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  • gingeel
    gingeel Member Posts: 102
    edited April 2015

    Oh Lynne, that sounds very scary! Glad you are ok, though, and it's good that your having your EKG, or Echo today. Did they give you a reason as to why your body reacted that way? I know I do horrible with procedures while I'm awake. I get nauseous, shaky, etc. Hope all your pretests go smoothly.

    Thank you to everyone who offered your insight and advice. Telling ppl is always very uncomfortable, because I have had tears shed before me, then I go into, the "I'm fine! I'm okay!"....lol, so it's great to hear that you guys have the same experience.

    I made an appt with a wigmaker Saturday, but, he only makes custom wigs with synthetic.....I would prefer to use my own hair, cause I have so much of it, why not?

    I had my ECHO yesterday, my PET scan today, and my port placement tomorrow. I start #1 of AC on Wednesday. My last weekend of normalcy......that is until I've kicked Cancer's butt!

    Another question for you ladies....has anyone tried or considered Cannabis, marajuana, whatever term is being used, lol, for cancer treatment? My husband wants me to make brownies or whatever it takes to help my situation. I haven't "done" that since High School, and really don't want to. But, I was curious what your stance was on it.

    Greenae, looking good!

    Littleblue, you're funny....try Aloe Vera juice for the heartburn. I drink it for any stomach issues, and it always helps, of course not sure if it will help from chemo induced acid reflux, but I suppose it's worth a try??

    Good luck Stephmoen!

    -Ging

  • KBeee
    KBeee Member Posts: 5,109
    edited April 2015

    Lynne, When anyone massages your neck around the carotid, it can cause what's called a vagal response which can seriously slow the heart rate down. The same thing can happen when people bear down hard to have a bowel movement (we actually get a lot of EMS calls for this because people pass out from it). So it should not happen again. They probably gave you stuff to speed up your heart which then put it into overdrive for a bit. Sounds really scary! Glad all is okay and that you still have your echo for reassurance; especially with a family cardiac history. How frustrating that the scheduler was not there. It's all on computers. Surely someone else could have scheduled it for you. Neulasta helps with white blood cells. If your mouth sores got infected, it's teh only way it would help. Sucking popsicles nad ice helps to prevent mouth sores. 10 minutes before the "A", all during, and 10 minutes after. I pretty much chew ice the whole time I am there, but I am a chronic ice chewer anyway.

    Littleblue, I hope the reflux improves. Can you call and ask for Protonix?

    Greenae, Beautiful!!!!!!! You look gorgeous!

    Stephmoen, I hope all goes well today. What "cocktail" are you getting?

    Karen, I hope that cold is resolving!!!

    gingeel, I can't do cannibus because of my job, but it sure would be tempting if I could! I have no opinion either way. It is probably way less harmful that the other drugs they give us to deal with the SEs.


  • sheshe3
    sheshe3 Member Posts: 70
    edited April 2015

    Hi everyone, been off the board for a couple of days. So much happens it's easy to get behind! So first off I would like to say wishing good cancer blasting to all those joining me at the chemo bar and small on the SE. Mine is just herceptin for today and then next week I get my big dose - TCHP.

    Littleblue I also enjoy a good spicy meal and have paid for it more than once early on in this journey. I hope you've gotten some relief.

    Lynne, how scary for you with the port placement! I hope all is well and it is giving you no more trouble. Love the name, Newburyport sounds lovely. I hope you can call on that image as needed.

    Fran, I have a buff too. They also work well under a ball cap to keep your neck protected. In fact they are quite versatile. The first time I ever saw one was on the reality show Survivor. I know. I admit it..... I'm a reality show freak! 😔

    Arlene, you look great as a blonde! Thanks for the reminder about Look good Feel better. I need to sign up for one that's coming my way in May.

    Ksusan, glad you didn't have to get the seroma drained. Hope it resolves itself by your next appointment.

    Yesterday, day 13, I ran my hand through my hair and came away with 7 or 8 strands of hair. I've been through this before, 13 years ago and I thought I was emotionally prepared. Not so much I guess... After a good cry, I called my daughter and cried on her shoulder and then we went wig shopping. I found a really cute short do that is very close to my own color. Not feeling adventurous enough to go a different color, but the style will be new for me and something my own locks have never been very good at accomplishing - curl. I need to go back sans hair and have it fitted and trimmed. So, I'm thinking buzz cut on the weekend by DH and then back to the shop for my wig.

  • ThePrincess
    ThePrincess Member Posts: 424
    edited April 2015

    Lynne - that sounds terrifying, hope you are feeling well today!

    I hope everyone that had chemo this week feels good! I'm on day 3 after treatment #1 and my only complaint is HEARTBURN. OH MAN - if you feel it, take meds right away! I'd never had it before so I didn't understand how awful it could be!! The Zantac helps, but I didn't know beforehand!


  • littleblueflowers
    littleblueflowers Member Posts: 2,000
    edited April 2015

    gingeel, I am going to get a prescription for cannabis to help with nausea, pain, etc. It's legal in my state though, and I will discuss it with my medical team first. My feeling is that if it works better than pills for nausea, then I'd rather take it so I can control my dosage. Ativan and compazine already make me feel woozy....I can imagine it would be much different, and hopefully it will work bEtter. Stomache issues arthe bane of my existence right now!

  • Alibeths
    Alibeths Member Posts: 656
    edited April 2015

    I am now (HER 2 +)...I wassnt originally....thn the fish test said i was?!?!?!

    I start next week. TCHF 6 x...You?

  • ksusan
    ksusan Member Posts: 4,505
    edited April 2015

    Karen and Lynn, hope you're continuing to improve.

    I still have my hair--not a strand has fallen yet on day 14 after the first TC. My scalp hurts, though, so it's coming. Still leaking a little fluid, but no infection or discomfort. Exercise (which means walking) doesn't seem to make it any worse, which I'm glad for since I have diabetes that I need to keep controlled.

    Medical marijuana is legal in my state, but there's some risk I would lose my professional license. Fortunately I have had an appetite and haven't had nausea in round 1.

    I hope everyone gets some down time going into the weekend.

  • lovlilynne
    lovlilynne Member Posts: 405
    edited April 2015

    Gingee, I asked MO about it, she isn't a fan, so I doubt she'd give me a card. The term is medical marijuana, btw. She said that because BC treatment usually does not result in appetite/weight loss, they don't see a need for it. Personally, I had a friend give me a stockpile of pills, food, and different strengths to try :-) I've pretty much stopped drinking (a couple of glasses of wine since 3/6 diagnosis), so MM will be my way of chilling out now.

    KB - actually the opposite happened, my HR sped up crazy (140bpm with in 30 seconds) when they inserted catheter, and so he was doing the massage/pressure to slow it down. I have had the vasal vagal response before - after running on treadmill, went to the bathroom and got all dizzy and faint (no LOC though). Did you ever read that book Midwife?

    Off to the ECG. Oh, got my start date - Tuesday, 4/21 - which of course totally screws up my schedule. Sigh.

  • Fran2014
    Fran2014 Member Posts: 140
    edited April 2015

    Stephmoen- I'm Her2+ only this time around-weird! (4 yrs. ago I was ER+/PR+/Her2+and did ACT 4 rounds and TC 4 rounds plus a yr of Herceptin) . I have to say I tolerated the Herceptin very well last time so I'm hoping that continues this time.

     Following my bmx last month, I started receiving Cytoxan, Epirubician and 5-FU plus the Herceptin last Thursday. The doctors on this tumor board that discuss my case are "cautiously optimistic" as it appears I'm NED at this point (wahoo!!). So it looks like 3 rounds of this new regime every 3 weeks and then we re-evaluate. I must say that this high dense dose treatment is kicking my butt! However, as my 17 yr. old son reminded me-"that's because it's doing it's doing it's job mom". So that's what I keep in mind every time I walk up the stairs and get winded!

    Lynne- Oh my gosh! What an experience-truly sounded so frightening but so glad that they were able to get everything under control. I just can't believe you met your mom, sister and cousin for dinner after all that.. You are truly freaking amazing!!! You go girl! The soreness from the port does subside after a week or so.

    Greenae- Two words- LOOKING GREAT!!!

    Sending out healing wishes to all!

  • raisemeup
    raisemeup Member Posts: 11
    edited April 2015

    Hi Everyone. Had round one on Tuesday and boy did I feel like crap that afternoon. Legs ached, was nauseous and had terrible headache. Had Neulasta injection yesterday. Today my shoulders and legs ache a bit but not bad. My eyes are fuzzy too. My biggest complaint is this feeling of a lump in my stomach and I get hiccups every time I try to eat something. They don't last, goes right away once I stop eating, but it's weird. Guess I'll call my MO and find out if there is something I can take for this stomach thing.

    It's good to have round one done and to know that these drugs are gonna do their thing! I'm not keeping this cancer, I'm gonna kick it's butt!!

    Positive thoughts to all and may your SE's be few.


  • melb44
    melb44 Member Posts: 130
    edited April 2015

    Hi all -


    I am a bit calmed since my last few posts.

    I am working on getting a second opinion. Obviously I want to do what is needed and right. I have to figure out what that is. If the second opinion says Dose Dense AC-T then it is an easy decision. If he says something else then I will have to weigh all the pros and cons. I got my echo today though and having my port put in on Monday and the lymph node biopsy. So things are moving along.

    Kbee - Thank you so much for your post and I hope I am not being insensitive. My heart goes out to you having to do chemo again. I see that you did TC and now are doing AC-T. I will keep your experience in my head when I think through my options.

    Lemonade - Hope you are feeling better. That is scary.

    Lynne - That is so scary with your port!!! You are an amazing woman to handle all that so calmly. An MDC is a Multi Disciplinary Committee. Basically all the breast surgeons, oncologists, & radiation oncologists meet and go over your case. They look over everything and give their opinion. It is nice becuase you have more input on your treatment. My oncologist was overruled buy the other 5 oncologists who think I should have Dose Dense AC-T. It was tough because I went into the meeting thinking it would be 4 TCs and then instead to find out they recommend 4 AC and 12 Ts. I talked to my oncologist later and she tried to explain in more detail why that was the choice and I understand a bit better now. However, I am still getting a second opinion for peace of mind.

    Littleblue - Boo on acid reflux. Hope you are feeling better now.

    Greenae- You look so beautiful! That wig looks amazing on you.

    Ksusan - Hope the cyst resolves itself. It is always something isn't it?

    raisemeup - Hope you feel better. Glad you got one out of the way.


    Melissa

  • ksusan
    ksusan Member Posts: 4,505
    edited April 2015

    Melissa, it sure is. I feel very fortunate that even with this week's medical issues, I'm in pretty good shape and the side effects from round 1 have been manageable.

  • KBeee
    KBeee Member Posts: 5,109
    edited April 2015

    Lynne, I did read it wrong. Glad all is ok now; I have not read that book; is it a good read?

    mel, not insensitive at all; no questions are off limits here! We all need to so what we can to help each other make the best decisions we can.Luckily, my recurrence is still local/regional and has not spread to other areas that we know of. These are not easy decisions.

    raisemeup, hope you feel better today!

    Fran, I think the same thing...chemo is doing it's job...it is my ally...cancer is the enemy. It is my mantra this time.

    Princess, Ask MO for Protonix if Zantac does not cut it. Mine told me to call right away if Zantac did not cut it, so he could write a script for that, but I already have some here.

    sheshe, Happy wig shopping. I actually enjoyed trying on some different hairstyles...so much better than getting a haircut and hating it...can just take it off and try something different! I had out of control hair, so the wig does not bother me. The growing back process drives me nuts though!

    I think I need to shop for a buff. I have a bunch of do-rags...skull caps that I got from bandanaworld.com. I love them. I may need a buff to add to my collection. I am a big Survivor fan too!


  • lovlilynne
    lovlilynne Member Posts: 405
    edited April 2015

    Back from echo (I realize that I have been incorrectly referring to it as ECG - which is the same as an EKG.) Not sure if there is an abbreviation for Echocardiogram. One more thing off the list. I am actually really glad to have it done as I worry about my heart due to family history.

    KB is my heroine - she has been going through this with no complaints, still working, still exercising, 3 kids - I'm in awe.

    Yes, KB, Midwives is a good book - I mentioned it because the story (sort of) revolves around a vasovagal (spelled it right this time) response. http://www.amazon.com/Midwives-Oprahs-Book-Chris-B... It was an Oprah book club selection many, many years ago (and it was made into a movie, but I never saw that). If you like to read, I recommend it.

    Stephmoen and Laura, hope all went well today. Marcy and Renee, you're up!

    I'm working on rearranging my schedule for Tuesday, and getting rides to/from. I couldn't get a straight answer on how long I'll be there - I'm assuming minimum of 3 hours? But, it sounds like many have been there for up to 5 or more on first time . . .

    -Lynne

  • Karen30
    Karen30 Member Posts: 135
    edited April 2015

    Lynne- I really enjoyed that book(midwives) I especially enjoyed it as I worked as a midwife for many years in South Africa!! Glad to hear your echo went well- no one has said a word to me yet about either an EKG or an echo does everyone having AC get one? You are very brave having your port put in under local- but wow what an awful scary experience !!


  • Stephmoen
    Stephmoen Member Posts: 563
    edited April 2015

    1 down 5 to go went well never saw me without a water in my hand and I had to use the restroom every 30 mins but if it's going to make me feel better I don't care! We will see how tomorrow goes my chemo nurse said the worst days are usually the 2 and 3 day and to drink lots of water and take my zofran I wi follow her advice!

  • Vanmama
    Vanmama Member Posts: 103
    edited April 2015

    I had my CMF infusion today and all went well. I had the same nurse as two weeks ago when I had my anaphylactic reaction to the Taxotere so that was comforting. I went in with a slight headache and now it's worse, which they warned me about.

    I stopped at one store to do a little browsing, chatted too long with a friend who works there, and am now home. Took some Tylenol and am just relaxing.

    Now to deal with whatever side effects come my way!

    Laura

  • Beachbum1023
    Beachbum1023 Member Posts: 1,417
    edited April 2015

    Vanmama, sorry about the headache, but I always took ice packs to put on the back of my neck during the chemo infusion. Maybe that would help you too :) Cheryl

  • starrgirl
    starrgirl Member Posts: 8
    edited April 2015

    Well I did it.......got my hair cut short (ear level).  I had naturally curly hair that reached my shoulders.  I came home from my appointment to be held by my 18 year old son while I cried.  Losing my hair has probably been the worst part for me......like some of you. I did pick up my wig this week.  It's the same color and length but straighter with looser curls.  Thinking about getting a big straw hat for the summers here in Michigan.

    Thank you all for being a great sounding board and source of information.  I don't get on here very often but know that I think about and pray for each of you daily.

    Cherie


     

  • Beachbum1023
    Beachbum1023 Member Posts: 1,417
    edited April 2015

    Starrgirl, I am so sorry that we all have to lose our hair, but it does come back! I finished AC/T on 11/25 and my hair is now 1 1/2" inches long. I wore my wig, and truthfully not dealing with my hair was a huge help. When I was so tired working and going through chemo, I could just put her on and go. So while I would rather have my hair, it was a very mixed blessing for me. I guess we all pick and fight our own battles during treatment, but for me I love my wig!


    I hope that you have a great evening with your dear son, how thoughtful and kind. You did good Mom!!

  • gingeel
    gingeel Member Posts: 102
    edited April 2015

    I got my PET scan today. No big deal, just sucks that I can't hug my babies! My 4 year old actually said, "Mom, when are you gonna stop going to the doctors?" .....awe, made feel a bit sad. I suppose things could be waaaay worse. Alibeths, I was orginally ER+.....was told I probably wouldn't need chemo, had my lumpectomy, then BAM....got the oncotype score of 70! They said it was the highest score they've seen, but it's because I am now triple neg, and those tests are usually not sent out for TNBC. I was kinda pissed....how did that get messed up? Well, I'm told it has to do with the dye that is used in the lab. Ooookay?

    KBee, wanted to say that I really think it's cool what you do....being a Fireman, and all. Starrgirl, I'm probably gonna cut mine this weekend too. :)

    Stephmoen, glad your treatment went well..... Karen30....you worked in S.Africa??? Very cool.

  • slv58
    slv58 Member Posts: 1,216
    edited April 2015

    Hi Ladies, I'm joining the ranks of April Chemo sisters! This is my second time at chemo for a local recurrence. I had a mastectomy on March 10 and recently found out that besides being triple negative, I also have metaplastic which is an extremely rare subtype. Unfortunately there isn't much known about metaplastic, but I'm hopeful that the chemo I get will get rid of this. I don't have all the facts yet as I meet with my MO on Tuesday then Wed morning I get my picc line in and get my first chemo of cisplatin and Gemcitabine. Glad to look for support and encouragement from you!

    Hugs, Sh

  • Stephmoen
    Stephmoen Member Posts: 563
    edited April 2015

    gingeel why weren't you able to hug your children? I had a pet scan last Wednesday and wasn't told anything about having to stay away from kids I have a 1 and 5 year old now I'm nervous!

  • Rockerwife
    Rockerwife Member Posts: 63
    edited April 2015

    So it's my turn to be in the ER yay. Started running a fever today and have a horrible sore throat. Doc thinks I have a sore by my lymph nodes. I can't swallow with out it hurting. I will know more when all the labs come back

  • Rockerwife
    Rockerwife Member Posts: 63
    edited April 2015

    So it's my turn to be in the ER yay. Started running a fever today and have a horrible sore throat. Doc thinks I have a sore by my lymph nodes. I can't swallow with out it hurting. I will know more when all the labs come back

  • ThePrincess
    ThePrincess Member Posts: 424
    edited April 2015

    Rockerwife - hope it's a quick visit and nothing serious!!


  • Positive_spirit
    Positive_spirit Member Posts: 218
    edited April 2015

    AWWWW...ladies...so many rough patches. Sending you all a HUGE hug! Hang in there. I have terribly low energy after neulasta and some body ache, bloating, constipation beginning or something. Taking my meds...staying low. Kids and I watched a movie to end the evening.

  • Fran2014
    Fran2014 Member Posts: 140
    edited April 2015


    Rockerwife-Uggh!! hope they can give you something to make you feel more comfortable and your hospital stay is a quick one.

     

  • Alibeths
    Alibeths Member Posts: 656
    edited April 2015

    why are you doing a pic vs port? Anyone have a picc?? I hated my port.

  • Karen30
    Karen30 Member Posts: 135
    edited April 2015

    alibeths- I have a port - tomorrow will be first access- what did you not like about your port

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