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Nichcosmo
Nichcosmo Member Posts: 8
edited August 2015 in Just Diagnosed

I was diagnosed this past Thursday, July 23, 2015. I had a biopsy done on July 21, 2015. When I met with my Oncologist on Thursday she said that my pathology report confirms that I do have cancer. Yet for some reason the tissue samples and report were sent to the Mayo Clinic for further testing and review, it would be be back in one week. I have an appointment scheduled with my Oncologist for next week to discuss the report and I assume a treatment plan. I'm confused to why the report was sent to the Mayo Clinic. Scared, confused and waiting.

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  • farmerlucy
    farmerlucy Member Posts: 3,985
    edited July 2015

    Sorry about the bad news. I know it is very scary. When I had a biopsy the pathology was looked at by two pathologists independent of each other. When their opinions differed it was automatically sent to Vanderbilt for a second opinion. Be sure to ask your doc for copies of all reports. You'll probably want to refer back to them. A cancer dx is such a shock and it shakes you to the core. It is going to take time to digest the news. Please let us know how everything goes.
  • Filis
    Filis Member Posts: 2
    edited July 2015

    I was diagnosed July17, MRI done this past Thursday.  Seeing an Oncologist and Surgeon on Tuesday; the big day I find out stage, type, etc.   The one thing I know today is that I have Breast Cancer.  I am taking it one day at a time; trusting in my God to guide me each step of the way.

  • ElaineTherese
    ElaineTherese Member Posts: 3,328
    edited July 2015

    Hi!

    Your samples may have been sent to the Mayo clinic to determine the profile of your cancer. My radiologist sent mine there. Your MO will want to know whether your cancer is being fed by hormones (estrogen and progesterone), and whether it is characterized by an over expression of the protein, HER2. In order to devise a treatment plan, your MO needs to have that information. In the meantime, if you're anxious, you can always ask your doctor for some anti-anxiety meds. Best wishes!

  • Nichcosmo
    Nichcosmo Member Posts: 8
    edited July 2015

    Thank you sooooooo much for replying!! Okay, now it makes more sense to me why it was sent to the Mayo Clinic. I am still in shock and still find it un-believable. I think I will be asking for some anxiety meds soon, as I find myself going thru all kinds of emotions right now. One minute I feel okay and able to accept this and the next I feel panic. I lost my Mom to cancer 10 years ago, she was only 56 and diagnosed with Lymphnoma. She passed away 16 months after diagnoses. I'll explain a little more of my story to this date and what has occurred up until now.

    I'm 41 years old. My fiance was the one who found a lump...located in my right breast. So I had a mammogram and Ultrasound done. The Ultrasound revealed a suspicion in my left breast. The radiologist looked it over and told me he felt no need for concern as it didn't "look" cancerous to him. Nothing further was done. Mind you, this took place in April. At a regular visit with my family Doctor we discussed these tests some-what and he felt that the "suspicion" was cause for further review. He said and I quote, "This is your life we're talking about." So he referred me to an Oncologist who felt the same as he did and scheduled me for an MRI. After that I was then scheduled for an MRI/Biopsy which I had done on Tuesday July 21, 2015. 3 and a half months AFTER my Mammogram. My next appointment with her was that Thursday where she told me that the Pathology report confirms it is indeed cancer. BUT the report and samples were sent to the Mayo Clinic for further review. I wasn't clear as to why they were sent to the Mayo Clinic except that she said "they are the best in the world and they look at Cancer all day, every day and you want the best in the world to review it." My next appointment with her is next week. She will then go over the Report with me and I assume a treatment plan. She said the report normally take about a week to come back, so hopefully she will have it in hand to discuss with me. I was really quite surprised because I was honestly not expecting these results to come back as cancer since the radiologist told me in April he saw no need for concern. It's now more than 3 months later and I'm told I do in-fact have cancer but with no plan yet. So on top of worrying about having breast cancer I'm concerned now too that it's been untreated as of date and has it possibly spread by now!!

  • ElaineTherese
    ElaineTherese Member Posts: 3,328
    edited July 2015

    Nichcosmo,

    I'm sorry that the radiologist failed to follow up on your suspicious lump. But, if it's any consolation, most breast cancer doesn't grow that fast. There are some exceptions -- mine was Grade 3, HER2+, and grew pretty quickly -- but a delay of three months may not have made much of a difference. Did your MRI show any suspicious lymph nodes? If not, that's good news!

  • Nichcosmo
    Nichcosmo Member Posts: 8
    edited July 2015

    I'm honestly not sure about the Lymph nodes yet. I am so new to all of this and have so little information right now....until this Thursday.... and I hope questions can be answered for me then since I have been waiting so long already. Thank you, that relieves some of my stress to know that it may not have made much difference as far the delay goes. She didn't give me much information on anything except to say " I don't have the Pathology Report in hand because it was sent to the Mayo Clinic but do you want me to tell you now what I do now for certain" and of course I said yes. I can see I am going to need to educate myself on these terms and everything. I've done some reading I do know Grade 3 is fast growing. I don't remember about the HER2 and all that. Ugh...I just feel so much in the dark right now. It's hard to wait, I think I am going to ask her if I can record our visit so that I do not forget anything and certainly ask for copies of everything. This site has been very helpful and I am so glad that I found it.

  • Nichcosmo
    Nichcosmo Member Posts: 8
    edited July 2015

    Elaine, I see that you have been dealing with this for quite some time and treatment. I wonder if you could share with me how your treatment has gone, and where you're at now. And the side effects you've experienced with your treatment. Just anything you can tell me about your experience would be so helpful to me right now and what I'm about to face and go through or feel. I realize all treatments and medications are different.

  • Nichcosmo
    Nichcosmo Member Posts: 8
    edited July 2015

    Filis, please keep me informed and updated on your diagnoses. You and I are in the very same spot. Knowing we have cancer but nothing more. I will keep everyone up to date on mine and share with you as I go through this process.

  • ElaineTherese
    ElaineTherese Member Posts: 3,328
    edited July 2015

    Nichcosmo,

    Treatment for HER2+ cancer is a marathon not a sprint! In fact, I'll be getting Herceptin infusions, every three weeks, through September.

    Beginning about a year ago, I began what is called "neoadjuvant chemo" or chemo before surgery. Because my lump was big (5 cm.+!) we were hoping to shrink the tumor so I could have the option of a lumpectomy rather than a mastectomy. I had four infusions of adriamycin and cytoxan, every two weeks (this is known as dense dose AC, in contrast to AC that is infused every three weeks). That is when my hair fell out and I began wearing a wig. AC made me spacey and lethargic. I had heartburn one week, but didn't have it for the rest of my treatment. Days 4 and 5 were the worst as far as fatigue went.

    After AC, I did twelve weeks of Taxol and Herceptin (a targeted therapy for HER2+ cancer) every week. I also had four infusions of Perjeta (targeted therapy for HER2+ cancer) with that combo every three weeks. Taxol/Herceptin/(Perjeta) gave me mild diarrhea, starting Day #3. I managed that with OTC meds like Imodium.

    When I finished chemo, I had an MRI and a PET scan. They showed that chemo had destroyed all of the active cancer in my breast and compromised lymph node.

    In January 2015, I had my lumpectomy. My surgeon took out a golfball-sized amount of tissue from my right breast, and 20 lymph nodes from my armpit. Recovery was OK, though I did have to have a seroma (excess fluid) drained.

    In February 2015, I started hormonal therapy (Aromasin). It's a pill that you take once a day. My cancer was fed by estrogen, so Aromasin helps suck all of the estrogen out of my body. Normally, premenopausal women get Tamoxifen, but the recent SOFT study showed that premenopausal women who go into chemical menopause and who take an aromatase inhibitor (like Aromasin) have better outcomes. To achieve chemical menopause, I get a shot every month of Zoladex. So far, my side effects from Aromasin have involved mild hot flashes and moodiness. To deal with these side effects, I take Celexa (it's an SSRI) daily.

    In March 2015, I started radiation therapy. I did whole breast radiation and seven or eight boosts (radiation that is directed solely at your surgical scar). Radiation turned my breast red, like it had a sunburn. It felt tender. But, the burn faded in a few weeks.

    I was very lucky, as I have had few problems with any of my treatments. I worked through chemo and rads, though I reduced some of my workload. (I resigned from a few committees in my department at work -- I teach at a university.) I am also fortunate to be able to work at home on the days I don't teach.

    Hopefully, you won't have to get all the treatment I had. I was Stage IIIa when my cancer was detected. I feel very fortunate to be feeling good and to have excellent treatment options in my community.

  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited July 2015

    Nichcosmo, just wanting to reach out to you to welcome you here, and that you know we are all here for you!

  • Gatomal
    Gatomal Member Posts: 483
    edited July 2015

    Today is my year anniversary from my diagnosis. I have finished chemo, two surgeries, radiation, and started on hormone therapy pills. It's been a long year, but you will keep chugging along. I am feeling pretty good considering, and getting better each day (I just finished radiation six days ago). It takes a while to really get your arms around it, it's scary and crying helps! It will be better as you start getting your pathway together. Ask folks on the boards for help. This has been a lifeline for me! I hope it serves you well too. Good luck!

  • Keyla
    Keyla Member Posts: 8
    edited July 2015

    hello ladies

    I was also just diagnosed on July 23 and got a call yesterday that I have appt with cancer doc (oncologist?) next Wednesday. After my appointment when my Doc told me I have cancer, all I really absorbed was "cancer" and "invasive ductal ....." So I really have no idea what is ahead.

    I am 55 (effective today 😄) and my last mammogram was in Jan of this year. Found the lump in May and saw my doc June 10, had two more mammograms, two ultra sounds and a biopsy.

    I have seen a number of posts that people are able to get copies of all their pathology reports etc, I am in Alberta, Canada and am wondering if this is something that the Docs typically share with their patients in Canada?

    I am hoping this emotional roller coaster slows down once I see the Doc next Wednesday, what a mix of emotions, scared, confused, overwhelmed.

    Thanks for reading this

    Carol

  • queenmomcat
    queenmomcat Member Posts: 3,039
    edited July 2015

    I'm sure the lovely helpful ladies on the boards will come up with more comprehensive advice than I ever could, but what I wish I'd known before my diagnosis not so very long ago:

    1) the diagnosis itself is overwhelming--I got brain freeze when I first heard "You have cancer." and I'd known since mammogram one (eight years ago now) that there was something suspicious in my breast AND one of the least disruptive diagnoses.

    2) the emotional roller coaster does start slowing down as you find out more about your diagnosis and treatment plan, but don't be shy about asking about psychological support at any point in the process.

    3) get all the written information you can from your doctors you can, especially the pathology reports (I don't know how Canadian medical practice and protocol work--I think it's similar to that in the U.S. but better to get that from someone undergoing treatment in Canada!)

    4) if your oncologists offer you a choice of treatment paths, don't rush into a decision. There's no single right answer, only "Which is the least disruptive for me?"

  • Filis
    Filis Member Posts: 2
    edited August 2015

    As my Dr put it; it's like putting a puzzle together and right now we are gathering all the pieces. We can not make good decisions without all the information. I did not realize how many doctors,etc. are involved; but they all seem to working together for my care. I did receive a copy of my pathology report and most of the information seemed foreign. I checked on how to read the report which helped tremendously! It explains everything. I have an appointment to check genetics, this will help me decide whether I will have a single or double mastectomy. I am also meeting with a plastic surgeon to discuss that process. Working on the next puzzle piece...

  • readytostartthejourney2015
    readytostartthejourney2015 Member Posts: 1
    edited August 2015

    Invasive Lobular diagnosed 10 days before my 39th birthday. I have a 8 and 12 year old. I was kicked out of the home I shared with my fiancé and children for 9 years. He has turned his back on me and I am alone and scared. I meet with the Dr on the 11th. He wanted an mri with contrast and genetic tested before we came up with a plan. I also just started a new job, so I am worried about them letting me go as I have not told them yet. Because I don't have answers to give them yet.

  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited August 2015

    readytostartthejourney2015, you do not yet need to tell your employer until you know what and when your treatments will be. One step at a time. Did your fiancé turn his back when he heard the diagnosis or beforehand? Are your children with you? Do you have other support persons in your life? We're all here for you.

  • Kimmer33
    Kimmer33 Member Posts: 386
    edited August 2015

    hi Carol

    I live in British Columbia and wasnt able to get a copy of my initial pathology report from the breast clinic, but they told me i would be able to get one from my GP. I dont know if that's helpful to you or not, thoughts are with you!

    Kim

  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited August 2015

    By the way, so glad Gatomal that this has been a lifeline to you!

  • Jamie1977fl
    Jamie1977fl Member Posts: 1
    edited August 2015

    My mom told me and my sister she has breast cancer this week. She broke down in tears as she told us, so did my sister. I didn't cry infront of my mom or sister, I don't know if it was because I was in shock or just trying to be strong for my mom; she's been my rock for 30+ years. I've been very anxious since she told us and feel on edge. I take her to the breasts surgeon in 2 days and to the oncologist in 3 days to find out the best course of treatement.

    I love you mom. We will get through the this together, stay strong and fight.

  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited August 2015

    Hugs to you, your mom and sister, Jamie1977fl We're all here for you! Keep us posted. One day at a time....

    The Mods

  • Keyla
    Keyla Member Posts: 8
    edited August 2015
    Thanks Kimmer, my GP did give me a copy of the initial Pathology report, with a caveat that I not use Dr Google 😄. While I didn't understand a lot of it, it was almost calming to get a copy.

    Surgeon appt today so I am hoping to get a lot more info.

    Take care
    Carol

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