Second-hand chemo danger?

I was specifically told about it, however it was in regard to the following:

If you are vomiting or have diarrhea and someone else is cleaning up for you, make sure the person who is your caregiver is using precautions, gloves etc. and that they don't get any of your bodily substance on them. If they do, ensure they was promptly with plenty of soap and water.

When you use the toilet, close the lid and flush twice.

If you are going to have intercourse ensure that your spouse wears a condom and that they have a shower afterward. The chemicals that you are being treated with will come out in your bodily fluid, mostly vomit, urine, saliva.

I did sleep in a separate bed for three nights following an infusion, but that was because my 12 year old Italian greyhound sleeps in our bed and I was mostly worried about the effect it could have on him if I sweated a bunch in the middle of the night. The other reason was for me, for comfort mainly, in case I couldn't sleep, wanted to be up, was tossing and turning, I didn't want the anxiety of disturbing my husband. And honestly, I wanted to be left alone in a quiet space. I did the two flushes of the toilet with the lid closed, and didn't engage in sex for about five days after chemo. The only other precaution was I washed the clothes I wore the two days following chemo separately and I double washed them. I also tried not to slobber and drool on my grandkids for two days, but I still saw them.

The last comment was meant to be funny! I wouldn't get too worried. A pregnant woman did a few of my infusions, so it can't be that big of a concern. Just take whatever precautions make you comfortable, and highly consider just giving yourself a separate space for a few nights, just for comfort. I had a bed and tv in a room, that way if I woke up and wanted to watch tv, nobody cared but me