Chemo in June 2015
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The American Cancer Society has a website called TLC. They sell all kinds of headwear. Aldo, call your area ACS. They offer a workshop called Feel Better Look Good. I have not gone yet myself, but I hear they give lessons on tying scarves, make up, etc. they also give you make up and headwear. Also, my church has a thrift shop that has a headwear area (even wigs). You might check with church thrift shops. I wear nothing in my head at home, but wear a cute turban or a wig when I go out. Yes, it is hot, but I just cannot get into just wearing a staff. Just me!
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Question for everyone on the head shaving. Based on everything I have heard, I am all set to have my regular hair dresser buzz me when the time comes. She has even offered to come to my house to do it. She said she would leave a 1/4 inch or so.
So, I thought I had a plan. Then I met with my local wig lady. (Who I really liked btw). She really urged me not to get it all cut off and said that it is good to leave the wispy stuff around your hairline because it doesn't always all come out and having that stuff makes a wig look more natural.
So... What do you all think
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I find scarves or do-rags much cooler than baseball caps. Look for Ergodyne Chill Its on Amazon or elsewhere. Cheap, fun, comfortable. I also use scarves and bandanas.
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I find that funny that the wig lady said that! She does not know much about these drugs
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I did have sideburns for about a week after day 12 of AC#1, I shaved them because they did not match the wig / hair wigs etc close enough to not look ridiculous (my mom cut my hair to about 1/4 inch).
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Thanks mysunshine! You are on the same cocktail that I will be on, so I consider you the authority on the subject! Plan A it is!
First chemo treatment is tomorrow. Told my husband that I didn't want him spending the evening mowing the lawn because I thought tonight should be special. (Something along the lines that I go to the gas chamber in the morning and this will be my last supper.). I'm a bit of a foodie and am bummed that I may lose my sense of taste for the finer things in life! With that in mind, we are making Macadamia Nut Crusted Mahi Mahi and opening an expensive bottle of wine. I've decided to save my liver to work thru the Chemo drugs, so have vowed to knock off the sauce for the duration. Woe is me!
Picked up some Biotene on my way home. Do I start using it immediately or not until I have signs of mouth sores
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Had it with the hair everywhere so tomorrow we decided to go for the buzz. I cut 12 inches off already but I cannot stand this hair all over me. The amazing wig lady/ hairdresser will buzz me but my 15 year old daughter gets a few swipes in as per her request
Ready for the next big step , on a side note i had not shaved my underarms and they are bare so that's a bonus
Hope everyone finds themselves in a happy place tonight.
Theycallmecommdorable- enjoy your meai and the wine !! Have a relaxing evening with your hubby!
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I use do rags, or skull caps, they are much cooler, made out of cotton. I got them on Amazon, and they are dirt cheap. The side of my hair close to my ears never fell completely out, so there may be some truth in what people are saying. I did the wigs at work for three months, then the temperature went to 80 and I couldn't handle them anymore, and I got a couple of the best ones out there, Raquel Welch with lace caps.
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TheyCallMeC, I sent you a PM, but forgot to tell you to swish with a soda and salt water solution many times a day to keep the mouth sores away. I started that the day after infusion. Never had mouth sores. Biotin swish after you bRush your teeth with a SOFT brush. I did have sore gums the second week even with doing all that
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I had my first treatment on Monday, June 15th and so far I'm doing really well.
I did take an anti-nausea bill last night as my stomach felt a bit crampy but otherwise I've been feeling fine and working everyday. I'm worried I'm going to feel bad on the weekend when my 4 year old is home with me all day long.
Positive thoughts that I keep feeling good.
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Hello all,
Tamkay123 I'm impressed you've been working! All I could do today was sleep and eat(day 1, cycle 1 A&C) I felt so tired at the end of my infusion that I was fighting to stay away when the Rn was talking, I felt like I needed to prop them open with toothpicks like they do in cartoons.
The good news is my port decided yesterday when I removed almost all the steristrips, that it would stop hurting, worked just fine
sleep well everyone.
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Brigthsideplease-
I was really noticing my port yesterday as well. The steri strips are still in place but it was just kinda bugging me.
I'm up right now at 330 am which is unusual for me but otherwise I'm still feeling good. I did take a stool softener today as I woke up having to go to the bathroom.
I've been wondering about my hair tonight. I know many people said it was right around 2 weeks that they lost it. There is a girl at the wig shop (part of the cancer center gift shop) that will help me shave/cut when it falls out so I can transition to my wig. The cancer center is 1-1/4 hrs away so I'm thinking I should just plan it with her for my next treatment on the 29th. For some reason, I really don't want to do it at home or have my husband do it although I know he would.
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Tamkay, I am also up in the middle of the night! Not unusual these days. I am having T/C # 3 next week. You will start to lose your hair around day 14. I doubt you can wait until second treatment. Most salons will shave your head at no cost. Call and ask. I asked my salon if someone could shave my head before the salon opened, or right before closing. While it is a scary and unpleasant thought, I found that once you start getting handfuls of hair, you will be more than ready to just do it. I took my wig with me to the salon and left with it on.....2 weeks to the day after my first treatment. We just have to accept this. NOT pleasant, but it will grow back and worth it to get every last one of those Cancer cells GONE forever!!
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Tamkay - Mysunshine48 is on the money. Day 15 mine started and my hairdresser warned me that I would want it shaved within 2 days and sure enough 2 days later is drove me too crazy. It really wasn't that bad and it an inevitability so make a day of it, i did lunch with my girlfriends then my 15 Y/0, my mom and my best friend came and took a turn at shaving it ( free at the hairdresser). I took it as the Chemo is working !! Sending you some posit.
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Thanks ladies. I'm on a bi-weekly regimine so I think that's the plan to do it when I'm there for treatment.
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Yesterday I went in for blood draws and being the newbie that I am to this, I told my boss it shouldn't take long and I would be back to work afterward. LOL, boy was I wrong!
Good news is that my white blood cell counts (as well as many other counts that I can remember all of) were great but my electrolytes were extremely low so they had to give me a liter of fluids which took a while. I also had a very very slight fever and after about a 1000 questions the only thing that came to mind was that my port site was a bit sore. They drew more blood (from the port and from the arm) but those path results take longer and since she was afraid an infection might be brewing she put me on antibiotics.
Still feel good but extremely tired. I worked in the morning yesterday which included a 2 hour meeting then had lunch with clients before going to my appointment. By the time I got home I was exhausted!
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checking in here--Had my first treatment on 6/2, Neulasta shot on 6/3. The only real side effect was moderate fatigue on days 3-5, and I was wondering if I should just take that Thursday/Friday off of work. The weekend came around and I was just fine, then Tuesday (day 8) I went in for my pre-Op prep for my port. By the time I got home I had acid indigestion and diarrhea. Because of the indigestion I couldn't drink more than a couple of ounces at a time and ended up back in the treatment center on Thursday to get some more fluids. Went back Friday for more fluids and was sent directly to ER for fluids and a check up. Upshot was low potassium, which they supplemented along with 2 more liters of fluids and a prescription anti-diarrhetic.
Lesson learned--don't assume you'll be constipated. Listen to what your body is telling you this time for side effects. Another lesson--wear a mask when you go to ER and tell them you are a chemo patient. I ended up getting cuts to the front of the line, everyone was so sweet, and I got a private room not the ER ward. If you do have Diarrhea--follow the BRAT diet until the end--don't think you're okay now and go out and have a hot dog with all the trimmings at the theatre
Other than that, side effects have really been minimal.
Got my port--Doc was worried because I don''t have a lot of room around my collarbones, and the left side is right out due to a plate from and bad fall. His first words were, "this is going to be tricky." Actual surgery comes around and I'm in for a whopping 45 minutes, went as smooth as it could. No pain, no meds, just an ice pack every few hours to get swelling down and I'll be using it next week for Tx 2.
Here's to hoping for light side effects for all!
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Hello Hugs to all.
diarrhea ...what a subject, im making sure to still eat fibre and yoghurt or cottage cheese. better to get it out and replenish than have constipation and it hang around. and ive drank 2 wells dry worth of water. didnt know i could drink that much.
hair ... im so confused. to wig or not to wig, to shave or not to shave, a cap, a scarf,a beanie, naked ? it is shocking to suddenly be a visible chemo patient. much easier to hide my lop sided chest. why should i hide ? hate that i feel this way.
ok rant over Thank you
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I had my 2nd of 8 dose dense AC/T on Wednesday. I felt crappy (headache, stomach "off" and fatigue) for 5 or 6 hours that evening. A couple hours after taking my meds (Emend, Ondansitron, and Dexamethasone) I was feeling better. Yesterday and so far today have been great, similar to AC #1. I was more proactive with my anti-constipation meds (took 1 Senekot S the morning before infusion and 2 the evening of along with some smooth move tea) and have had BMs yesterday and today. So the 2 Senekot S in the morning and evening seem to be about right to keep me as regular as possible.
Yesterday my hair started coming out by the handful. I'm letting my almost 16 year old daughter buzz it (with probably a mohawk and pink tips) tomorrow.
I've been building my collection of hats, scarves, do-rags, and skullcaps for the last few months and have a great selection to carry me through the summer and most of the fall. I've bought most from local thrift stores for very inexpensive. I have a huge Value Village with a great selection of headwear close to where I go every other weekend and I found a great inexpensive on-line place for do-rags; wholesaleforeveryone.com . I got 4 cotton do-rags and 6 of the nylon du-rags with the long tails shipped to me (in Canada) for about $20. I had previously gotten one cotton do-rag very similar and the same brand as one of the ones on-line from a store near me for $7.85. The quality of the cotton ones is the same as the store bought one and the nylon ones are very lightweight and ok quality. I do like the lightweight and found that I can double them up and do some nice braids with the long tails. They should all be good in the summer. I got my package about a week and a half after I ordered it and the shipping was only $1.10. Anyway, I would recommend them if anyone is looking for some inexpensive do-rags!
I need to be more active on the board here, because there are so many of you I want to respond to. I've been reading, but just procrastinating about the responses, so here goes;
Julie (lulu2533); Wow! $35k for Neulasta is crazy! I have heard insurance companies getting charged u to $9k but never as much as that. In Canada it seems to go for $2500-3000 and the Neupogen is about $200 per vial. I had 7 of the Neuogen for round #1 and as far as I know that's still the plan for round #2. My Neutrophils (baby whites) were low (1.29) on Wednesday, but high enough for me to get treatment. I'm a little concerned for the next time because My regular infusion day (Wednesday) will be on Canada Day (July 1) so they want me to do my blood work on Monday and infusion on Tuesday. I hope my baby whites will be good enough by then. I am already taking probiotics and a good prenatal (for the added iron and folic acid) vitamin and mineral supplement. I will eat more brazil nuts (for the selenium) and spinach and other leafy greens (zinc, folic acid) and garlic to see if I can help them along more.
Steph (TheyCallMeCommodorable); I've started dose dense AC/T on June 3rd and have been working my regular schedule of part-time residential housecleaning during my treatment. My infusions are Wednesdays and I've been good for the Thursday and Friday with the anti-nausea meds and steroids and after my weekend low, the next week and a half was good as well. I've been lucky and so far have had no bone pain from the Neupogen. I hope you had a good diner and relaxing eve w/ your hubby and that your first infusion went well.
Theresa (Italychick); Thanks so much for chiming in with your experiences. I've been reading your March Chemo thread and you've been an inspiration to me with all the biking you've been doing. I ride my bike to work once a week and that plus the moderate activity of my job and staying really well hydrated have been good to keep my side effects low I think.
DayLily15; My hair started coming out by the handful on day 16 (yesterday), so just about the same as you. I think enough will hang on for the buzz and to keep the mohawk or whatever dd decides for a little while. A lady I know locally here who is a few weeks ahead of my chemo schedule still has quite a bit of hair, but pretty much only the white ones. I hear you on the rant about constipation/diarrhea (it sure is a fine balance... I've had BMs with a range of 2 to 6 on the Bristol Stool Chart i the same BM!) and about the looking like a cancer patient thing. I started off wearing rosthesis, but have been flat and fabulous all the time since early May. I'm loving not wearing a bra in the summer. I doubt if I'll wear a wig more than a handful of times (maybe only once or twice when I decide to put on foobs and make-up to match)
Brightsideplease; I had to lol about your visions of hair falling out at your husband's reunion. Mine has been hanging on unless I give it a tug, and even then not all the hairs I tug come out at once. My dd is worried it will all come off as she's buzzing it. I told her some would, but not all. The buzz will still be worthwhile.
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I had my first infusion today. Taxol and herceptin. About ten minutes in I had an allergic reaction. Started with terrible stomach pain, then my face swelled and I couldn't breath because my chest got tight. They immediately stopped the infusion and shot me full of steroids. I rested and then they started the infusion with a very slow drip. Still didn't feel great..but managed.
Herceptin was no problem. But now my hands are dry and my mouth tastes like tin?
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Had A/C #1 yesterday (June 18), Neulasta shot today. So far, so good. Was really tired after infusion yesterday. Had a touch of nausea last night but Zofran and Ativan helped. Was told to get up several times during the night to urinate out the chemicals. So I set an alarm for every 3 hours and drank water when I was up. Took a Zyrtec this morning and will take another tonight. My MO said Zyrtec works best for bone pain from the Neulasta and to take two a day. Today has been good, no nausea or pain, just a slight dull headache.
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Kornelia, still out there riding! I'm on the Herceptin only and had a flu like feeling the day of infusion, but today feel as close to normal as I have through the whole process.
Set up for a 34 mile ride tomorrow-woohoo!
I did wigs initially but now am all about the skull caps, especially the cotton ones. The weather hit 80+ degrees last week and I was over the wig. When I went In with just my do rag/skull cap, everybody was shocked, they had no idea I have been going through chemo. One woman said she went home and cried after she saw me. Trade you places haha!
My hair held in until day 23, then my husband buzzed it to about 1". When it is long enough, I am going to go for the edgy look. Watch for folliculitis (infected hair follicles) and tell your doctor if it happens because they can give you a topical antibiotic.
Hair coming in, most of it white, but I never lost everything. I will be dyeing it as soon as it is long enough, that's for sure.
Tresjolie2 I had an allergic reaction the first time too, and 25 mg. of Benadryl took care of it, so they gave me that every time. You can get through this.
Mouth, yeah, totally sucks. I scraped my tongue with a tongue scraper and used coconut oil and the nasty mouth seemed to go away quicker. If you have been following the March forum, we have smeared coconut oil everywhere. And oh, is it great on the butthole!
Pepcid AC, magnesium and potassium are great. I never had to take medication other than steroids and the stuff the day of infusion. Magnesium kept me regular. Sadly, at the end, neuropathy got to me, so stay on top of that. But doctor said mine will likely go away, and it hasn't stopped me from bike riding, etc. after round 5, burning gut and esophagus kicked in terribly, so that's when I took the Pepcid.
Best of luck to all, you will get through this. I thought it would never end, and now I only have Herceptin to go.
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they had given me Benadryl and a steroid before the infusion...it was very frightening. Hopefully it won't happen again. They said they would up the steroid next time
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I normally just lurk, but wanted to say hi to my fellow June chemo friends! I had a rough few days after my first round on June 3, with days 3-5 being the worst, but am feeling much better now (just in time for another round Wednesday, of course). I enjoy reading your posts...it makes me feel less alone. I am currently being forced to deal with the hair loss, which has been something I have really dreaded. All of you are in my prayers! Stay positive
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Hi Proverbs35678
glad you joined in
tresjoli i hope it gets better for you !!
eaglemom great to hear from you, i will be googling the bristol chart , and all the tips on head apparel is helpful ty.
good news on your white blood count justmaximom.
lots of April surgery sisters here, i like it
, makes me feel comfortable about my treatment schedule, seems similar time frame for us all.
italy chick , i dont bike but im so energized by your drive ty. i have been gardening and planting trees, 14 trees last weekend .
hugs for all
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I'm sorry about your allergic reaction to the Taxol, Tresjoli2. It's good that the extra steroids and slower drip fixed the issues. I'm sure they'll remember to do the same next time so it doesn't happen again.
I hope you have a wonderful bike ride today, Theresa! I couldn't imagine keeping my cancer a secret for as long as you did. I'm just too big a blabbermouth and I live in a small community. I went public right away and have found everyone to be super supportive and kind. My clients are all really great and have been flexible with schedule changes and missed days. I have been able to just about keep to my normal schedule. I really find that working and getting out among people helps keep me positive through all this. I haven't even been hiding my flat chest with foobs for over a month, so no need to even pretend with a wig. After reading about all the wonders of coconut oil on the March chemo thread, I went right out and got a big jar! I hope your neuropathy resolves soon and your hair comes back even more beautiful than before. Mine was long before but I got it cut short and donated to make wigs for kids with cancer a couple months ago. I think I'll be keeping it shorter for a while after it grows back. Most have said it makes me look younger.
Hi Proverbs35678; glad you chimed in. I know what you mean about the hair loss. It just makes everything that much more real. But we can get through this and come out even stronger. Prayers coming your way too.
Great job on all the gardening and tree planting DayLily15! I have found that staying active has really been good to keep my side effects low and aid my recovery from surgery. I expect you've had the same experience. Do you have a large acreage? I live in a little shack on 10+ acres of mostly rocky bluff with about 2-3 acres of bottom land. Do you go back in the chair again on Monday? If so, I wish you all the best and minimal side effects for round #2!
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Hi everyone,
I feel privileged to join the June gang. I had my port put in yesterday and start AC on Thursday 6/25. The sooner I get this started the sooner it will be over!
Michelle
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eagle mom, thanks for your kind words. My legs are coming back, felt it this morning! 3 weeks from last chemo, so there is hope. Now the major things left are losing weight (chemo made me a fat ass), and getting my leg speed back. But legs no longer feel like they are encased in concrete - woohoo! 27 miles this morning, and doing a second ride this afternoon with my husband
To all, there is an end date for all the misery - just stay strong!
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Welcome, Michelle! We're glad to have you, but sorry you have to be here. You'll be glad you have your port. It makes things so much easier and safer, especially with the Doxyrubicin (Adriamycin). I wish you minimal side effects.
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Thanks Theresa. It's good to know that things start getting back to normal within a few weeks of the last chemo. Congratulations on your ride this morning and enjoy your ride w/ your hubby this afternoon. My biggest gauge as to how I'm doing will be a hill I ride every week. It varies from 5 to 15% grade (I did measure it myself with a gauge because it's steep!) and is pretty long. I ride a recumbent bike so I can't stand up on the pedals. It's all leg presses to get up the hill. I usually stop once to catch my breath for 2 or 3 minutes. I hope to be able to ride at least part way up the hill throughout my chemo. We'll see how I do.
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