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etnasgrl
etnasgrl Member Posts: 650

I have my lumpectomy this coming week, on Thursday and I'm starting to get nervous now.
I wasn't before. I was actually looking forward to getting it done and moving one step closer to having this cancer out of me! Obviously, I'm still looking forward to that....but now my nerves are getting frazzled.
I worry about the surgery, the nuclear injection, the pathology results, the recovery, and moving on to radiation! Soooo much to worry about! (LOL!)

I'm not to the point of being overly anxious and/or stressed, so I don't think I need any meds or anything. I think it's just basic nerves and worrying, which I'm sure is normal before any type of surgery.

A few months ago, I never would have thought I would be going into surgery any time soon. It's all still overwhelming!

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  • Live4them
    Live4them Member Posts: 65
    edited December 2015

    I remember I was very calm and cool until about 45 days before my surgery I got very anxious would cry at the drop of a hat. But that's totally normal just take a deep breath and with every passing day

  • ChiSandy
    ChiSandy Member Posts: 12,133
    edited December 2015

    Take a deep breath. You’ll do fine! Lumpectomy is considered “major” surgery only because you’ll be under anesthesia. It’s otherwise quite minor, same-day stuff. You’ll get locals for the nuclear injection, and the path results are usually back w/in 5 working days.

  • keepthefaith
    keepthefaith Member Posts: 2,156
    edited December 2015

    ditto what ChiSandy said. I would suggest wearing an open front sports-type bra afterwards for a few days. Kind of gives you some compression. They'll probably have you ace-bandaged around your chest when you get out. Ice, pain meds, if needed. You may also want to take a small pillow, if you need it between you and your seat belt riding home and while sleeping. Surgery is always worrisome no matter what kind it is. I remember just trying to be thankful that they were getting it out!!! For me, it was easy peasy. I hope it is for you, too. Good luck!

  • LisaAlissa
    LisaAlissa Member Posts: 1,092
    edited December 2015

    My surgeon used a breast binder like this:

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    which was quite comfortable (little ice pads were held nicely in place). She had me wear one for the entire time I was doing Mammosite radiation after my lumpectomy. They gave me a second one so that I could launder/switch them around during the approximately two weeks after surgery. I added some straps, using wide doublefaced ribbon. I just made a loop with embroidery floss on the front & back on each side and then fed a long ribbon through the loops and then tied the ends into a bow.

    It was also helpful when I needed to go to a tape-less dressing. This was sufficiently compressive to hold everything in place without tape!

    Some surgeons will just bandage you, others leave you in a surgical bra. I would call and ask what you can expect.

    LisaAlissa

  • BethL
    BethL Member Posts: 286
    edited December 2015

    etnasgrl...I had a sentinel node injection 10 years ago and it was terrible. I was so worried to do it again. I only tell you this because I had 2 nuclear injections friday and they were so much easier now. Doc said they use a smaller gauge needles and a smaller volume compared 5o what ibad before. Really wasn't bad at all, so please don't worry too much. I know that's harder to do ithan it sounds. You'll do great this week. Good energy and prayers headed your way!

  • grandma3X
    grandma3X Member Posts: 759
    edited December 2015

    etnasgirl - I was also worried about this and emailed my surgeon to ask if they numb the breast first. She said they use a numbing cream around the nipple. I have not had surgery yet so I don't know how much pain is involved, but if you are worried, ask your surgeon. Amazon sell a 5% lidocaine cream, and there are also numbing creams available by prescrption (Emla). Hugs :

  • Live4them
    Live4them Member Posts: 65
    edited December 2015

    I totally understand that feeling . I was fine before my surgery and then 4 to 5 days before it hit me like boom! But take a deep breath it's told ally normal what you are feeling . I would get really irritable and cry at a drop at a hat .. My poor husband didn't know what to do or say to make me happy . I was angry lol... But my BS must have known this would come so she had prescribed me some Xanax and I didn't really take it till those days came .. It's very important to sleep well and go into surgery as relaxed as you can . So if you don't want medication then really just try to meditate , breath, or try anything that calms you ... You'll do fine and we will all be here when you need s 🌹🌹

  • etnasgrl
    etnasgrl Member Posts: 650
    edited December 2015

    Thanks everyone for the responses! I so appreciate all the well wishes and assurance that all will be okay!

    grandma3x: My surgical oncologist gave me a prescription for Emla cream, so I'm good to go there. Just hoping it WORKS! lol!

  • teacher30plus
    teacher30plus Member Posts: 13
    edited December 2015

    Etnasgrl, I had my lumpectomy Friday, the 4th. We seem to be in about the same boat as far as our dx, with exception of the grade. I too, was pretty nervous about the nuclear part. The radiologist was very compassionate and had me squeeze the tech's hand when they gave me the injections right around the nipple. It wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. I was pretty good the first couple of days, but have been a little more sore yesterday, and today. I think the tighter the sports bra, the better. I even got up in the middle of the night last night and put on a different sports bra. This afternoon I see the BS again, and hopefully get the final path report. And yes, the nervousness is BACK! Stomach is way too upset! I will pray that you have an easy time of it, and that your news will be good. Sure not the path we would have chosen, especially at this time of year! But, we CAN do it! I will be praying for you today, and tomorrow!



  • etnasgrl
    etnasgrl Member Posts: 650
    edited December 2015

    Thank you so very much, teacher30plus, for the encouragement and the prayers! Both of which are so needed!

    Winking

    I have several sport bras waiting in the wings, two have front closures and one is a T-Back, pull over your head, type. While I don't think I'll want to be lifting my arms up very high right after surgery, the T-Back one is VERY supportive and holds the girls really well. We'll see. If nothing else, maybe I can have my hubby help me into the T-Back, LOL!

    You're so right, this is NOT the path we would have chosen, but many times in life, we just don't get a choice and have to accept the cards we're dealt. It's absolutely not fun, especially this time of year, but what other choice do we have? We've got to do what we've got to do, right?
    I truly believe that prayer works....so I'll be praying for you as well. Prayers for a good recovery and prayers for an excellent path report!!!
    ((((Hugs))))

  • LoveMyVizsla
    LoveMyVizsla Member Posts: 813
    edited December 2015

    wait, so does everyone get injected around the nipple, or just where your tumor is? *gulp

  • Smurfette26
    Smurfette26 Member Posts: 730
    edited December 2015

    The radio-active isotopes are injected into the nipple area LoveMyVizsla.

  • ChiSandy
    ChiSandy Member Posts: 12,133
    edited December 2015

    I had two different injections--the first, guided by ultrasound, was where the core needle “reamer” had been injected for the biopsy, and a radioactive seed was inserted. Like the biopsy, the lidocaine was administered with a needle so fine I barely felt the initial poke and was almost immediately numb. The isotope to “home in on” the sentinel node(s) was injected into the areola--the lidocaine for that one hurt quite a bit more but went numb pretty quickly. They can apply a topical (either cream or ethyl chloride spray like when you donate blood) first if you ask.

    LissaAlissa, I actually bought a couple of those binders to wear over my soft bra for a few days after my SNB incision had to be sutured, in order to keep the seroma from enlarging. Gave me a nice waistline. Got them on Amazon.

  • Sjacobs146
    Sjacobs146 Member Posts: 770
    edited December 2015

    LoveMyVisla, it sounds worse than it really is. I didn't realize that they injected the nipple either until I was there in Nuclear Medicine. I actually said to the doc: hey, you know that the tumor is over here, right? He explained that the way our lymph system drains, the injections must be done at the nipple. The tech held my hand, but it wasn't bad at all. My Breast was already a little numb from when they inserted the wire. Sounds horrific, but in the end it was no big deal. By the way, the radioactive material has a very short half life, and no worries about setting off any radioactivity sensors.

    I was very calm about the lumpectomy until I got into the surgical waiting room. As I sat there waiting to go in, I had a very strong feeling that I should not go through with it, and something terribly wrong was going to happen. It took all of will power to stay. But there was a woman next to me who was going in for a D&C due to a miscarriage who was crying the entire time. Lumpectomy was a piece of cake compared to what that poor woman endured

  • etnasgrl
    etnasgrl Member Posts: 650
    edited December 2015

    Sjacobs146....thanks for sharing your story! It helped!

    Smile

  • SummerAngel
    SummerAngel Member Posts: 1,006
    edited December 2015

    The injections are not always done at the nipple. Mine were done at the lower-outer quadrant of each breast (lidocaine was injected first, so no problems with pain). It seems that different facilities have different ideas about this.

  • ceanna
    ceanna Member Posts: 5,270
    edited December 2015

    I had lumpectomy exactly a year ago, and like, summerangel said, the injections I had and guide wire insertion were not done in nipple. With numbing, I did not feel much.

    I agree with LisaAllisa about the comfort of the breast binder my surgeon used after surgery. I acquired two so I could wash one while wearing one when dealing with a seroma. Worked well during my 10-session catheter radiation too--I could keep a fleece jacket on during treatments in cold room by just unzipping jacket and opening the front of the binder. I still wear one occasionally under my jammies if I'm feeling cold!!

    Etnasgrl, let us know how you're doing. Best wishes for LX tomorrow.

  • myajames
    myajames Member Posts: 80
    edited December 2015

    We are having surgery on the same day. Sending good vibes! Hoping everything goes well... I'm also hoping I get one of those cute binder things!

  • LoveMyVizsla
    LoveMyVizsla Member Posts: 813
    edited December 2015

    Just had my radioactive injection, not pleasant, but not as bad as I thought. Took less than half an hour. They will do the mapping tomorrow.


  • etnasgrl
    etnasgrl Member Posts: 650
    edited December 2015

    myajames....we're surgery buddies!

    Hug

    I'll be praying for you, that you have a smooth and perfect surgery!

    Just wanted to update on my nuclear injection. First off, they did NOT inject anything into my nipple or areola. They injected the radiotracer on the bottom part of my breast. It was only one shot. I asked about receiving multiple shots and the tech said that is the old way of doing it.
    I felt slight, and I do mean slight, burning for about 2-3 seconds and that was it. Super easy and painless!

  • MrsGreenJeans
    MrsGreenJeans Member Posts: 95
    edited December 2015

    etnasgrl, so glad the injection was not bad for you. Good luck on your surgery.

  • myajames
    myajames Member Posts: 80
    edited December 2015

    Surgery went well! Hoping all went well for my surgery buddy!

  • LoveMyVizsla
    LoveMyVizsla Member Posts: 813
    edited December 2015

    good Mya!! Mine went well too, but the wire placement, not so much. I passed out. Of course. Only me. Ha!

    Etna, where are you? Hope you are okay.

  • etnasgrl
    etnasgrl Member Posts: 650
    edited December 2015

    All is well! The surgery went smooth, with no complications, praise God!
    I'm home now, just taking it easy. I have no pain in my breast at all, which is great....but the SNB location is sore as hell! I'm taking my pain meds to stay on top of the pain and the hospital gave me a small, heart shaped pillow to wedge under my arm, which is helping greatly!!!

    Slowly, but surely, we'll get there!
    So glad to hear that your surgeries went well myajames and LoveMyVizsla!!! That's wonderful news!

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