Tired even before diagnosis
Was anyone else feeling tired even before they knew they might have cancer.
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I'm sure you will get many different answers. I did not feel tired, in fact I was feeling really good. I had had endometrial cancer the previous year and was feeling better (was over the tiredness from rads), exercising more and had even lost a little weight. When I went in for my annual mammogram I was not the least bit worried, but of course I got the callback and it was downhill from there.
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Thank you BookWoman for your input, so sorry you're dealing with cancer yet again.
Good luck and thanks again.
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Yeah, but I have small kids and would get up around 3:45 to go to work.
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I was tired. I also gained about 30 pounds the year before my diagnoses. I was too busy to get it checked out, until I found the mass in my breast.
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Thank you for your input Skittlegirl & Scrunchthecat. Good luck to all here. Take care
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I was very tired before my diagnosis of idc as well. I thought it had to with my existing conditions of panhypopituitary and having no adrenal glands and could not figure out what changed
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Thanks NJ-Jen, good luck
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it was a bolt from the blue for me. I felt perfectly fine before my annual mammo turned up the tumor
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Thanks Sjacobs146 for your input. Good luck.
Seeing Surgeon today for rest of path results.
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Tikkasmom, When I think back on the time period before my diagnosis, the one and only "symptom" I can put my finger on is fatigue. I remember feeling tired all the time. So often I thought how good it would feel to just lay down for a while. I knew something was wrong, just didn't think it would end up being cancer. Hoping your path results are the best.
Kaya
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Good morning Tikkasmom! I look back to the months before my diagnosis, and there was not one thing out of the ordinary. I wasn't tired, stressed, etc! I was going to work, working out, eating well, just lost 45 lbs on Weight Watchers. Then out of the blue, this hit!
Good luck on your journey!
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I know I was tired--more tired than usual. Though, I thought it was because I had transitioned from being a full time pre-med college student to working 40 hours a week, helping take care of sibling with special needs, and training for a half marathon. Not sure if it was the cancer that made me super exhausted or I just had a lot of things going on.
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I was definitely tired! I figured it was because I was out of shape but, in hindsight, I just kept getting more tired within the year before diagnosis.
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Yes. I was tired and it wasn't a tired that would go away with sleep
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I was tired too and my energy came roaring back after my surgery/radiation treatment. I guess it's because your body is working hard to contain the cancer.
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I was unusually tired off and on for a few years before diagnosis. I noticed it the most when I exercised and just didn't have the same endurance or energy level as previously. Also sometimes just felt super exhausted and wanted to lay down and felt a little ill. Because my mom had had breast cancer I even googled if fatigue was a symptom of cancer! I couldn't find any website that said it was, so I delayed getting fully checked out. I've mentioned this fatigue to doctors and no one seemed interested. Hard to know if its the fatigue causing the cancer or vice versa! My guess is that the fatigue might have been from other untreated factors, and was symptomatic of a struggling immune system and inflammation within the body.
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I was tired too.....initially I thought it was having a baby at 35 and other stressful things happening. Then as months went by I knew something wasn't right, I was tired and just felt run down. I would fall asleep watching tv and dh and I would joke how I couldn't get thru a movie. Cancer was not even on my radar.
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When I was first diagnosed in September 2010, the only symptom I had was tiredness. In the summer months proceeding my diagnosis I was nodding off every time I sat down. The tiredness reminded me of how I felt in early months of my first pregnancy. It was a tiredness (exhaustion) that sleep did not satisfy. I told my doctors of this only symptomwhen I was first diagnosed. But like my surgeon and oncologist they all agreed that tiredness alone was too subjective to consider as a symptom, as we can be tired for many reasons and therefore it was not objective enough in considering cancer.
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Thank you all for your replies, sorry you have to be here but thankful for your input. Now making the decision of lumpectomy or double mastectomy (if insurance will allow). My family history of breast cancer is remarkable, every woman on my Mom's side for 3 generations have had it. Both my Sisters and Cousins opted for double mastectomies for fear of having cancer and they're all fine.
Tough decision for sure. Surgeons advice is if I'm gonna worry the rest of my life, go for the double. If not, go for lumpectomy. Leaning towards the double...
Thanks again
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I have been tired my whole life so I wouldn't know whether exhaustion was a symptom for me. My cousin was diagnosed with breast cancer the year before I was diagnosed. I asked her about fatigue and radiation. Her response to me was, "How would I know whether radiation caused me to be tired? I am always exhausted. I can't tell." I am still tired now. I am a single parent and I constantly worry about finances. I work about 10 hours per day in addition to a 2 and 1/2 hour commute round trip to/from work every day. I'm sure that this response doesn't help. Good luck.
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Thank you 614 for your reply. You're a good parent providing/caring for your children as you do. Take care
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Weird thing is that when I was notified of the anomaly on my annual mammo I was feeling better and stronger (especially after getting new knees and losing weight) than ever before. But for some soreness in my SNB incision, I still feel healthy. (Get back to me after radiation and I’ll let you know if that changes). Didn’t even have the fatigue they warned me I’d have after lumpectomy, although I was incredibly charley-horsed, as if I’d done every Nautilus machine in the gym at full resistance, for several days due to the succinylcholine they administered as a muscle relaxant (apparently, every muscle in the body goes into spasm before they relax).Still feels very, very surreal.
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Thanks for reply ChiSandy , good luck to you.
Hubby got a new knee 3 years ago and still having pain. Congrats on new knees and weight loss! Awesome...
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I felt and looked the best in my entire life before dx. It floored me. It felt like my body was keeping an evil secret
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Tikkasmom, just want to note that there are other ways of addressing "worrying about it for your whole life" besides having both breasts fully removed. I know this is a treatment that relieves anxiety for a lot of people, but remember here the root issue is your anxiety, not the possibility of breast cancer returning. And of course, you can still get breast cancer without breasts - totally happens! Western doctors have an extremely limited view of how to treat cancer, and so I have found you have to do a lot of your own research and be wiling to shift your perspective and look at things in a way your doctors might not. If you start researching holistic medicine,nutrition, mind/body healing, and others you 'll learn about a lot of ways to prevent cancer that allow you to keep your breasts. It's worth researching before having such a huge surgery.
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Thank you AlaskaGal for your input. Much appreciated.
With 3 generations of women with no one missed, it's overwhelming.
I'll do more research. Thank you
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Yep, I was very tired! Truth be known, I still am more tired than I'd like to be. Must be age. Ha!
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I was very, very tired. In fact, I went to see my chair and told him that I didn't think I could handle teaching the number of courses I was scheduled to teach the next semester. I almost started crying as I spoke with him (not at all like me) but I was just really, REALLY wiped out. Just a couple of weeks later I was diagnosed with cancer. AND, I have to say that I do not feel that way anymore. I am feeling much MUCH better (better rested, less stressed) these days (one year from my diagnosis) than I did before it.
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Thank you for your input. Glad to hear you're feeling rested. Can't wait to feel rested.
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Yes, I think from fear. Fear can exhaust you. I just wanted to curl up in a ball! Now that I know I have IDC I'm actually feeling more rested. Knowing is so much better than wondering--doing that mental see-sawing between:"Oh, I'm just imagining it, it keeps slipping away,it's not painful,no family history, I eat a lot of broccoli..." to "God, it's firm and RIGHT THERE under my fingers..."
Hang in, sweetie.
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