does anybody make it, or do we all die of it?

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  • funthing42
    funthing42 Member Posts: 418
    edited January 2015

    Hi I need help here. I keep stressing.

    After reading many wonderful post it is hard for me to see myself with a future. I'm afraid to make decisions.

    The next big one is deciding to have radiation again. I have a local recurrence in the skin where my breast once was. I posted to see if anyone has had rads x2 but no response. The biggest fear is I'm going to die from what once was a 0.6mm mass. Since it keeps coming back or should I say changing into new or different Breast Ca. ??

    I feel like I'm so out of control.

    I would like to see if anyone has experienced this . Please help.

    I feel like something is being missed.

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  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited January 2015

    fun thing, I haven't had the same experience as you, just want to offer you support. I am sorry for,what youre going through. I do know what it's like wondering what the future holds, or if there is one. Please try not to project yourself so far forward like that. I have learned to live more in he moment, trying to live the fullness of one day, then on to the next. You can still have a quality of life that way.

    I have to admit, there is the giving up of the control we once felt we had over things. As you move forward, you get a bit better at accepting that you don't have that control, and you make adjustments. It's okay. You adapt.

    Your stress is understandable. I take a mild anti anxiety medicine every day and it helps me so much. Please consider something like that if you haven't already. God bless, you are in my prayers as you navigate the new decisions you have to make

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  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited January 2015

    regarding your radiation question whether to have it a second time, try posting the question in a brand new thread you create with a title something like, should I have rads a second time?and see if you can get some replies that way.

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  • funthing42
    funthing42 Member Posts: 418
    edited January 2015

    Thank you :)

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