Starting Chemo March 2015
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BB- and maybe keep up a 1/2 Xanax a day too
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Nice to see all of the pictures. I didn't take one today. Wasn't feeling too lovely. No makeup. I looked good on Easter though. I was having a great hair day. Now I am mad I didn't take a picture.
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Hi Ladies, I started my chemo on 4/2 and over the past week I have read this entire thread to prepare myself. I feel like I personally know you all! Your posts have already helped me so much.
My SE's consisted of severe leg pain from about friday night til last night. I am so thankful it has subsided for the time being. I'm only 6 days out from my first infusion but my scalp is already sore and I have several pimples all through it. I'm cutting my long hairtomorrow. I also called my MO to ask about the pimples and I'm still waiting for a call back....
Molly - I had the same weird sensation with my port and I was also creeped out thinking that it was in my vein. The pain after insertion was worse than my lumpectomy but it has completely healed now and I don't even remember it's there until I accidentally touch it.
Katy- the wigs look so fun! You inspired me to sign up for a look good feel better class. I'm going on 5/1.
Bekah - I so hope that you are feeling ok and the cough has gone away.
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Hi Sprite - Welcome and sorry we have to meet this way. I also have read pimples all over my head (folliculitis). I talked to my MO about it today and he said to just watch it since I had a really good white cell count. I know someone else on here was given something for it . I think it depends on your MO and your blood work.
Katy - Thanks for your compliment! I'm still not very confident about my appearance so it meant a lot!
Bekah - How are you today? Worried about you.
BB - Loved your picture! You looked so relaxed and serene
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Katy - that hat looks so snuggly.
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Hiya Sprite! I'm honored you've been lurking among us and that it helped. We have certainly helped each other! I'm sorry for the reason you're here though. A big hug and wishing you the best during your course. Please, since you feel you know us, drop by often and let us get to know you too! Glad you're going to LGFB. Well worth your time. Even if you aren't feeling your best, it's only 2 hours.
Speaking of LGFB, one of the nice gals yesterday was an old hand, having been through chemo twice now. We started talking about the nose running thing, which we were all complaining about last week. She said just like all the rest of the hair on our bodies, the nasal hairs thin and go. One of the things we never appreciated about nasal hairs is how they slow down and stop (until evaporated, I guess) nasal drip that is constantly draining in our bodies. Jimmie just pulled his finger out of the dyke! Uh oh!
And hugs going out to a few sisters MIA for a few days.... I know we all have our lives to attend to...but I miss you!
Shaz- our fearless leader, not really MIA, and hoping you are just finally able to get out and do a few things
Joanna (SCouqui) - out of the hospital, hoping you are getting back to real life
Karen (PrincessOfMeh)- perhaps hitting a gigantic bottle of champagne over the bow of some huge cruise ship to launch your new book
CKonicki (who recently tragically lost her brother on top of all the other malady in her life)
And many others, who, although not listed (because I have chemo brain) are still thought of, loved, supported and cared for. Universal hugs and love going out to all
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We haven't heard from wpmoon in a while. I hope she's ok.
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Me, too. Everytime someone is gone for a few days, I worry about them.
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Amy, the hat is so very snugly. The woman who made it is in New Zealand and wrote me a sweet note.
In case you are interested, it was only $20 (however, I know how all of these "supplies" add up)
Here is the Etsy listing. She worked very fast, even though it was international, it seemed like it got here in no time at all. And unlike the wigs, (which, after all, were free), I will be able to use the hats forever. I am very good at rationalizing my liberal spending habits on a normal day. But once the pre-med steroids kick in....whohooooo!
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Checking in from spa day. It was relatively uneventful and not as scary as round one. I do know the SE didn't really start until about day 3 and day 8 so I'm not fooling myself I'll get off scott free but grateful for a peaceful night so far. I did find out MO added the Neulasta shot to my plan so I go back tomorrow. Apparently the WBC's were pretty low last time and this is to hopefully avoid the terrible fatigue/flu like symptoms. I got my Claritin and started it tonight but forgot if I'm supposed to take more than the rec dose...any feedback? I took one and can get the instructions tomorrow.
Sounds like everyone's been busy dealing with different things and we have some new friends on this thread. Welcome to you and thanks Katy, for bringing up our sisters MIA for a few days. I hope they are just enjoying some good days but my thoughts are with them and you all!
Will be back after I get some rest..it did kick my butt sitting for six hours with powerful chemicals coursing through my veins (and killing that big C).
Sleep well all
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Hope all did well in the chair today, all the photos look wonderful!
My BW is a CBC and there is no neo... Just WBC, I'll ask next week. I'm hoping I'm getting the full test that I need but how would I know? I'm still annoyed they did not use the port for the bw.
My hair is shedding a little bit, trying so hard not to touch it. How many days can I go without washing it.... I want to sleep in a comfy skull cap. Tried to order an under armour one online but order was cancelled as not available. It so annoys me that the order went thru if it wasn't available. I don't like the caps from the tlc catalog but I was going to order a sleep one only and the shipping was $6.95, no way will I pay that for a $12 cap, ridiculous. I'm dreading the though of all my hair being gone, I'm having anxiety already. I have two wigs but it still won't be the same😥
A woman from the support group I attended recommended this lash and brow gel, said she didn't lose either, though they thinned. I know some use latisse which I haven't looked into.
Brian Joseph's lash and brow conditioning gel - says natural ingredients, gentle & hypoallergenic, though it is $50
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Diane- glad all went reasonably well today and fingers crossed for the rest of the week.
I take 10 mg Claritin starting the morning I'm to get the shot. Then 4 more days after.
I think it has helped me because I've had only minor bone pain and lower back ache the first time. Of course, there's no real way to tell if it works. Only if it doesn't. Hee.
MaryEllen- so very sorry about the hair stress. I wish I could help somehow. I certainly hear you about all the "side costs" there are to all of this. Incurred plenty over the surgery and with chemo.... there is no end in sight to the spending. But I feel I'm within my rights to make myself as comfortable as possible. A gentle hug coming your way.
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I have a Mountain Hardware thin fleece cap that I like to wear to bed although I usually lose it in the night. I also have a couple of thin cotton caps that I picked up at a thrift store. If the material is washable it's a great place for picking up hats on the cheap. I've got a big old basket full of options now and I'm kind of thankful the weather's still cool enough to pull off a knitted beanie since I feel like those are the least conspicuous. I didn't have any silk pillowcases but I've found that flannel pillowcases feel really cozy on the bald head. My close buzz cut itched like crazy for about a week and I had the red bumps all over for about that long but now that I'm two weeks out its all calmed down, still holding onto stubble like the rest of you. Oh, and I took a tip from the coconut oil folks and started greasing my head up at night before bed. I think that helped the itchiness and the bumps as well. Katy, I have blotchy chemo skin too and a zit on my chin like I've never had even in all my high school years!I've been using a tinted moisturizer (I don't normally wear makeup) but I wonder if that makes it worse. A friend gave me some shea butter and I definitely had an allergic reaction to that when I used it on my hands. That surprised me because it's all natural but it seems like in general we're all extra sensitive to any allergens during chemo.
Thinking positive thoughts for today's spa group. Bravo on another one in the history books and one treatment closer to the finish line!
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Slothabout- when you recommended the coconut oil with lavender from Whole Foods I was so bummed because we have nothing like that around here. But Amazon had it! Yay! It was delivered about half an hour ago, and I'm planning to use it tonight! Happen to have the flannel sheets on right now because it's been cold lately. For here anyway.
Does it not get the pillow case greasy? Do you put a paper towel down or anything? I've never put anything on my egg before. Kind of nervous
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Once again, chemo is full of surprises. My hands are very painful, feels like joints and/or bones. It's nonstop, regardless if I move them or not. I wonder if it's a form of neuropathy.
I like knitting, crocheting, cross stitching, it tends to calmme down. It's out of the question now.
Did any of you have anything similar happen? Any advice how to relieve it other than painkillers?
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Diane,
Congrats with round 2 being over! The fatigue hit me a little quicker this round. I've had much more nausea, but the aches/chills/fevers that I fought during almost all of round 1 haven't returned. I had pretty bad diarrhea on day 2-3, and the sore throat/runny nose are still there, but they have been very manageable.
Don't be afraid to be ask for (and even demand) fluids, Ladies! My MO finally agreed to bring me in for fluids on day 3 PC this time, and it made a world of difference. I go for more tomorrow (day 7 PC). Hoping that knocks out this pukey feeling.
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I've got nausea tonight. I've taken the Compazine and even resorted to taking a Zofran which I'm not supposed to start taking until tomorrow. If it doesn't go away by tomorrow I'm asking for the patch when I go in for the dreaded Neulasta shot (kidney and sternum pain, here I come!) I'm feeling crappy and my sister leaves before dawn tomorrow so I've got my grumpy pants on tonight. Ugh!
I know I am supposed to be halfway through chemo now but I'm not counting the halfway mark until I've made it through this SE cycle.
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Katy, I'm glad you found the lavender coconut oil! I'm excited to hear how you like it! I've found that coconut oil absorbs pretty quickly and hasn't left any residue on my sheets, but I do start out with a cap on when I go to bed at night. you can use a spoon to scrape it out of the jar and it melts right away in your hand. I use plain coconut oil after my shower in the morning and save the lavender for bedtime as I've found it helps me relax and fall asleep easier by keeping it as part of my getting ready for bed routine.
BB I hope the pain in your hands is short lived and gone within a day or two , it sounds like a version of the bone pain we all feel especially on those first few days after a treatment.
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Amy, so sorry about the nausea and so quickly! You got cut zero slack. Sending a gentle hug tonight. And very sad your sister is leaving. I hope you had a wonderful visit and you can clutch the memories like a jeweled Tom Ford bag!
Amy- I have just the cap. I can wash it if need be. I use lavender a lot and it is very helpful to me for relaxing and sleep. So I'll give you a report.
I'm still eating chocolate in bed so not quite ready to mix it up yet. So to speak
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I don't think I would take more than the recommended dosage of Claritan. But I am a chicken.
I wouldn't be able to rub anything with a smell on my scalp because the smell would keep me awake.
I know I am strange. Sleeping conditions have to be perfect. I sleep with a fan on every night too. -
NOw that I am into my second cycle, I am testing some stuff. I knew I had hot flashes the first time so I am going to try magnesium. I had a couple minor ones yesterday and took the magnesium after dinner…no more hot flashes.
Also, I am taking preventive lysine to keep mouth sores at bay. I want to see if that works.
They are backing off my Neulasta today because my WBC was good so I am going to see what happens if I don't take the claritan. I will take it at the first sign of pain. I had mild pain last time with the claritan.
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For the nubby hair thing-- I had my DH take his electric razor and pretty much shave the nubs off. It was driving me crazy and I couldn't sleep. It still wants to grow back a little, but not as much as before.
As for me, doing fine. My 3rd infusion is tomorrow. It was supposed to have been last week but with the fiasco of being i the hospital my MO decided to postpone a week.
The worse SE for me is change in taste of food. I've been fortunate to not have anything else in terms of lingering effects (knock on wood). I love coffee and right now it just doesn't taste right I've still been drinking it to avoid the caffeine withdrawal headache. I keep reminding myself that come July, infusions will be DONE and I can have some semblance of returning back to "normal".
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At work today. Hoping my eyebrows keep through all of this!

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You look nice, Joanna! I am glad you are feeling better.
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I love your top!
BB, I have hand pain like that on occasion with Taxol. The bottoms of my feet are feeling a bit... not sore, exactly, but SOMETHING. I really really don't want neuropathy to be starting already. I have #5 today.
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ARe you ladies doing weekly or biweekly Taxol?
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Mine is weekly for 12 weeks.
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Once I'm done with AC I'm supposed to start on weekly Taxol for 12 weeks.
I'm actually wearing a dress today
I used to not wear them as much because of leg shaving. Now that my hair isn't growing back and the days are warmer it's much easier to just throw one on! -
Trvler - I started L-lysine last week for a sore on the side of my mouth. It seems to be working. I get cold sores in the summer time and L-lysine keeps them at bay. I'm still doing the baking soda warm water wash several times a day. I've been doing a tablespoon of baking soda and I just realized my sheet says teaspoon. Oh well.
SC - looking good! Love the top and the wig! Agree with you about the brows. My friend is bringing a stencil for me "just in case" I tried false eyelashes last night and I must say they looked pretty normal. My old lashes are thinning a bit.
I will be doing weekly Taxol once I finish the AC. I think I get a two week break between AC and Taxol. I have my third AC tomorrow and I am dreading it.
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My Taxol is weekly, for 12 weeks.
When I woke up this morning, my hands felt OK, but now they're starting to hurt a little. Not as bad as last night, but the day is young.
Regarding false eyelashes - at my Look Good Feel Better appointment they said we shouldn't use them on chemo due to irritation, sensitivity, etc. Does anybody have any experiences with it yet?
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