So...whats for dinner?

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  • susan_02143
    susan_02143 Member Posts: 7,209
    edited September 2015

    And I quote:

    Dear Susan's Real Estate agent,

    as sometimes happens in real estate, the deal fall through. The Buyer has not been able to come up with a proof of funds on time.We decided to work with other offers. If your clients are still open to discuss, the Seller would like to work with their offer.

    Please let me know.

    Regards,

    Irene


    Can you believe this? They accepted an offer without proof of funds? The blew us off completely! And now, they are back for a third time. She was really lucky that I didn't say the first thing that came to mind with starts with an F, has four letters, followed by the word You. But, I am not submitting another offer. I have written three offers with two pages of contingencies. This time, he writes the offer and signs it. And then we will decide if we are going to play ball. I had the most wretched day today full of professional and personal conflict. Make HIM do the work this time. Jeez.

    *susan*

  • SpecialK
    SpecialK Member Posts: 16,486
    edited September 2015

    susan - all I can say is oy

  • auntienance
    auntienance Member Posts: 4,216
    edited September 2015

    Susan, oh good grief, what a rat's nest!

  • eric95us
    eric95us Member Posts: 2,845
    edited September 2015

    Susan...so what happens if your new offer is 15% less than your previous one? <evil grin/> .


    The deployment alert has been canceled. I'm glad. Now it's just back to being on call for the month.


  • auntienance
    auntienance Member Posts: 4,216
    edited September 2015

    Eric, yay!

    Thinking positive, I didn't mean for my comment to sound snarky, I only meant that what you indulged in didn't sound all that horrible. When I was first diagnosed with diabetes my diabetes educator was going over a food plan with me. When she was done she said "Once a month, eat whatever you want." I thought that was great advice. And you can bet that on my birthday (or anyone else's) I'm going to eat birthday cake. Not the whole cake, but a (big) piece lol! I'm not really big on food rules except for the only sandwich that goes with mayo is turkey and ketchup doesn't go on any. (Only my rule, DH has his own lol)

  • carolehalston
    carolehalston Member Posts: 6,887
    edited September 2015

    Positive, I hope you enjoyed your beach holiday and the food and drink. Don't feel guilty.

  • Redheaded1
    Redheaded1 Member Posts: 1,600
    edited September 2015

    Susan, Eric is right, the shit scale this guy is operating on should carry some penalties.....on top of making him write the offer and sign it...

  • carolehalston
    carolehalston Member Posts: 6,887
    edited September 2015

    Nance, I couldn't live with your sandwich rule! Mayo goes on every sandwich. Mayo is my favorite condiment. I can eat it off my finger. Hellman's Light. I can only imagine how good Susan's home-made mayo is.

    Last night's fish was really delicious. Even dh commented about how good it tasted. I melted some butter and a splash of EVOO in my newly acquired used iron skillet and heated it on an electric hot plate outside on the deck. Sprinkled s&p, onion and garlic powder on the crappie fillets. Forgot the cayenne. The skillet didn't get as hot as I would have liked (thanks to the limitations of the hot plate) but the fillets browned. The green beans and potato chunks weren't the best but we ate them.

    My freezer doesn't offer the variety of Luv's, but we need to use up the contents. I took out a portion of skirt steak for tonight's dinner, which will be "sorta Mexican." I'll grill the steak and slice thinly, heat up some canned black beans, mix up some guacamole, heat up some tortillas that were too tough to eat the last time I included them in a similar meal. I will try a quicker heating. Maybe microwave them. It will be nice to have home-made tortillas again when we're back at the house home.

  • mysunshine48
    mysunshine48 Member Posts: 1,480
    edited September 2015


    I used to live in Northern Indiana and we caught blue gils and crappies. Best fish ever! Do you know Susan's home made mayo? I would like to try and make some.

  • ThinkingPositive
    ThinkingPositive Member Posts: 834
    edited September 2015

    Auntienance...I didn't think your comment was meant to be snarky!!! I have tried to be so good about what I eat and its so difficult. I went to a nutritionist as part of the Wellness Program and she gave me a list of all the things that i should eat and shouldn't eat. Dairy, Sugar, Red Meat, Alcohol, were all on the do not eat list. I have also heard from numerous people, you shouldn't eat anything with sugar, no dairy, it fuels cancer cells. I take so much time in the grocery store reading labels that its really starting to get to be a problem. It seems like the only thing that I can drink is Water with lemon or Plain unsweetended ice tea.. everything has sugar in it. I have cut out so much as in cake cookies, candy, ice cream..breads, chips, any snack food any kind of deli meats.. burgers.. . I just got so tired of doing without that I started to have my coffee in the morning with skim milk and a little sugar. An occasional cookie or ice cream...So when I went away, I just threw it all away and said I am eating what I want at dinner. I asked my MO and he said that its all okay in moderation. And I did enjoy my beach days... when I got home I got a call from my girlfriend who invited me to go to Cancun with here 1st week of November. Great B'day surprise. Hotel paid for., All I need to do is pay for my air and meals. MY DH said go, absolutely!!! I will have to watch what I eat until then...

  • auntienance
    auntienance Member Posts: 4,216
    edited September 2015

    Ha ha Carole -- my food rules are only for me. DH follows his own rules which involve a lot of ketchup. In fact I too, love Hellman's light and always have a jar in the fridge as well as one in the pantry. And I always have a smaller jar of regular Hellman's just for potato salad and occasionally I even make my own mayo (only when I have fresh eggs. I don't trust store bought eggs.) No mayo judgment here!

    Yesterday with Dad was very nice. He was pleased with his pies and gifts and got lots of cards and birthday wishes from his friends in the senior apartments where he lives. We got him some gift cards for some places he likes to eat and took him to lunch too. He was in a good mood, which made me happy. One of our biggest losses with his aging is that he no longer fishes. He used to be a big crappie fisherman and we always had a supply. We both miss that a lot.

    So speaking of fish -- fish tacos tonight with chipotle slaw and some Spanish rice. Poor DH has come down with a summer cold so I'm hoping the spice will let him actually taste something.

    Got to Costco and restocked on lots of things. I'm quite unhappy that the Tuscan olive oil is missing as well as their regular EV olive oil. It's been replaced with Greek olive oil, and while I like some Greek oils very much, I don't care for this one as much as their regular evoo.

    Wishing you all a pleasant evening!

  • auntienance
    auntienance Member Posts: 4,216
    edited September 2015

    Sunshine -- you didn't ask me, but this is the recipe I use because it's made with an immersion blender and is pretty simple. I love my immersion blender.

    http://www.seriouseats.com/recipes/2011/10/two-minute-mayonnaise.html

    I'm sure Susan will share her recipe soon.

    ThinkingP - enjoy your life and if that means cream and sugar in your coffee, I say enjoy it!

  • ThinkingPositive
    ThinkingPositive Member Posts: 834
    edited September 2015

    Thanks auntienance!

  • MinusTwo
    MinusTwo Member Posts: 16,634
    edited September 2015

    Thinking Positive - I see you are ER/PR +, so maybe some dietary concessions are in order not to fuel estrogen. But really I've found the best rule to be "everything in moderation". I found that to be true w/diets in the past for weight control & for healthy eating. Now for cancer, I've lost too many things already to give up all the foods that I love & it's not going to happen.

    Dinner was sort of a 'jump up'. The rest of the cold boiled shrimp from Costco w/just salt since i don't mess with red sauce. The rest of the Olathe corn from Iowa which I cut off the cob Sunday - oh sooo sweet. The rest of the honeydew melon left over from the weekend. Too full for dessert.

  • SpecialK
    SpecialK Member Posts: 16,486
    edited September 2015

    Made some pasta salad today and roasted some chicken breasts on the bone, mostly for lunches. Tonight we are having some mac 'n cheese with ham, and a kale salad. Made the mac n' cheese with gluten free pasta, almond milk, almond milk cheese, vegetable broth and gluten free flour, and uncured ham. I will be curious how it tastes since this is the first time I have tried this. I used the same process to make the béchamel that I used for the veggie lasagna, so I am hopeful that it is good. The kale salad will be dressed with vinaigrette, some mandarin oranges and sliced almonds.

  • susan_02143
    susan_02143 Member Posts: 7,209
    edited September 2015

    and again, he isn't really interested in negotiating unless it is about giving him more money, in spite of the reduction in number of parking spaces.

    Donedonedonedone

    *susan*

  • carolehalston
    carolehalston Member Posts: 6,887
    edited September 2015

    Susan, this owner is definitely a Jerk, capital J. When you have a chance, would you please give Mysunshine your mayo recipe?

    Nance, your report about your dad made me smile and feel good on your behalf. It's so nice to see a parent happy.

    No guacamole with our sorta Mexican dinner tonight. The avocados weren't good. They had been left too long in the refrigerator, out of sight out of mind. DH loved the sautéed onion which had burned a bit and caramelized. As always, the skirt steak had such a good flavor. Lots of dish washing tonight, though, with the separate dishes of food.

  • susan_02143
    susan_02143 Member Posts: 7,209
    edited September 2015

    Homemade Mayo.

    I make this in a food processor, though a blender is rumored to work, as is hand whisking, though after my breast surgery, hand whisking isn't such a pleasant option.

    2 egg yolks

    1 tbl egg white

    1 tsp good-quality dijon, a little less if you use Grey Poupon

    pinch of salt

    3/4 cup vegetable oil [I use sunflower or grape seed]

    1/4 cup mild extra virgin olive oil

    1/2 lemon, juiced

    Place the egg, mustard and salt with a tablespoon or so of the vegetable oil in the food processor, and whizz until the mustard is no longer visible. [I turn the processor to an angle to help this happen since I am making a small quantity.] In a slow drizzle, pour in the vegetable oil. Once you see that the mixtue has started to thicken [emulsify] you can pour more quickly. Taste and add more mustard or salt if needed, and then start the machine again, adding the lemon juice, and then the olive oil. The results will be thinner than commercial mayo, but it firms up with a bit of time in the fridge.

    My kid likes to add roasted garlic and sugar. I don't care for sugar in my mayo.

    Use the egg white to make almond florentines with orange. :-) That is where you should put the sugar.

    *susan*

  • carolehalston
    carolehalston Member Posts: 6,887
    edited September 2015

    Thanks, Susan. Just reading the recipe made my mouth water! Home-made mayo is such a treat. I'll have to make some when I get home. I'll bet potato salad is really good with the home-made mayo. Egg salad, too.

  • carolehalston
    carolehalston Member Posts: 6,887
    edited September 2015

    Could actually make it here in the camper. I have a mini processor.

  • susan_02143
    susan_02143 Member Posts: 7,209
    edited September 2015

    Carole,

    Oh yes you could. I make it in the mini frequently..... the only reason I don't do that all the time is due the high squeal from that machine. Potato salad is really good with this mayo. In fact, Mr. 02143 who is not a huge fan of mayo won't eat any potato that isn't made with my mayo. It also is great in a pasta salad. Both start with some vinegar for the potato or pasta long before the mayo joins the party.

    *susan*

  • SpecialK
    SpecialK Member Posts: 16,486
    edited September 2015

    susan - thanks for the mayo recipe - I will try it in my mini also.

  • mysunshine48
    mysunshine48 Member Posts: 1,480
    edited September 2015

    What about the eggs? I always heard never to eat raw eggs.

  • SpecialK
    SpecialK Member Posts: 16,486
    edited September 2015

    mysunshine - I sometimes eat sunny side up eggs with a partially uncooked yolk, but I think it also depends on how much you trust your egg source and how sensitive your immune system is. If you are uncomfortable using uncooked eggs you can do this:

    "If you are concerned about making homemade mayonnaise with raw eggs, you can use a pasteurized egg substitute. Or combine the egg yolks with some water and lemon juice, and heat gently to 150 (65 C) degrees, then cool a bit and proceed with the recipe."


  • susan_02143
    susan_02143 Member Posts: 7,209
    edited September 2015

    I eat raw eggs.... I trust the source, and I like them. If you are scared of them, you can do one of the blanching egg options. I just don't buy into food rules. I eat what they were eating 100 or 200 years ago with intelligence.

    I have to tell you "heard" just doesn't figure into my own life choices. I eat food because I like it. I refuse to have guilt about food that I make in my own kitchen. Once upon a time, "heard" meant that diet sodas were "good" for you. Once upon a time, they said that high carb meals were good for you. I eat good food, made in my own kitchen, using the best ingredients that I can afford. I eat what my body wants. So far, it has worked pretty well for me.

    *susan*

  • Redheaded1
    Redheaded1 Member Posts: 1,600
    edited September 2015

    Think Pos---I hadthe exact same experience with my cancer center nutritionist, and my MO also said, moderation.

    She has told me that I can drink the LaCroix carbonated water that is flavored. I love the Lime one, and they also have grapefruit, coconut, lemon, plain (that's good too) and maybe some funky blends. You can also do herbal teas infused with fruits or cucumber, etc.

    I tried really hard but I am a foody at heart and I need to be happy and content.

  • Moonflwr912
    Moonflwr912 Member Posts: 6,856
    edited September 2015

    . The sugar feeds cancer thing. My take on that is simple. Every thing you eat is basically converted to sugar in your body. ALL cells need that sugar. Cancer is a fast growing beast so eats more sugar the faster it grows. So of course sugar feeds cancer. It feeds it just like every other cell. There is no way to tell the cancer cell not to eat the glucose like the other cells do. Remember that whatever you eat is converted. So eat carrots - sugar. Eat celery -sugar. Eat avocado, kale, spinach same thing. Fat and protein help the body convert food to sugar. So eat in moderation. your body doesn't know whether that glucose came from spinach or cake. you just want to balance all the other nutrients in food to get the most out of what you eat. That's my reasoning behind an occasional treat.oh. and if you go carb free , you do need to add fat to your protien or you will actually starve yourself. Because your body needs easily converted sugar. No. You. can't win. LOL

  • MinusTwo
    MinusTwo Member Posts: 16,634
    edited September 2015

    Susan - love your list of previous no-nos. Imagine, once upon a time "they" said not to eat REAL butter. I never paid attention to that one. I really believe everything's OK in moderation (even McDonald's french fries once or twice a year).

    Hmmm - I missed supper for a darn meeting that lasted until 9:30pm and then finished working the resulting issues before checking emails. Too late for dinner at 1am so guess I'll just have some popcorn - drenched in real melted butter.

  • auntienance
    auntienance Member Posts: 4,216
    edited September 2015

    Well another hurdle jumped at the retina doc -- no progression on the weird eye disease. Tomorrow's hurdle -- MO and the dreaded CA 15-3 and iron blood work. Clear that hurdle then no docs for 6 months. Yay!

    Tonight is Chicken Pommodoro. I have some fresh tomatoes languishing on the counter that need to be used. Side will only be a bit of angel hair pasta due to a huge chef salad at lunch. Ok, and a large piece of cheese garlic bread ;-)

    If only we could get kale to taste like McDonald's french fries . . . .

  • ThinkingPositive
    ThinkingPositive Member Posts: 834
    edited September 2015

    Auntienance...what is CA 15-3 ?? All my Mo does is regular blood work that he did during chemo. Says no scans or tumor markers...not always accurate and will only do if symptoms. Since I was a Grade 3 with 1 node positive...should I be worried that they are not following up on me the way that they should be. I guess this is what it is like when you get to the one year mark....start the worrying all over again. I was diagnosed on Aug. 29th, day before my birthday. Had biopsy first week in Sept and then the journey began.

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