Newly diagnosed, just learned I'm also triple negative

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  • jenjenl
    jenjenl Member Posts: 948
    edited September 2015

    fellow CLT girl here. Bobo was my RO...nice guy. My MO is Limintani. BS was dr robinson (amazing!!). Here locally for you if you need any help.

  • Irishgirl65
    Irishgirl65 Member Posts: 1
    edited September 2015

    dianosed with stage 2 grade 0 in May. Did lumpectomy and on sixth round of chemo. Chose to not read a lot or educate myself but yesterday at support starting talking about triple negative which I am. I knew but choose not to read about it. Now I'm reading its higher chance to return in three to five years and doesn't respond well to chemo. Is this true. Can when with triple negative never have a reoccurrence. Also when they say survupival rate what do they mean. I keep hearing five years is that all most people have to live. I hear of success stories twenty years later


    Pls someone help and relieve my anxiety. Losing my mind right now


    Thanks

  • lovelifeBR
    lovelifeBR Member Posts: 41
    edited September 2015

    Hi CinderallaNC;

    You are very inspiring with your work-out ethic, etc. I have been trying to keep that up as well. I think it helps immensely to try to stay in good shape if you can. Have you had your third treatment yet? I had my second one on Friday and so far so good. I hit bottom for a couple of days last time on about days 7 and 8 so we'll see how it goes this time! Have you had your 3rd treatment yet? Hope you are doing well!


  • ninjamary
    ninjamary Member Posts: 306
    edited September 2015

    Irish girl...I've read the opposite. Triple Negative responds better to chemo than ER/PR/HER2. Yes we have a lower survival rate in the the 3-5 years after treatment, but after year 5 we have the same survival rate. I have a 70% chance of not having a recurrence. I'll take those odds. You are grade 0! That is awesome. They caught it very early. If it hasn't spread to your lymph nodes that is another plus.

    The above is what I have read.

  • CarolinaAmy
    CarolinaAmy Member Posts: 281
    edited September 2015

    Irishgirl, I'm with Ninjamary--triple negative responds strongly to chemo and better than the other types! And once we hit the five-year mark without recurrence, our risk comes down to a smidge lower than the other breast cancers. And given that you're grade 0, I'd be jumping for joy (comparatively, LOL). That's a HUGE piece of good news; TNBC is almost always Grade 3.

    And when they say "five-year", that's just one measurement of comparing women with similar diagnoses. It doesn't mean you're looking at five years. Again, if you hit the five-year mark, that's very good news for the long term. 70% of triple negative women do NOT have a recurrence at all. I hope that reassures you from the misinformation you were given. It sounds like you're doing what the surgeons are telling you, in which case you have every reason to be hopeful!!

  • KSteve
    KSteve Member Posts: 486
    edited September 2015

    Irishgirl - Just wanted to chime in here, as a 5-year TNBC survivor.  I had a very large tumor and a few lymph nodes involved.  Try to think positive thoughts and let the negative ones go as much as possible.  It can be hard to do that, especially in the beginning.  I wanted to offer you some hope.  Reach out if you have questions.

    Hugs,

    Kathy

  • lovelifeBR
    lovelifeBR Member Posts: 41
    edited September 2015
    Irishgirl---It can be scary, but definitely focus on the positive thoughts and let the negative ones go. I just had my 2nd treatment on the 18th. We can do this! KSteve...awesome news!

  • lintrollerderby
    lintrollerderby Member Posts: 483
    edited September 2015

    Hi, everyone. I wanted to address a few things mentioned above.

    There is no Grade 0 in breast cancer classification. By far, the most common system for determining grade with this disease is the Nottingham Histologic Score system (the Elston-Ellis modification of Scarff-Bloom-Richardson grading system). This system only has designations for Grades 1-3. Some of the older classifications for breast cancer list a Grade 4, but it is seldom used anymore.

    Regarding Triple Negative's chemo response rate--that is a difficult statement. Triple Negative is not one disease; it's a designation of exclusion--basically an "other" category. Because it is not yet known what fuels TN, it's diagnosed by ruling out the known classifications: Estrogen Receptors (ER), Progesterone Receptors (PR), and an over-abundance of HER2/neu protein. So, when a pathologist looks at the tumor sample and can't find evidence of these three characteristics, a label of "Triple Negative" is given. Unfortunately, that tells us little about what is actually driving the individual tumor. So, as a result, the TN subtype has quite a variety of characteristics and outcomes. We see some patients with TN who have an excellent response to therapy and never suffer a relapse; however, we also see the patient who has chemo-resistant disease which spreads quite rapidly, and everything in between the two. Part of this diversity is the individual patient of course, but a great deal of it is that we are not comparing the same diseases because we can't yet tell them apart. As research becomes more focused, we can expect to differentiate between the various subtypes of TN. Six distinct subtypes were identified a few years ago and undoubtedly more will be discovered--particularly as more research looks to the role of Androgen Receptors (AR), Prolactin Receptors (PRLR), and Glutamate Receptors, among other targets. For now, these are the known subtypes: six TNBC subtypes including 2 basal-like (BL1 and BL2), immunomodulatory (IM), mesenchymal (M), mesenchymal stem–like (MSL), and luminal androgen receptor (LAR) subtype.

    So, yes, on the whole, TN's strength as a cancer is also its weakness in that because it is typically quite aggressive, it makes itself an excellent target for chemotherapy. The flip side to that is that for many who respond to treatment but later have a metastatic recurrence, their disease is often (though not always, as there are no absolutes in cancer) chemo-resistant. This doesn't mean that they have no options as many times it is just a matter of trying a different class of chemotherapy or adding something like a PARP-inhibitor to the regimen.

    Irishgirl: I understand your anxiety, but it seems you've misinterpreted the statistics. Across the board, many types of solid tumor cancers use a five year mark as a way to measure survival statistics--not that the patient only has 5 years to live. I think that slowly becoming more familiar with the particulars of your diagnosis will alleviate some anxiety and fear. I wouldn't suggest jumping in with both feet and drowning in the statistics for example, but taking time to learn little bits of information will help reduce the fear of the unknown and make instances like the one which just happened to you quite rare.

    All the best.

  • TerrifiedDaughter
    TerrifiedDaughter Member Posts: 30
    edited September 2015

    Hello All,

    My mother was just diagnosed with TNBC this past week. It has been a rollercoaster and so unexpected. I LOVE reading all of these posts. I am educating myself and my mother. I can see all the positivity and avmom your comment about chemo working well with this was exactly what I needed. My mom is having a PET scan on Tuesday. We are preparing to see her "light up like a Christmas tree" (her words). We are also waiting for a call from Rochester. We are uncertain if they want to treat her there or if they will allow her to stay closer to home. We live by Bismarck, ND so it is quite a travel. Her doctor said we will be starting aggressive chemo because of how fast moving it is. I am currently attending college, and planned to graduate in the winter. Now as this has all been thrown at us in the past month, I plan on putting my school work and social life aside to be next to my mom through every step. I am not sure if you ladies had someone who was there all the time, or if you have advice of things that you liked or wanted. I have never had to experience this before so I really don't know what to do. Another concern of mine is that my mom has been complaining of back pain. When i looked that up, that was not a good sign. Have any of you ladies had that? If so what was the deal behind it?

    I plan on updating in this group her progress and any questions that I have. But reading through all of these have answered a lot already.


    Thank you,

    -TerrifiedDaughter

  • WinningSoFar
    WinningSoFar Member Posts: 951
    edited September 2015

    Dear Terrified Daughter,

    I don't know this for a fact, but it would seem to me that your mom could get chemo treatment in Bismarck and have her treatment directed from the Mayo Clinic. I used to live in Mandan many years ago, btw.

  • TerrifiedDaughter
    TerrifiedDaughter Member Posts: 30
    edited September 2015

    WinningSoFar,

    I am hoping for that. I feel like my mother would enjoy being at home, but I also would like for her to be there and have people around her 24/7. It is an unknown path, and I am sure we will find out this week.

  • WinningSoFar
    WinningSoFar Member Posts: 951
    edited September 2015

    Besides that, just getting to Mayo in the winter will be ... cough... pretty damn hard.

  • Mamiya
    Mamiya Member Posts: 432
    edited September 2015

    I just added this to my "favorite topics" because of the positive comments by people like Ksteve and Suladog! I was diagnosed triple negative IBC about 90 days ago and it has turned my life upside down. I have wished that there was no internet so many times because there is so much negative and just plain bad news out there. I am so happy to hear good things, thanks for the encouragement to us all, people! We can do this.

  • CarolinaAmy
    CarolinaAmy Member Posts: 281
    edited September 2015

    TerrifiedDaughter, I've already chatted with you over on the September chemo thread, but I just wanted to reassure you again that you are an awesome daughter and you have every reason to be hopeful with your mom. TNBC responds well to chemo, and if you get a good plan from a great facility, they can easily write it up and direct care remotely. I got second opinions at two cancer centers a few hours away and was told the same thing, that they can write up the orders to be carried out at whatever facility is closest to you. The support of your mom's circle back home is going to be invaluable. I am thanking God every day for mine.

    Notdoneyet, I'm gonna say the same thing to you--YOU ARE NOT ALONE. And I'm so glad both of you found these boards, because they have been an incredible source of information and support for me already.

  • TerrifiedDaughter
    TerrifiedDaughter Member Posts: 30
    edited September 2015

    CarolinaAmy

    You are just WONDERFUL! Such kind words. I'm still new to all of this medical talk and i can see on the bottom what everyone has. But may I ask where you are at with everything? You seem so strong and hopeful and whatever you are doing I want my mother to tackle! She has a great support system here and will no matter where she goes.

    What prayers can do from miles away!

  • CarolinaAmy
    CarolinaAmy Member Posts: 281
    edited October 2015

    Hey sweetie (TDaughter), I have triple negative breast cancer, just like your mom (correct me if I'm wrong). My tumor was small enough that doing surgery first and then chemo was a very good option and I may have been able to go with a less brutal chemo route. But it was important to me to know whether or not I responded to this chemo regimen.

    So I just had my third round of AC; there will be one more. This stuff is pretty nasty and the side effects are cumulative. BUT, there's a light at the end of the tunnel. The next part is 12 rounds of weekly Taxol, and the side effects are typically better tolerated. Women typically feel better finishing Taxol than they did at the end of the four rounds of AC. ;)

    And THEN comes the big decision about which surgery...

  • TerrifiedDaughter
    TerrifiedDaughter Member Posts: 30
    edited October 2015

    Amy, (if I may call you that :))

    Yes my mom unfortunately didn't catch it in time and she has massive tumors, I was able to see the PET scan results. So she has to do chemo first then surgery and then radiation. She is thinking about doing the bilateral option. Unfortunately we both know the reoccurrence rate is high, so this is a concern for us. But I have faith that it will all work out!!!

    I got your email by the way :))

  • BRCA1positive
    BRCA1positive Member Posts: 22
    edited October 2015

    know how you're feeling. I was just diagnosed with triple negative grade 3 idc. The shock is still there, but I've had a lot of support from several foundations. I'm only 33. My new motto is "fake it till I make it". I'm basically faking a good attitude until the fight. While this doesn't work for everyone, I find that faking being happy actually helps me be happy. Also with the people around me, I get more positive support, rather than pity. Only myimmediate support sees my fears and tears. My mood is the only thing I can control, I'm choosing to be happy about all of the positive things.

  • Tidewater
    Tidewater Member Posts: 1
    edited October 2015

    i was just diagnosed with stage 1 triple negative cancer on the left side. Now awaiting genetic testing. My Dr has said best case is lumpectomy, chemo. Radiation, worse case bilateral mastectomy, chemo, radiation and ovary removal. She says the path we take will be determined by the genetic panel result. Sounds pretty drastic. Anyone else done this worst case scenario?

  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited October 2015

    Tidewater, getting genetic testing can be very helpful to guide your treatment decisions. There are many options, so one day at a time. Also, a lot will depend on your particular situation. Take it slow, and breathe

  • lovelifeBR
    lovelifeBR Member Posts: 41
    edited October 2015

    @Tidewater: Your genetic testing will help determine your course of treatment. I have Stage 1A, TNBC and had a lumpectomy and then started chemo on 8/28/2015. I am having six rounds of TC. You can do this. One step at a time!


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