Starting Chemo March 2015
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Mine told me no fruits but I asked if i could eat strawberries and they said as long as I clean them well. I still eat everything I ate before. I am surprised no one said anything about sushi.
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Molly1976, I am ER- so the soy part doesn't apply to me. I'm assuming you were asking about soy in the context of tumor generation? I think the debate about soy is only if you are ER positive.
I am on no restrictions unless my white blood cell count drops low which hasn't happened so far. MO said eat sushi, or anything I want, unless my numbers drop.
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What is the reason for no raw veggies? Just because of risk of food poisoning? I've been eating berries like crazy.
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yikes! All that veggie juice I've been drinking. I do wash vegetables with a natural safe (supposedly) fruit and vegetable wash. Takes off wax, chemicals etc etc.
however I just quickly read a couple of articles in the topic. The alerts range from peeling everything, no soft eggs, and absolutely no lettuce anywhere, to just being careful to wash the perks. Except lettuce was consistently mentioned as s no-no. All also commented on when you peel you still have to wash the peel first anywaybecause your knife can touch outside contaminants and then get inside the fruit....and you. Sigh. Also only eat fruit and veg at home since you know where it's been so to speak. It's all very scary. I guess I'll start peeling everything before juicing. I really feel good when I drink my juice. GD cancer.
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Molly I believe it's the contaminants and bacteria. While our wbc is low we are so much more susceptible to anything opportunistic. Ordinarily our immune systems would shrug these things off.
Where is SpecialK this morning? She will know!
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Hmm, ok, that is good to know. My MO has been really adamant that I should keep my life (including diet) exactly the same - his laid-back-ness makes me nervous at times! I am only on weekly taxol, though, which is not usually as hard on the immune system. So far my WBC are holding steady.
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I think my MO is from your medical school, Molly. lol. I am kind of glad. Although I did forego licking the bowl after I made brownies yesterday.
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I'm here - I was at PT so have been out of the house - then had to grocery shop because my DD is coming home this evening from Georgia. Yay!
The fruits, eggs, and veggies thing is because of bacteria, parasites, salmonella, e coli, etc., due to farmers using manure as fertilizer, cross-contamination, salmonella in eggs that are not completely cooked (unset yolk) when your white count is low due to chemo. Chemo causes you to be immune-compromised so you don't have the normal ability to fight off a bug that you would be able to normally. If your WBC is holding steady you can pretty much do what you want, within reason. My MO said no salad bar, or eating salad or raw veggies prepared anywhere other than my house - but I could still have it, and he cautioned that sushi might be better after chemo - but he left it pretty much up to me. My WBC never tanked, and I did not have any opportunistic infections during chemo or during the many surgeries you see in my sig line. On the soy question - it is a phytoestrogen so if you are ER+ you may not feel comfortable consuming it. There are worse soy products than others - soy foods like tofu, soy sauce, and edamame are deemed acceptable, but soy isoflavones, soy protein powders, not so much. I don't eat dairy because it is the product of a lactating animal, thus laden with estrogen. My protein powder is plant based, rather they whey based. I eat very clean protein, but any animal product has some intrinsic level of hormone in it. I don't eat soy because 90% of what is produced in this country is GMO, so likely doused with pesticide. Also, both dairy and soy are inflammatory foods and there are some links between inflammation and cancer. Those of you who are ER+ may experience joint pain when you start hormonal therapy and reducing inflammation may become more important to you at that point. I do follow the Dirty Dozen that should always be purchased organic, and the Clean Fifteen that do not need to.
I am a coffee drinker - I would even classify myself as a coffee snob. It did not taste good during chemo except for that International Coffee flavored stuff, or Taster's Choice instant coffee! What??? That is so far outside of my norm, but I abandoned my usual routine because I wanted some coffee!
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Eggs.....never occurred to me. My MO said no raw veg/fruits w/o peels/sushi/etc but didn't mention runny eggs. My wbc count did indeed tank even w/ the neupogen shots so I'll have to figure out a diff breakfast option, I guess.
So sorry some folks had such a rough weekend - hugs all around.
Bouncing back after the fatigue truck ran me over last week - infusion 2 of 4 DONE!!! Neupogen shot Sat had my legs achy/wobbly but I'll take that over the fatigue anyday (within reason of course). Had a great time yesterday - BBQ w/ my husband and a few friends at "my old house". The pool there is heated so we spent all day swimming with the dog. Dinner w/ MIL who can be a total insensitive ass but was on her best behavior. She only pissed me off once when she was telling me how sick she is because she has allergies (I never see her sneeze or blow her nose ever though). Weirdly, I told her that it really bothers me when she goes on about how sick she is because lots of people have allergies and she should in the long run be thankful for her health (she's 87 and truthfully as strong as an ox - likes to pretend she's frail though) and she didn't start an argument. Normally it would result in her yelling. She agreed with me! This from the woman who decided to scream at me regarding some political thing I disagreed with her about right after I was diagnosed even though I was practically begging her to stop. She's making progress!
PS consult on Friday makes me lean towards recon. TE ladies care to comment? I was thinking I'd need to do the flap thing - which I didn't want to do. PS says fat grafting or TE with TE having fewer surgeries. Want to proceed asap after chemo - put some closure on this chapter so I can move on, get a job, etc.
Happy Monday everyone - you guys are so very special and such an amazing source of support. xo
~e
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Eheinrich: Good for you for standing up to your MIL! It sounds very satisfying.
K: Do you have any information on flax? Normally, I would avoid it but it is the only granola I can find that is small enough to add to my smoothie and it gives the smoothie a nice flavor.
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Wow, you ladies have so much information!! Thank you! I didn't read the thread for a while and there was so much catching up to do! My MO also gave me the same story about raw fruits & veggies & the salad bar. Also said that cooked food is my new friend. He never mentioned sushi & I never asked. Today my 12 year old wanted to stay home from school & spend the day with me. She's never had sushi & I was craving it big time, so we went to a sushi restaurant for lunch. Not sure if it was the best idea but it tasted so good! It was made even nicer sharing lunch with my daughter & teaching her to use chopsticks. It's been 2 hours since lunch and so far no upset stomach
Katy, what a horrible weekend you had to endure. So glad to hear you're feeling better. So scary! Hugs to you.
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The lack of coffee drove me crazy, so I used the International Mocha that is cold in the dairy case. That was yummy, I just cut it a bit with skim milk or whole milk. But the calories, I gained 20 pounds on chemo. Yikes! I should have not paid attention when the nurses got on me when I lost weight!
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Honestly, if I did everything people say we should do I would quit living lol. My MO said as long as white blood cells are not compromised go live my life NORMALLY.
I have driven myself crazy researching the stuff like how long is chemo in our systems, potential damage by exposing pets, grandkids, etc. Basically if I listened to everything said I would be quarantining myself for 48 hours after chemo. I do sleep in the other room for 2 nights to avoid contaminating my 12 year old Italian Greyhound Jack and my husband because it can be excreted by sweat, pee, poop, and puke, or so I have read. And some nights I sweat a LOT (damn menopause), so I don't want to bombard my husband and dog with the chemo drugs. I also flush every toilet twice with the lid down when the grandkids are around, etc. And all bedding, including pillows, that I slept on for the first 2 nights after chemo and clothes I wore for those two days go through the wash cycle twice.
I like my MO's approach. She said if my white blood cells are fine, go live my life. She also told me if I got sick but my white blood cell count is high she will put me on an antibiotic - no need to go to the hospital - for whatever that is worth.
It is interesting how we all get told different things.
I will do anything to drink my one cup of leaded cup of coffee in the morning, even put up with a burnt taste lol. A gal has gotta have some perks!
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When I hear people say all the different things, all I can think of is that they don't know. If you wear a condom while having sex the entire time you are on chemo, does that mean you should kiss anyone while on chemo either? It just seems like a lot of speculation to me.
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Trvler, actually when I asked my MO about kissing my grandkids and chemo drug exposure and sickness, etc., she said "well being around them is okay, but I wouldn't be letting them slobber, kiss or lick on you." Lol. Obviously she hasn't been exposed to many 23 month olds if she thinks I can be around my grandkids and not have at least some slobbering, kissing or licking going on!
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Eileen- good for you for starting to make some plans on the recon. I am older and think I'm done and will stay flat. So no advice there. But proud of you for looking ahead.
I knew SpecialK would come through. She's a dictionary. No. Encyclopedia! Thank you. It's very comforting to get thorough info. That makes sense. It seems to revolve most heavily around wbc which had been good for me until last bloodwork
Italychick - you remain the beacon that shows us all what is possible. I am in the "I'm not worthy position" haha. Seriously, not just your health but your attitude is truly uplifting.
Trvler- yes to flax- I have organic ground flax in the fridge. I know it's better to grind it yourself but I have to put some limits somewhere. Hah! It adds a nice nutty flavor to my smoothies!
Angel- great to hear from you. And thanks for the support. Today is such a different day than any of the previous four.
And once again, Theresa, putting coconut oil on the booboos from my fall and also on the last remnants of my nasty basement rash. I figured it would try to double back on me after round 3 last Thursday so I'm getting out ahead of it.
I miss Bekah! And the rest we don't hear from as often, Joanna (who being good a good mother to her 6 yr old, appropriately, is not here.
Love you bunches everyone
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There are also varied opinions on flax, much like soy - it has lignans which are also estrogenic. I avoid it - use chia instead. Here is some info:
http://www.dana-farber.org/Health-Library/Phytoest...
Italy - I agree - if your WBC is good, you can proceed pretty normally. My WBC was strong throughout, I only had issues with hemoglobin so I ate extra protein. I only avoided food that didn't taste good, and I didn't eat away from home as often.
Eheinrich - my fellow Granada Hillsian! I ate eggs, just made sure they were fully cooked - usually scrambled dry. If your WBC is good I would keep eating them since they are a good source of protein.
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I think a couple of our people joined the April group.
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Our folks are cheating on us with April???
NOOOOOOOOOO!
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Haha. Yep.
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I am a cheater! I started so late, I figured I could learn from you, and maybe help April
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I think if you started late in the month, it's good to straddle both groups for info.
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Wow, such good conversation about foods. I think my MO left me out of this one...he never mentioned anything about avoiding any foods really. It makes sense though so I'm going to ask his opinion. I'm a vegetarian so it would really be a bummer to cut anything out. So much tastes like crap anyway and I agree with those who said things sound really good but once they go in your mouth, not so much. Just doesn't feel like it's worth the effort and a waste of calories if I can't enjoy it! I make sure to eat some good grain cereal in the am, about 1/2 cup of coffee, usually a frozen Annies entrée at work and then a little something in the evening. Ususally some vegetables or applesauce and rice. Can't get excited about too many foods right now, only in my head!
I'm feeling relatively fair today and actually got enough sleep last night. If I don't sleep well the next day is just hell at work. Getting to and from takes hours since I get drowsy and have to pull over. Just going to be grateful for today and not project what tomorrow might be like. I am also still grateful for all of you! Sleep well everyone and hopefully no fevers or hospitals.
Hugs all around, Diane
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My MO also never said anything about foods either. I'm planning to ask this week...so far so good so not sure what I'll do if she says I shouldn't be eating something I have been eating all along.
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Hi honey(s) I'm HOME :-)
Headaches still nor really resolved though. They put me on a stronger dosage of endep (preventer) and a script for a different reliever. The MO's didn't want me to do the lumbar puncture. He said the risk of infection was too great. I have another appointment with the neurologist in 3 months. As he doesn't think he an be much help during chemo. So I'm pretty much stuck. I'm thinking of stopping chemo (I know I'll probable still do it, but the pains truly horrific ). I guess at least they now know how bad they are.
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Just checking in... I haven't really read through so hoping everyone is well. My 2nd round of AC was not near as good as the first Unfortunatly. This is day 5 in bed. Hoping to go to work tomorrow but who knows. Trying to pull out of this funk. I hate these steroids and I can't seem to get a handle on the nausea this time. My happy gal persona has def left the building. Feeling like this is so not worth it. I have 2 more rounds of AC then 12 taxol and it now seems like this is an impossible task. Overwhelmed with all this and can't believe I thought I could power through. I feel like they took my pretty healthly youngish body and destroyed it. I'm 42 and I feel 80
Today is my pity party. Sorry for the rant. I'll be back when I feel better. Hopefully soon.
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Leighrh, sorry you are having a tough time right now. I remember that week after my second AC and how awful I felt. Maybe it was because my hair started coming out. But I also remember feeling significantly more tired the week after my second tx. It's just such a crappy situation. Allow yourself to feel anything that you feel come up. Doesn't mean you are stuck there but we do have Cancer afterall so I think a bad day is permitted. (((Hugs))
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Hang in there Leighrh...I finished 4 DD AC on March 23. Yes, it sucks. You can do it. I think #3 had me in bed at the day 5 mark too. Hopefully tomorrow you will wake and be on the road to recovery. I'm 44 so not much older than you and I"m telling you, you will get through this. Just give your body the rest it needs and you will be amazed that in a couple of days you will feel almost like your old self...except then you have to do it again....but just concentrate on each day, not on what lies ahead. I'm also doing 12 weekly taxols - number 3 on Wednesday. It is so much better than the AC - I almost feel normal. I hesitate to say that thinking that the worse is yet to come; however, like I said, just take it one day at a time & don't fret about the future appointments and side effects. You've got this!! Hope you're sleeping now & don't see this until tomorrow :-)
On another note, one of my surgeons told me that we need "pity" days and days where we are sad and upset. He said there is a grief process that we each need to go through and to think of it like a mortgage. Every time we have a little - or big- moment, cryfest, etc. we are making a "payment" towards our BC emotional mortgage. He said that in his experience, those who never pay into their mortgage have more problems once treatment ends and have a harder time moving on with their life. Anyway, I just found his words interesting and I thought his analogy was kind of cool and unique.
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Leigh-No worries about saying what you're feeling here. We all understand and on any given day may feel the same way. I'm just starting to feel better after the terrible Taxotere burns from round 2, starting to taste food again only to prepare for round 3 in one week. I feel nauseous just thinking about it and sometimes I don't think I can do it but then I think about my kids, my husband, my family and friends. I realize I owe it to them and myself to at least give it my best shot. I don't always feel this is really going to keep the cancer at bay but what are my options? I'm not a quitter but I know that's an option if I choose it. Try to lean on us and stay engaged even when you don't feel up to it. You are young and will survive this! I'm sending you my best hug available online, ha!
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Special K, What are the dirty dozen and the clean 15? I assume foods, but would you mind listing what they are? Thank you!
Lynn
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