Starting Chemo May 2015

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  • tjh
    tjh Member Posts: 469
    edited May 2015

    Stupid questions....What do you wear when you get chemo? Comfy or do you have to wear hospital gown? What do you take along to fill time?

  • ThePrincess
    ThePrincess Member Posts: 424
    edited May 2015

    Ladies - when you get your port, make sure you know where your bra lines will go - you can ask the dr to try and avoid those spots! Mine is RIGHT where any bra but a racerback will hit and it's SO ANNOYING (and painful sometimes).

  • labhusky
    labhusky Member Posts: 177
    edited May 2015

    I'd like to join here. I begin May 6th. I got my port yesterday. The dr wanted it in my right arm. I have to leave that big old bandage and gauze on for 4 days. So does that count from when they 1st put it on and I can take it off Monday? Also Monday, I have an appt for a ct pet scan and Tuesday I have an appt for an echocardiogram. Is that standard procedure b4 chemo? Also, what's a good sunscreen? I bought some skin care products and the brand is lindi skin care. I know. A million questions. I'm having cytoxin, taxotereand herceptin

  • SpecialK
    SpecialK Member Posts: 16,486
    edited May 2015

    I have a subclavian port, right below the hollow of my throat so I wore a camisole and zip up light tracksuit jacket and pants, or a v-neck and yoga pants. I have never seen anyone in a hospital gown, but that was my experience at my center.

    Lab - an echo is standard for anyone getting Herceptin because they need a baseline of your ejection fraction of your heart - the pumping strength. They should do a quarterly echo for the whole year, so once every three months. It's an easy test - non-invasive like an ultrasound. The CT is routine to check other parts, I had a pre-chemo PET scan instead

  • klanders
    klanders Member Posts: 244
    edited May 2015

    No hospital gown. I wore yoga pants and comfy shirt. I'm not doing a port so any shirt (short sleeve) works for me. If you have a port you will probably want to wear something that is button down so it can be easily accessed. I brought my laptop and watched some TV and worked on a photo album project that I'm making for my Dad's birthday. The benadryl made me sleepy for about 10 minutes but I had too much with me to do to rest. I never even got to my book. Umm... yah, I over packed with too many activities! There was also food to eat... bagels, etc... but I'm sure that's different at every place.

  • mysunshine48
    mysunshine48 Member Posts: 1,480
    edited May 2015

    tjh - No question is dumb on this site! We all have questions. And, thank goodness, we have each other. I went to a "chemo class" this past Thursday and it was sort of cold in the big chemo room with all the chairs. We were told to dress in layers. Wear closed toes shoes with socks. I live in Florida and live in flip flops, but not for chemo! She said to bring a small blanket if anyone tended to get chilled. I find when I am nervous, I freeze! I will be taking a soft blanket. Definitely wear comfortable clothes. I don't think anyone wears a gown. Take things to do, like your iPad (if you have one), a book to read, snacks, anything you want to do to pass the time. I am nervous about this, and possible SE, so I am stocking up on all kinds of things I have been reading about that help with side effects.

    My motto is BE PREPARED!

  • labhusky
    labhusky Member Posts: 177
    edited May 2015

    anyone going through this? I find myself wondering when I will feel normal again. I begin Wednesday and am already thinking a lot along those lines. It's like dread, or will I feel like I do now ever again. Geez I'm scared

  • JenJenJen
    JenJenJen Member Posts: 39
    edited May 2015

    Hi labhusky. I'm going through the same feelings you are. I actually have a little neuropathy on my left arm after my lumpectomy and sentinel node removal. My doctor says that this neuropathy will come and go but will probably stay. I hope we can feel normal again but if we do have some residual effects, hopefully it will be minor.

    I will be starting chemo on May 13th. My regimen is Adriamycin + Cytoxan every 2 weeks for 2 months and then paclitaxel + Herceptin every 2 weeks for 2 months. Unfortunately, I was not able to get clear margins with my lumpectomy and still have some DCIS remaining in my left breast. In order to not delay chemo any longer, I am to receive chemo first and once I'm recovered I can choose to do reexcision of the remaining DCIS or just do a mastectomy.

    I'm a bit torn between the 2 procedures because a reexcision will leave me with a deformed breast but with mastectomy I can be numb in that area. With mastectomy though, I don't have to worry as much about recurrence. Any ladies out there feel numb or weird over the area where you had your mastectomy?



  • ksusan
    ksusan Member Posts: 4,505
    edited May 2015

    Hi everyone. I'm visiting from the April chemo thread. I had 2 of 4 TCs in April, and will go into early June. I wish you well!

  • RainbowFan
    RainbowFan Member Posts: 8
    edited May 2015

    JenJenJen, I had a bilateral mastectomy Apr 10 and still feel numb. The feeling is coming back but very slowly. I was told some of the numbness will always be there. I'm doing the reconstruction so that too feels weird...like someone glued 2 plastic lumps to my chest, very unnatural and overall weird!! But the cancer is out and for that I am grateful!!

    Ksusan......you've had 2/4 TC treatments.....how are you feeling? Side effects? Hair loss??

    Wendy

  • klanders
    klanders Member Posts: 244
    edited May 2015

    So is chemo day - day 1 - or is the day after chemo day 1? So first TC chemo was Thursday. Friday and Saturday I probably over did it with activities because I felt fine. I have a fever today. It's borderline reportable (100.2) so I'm just watching it right now. Home alone and feeling a bit sorry for myself at the moment. Just feel crappy... kind of like the flu. Constipated, too. Supposed to report that, too. I hate calling docs on weekends.... Sorry for the rant....

  • Shanann
    Shanann Member Posts: 106
    edited May 2015

    Hi ALL! I want to join the group. I discovered a lump during a wellness visit in early February, and the next thing I knew-- I was having an ultra sound guided biopsy. They made four passes, and the fourth really hurt, but it was tolerable. Afterwards, I took no one to my doctor visit, and after asking me 'who came with me', he just straight out told me, "you have cancer." I had a lumpectomy on March 23rd. The doctor said the tumor was in deeper than he'd originally thought, so he had to dig and move things around. I ended up getting six stitches that had to be removed some time later, plus I had the dissolving stitches for the sentinel node removal (0/3), and some little hole above the nipple. My daughter says my left breast looks 'square;. My doctor says it will look normal when it heals, but that's the least of my worries. I sported a drain bag for several days, and that sucked!! It looked like and reminded me of a colostomy bag. I hated that worse than the surgery. It took a little more than 2 weeks to get the OncotypeDX test results, but something inside told me that my score would be high, because my tumor was grade 3, and a whopping 9 on the Notthingham scale, so it was both fast growing and aggressive. I got a 47, so I am scheduled for chemo. I put it off a week so I could escape to the beach for a long weekend. I get my port put in on May 14th in the early morning, and I'm scared of that. I have read some women say it hurts for days and weeks, and others who say they were a little sore for a day. Then, my first round of chemo is scheduled for May 20th. I'm not exactly sure which chemo regime I'm getting. I thought it was TAC, but it seems the Oncologist did mention dose dense. I know it's four doses every two weeks, and then it changes into another drug that started with a 't', and the drip will be slower, and that treatment will be either 4 doses every 2 weeks; or half the amount and I would have to go every week stretching the process from 4 months to 5 months. The doctor told me I didn't need to shave my head, and after reading through this thread I'm thinking of going with a short bob, and lots of baseball caps, which I wear anyway. I am hoping to continue to work through it (realizing I may need to take a day off here and there). My treatments are scheduled for Wednesdays so that I will be at my lowest on the weekends and hopefully ready to pick the pace back up for Monday's workload. I can't believe it. I was hiking Old Rag Mountain, and playing tennis until my son got married in October of 2013. I put on some weight because I became dormant; not being as active. LOL I don't take pills. Not even Tylenol. Woe is me. Anyway, I am looking forward to corresponding with you all, and am thankful for a supportive community of strong ladies to walk the dark halls with me. I pray that each of you has few side effects, and may next several months pass smoothly for each of us.

    Shan

  • Shanann
    Shanann Member Posts: 106
    edited May 2015

    I think you should report away, dear-- who cares if it's the weekend. My doctor told me how it worked was that I would feel fine for the first few days after treatment, then have my lowest few days, then gradually come back up. Each time getting worse. BUT! It won't last forever. So, I'm having treatments on Wednesdays in order to, hopefully, work Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday, and be down- Saturday, Sunday, and maybe some part of Monday. I hope you are feeling better soonest! And, I was told to drink LOTS of water to help ease constipation, plus don't be afraid to take something gentle!!

  • RainbowFan
    RainbowFan Member Posts: 8
    edited May 2015

    klanders you have every reason to rant, scream, cry, whatever you need to do to get through it. You are not alone in spirit! We are all here with you and totally understand. We are all here because we all have to go through this crappy stuff and need a safe place to vent. I would report your symptoms to the doctor...that's what they are there for and there I'm sure there is something they can suggest to help you get through this. Plus they will know to adjust the cocktail or concoction a bit for the next round. Hang in there. Hugs.

  • debiann
    debiann Member Posts: 1,200
    edited May 2015

    Just popping in to say hello and wish you all well. I was part of the chemo in may 2014 thread and I'd like to reassure you that you will feel normal again, it just takes time.

    My beat advice is hydrate, hydrate, hydrate and if your doing this and still feel miserable (like me) ask to be scheduled for extra fluids a few days after each treatment and you will feel so much better.

    Don't be afraid to call your MO nights or weekends, that's what they are there for. My MO called in a script for magic mouthwash for me at 2 AM and it was so nice to get immediate relief.

    Most importantly, don't feel bad about putting your needs first. As women, moms, wives, we are so accustomed to taking care of others its so hard to rest and let others take care of us. You'll be back to your normal routine soon enough but for now give your body the rest it needs to fight and heal.

  • CatsRus
    CatsRus Member Posts: 310
    edited May 2015

    Rant away, that's what we are here for! I feel for those of you that have to work...I am retired and my children are grown and live on their own. My DH does all the cooking anyway (yes, I am spollt 😊 ) The only thing I need to worry about is cleaning the house, my DH isn't good at that at all, and to be honest if it's not as clean as it should be for a few months so be it. For the next few months I intend to indulge myself. I am nervous about chemo but frankly I want to get on with it now. I'll spend the time between now and then getting as many jobs done as I can. I can't believe how my life has changed so quickly but I am slowly learning to make the most of everyday.

    Good wishes to all on this journey.

  • tjh
    tjh Member Posts: 469
    edited May 2015


    I believe we are all entitled to an occasional rant. I have decided to go comfy for chemo, I have Netflix on the iPad, a book and coloring pencils and a grown up coloring book (designs with flowers, vines, animals etc) and my water bottle. When does my hair fall out and what happens with my nails? am getting it cut short this week and have a couple of sun hats ordered. I spent this weekend with granddaughter from Chicago, and watching my 13 year old play softball. She was very diplomatic when they passed out the team socks and they are too small, she wears an 11. She can wear them but they do not come up to her knees. Next weekend is Minneapolis with 2 more of my grandchildren. My son is coming for Mother's Day, he is the one who volunteered to do chemo with me. Cats-6 of our children are grown, in their 30s......and then we have our surprise blessing who is 13..

  • debiann
    debiann Member Posts: 1,200
    edited May 2015

    I took alot of stuff to my first chemo session ( which is generally longer than the rest), but I found that my center had everything I needed. They offered warm blankets and pillows, ice water or other beverages, and snacks. They served lunch if you were there around noon. Every chair or cubical had its own tv. I wasn't able to read, couldn't concentrate, but I enjoyed playing games on my phone. I found the time went faster if my husband didn't sit there with me because I felt I had to talk and entertain him. We lived close enough that he could go home.

    My hair started to fall out on day 15. It started to grow back 3 weeks after the last tx and 8 months PFC (post final chemo) I have a full head of soft curls at least 2 inches long.

    I didn't lose any nails, but they did get a little weird, kind of thick and yellow with ridges. They hurt a bit too and I was worried they would lift, but I started wearing gloves anytime I had to put them in water and that helped. By the end of chemo I had two ingrown toenails because my nails curved.The nails are almost back to normal now. 

    Good luck all.

  • tjh
    tjh Member Posts: 469
    edited May 2015


    Do you get constipated just after treatment or all the way through the treatment?

  • lindatwo
    lindatwo Member Posts: 122
    edited May 2015

    tjh, There are no stupid questions! I wore my regular street clothes, something fairly comfortable. If you have a port, wear something that makes access to the port easy. If not then access to your arm or where they will start an IV. It sometimes is chilly in the infusion rooms and some people bring a blanket or throw. At my doctor's office they have snacks like granola bars or crackers & cheese, etc. If your infusion will be long, you can take a meal with you or have whoever is driving you go pick something up. Make sure you have water to drink, I tried to drink lots of water before, during, and after to help flush out the chemicals. I took a book, if you have a friend with you, you can play cards or a game. You can watch a movie if you have a tablet, or play games on your phone or tablet. Hope this helps! Wishing you successful treatment, Linda

  • SpecialK
    SpecialK Member Posts: 16,486
    edited May 2015

    tjh - hair usually falls at about the 14 day point, sometimes slower than that if your chemo is weekly Taxol with no other chemotherapeutic agents.  I was unusual because mine did not start to fall out until day 24, so I actually got through two infusions before I lost it.  Taxotere can cause nails to lift, but most other regimens cause nails to be discolored or have ridges, but that doesn't happen to everyone.  Not all people have constipation, it depends on what regimen you are given and how you react - some people have the opposite.  Be careful about medicating for either before you know which one you will have. 

  • Maree155
    Maree155 Member Posts: 20
    edited May 2015

    Hi I am new to the site... I start chemo on the 13th of May...bit scary...nah... bib big scary thing...but Its neat to know we can all chat :-)

  • Shanann
    Shanann Member Posts: 106
    edited May 2015

    hi Maree! We are nearly on tract together. I get my port the 14th, and 1st chemo the 20th Why do the girls talk about "spa" days

  • Scarlett152
    Scarlett152 Member Posts: 175
    edited May 2015

    I too am joining this group! Have first TC infusion on Thursday, May 7th. Chemoteach class on the 5th. I am doing the Penguin cold caps, so please let me know if anyone else on this board is doing it too! My friend had great success with it, so I've decided to try it. Curious about Oncotype scores if anyone wants to share. My tumor was 3.6cm, grade 1-2 heterogenous, stage IIa, Ki-67 ~ 5, ER/PR+, HER2-, so all good and showing slow growing, but Oncotype came back 24! Breast surgeon said chemo likely only to reduce recurrence 2-3%, MO said maybe 4% so it was up to me as I'm in the gray area. MO consulted 3 other well known clinics across the country and all recommended chemo based on tumor size and my age 48. Sigh.

    Have been on neoadjuvent Zolodex since January prior to February single mastectomy and diep flap reconstruction. I also had a second surgery in March due to failure of the blood flow to nipple and areole which had to be removed and replaced with a skin graft from hip. I am premenopausal so Zolodex being administered to put me in menopause in order to use an AI post chemo. Anyone else on Zolodex? Side effects are rough. Hoping chemo will be as difficult and not worse.

    Will appreciate following this group for support and to find out about what side effects people are experiencing!

  • labhusky
    labhusky Member Posts: 177
    edited May 2015

    I am doing my very 1st pet scan. They injected me with the tracer probably 20 minutes ago now and I sit and wait, and wait. Geez 45 minutes. I didn't know it was going to be this long. Then I hear that it's a 20 minute picture thing after this. Tomorrow is my first echocardiogram, and wed my first dose of TC plus herceptin. What a week huh and yuk

  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited May 2015

    Welcome to the "newbies" here. We are sorry that you have had to join, but pleased you found this great group.


  • CatsRus
    CatsRus Member Posts: 310
    edited May 2015

    sorry you have to join us but welcome anyway. This morning I went to a Look Good Feel Better workshop, it was great. Lots of information on skin care, make up, wigs, scarves, etc. And a great bag of goodies...all kinds of make up, cleansers, moisturizers, etc. I highly recommend it so look for one in your area!!! We laughed a lot too 😀

    Take care all

  • labhusky
    labhusky Member Posts: 177
    edited May 2015

    hi catsRus. I'm going to one of those seminars June 8th here in San Diego. It will be a week or so after my 2nd session s I'm hoping I will feel ok at least but it sounded like fun and it's 2 hrs.

  • tjh
    tjh Member Posts: 469
    edited May 2015


    The chemo I am starting a week from today is cyclophosphamide and DOCE taxel. I looked them up and decided that I wish I hadn't. Oh well...I knew it wasn't going to be a picnic

  • ksusan
    ksusan Member Posts: 4,505
    edited May 2015

    Wendy, I'm doing well. My hair began falling a little after the first treatment (about 3 weeks out) and then more after the 2nd. I cut it very short and that seems to have helped me retain more of it. After each treatment, I've had some side effects but nothing major. After TC #2 I was more fatigued, but that was actually helpful since my sleep has been disrupted for months. As someone else said above, hydrate, hydrate, hydrate! Also, exercise, even a little, seems to be helpful for reducing side effects.

    Anything else I might be able to answer that would be helpful for you May women?

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