Post DIEP Flap Bra Shopping

I am finding it very difficult to navigate this site and find exactly what I'm looking for, but I am hopeful that someone out there can relate to my search, so I am starting a new question.

I had a left side mastectomy and immediate DIEP flap reconstruction on Oct 28, 2015. My flap is at least a cup size larger than my surviving breast, and it overflows to about my left armpit. So, bras are a bit challenging. I did try a Bali from Macys that works OK, although my surviving breast has a little extra room. At least I can wear a regular bra to all the Christmas parties and my "new girl" doesn't feel squished. I also have a good sports bra from pre-BC that allows me to remove the pad from the left and keep the pad from the right, so I don't look AS lopsided.

Here's my concern: I would like a bra that supports and lifts the right side and still makes the left side comfortable. I am not interested in those Coobies or Genies that look great for implants that stand up and salute on their own. (Needless to say, I was very discouraged by the photos of the models on those sites.) I will not be having my niptuck for a few months, but will be returning to work soon. I would just like to feel attractive and normal and be able to get through my day without anyone noticing anything different about me. Ha!

Any suggestions are welcome. I am a 34B or C, depending. As if the fact that my surviving breast doesn't know what size to be is not enough to contend with, right? Thank you, ladies!