Tissue expanders question

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Shelly1974
Shelly1974 Member Posts: 21

Hi girls,

First, thanks for your knowledge and sharing your experience. You were my support in difficult times.

I had mastectomy for ALH on January 27, 2015 with tissue expanders. Everything went well and no drains anymore. Last Thursday went for first expansion (and last) and now wait till surgery for final implants on May. My question and concern is how softer will be the final implants comparing to TE? I'm very skinny and no fat can be donated from anywhere. Will the final implants be hard as the TE? It's feels like constantly muscle spasm. Hard and unmovable. Anyone that had the final exchange can tell from her experience?

Thanks!

You all are the best.


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  • grammakathy
    grammakathy Member Posts: 407
    edited February 2015

    have you decided what type of implants you will have? That decision makes a difference in how they look and feel

  • Shelly1974
    Shelly1974 Member Posts: 21
    edited February 2015

    thanks grammakathy!

    I'm new to this whole thing. Any suggestions to type that will look and feel the softest and natural? I will speak to my surgeon in couple months but know that you all have first hand experience and will give good info..

  • placid44
    placid44 Member Posts: 497
    edited February 2015

    I have cohesive gel implants, which is what a lot of plastic surgeons are using these days. The final implant is quite a bit Softer than the TE, and definitely more comfortable.I wouldn't call it soft soft.

  • grammakathy
    grammakathy Member Posts: 407
    edited February 2015

    I also have cohesive gel implants and feel they have a natural sloped look which is what I wanted. Others prefer a more voluptuous "push up" style and the silicone works better for them. My PS had samples of each and we discussed the differences before I decided. I had read that others thought the cohesive gels were firmer but handling them side by side, there was very little difference. She said that there would be rippling if I had the silicone but she could add fat later on. I was so ready to be done with all this! In the end it was the shape that determined which one I chose

  • Jenwith4kids
    Jenwith4kids Member Posts: 635
    edited February 2015

    Hi there, I have had my TEs now for a year. My exchange is scheduled for the last week in April. My understanding is that the implants will definitely be softer. My sister had her exchange surgery in December and she let me "feel her up" LOL!! She is definitely softer and more natural feeling than I am with these awful TEs.

    I have chosen the regular silicone rounds. Doc says my mastectomy flaps are thick enough to hide the ripples and he thinks I will have a better result with those than I will with the cohesives (although he typically favors the cohesives).

    I hope that helps.

    Good luck!

  • Shelly1974
    Shelly1974 Member Posts: 21
    edited February 2015

    Thank you :-))

  • Bobkat303
    Bobkat303 Member Posts: 22
    edited October 2015

    having exchange on Tuesday. Please tell me result will be much better than having expanders in? Can't wait.

  • Bobkat303
    Bobkat303 Member Posts: 22
    edited October 2015

    I am 72. Was I crazy to even bother at my age. Any other older ladies out there

  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited October 2015

    Bobka303, weleome to BCO. Nothing is crazy (-: Do what makes sense and feels right to you. Please let us know how things go post Tuesday!

  • Jenwith4kids
    Jenwith4kids Member Posts: 635
    edited October 2015

    Good morning, Bobcat - YES - you will be much happier with the implants than the TEs. You will feel the difference almost immediately, but you need to give the implants time to "settle" - months... Good luck!


  • Bobkat303
    Bobkat303 Member Posts: 22
    edited October 2015

    I can't say how nice to get reply. Never did board like this. Thank you for support. All ready for tomorrow!

  • Bobkat303
    Bobkat303 Member Posts: 22
    edited October 2015

    how great everyone can help each other this way. Technology can be great.

  • Englishmummy
    Englishmummy Member Posts: 337
    edited October 2015


    Good Luck Bobcat! Thinking of you. I am having my exchange Friday - can't wait!

  • Bobkat303
    Bobkat303 Member Posts: 22
    edited October 2015

    Good luck on Friday.  I'll be thinking of you.  Will let you know how tomorrow goes. We'll be looking good!!😊😊

  • grammakathy
    grammakathy Member Posts: 407
    edited October 2015

    Bobkat - I was 64 at the time of my exchange. I feel great and look forward to many years of wearing these babies! Good for you!

  • Bobkat303
    Bobkat303 Member Posts: 22
    edited October 2015

    I had great surgery. Feel so much better.  Can't believe how much more comfortable I am.   Just enjoying this beautiful day and thankful for the wonderful doctors and nurses that make this all possible.  Thanks for the support and for those waiting for surg good luck and keep us posted.  

  • NYNJGirl3
    NYNJGirl3 Member Posts: 30
    edited October 2015

    hi ladies,

    So glad I stumbled across this forum as I've been a bit down in the dumps. After a strong family history and brca1 postive diagnosis, I underwent a double mastectomy on sept 28. Drains came out yesterday (woohoo) but these tissue expanders are beyond awful. They are uncomfortable and suffocating and i would love to just rip them out. I'm smaller so they feel huge and overbearing. It's making me feel depressed and blah (I'm usually super active) but I just don't feel like doing anything. My mother and sister have been through this and have been very supportive as has my boyfriend. I keep trying to keep the end In Sight but any tips on how to deal with the TEs? I don't think I can do this for 3-4 months

  • Bobkat303
    Bobkat303 Member Posts: 22
    edited October 2015

    One question - I just changed bra and boobs don't look like I know they will after swelling goes down    How long does it take to look better.  Right now all seems to be two big mounds!😊😊

  • Bobkat303
    Bobkat303 Member Posts: 22
    edited October 2015

    NYNJGirl3. You are so early on in recovery.  You will get through this and be better than fine    I had BMX in May 19 and yesterday had my TE exchanged.  I feel great.  As you will.  You made the right decision on BMX.  Hang in there.   Someone told me I would forget about recovery after surg and they were right.  As time goes on you won't even remember what tough spot you are in right now.   Keep busy and rest a lot to let body heal.  It did take 4 months to get my full rnergy and life back to what I would say was normal!

  • Bobkat303
    Bobkat303 Member Posts: 22
    edited October 2015

    NYNJGirl3

    Just read your post again and realized you were asking for tips on TE.  one thing go slow on fill and you can tell dr to give less if it gets really tight.   You are in control.  no rush.  They do get better as you stretch.   

  • Englishmummy
    Englishmummy Member Posts: 337
    edited October 2015

    NYNJ, I am small too. Mine felt uncomfortable (like wearing  coconut shells  for a bra) for about a month, but I really started to feel better at the 2 week mark when I was told I could do more excercise (not my arms). I started walking and got back to running 4-5 miles daily by week 4 - I think that helps with healing and the depressed feeling too (the anesthesia can cause that and so do opiates). I had to force myself to do things, including smile, but I think my hubby was doing too much for me ie. everything(bless him but...). Being highly active and very independent, this crushes that esteem for a while. I felt much better when he went back to work and I had to get on with my daily itinerary solo, well with my 3 children - we homeschool.  As BobKat says, it does get better. Hang in there!

  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited October 2015

    Indeed, hang in there as the others have said. You are in the early stages. One day at a time, and glad you found us here.

  • Bobkat303
    Bobkat303 Member Posts: 22
    edited October 2015

    Thanks for answer.  Did they change a lot when swelling went down.   I have quite a bit of swelling especially under arm so implants are not as defined as I thought.   Sure first visit to dr will help reassure me they will get better with time. 

  • NYNJGirl3
    NYNJGirl3 Member Posts: 30
    edited October 2015

    thanks for the support everyone!! I just have to take it day by day and try to get out and do more to get out of this funk. Hoping the first fill will be on the 20th so maybe that will help with the TE discomfort? You'd think in this day and age and with the amount of technology there would be a way to make these tolerable!!!

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