of exercise again. But now I can merely manage low-level movements to ignore pain & morphine as much as I can.
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Awww, Ebru, glad you still have your sense of humor. Couch potato is good, I'm sorry you are still having so much pain, but happy you are still here! Hang in there, friend.
Shetland - I agree that you can probably work on strength and flexibility in spite of the drugs, it is just more of an uphill battle for us. My two cents is to follow the basic advice of "listen to your body", it is okay to push yourself, just give yourself a break too.
Wendy - thanks for the encouragement, I think we had our last day of sunshine for a while today and I was able to get out and walk over 4 miles today. I'm blown away you can do the early morning gym routine, that takes some serious discipline.
Good walk for me today. Exercise has such a powerful effect mentally, it really did make me realize I'm OKAY, not going to drop dead this moment, even though I'm feeling pretty terrible lately. I'm worried chemo isn't working as my markers jumped another 120 points, but crossing fingers and toes I just need a little more time on it. There's an expression "run the mile you're in", which I think is so perfect for us stage 4 gals. Don't think too far ahead, just concentrate on what you can do right now (telling this to myself a lot these days).
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That sounds like good exercise advice, Nancy. You have a very impressive resume there. Hoping with you to see the TMs going down, and that the rise is just dead cancer. I know what you mean about the mental effect. I always feel so happy and alive when I dance. Other exercise, not so much, but I do feel like I am saying, "So there!" to cancer and cancer drugs.
Ebru, I hope your feel better soon. In the meantime, you can exercise your arm lifting a cup of tea, and I'll have one with you. Decaf green? Ginger with honey perhaps?
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Good advice Nancy.
Ebru: I'm with you but I have become a professional paper weight for the sheets.
It's going to be a cold winter. I may try my new to me treadmill. My mini trampoline and my brain arent on the same wave length.
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Shetland, I love dancing, too. But any kind of exercise makes me happy. I think not only of the meds getting to all the nooks and crannies as Wendy mentioned, but of all that extra oyxgen (10 times more with exercise than without) which our bodies could use to repair whatever damage cancer (or just life in general) has done to normal tissues. Yes, it is possible to improve upper body strength and become more flexible even with all the meds. I hired a personal trainer because I had no idea how to start a strength training program. In the end I did injure my knee from not having it sufficiently warmed up (I think) but I would say it was still worth learning the basics from the trainer and I should have stopped when he started doing more complex exercises. I learned later from a fitness class for seniors I was taking, you really need to prepare for any movement the body isn't used to. But then with all the exercise I did to strengthen that knee it still is stronger than before chemo. He also helped me become more flexible with assisted stretches. Anyway I did continue with upper body exercises (sloooowly progressing in view of lymphedema risk) on my own and made substantial headway. I never had biceps in my life but now I do. My shoulders are broader as well. Maybe the lack of estrogen helped???
Ebru, next year I'd like to drink some Turkish coffee with you. Istanbul is only four hours away.
Nancy, if I'm counting correctly, you've had more treatments than the 17 this woman has had who has lived with mets 18 years. If you can walk 4 miles, I'd say this could keep you going for many more years. You certainly know how to run those miles. I'd convert it to running kilometers because these are shorter...
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Thank you Heidi! I haven't been here in a long time; I wonder what it was that drew me. It must have been to see that story from Seattle of the woman living 18 years with her mets dx!
I've been too busy, like Kristen says in the article Heidi linked us to: "People say you should take a nap or something. Nope," said Kristin. "I don't want to miss one minute of life. I don't want one minute to pass me by." That could be me, but I am on the opposite coast, and have 7.5 years. We even gave our sons the same name. There must be more stories like this out there, right?
Struggling with work, family, and never enough time and feeling like there is an ax over my head - something you ladies can understand, but last month in recognition of my 50th birthday and as an f.u. to cancer I ran my first (and perhaps only) half marathon. I was one of the founding members of the stage IV running club that proceeded this thread a number of years ago. I am proud to be able to share my accomplishment here with you all today.
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Kskier wow that's awesome so that I understand correctly you have had cancer for seven years. That's super awesome and gives someone like me lots of hope. Thank you time to take my dog for a walk..
Wendy
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Kskier, WOW! Great to hear from you and that you ran a half for your 50th. Congrats! Belated Happy Birthday! I am still mostly staying in the 3K range if I run at all. At least I am running and still thinking of trying to improve. You inspired me back then!
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Hi sisters, I need some advice. I've been lurking without posting, feeling somewhere between a novice and a beginner. But I need some help on a bike. I used to run 5k 3x/week but for a year I've had to scale back. My spinal radiation and Affinitor treatment causes fatigue and SOB. Docs say my lungs sound great. I can inhale, it's the exhale that feels hard. I'm on intense pain meds for my bone mets in my ribs, pelvis, sitting bones. I do 5k 2x/week but it's half running, half walking, at best.
DH is in Ironman training. He suggested I try spin class, in hopes that maybe I could join him in class and maybe move on to bike rides with him. He lovingly adjusted my seat and pedals, told me not to push myself ... and ... 3 days later my sitting bones still feel like I was kicked (or something else ;-) very hard for an hour. No matter how I positioned myself on the seat, or how the resistance, cycling hurt my girly parts leaning forward and my sitting bones pedaling upright.
I've been thinking maybe the padding in cycling shorts would help. But I don't want to invest unless someone else with bone mets like mine has some encouraging words. Plus, the leaning over position makes it even harder to breathe. I LOVE running but with winter coming up, I was looking for something to do indoors (I hate treadmills and no longer live in a high rise; I used to climb steps when it was too cold to run.) I take Pilates a few times a month.
I took a couple of ibuprofen before class.
Any advice? Suggestions for less pain while pedaling? I'm grateful for your attention.
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Maybe ask your doctor if it is ok to put pressure on your sitting bones? I could only use the upright bikes (with the back support) in the gym for a long time, not the spinning bikes, and I didn't even have mets like yours. I hope you find an alternative to spinning if that isn't appropriate for now. Ellipticals?
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Heidi' s suggestions are good. I was also thinking of the recumbent bikes that most gyms have as a possible alternative to the spin bikes. Padded bike shorts can be challenging because they are pricey and come with so many options as far as the padding is concerned. It can take a few tries to find what works best for you. I have a pair of padded underwear that I have worn a lot that have been helpful on long rides. For winter riding another choice might be to put your own bike on a trainer in your house. Having the trainer at home lets you move around, stretch your back, hop off and walk around, etc. as needed. After my hip replacement, I had to start on my old cruiser on the trainer, eventually went to my hybrid, then on to the mountain bike, and finally the road bike-which DH and bike shop guys tweaked with an adjustable stem and moving everything to make it easier for me to reach. All to say, don't be discouraged if it takes a few tries and some time to find a comfortable ride. Hope you will soon be pedalling without pain!
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Hey gals. It has been raining cats and dogs here in Seattle, but we got a break today, so I went for a walk. It felt so good to be out in the fresh air. Weekly adriamycin has been hard, but my tumor markers flattened out, so I'm cautiously optimistic it is working.
Hope everyone is doing well. Hard to believe it will be time to start a new Fitness Thread for 2016 in just a few weeks.
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That is great news on your tumor markers, Nancy!!!
I was enjoying crazy spring weather in the 60s in New York City. Just didn't feel right along with the Christmas decorations but happy to be able to bike all over town, even crossed the Brooklyn Bridge and the Manhattan Bridge, and picked up some hand-pulled noodles from Chinatown. Coming home our plane had to circle the city for an hour waiting for backed up planes and for the thick Zurich fog to break.
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TarheelMichelle, I'm just wondering if you found any solutions for your biking scenario?
I have got to do something to curtail this steady weight gain (it's adding up!), but my various limitations are tricky to navigate. To wit: I have had extensive bone mets for over five years, all through my spine and hip bones, femurs, etc. I've been on Xeloda for 27 months, so I have to work constantly at avoiding HFS... so that means long walks are out (ergo also a treadmill), weights, really anything that puts concentrated pressure on the soles of my feet and/or palms. Water aerobics are out because Xeloda-- my feet can't be in water that long. Ellipticals mess with the mets around both femoral necks (balls and sockets of hips).
I really hate sounding like a whiney, lazy old woman. But this stuff is for real.
SO... maybe a recumbent bike? (My onc says no spin class.) What do you all think? Anyone with the wisdom of experience here? I guess I will go to the Y and try it and see how my hips hold up. Should probably give Pilates another go and see how that goes.
Any other ideas, gals? I'm a hot mess.
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Lulubee how about yoga? I use a recumbent bike since my knee surgery it's comphey and easy on the joints.
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Hey Lulubee - you are a trooper, Xeloda for 27 months, that would be really rough. What about an exercise video like Jillian Michaels Kickbox? I haven't tried it, but my friend says it is really fun.
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I haven't done this myself, but tai chi looks very gentle. Or how about a rowing machine on a very low setting? At my gym they have an arm cycle ergometer, which I used when I had shoulder problems. This might be something to round out your workout.
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Heidihill-- hey there! Good to see another old-timer here! I remember you because we were dx'd the same month back in 2007. So... a rowing machine! Hadn't thought of that. Great idea, if my hips can cooperate. And it seems reasonable to me that rowing is probably one of the better things for maintaining overall range of motion, right? My upper arms are getting hammy now that I'm in my 50's, and that would work them out pretty thoroughly. I mean big butts are apparently in vogue now (will wonders never cease?) so I'm all good there... LOL... but flappy arms for sure never will be! I especially hate getting old lady arms since I live where it's hot a lot of the year and I want to go sleeveless a lot.
Wendy3, thanks for the feedback on recumbents. I used to do yoga and loved it. I just need to get the mat out and get going. SIGH. Isn't that always the hurdle??
nancyh, good to hear from you, too! I also remember you from the wayback machine, LOL! I have a stack of various videos; just need to go through them and see which ones I can actually do. I doubt I could handle Jillian M or kickboxing, though. She scares me! I've always been fascinated with the idea of taking a Tai Chi class. Will see if my Y offers one.
Thanks, gals! Gotta go shake my booty now.
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Wow! Reading these posts and realized that I haven't been saying much lately. Took me awhile to get some energy going. Tried going on Ritalin, no luck this time. Switched to Provigil and I am getting better results.
Lulubee - Thanks for sharing that you've been on xeloda for 27 months. I'm only into my fourth month. It's been a challenge. It seems to be working along with tykerb. Nice to meet you btw.
Everyone else your conversations are inspiring. Glad to be back.
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fugi--can I ask who prescribed your Ritalin and provigil? My oncologist says "we don't usually prescribe drugs like that." My psychiatric NP says no also. I'm struggling big time and feel like no one will help me
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I tried to get Ritalin also but was told because of my high (but controlled) bp that it wasn't an option. My PCP is the one who suggested it but I am in Canada so don't know what the US oncs would allow.
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my oncologist is very comfortable with prescriptions for pain and energy. Anything else my primary covers.
Merry Christmas! Hopefully everyone found something to enjoy.
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Lulubee, very happy to see you back on bco! Kjones, I hope you can find something, even if just for short periods (like now!).
We went for a long hike as usual on Christmas day, usual at least for no snow days. Was limping along because of my knee but was worth it!
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Thanks to everyone who gave me suggestions about what to do when spin class hurts my bones. My oncologists have been very permissive in regards to my physical activity. I haven't considered recumbent bikes, wasn't sure if it would stress my hip sockets more, but that's definitely a great suggestion.
The reason I chose spin class, over, say, exercise videos, is because I'm a lazybones and except for running, I really need to be in a group setting for motivation when I exercise.
I bought a gel bike seat cover from Amazon, hoping it might provide more cushion. And I've been told some of the soreness does go away. (Remember, I have NO recent pedaling experience.) Haven't used it yet.
My husband bought me a bike for Christmas. It's a really cute "around town" bike, but my second thought was "it's a fat girl bike." I want the Cervelo, I want to be racing. But I can't. Part of fitness is accepting my limitations, hard for me. DH said I could use the bike with a trainer, and that would allow me to take breaks if I'm hurting.
Mainly I just wanted to thank everyone for suggestions. We've had some fantastic warm weather here in the South but Christmas preparations have kept me from exercising. (Just washing my hair wears me out!) I am gonna get on the bike and see what happens.
I'm trying to do Pilates as much as I can. I definitely recommend it. Those medieval-looking machines are very kind to joints.
Wishing everyone lots of energy! Kjones, I SO do not like oncologists who tell patients what they DON'T do, that's not helpful at all. FWIW, I see a pain specialist at my local Hospice/Palliative Care Center. She prescribed the Ritalin.
Ritalin didn't do much for me. I haven't heard of Provigil. Maybe I'll give that a try.
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Wow, those Cervelos look really cool, TarheelMichelle! Hope the gel seat cover provides relief. LOL on the pilates machines' medieval look. Gentle torture, haha.
Doing more yoga and other gentle stretches to try to get my knee in shape. I think it's my hamstrings. I will make an appointment to see the physiatrist as this is getting annoying.
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Hope that knee starts cooperating, Heidihill. I think with mets, the injuries or other pain we encounter is doubly or even triply (is that a word?) frustrating, because physical fitness becomes another battle. Sending healing thoughs, virtual magic wands, and anything else that can help.
Took my first bike ride Sunday, first in 30 years. DH accompanied me on a racing bike (not his Cervelo, that would have looked ridiculous beside of my slow-as-molasses sel.) I DID NOT FALL OFF!
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Dang....I feel like the world of exercise is spinning out of my reach when I read all of your posts. Even with crappy ses, it always amazes me that we truly know what our bodies need. I'm right there with you, Nancy, knowing my mental health is boosted by anything physical. The rain has made me a bit of a "bed paperweight" too (you need to do stand-up Fujii!!!).
I've been away from here for a long time, so catching up is inspiring. The picture of your DD & horse is a magazine cover, Kjones. I'm not that fond of horses (my feet were magnets for their feet when I was a child, so they sort of freak me out)...but kids..awwww. I can imagine how worrisome your ses have been so cheering that your scan was still stable!!! Heidi...so awesome you were in New York for the holidays. I love your adventures & so hope you get coffee with Nancy. Many of my nurses are Ethiopian and one, who I put 2&2 together and met her DD at a Fred Meyer store (she's a checker), has invited me to her home for coffee.
Bionic...I'm sorry the scan showed progression...hopeful the next tx will knock it back down again. Just seeing your name always makes me think you have super powers! Andi...awesome pics..the scenery is great, but you and DH are the best part!
I am covered in bruises on my legs...a very good thing??? My DD and I did a very large part of moving her family from our son's house, where they lived for 7 years, and he finally sold! DH had hip revision surgery & DD 2's family was in OR for the holidays...so it was just us. They did hire some help for one day. They had to be out 12/23 & her DH (using that term lightly right now), worked. So...packing, hoisting boxes, lifting bikes, dozens of Goodwill trips, the dump, loading vans...all around a 2 yr old, was my exercise! Got a gift certificate for the yoga studio by our place from DD so need to find some time to meet with the owner for a consult. I tried acupuncture on 11/30...mostly to see if it would put me in a place where I could go off my prozac (my perjeta replacement...HA!). I think my body went into attack mode. I've felt crummy ever since...sorry to whine. Also haven't had blood or TMs for 2 months-because they've been so good. Ugh. This is when I need walking alone time. BUT...I also got something crazy fro DS...time in a Float Tank. I'm so excited to try it...floating for an hour in a sort of pod shaped capsule. The water is body temp/Epsom salts. I know it's not good to overdo magnesium so I'll clear it w/onc, but I'm happiest floating in a pool & so will try it! Btw...I used to do tai chi...it's amazing. I need to find more me time but being with our littles seems to win these days. Sorry to blab...have missed being with you. It's so hard to keep up with all the threads I love...
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so had an appt with psychiatric NP last week and she said no to Ritalin. She will only prescribe for add. At onc right now. Saw one of his NP's. She said she didn't feel comfortable prescribing it because the dr said no. She said she thinks it's appropriate. The reason my dr (onc) said no is because they don't know much about the drug or it's se's. They also don't believe my fatigue etc is from treatment. I know herceptin and perjeta is no where close to chemo. But I also have tamoxifen and xgeva plus a ton of other meds to control se's. I'm going to my family dr next. I'm dr shopping! This is bs! They aren't concerned because it's not their life. It's not their days that are passing by. Sorry. I'm just so angry! But you all have inspired me to get walking again. 30 min a day. That's doable, right?
You ladies amaze me. Keep on keepin on!
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kjones, that's total BS. They've been giving Ritalin to little children for DECADES. What the hell is wrong with TRYING it on a fatigued Stage IV patient? Why do they think it's necessary to pinpoint what's causing your fatigue before prescribing something, anything, to help?
I am not a fan of ADD meds. I had two stepsons on them when the meds were being over-prescribed. And I've taken them myself. But they DO help.
It's a FACT that women with Stage IV breast cancer are reporting some degree of success when using Ritalin to combat fatigue. This "we don't know much about it" makes me LAUGH, like a maniac in need of klonopin.
Geez!!!
I asked my MO at Sloan-Kettering about medical marijuana for pain control. I told her "I'm not looking for an excuse to get high. I don't know much about it, but I've been reading a lot." My MO says, "ask your pain doctor, you have my blessing." My pain doctor at Sloan-Kettering says "nope, don't know anything about it. Sorry."
Do these people not read the news? I'd be fine if my pain doctor said "I don't recommend it for you." But to be ignorant about medical marijuana, or to feign ignorance, bothers me
I know this is off topic, but only slightly, because if I had more energy and less pain, I'd be exercising!
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