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Teka- thank you and stay warm my friend, that is TOO cold for anyone! I hope you have something warm coffee, tea or a hot toddy to keep you toasty.
Do you have a fireplace too?
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Chevy, our password is 16 letters...numbers long. It came from Comcast. The numbers..letters I think our on our router. We didn't make them up. Used to a few years ago...but it changed for some reason. Not smart enough to know why....and maybe you already know that...you are more techy than me

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Jazzy, no fireplace but sitting in front of the space heater with a cup of coffee!
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Yes, it has a PW on the bottom of the modem, and we even tried that one! But it still would not take it.... even with the cord plugged directly into the usb port in the modem, and to the tablet! I might try it once more....just for grins.... THEN if it doesn't work, it is being boxed up, and given right back to the kid who gave it to me, to cause me to go nuts.
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they gaslight us....I know
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Smaarty,
Had skin issues that prevented the surgery til now. The plastic surgeon is very cautious and wouldn't do the surgery until she was sure there would be no complications.
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Hi, all - Sassy invited me to stop in for a cuppa, so here I am, shyly. I see some familiar names in addition to Sassy. Rosevalley, I'm an Oregonian, also; a native, in fact.
I'm more likely to read than to post late at night so you may not see a lot of activity from me but I appreciate the invitation to hang out with all of you.
Enjoy your weekend. It's too soggy and wet here for anything. I don't even want to go out for the mail so will pretend to address the housework while actually puttering on the computer.

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Hi Hopeful- I am pretending to do housework too while being mostly lazy today. But alas, I am going out to the gym soon.
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Well, the gym is something to look forward to. Now grocery shopping and running errands - that's another story.

Enjoy your workout, especially since pretending to do housework doesn't really get the heart pumping.
What part of NM are you in? I've got a SIL in Santa Flaky (who has no idea I have cancer)
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Jazzy! Good to see you!!! Stick around!!!
Welcome in Hopeful! This thread goes 24/7, jump in any time. When Ms Earlybird wakes up, she will give you a new name. She always does!!!!
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Hopeful- I live in Albuquerque. Santa Fe definitely has it's own unique culture!
Sorry about your SIL, not a question any of us can answer, right?
Spookie- hi and good to see you here too. Will try to stick around, this thread seems to be less busy than when I was here before, so I think I can keep up!
I was pretty low energy today, but that is okay too. I had nothing big planned for today and needed to slow down. This home reno stuff is kicking my butt.....
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Sassy- I am not tough... plenty of times I got all teary eyed on the floor.I just don't understand why my 13 year old has these goofy notions when I just got back from Florida in November. She was fine then, now she's afraid I will croak. Kids! Never a dull moment because they keep you guessing. Dad will spend more time with her. I will text her.
Welcome Hopeful- a native eh? Does the rain and greyness bother you? It drives me crazy , wilt in November and mope until April. Love the summers, September and spring , April- June is just spectacular! I have my yard just awash in rhodies, azaleas, irises, peonies and Lilacs. I can hardly get enough of the rhodies and azaleas in Oregon, no place grows them prettier ... well Washington does a good job, same as Oregon climate wise.
Tekka- we have a space heater in the bedroom and my 17 year old terrier curls up one one side and my toothless 12 year old grey cat curls up on the other side. There will be growls and hissing if anyone infringes on turf on "their side" of the space heater. Too funny! They need their ol'bones warmed.
Hi to everyone Blondie and Patty may you both be feeling better, Chevy try decaf! To all I missed be well, sleep and have fun. Woo your lemons are BEAUTIFUL and I am sure full of flavor right off the tree. Lucky you.
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Jazzy - Yes, ABQ's a pretty different place from Santa Fe. I like NM, although I have't been there in a long time. I have nice memories of it. I probably wouldn't recognize ABQ anymore...
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Hopeful- I had the entire house repainted on the inside, and putting in hard wood floors to replace the original carpeting. I did the first phase (about 1/2 the house) last summer and now am finishing it. Two bedrooms and two bathrooms got repainted this past week, and this Monday, they finish the hardwood flooring in the two bedrooms and the hallway in between.
After Wed, I should be done with the last of it and then will be putting the bedrooms back together (bathrooms mostly done already). It has been a lot of work, but also fun too. The house has a whole new look!
And a whole lot of de-cluttering to do too now too, as I finish things up. Purge, baby, purge!
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That sounds great once it's done but extremely disruptive, too. I can imagine you'll be glad to wrap it up. I'll bet you're enjoying the hardwoods, although I find it easier in some ways to take care of carpet than hardwoods. What kind of wood did you use? We have very light maple that has darkened a bit over the years. Sometimes I think about having it stripped and bleached but I can't begin to imagine what a pain that would be.
And yes, tis the season to clean out closets and drawers and the cellar. I can't die until I do the latter - my husband would never forgive me that legacy and there's probably some ring of purgatory where you clear closets until your soul is spotless... -
Hopeful, welcome.
4, spotted the rooster, welcome back.
Rose, Teka will stand in front of the space heater and soak up the warmth.
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Hopeful- my floors are maple, called old mill maple and have an antique look. Here is photo in the Master BR of it from last year.

The newer hardwood floors don't need as much maintenance as the older ones (I had those when I lived back east in at least one house). My big concern is not having the cleaning people (who only come in once a month now) do something to them. The guys I bought the wood from told me to watch out for damaging products they may use. One day I turned my head and found one of them mopping them and said "nooooo!" Fortunately, no damage but I tell them every time now they come in, only dry mop the house.
I love hardwood here, and it has really changed the look in my house. The white carpeting that went in when the house was built in 2004 was trashed and hope to keep my house more dust free now. A couple rooms got away from me with all that went down.
Ha, the closets are also getting cleared out too. What a nightmare those are. The locale charities are going to make out this next month!
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Here's what I worked on most of today.
Also finished this little guy. It's a paper weight or pin cushion.

Now going to make a dress with that peacock fabric.
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Very pretty! Love the setee? Too! I have laminate all over, hardwood is out of range for me. But soooo much easier care than carpet. I'll never have carpet again
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Ok Ms busy girl! Trying to make this slug feel like a lazier slug? LOL
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OOOhhh Smarty I LOVE your quilt you are so talented! Great colors! I love the little owl.
Jazzygirl your maple floors are so pretty. We have number 2 red oak and have had to resand, restain and reapply coats of urethane 2x in 14 years. The first time they put linseed oil and it didn't hold up to kids and dog nails. Hopefully urethane will be harder. We had commercial grade pergo in our last home and it was super easy to care for and was dog nail proof. I could do a commercial for the stuff. DH had to have real wood and it's more work, very pretty but more work.
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Thanks, Teka!
Jazzy, that is gorgeous and has so much more character than carpet.
Smarty, love your handiwork. I am in awe of those who quilt well. There was an interesting display by two groups of local quilters in one concourse of the airport last month. It was all very contemporary work, and really beautiful. It brightened a rather dreary concourse but it was a shame that it was only accessible to those with tickets as it really deserved a wider audience. -

Just stopping by, been so busy I can't keep up!
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Oh, she's talking about me, Hopeful! Just don't pay any attention to her. She knows not what she says... Ha! Besides, I only shortened your name, I didn't even change it!
See Jazzy, I read somewhere that when you have to use the John, or go to the "John" you are supposed to say "Jim" instead of John! So then everyone thinks you are going to the "Jim"! Just a tid-bit of information for y-all.
Rosie, it's just the age she is going through... I remember how emotional my two girls would get... for no reason what-so-ever... Just try and stay happy and involved with her.. She doesn't want you to be "sick" with anything. She will probably change, once those hormones of hers settle down. THEN she will go through a stage where you will have a hard time even TALKING to her... And she is sure you are the enemy Mother.
You Text? Now THAT is amazing! Texting to me is the devil's work.
Those keys are just not made for fingers... And email or a phone call is just much easier! But kids do it, and they think, WE as their Mentors should do it too. I just don't like to feel connected every second, and have my cell-phone within ears reach.
That is funny about your two pets warming up by the space heater! It's so true....! They love their own heat, AND spot.
You guys are talking about hard-wood floors and carpeting.... We put down Laminate a few years ago, and I just love it, and it takes really very little care! Just don't DROP anything! See, you're used to dropping things on the carpet, and you hear NOTHING, but drop it on Laminate, and yes, you will KNOW it!
Oh, and so here goes Smarty! Making pictures, and couches and Owls and ceramic cups, dresses and dressers! I must find a picture of something I did and post it.... Like making the bed...
And Spookie, WTH is a "setee".... It that like a thing you SIT on? I remember my Grandma using that word.... I'll have to look that up.
And you say "slug".... Man, one year I had so many slugs in my gardens I was just PO'd! I did EVERYthing.... Husband got miffed for me using HIS beer in little cups to trap them... And I was running out of salt, and the fish got sick of eating them.... (Enerva)... And I finally just gave up and since I was sorely outnumbered, I let them have my veggies. The Frost finally got them... I hate slugs!
And QUILTS??? She did quilts too? Who is this Miss Martha little smarty-pants? I did quilts too, but I used a machine...
Honestly you are SOOOOOOOO talented! But I can paint! Oh now watch this... she will show things that she has painted.
Morning 22222222222! I can't keep up either.... Hope you are doing good, and have that family in running order!
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I know I posted this before, but I made this quilt from pictures or ours of our family, friends, pets, etc. I printed them onto transfer paper and ironed them on patches, and pain-stakingly machine stitched this altogether... with ruffles, batting and warm flannel underneath. That crochet afgan is one of my first cover-lets... related to "setee" but not the same. I didn't make the plant...
This is a girls house, but we don't care!
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Chevy my youngest and oldest kids are Deaf. They can't talk on the phone, so we text like crazy. As a matter of fact all 5 of us text back and forth way more then we talk on the phone. Habit I guess. I have an old dinosaur flip phone, pay as you go. The kids and DH have smart phones. The contracts are so $$, I elected the cheapy. I can't hear well on the phone anyway, even with 2 hearing aides. Funny 3 out of 5 of us have hearing issues. My oldest is deaf, has a cochlear implant and can hear well, but signs only -no speech. The youngest is profoundly deaf, gets just a little help from her cochlear implant and signs only, no speech. My DH and I are not fluent in ASL and make lots of amusing mistakes that really crack up my youngest. We sign pretty well as hearing parents go, amazing most hearing parents of deaf kids hardly sign at all. Sad really.
My hearing daughter in the middle signed only as a kid and the pediatrician was worried she would not talk! Her sign vocabulary at ages 1-3 was stellar and way over what a hearing kid used. Once she started talking there was no stopping her! Her English and verbal skills are excellent. I think she thought little people sign and then you talk when you get older! Signing helps babies and toddlers way more then folks realize. My youngest frequently busts my chops, then gets all teary -eyed that I might croak... go figure.
I love your little house so cute! My DH and I are fans of the tiny house movement. I yearn to ditch the 2000sq feet cleaning, heating, cooling and taxes for something modest- 700-1000 bungalow. Still got kiddos so we wait. Some of the Tiny House plans even look like your little home! We rented a 2 and 1 bungalow when the kids were babies and loved it. Neat porch and built-ins, very compact (900 sq. ft) and efficient way to live. It was old and had so much character and charm. We had a porch on the front and back!
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Morning Rosie! I'm so glad you are up, and we can talk! Let's have coffee together....
Okay, yes I knew about the hearing issues with your kids! Just those of us who DO have a hard time hearing, can really understand what it's like to "hear" with aids, instead of normal hearing.... Maybe growing up with the profound hearing loss is easier, than losing your hearing later on?
Your kids have developed into VERY honorable and caring little people! I know you are proud. I can see why texting is MUCH better than conversations! If I had a smart-phone, it might be easier, but not with the one I have.... But one night, I heard this little "ring-ring" and I got up, looked for my phone in my purse, and sure enough, it was Sheri, texting "I just love having someone to say good-night to!" ( I didn't tell her I had been asleep for an hour!)
So I sit up, try and SEE my phone, and after 5 minutes, type a legible "Sweet-dreams sweetheart.... I love you!" back to her... Then I see in the morning, she texts "love you too!" That was so special. And THIS "kid" is 56.... Ha!
Yes, she uses her phone with her Realty business, her Sons, Husband, and all her friends. Texting is how she communicates... "MOM, YOU ARE SO OUT OF THE LINK!!!!"
But I know it... it's just easier for ME to type on here, than on that "miniscule" key-board... Ha!
But what-ever works, right?
What kind of hearing aids do you have? Mine are about 4 years old ... Bernafon, Veras 9.... And I've really liked them, just that my left ear has gotten worse, so the gal "adjusted" the aids, and THEN my left ear just SCREECHED all the time! I went back, and they gave me different domes, which help a little more...
It's okay though.... My older friend Theresa canNOT see hardly at all! She has that Macular Degeneration, and her eye-sight is almost completely gone... Nothing more they can do... but I feel so bad for her, trying to "see" me with her "binocular" glasses she has.... She and her Husband laugh about SHE can't see, and HE can't hear! But they are both in their 90's! We should be so lucky, right? xoxoxo
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Chevy- I love that quilt!
2nd- how are your parents doing?
Good morning everyone. I know some of you were up all night and sleeping in.......
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I think I spelled it wrong. Settee. A fancy name for a fancy couch.
The beer should have worked on the slugs. Suckers like it so much they crawl in and drown.
Pretty quilt, you should do another. Keep you out of trouble, and off the pole
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Every time I read something about Chevy and the pole thing, I crack up!
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