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  • Gongshow16
    Gongshow16 Member Posts: 26
    edited January 2015


    Thanks for keeping up the list!  Could you please add a happy face for me - gongshow16 - I finished rads on January 5th!!! woo hoo

  • WndrWoman
    WndrWoman Member Posts: 333
    edited January 2015

    Coyote, Just beautiful work.

  • zjrosenthal
    zjrosenthal Member Posts: 2,026
    edited January 2015

    Thanks for the encouragement to stay on this thread. I will keep it in my favorites. Love, Jean

  • Gongshow16
    Gongshow16 Member Posts: 26
    edited January 2015


    I empathize with those experiencing side effects and being told, "oh it's not the radiation..."  my SE's have, overall, been minimal however I have had pressure type headaches and just general unwellness since my last chemo (October).  One of my chemo nurses (I still see them as I get Herceptin every 3 weeks) said it may not be listed as a specific side effect of a particular treatment but just think of what your body has been through in the last 7 months...

    So although a side effect may not be listed as being caused by a specific treatment I think it is reasonable to assume that the trauma that we have been through causes MANY side effects.  Be persistent with your doctors until you get the answers you need. 

    On that note - As I mentioned, I am on Herceptin and wondered if anyone else is experiencing pressure like sinus issues?   Of course I was told it is not a SE of Herceptin (lol) any info would be greatly appreciated.

    I'm about to start Tamoxifen and am soooo anxious about it- more than I was about chemo or rads...

  • CoyoteNV
    CoyoteNV Member Posts: 575
    edited January 2015

    Hooray for Gongshow!  One hurdle successfully leaped.  I was very happy to place that smiley face next to your name. 

     

  • Beachbum1023
    Beachbum1023 Member Posts: 1,417
    edited January 2015

    Good Afternoon Birdgirl11, Thanks for all the info and tips. I appreciate it. I see the RO on Friday, but the rads may be refused at this time to start chemo, again! The MO is concerned about the mets in my abdomen and wants to start soon since the Taxol response wasn't good, and the breast tumor grew back and fast. The mets are very small and the MO wants to get them now before they start growing. So one thing to prevent the original breast tumor from coming back, but another to shrink the mets. Another round of run, worry, and wait and see. So I hope to have a better plan in place on Friday. I'll see how long that plan works.......geez it's exhausting!

    For everyone in the polar vortex freeze - stay warm. For everyone on a nice warm sunny beach - please invite us! The wind chill here is -15.

  • Birdgirl11
    Birdgirl11 Member Posts: 51
    edited January 2015

    Jlynn13 - I'm so sorry to read you've been so sick! What a huge disappointment to have to prolong your treatment because of missed appointments. Missing an appointment to go to the spa might be fine, but because you are puking is just no good. Prayers for you, sister, that your stomach will calm down and heal and that you can return to your treatment schedule tomorrow.

    Keep us updated!

  • Nancy6540
    Nancy6540 Member Posts: 50
    edited January 2015

    Coyote- your work is fantastic!

    Gongshow-yes, headache is a side effect that some of us have experienced with Herceptin. Check out the latest posts on "Taxol/Herceptin" blog. Congrats on finishing rads!

    Beachbum- so sorry to hear The Taxol hasn't worked well for you. I'm sure they will find something that will in their bag of tricks!

    Jlynn- feel better!

    {{Hugs}}

    Nancy



  • Beachlady28
    Beachlady28 Member Posts: 54
    edited January 2015
    Hello to all my fellow winter warriors! I AM ALL DONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Finished with rads 1/5/15!!!! My wonderful husband drove me to each and every rad and Dr. appt, helped me thru melt-downs, cleaned the house, made healthy homemade meals, did all the food shopping, rubbed my back every nite, etc. and etc. He is a SAINT!!!!!! I am blessed that he is my hubby.
    So then we were walking to the car after the last rad and he opens the trunk and takes out a bouquet of roses with a card that read "To my very brave best girl". Well we both just cried...It is such a RELIEF to be done with the daily grind of going to rad because each and every day you are reminded of the cancer...however I am here to tell the newbies that YOU CAN DO THIS and the final day of rads WILL come!!!!! You all have posted great hints that were so helpful and I wish the very best of health to all !!!!!!
  • Pita119
    Pita119 Member Posts: 85
    edited January 2015

    Beachlady...congratulations on finishing up your rad treatments. Sounds like you had quite the end of treatment celebration.

  • Pita119
    Pita119 Member Posts: 85
    edited January 2015

    JLynn...hope you feel better soon!!!!!

  • WndrWoman
    WndrWoman Member Posts: 333
    edited January 2015

    Beachlady28 so delighted for you. What a difference a support person can make. My husband and I feel that "we" have cancer.

  • Jlynn13
    Jlynn13 Member Posts: 21
    edited January 2015

    thanks Birdgirl11! I'm really hoping I feel better by tomorrow morning bc I definitely don't want to miss another treatment. I would love a spa day when all this is over. Lol

  • Jlynn13
    Jlynn13 Member Posts: 21
    edited January 2015

    beachlady28

    I'm so glad you have a wonderful and supportive husband. It really does make a huge difference. You definitely desired the roses. My husband has also been great. He takes care of our 4 yr old playing with her, making dinner every night and getting her ready for bed nightly. He does all this while I lay on the couch struggling with my nausea. It's been like this for the past month. It sounds like we are both blessed.

    Congrats again on finishing this hurdle.

  • Jlynn13
    Jlynn13 Member Posts: 21
    edited January 2015

    thanks Nancy6540 and Pita119

  • Birdgirl11
    Birdgirl11 Member Posts: 51
    edited January 2015

    Way to go, Beachlady - you made it!!! (theme to Rocky playing in the background)


    To those still doing rads - keep putting one foot in front of the other and you will get there! I

  • Nomatterwhat
    Nomatterwhat Member Posts: 587
    edited January 2015

    I'm a little behind on posts.  Congrats to all the ladies who have finished.  Take care of yourselves. 

    Coyote, your work is really beautiful.  I would love to have a talent like that. 

    Beachlady, what a wonderful "awww" moment.  You are so blessed!!! 

    Wndrwoman, you are so right, it may be just us that has the cancer, but when I started this journey my husband said that "WE would get through this journey together" and now we are almost done with it. 

  • lescover
    lescover Member Posts: 7
    edited January 2015

    What a kind and thoughtful guy!! 

    My guy is accompanying me to my first rad treatment tomorrow.  He insists even though I tell him that he doesn't have to. 

    I attended my first yoga class (in like forever) last night, and I am hoping that SE's don't prevent me from going on a regular basis.  I didn't buy a monthly pass or commit to more, so I guess I can see how it goes. Anyone have any suggestions for keeping active?

  • CoyoteNV
    CoyoteNV Member Posts: 575
    edited January 2015

    Yeah for Beachlady! It's great that the rads are behind you.  Congratulations to you for doing all that BC treatments have required, and to your Hubby for being such a wonderful support and so very loving.  The smiley will go up immediately!

  • Fionascottie
    Fionascottie Member Posts: 78
    edited January 2015

    Gongshow16, YES to your question about sinus pressure! I am on Herceptin every three weeks until next August. The pressure makes my teeth throb ( my dentist ruled out dental reasons which was good news,) and I have headaches from time to time. I had not tied the pressure to Herceptin, but it is not something I usually deal with . I had Herceptin along with Taxotere, Carboplatin and Perjeta for 6 treatments, but the Herceptin didn't continue at that point initially because there were questions of heart damage and I had further tests. The cardiologist cleared me to return to Herceptin in December. Since it had been 3 months I was given a 90 minute loading dose. I noticed over the next few days that the neuropathy in my feet and hands had gotten worse, though it is slowly getting better again. A SE? In my mind, yes! On another note, my first rad treatment was delayed :( for a week. The RO was concerned that my surgical site wasn't quite healed enough. It has been 11 weeks since surgery. Then yesterday I saw the surgeon and she said she wouldn't have called it that way, that she sees my site as healed, that the RO's area of concern is a scab which will soon drop off. So, I had my simulation on the 5th and am slated to start the real deal next Tuesday, the 13th. I'll be glad to get going finally! I read about boosts from some of you and did not know what they are...I do now ! I'll be getting those at the end of treatment

    Hope everyone is getting through this cold weather without hardship! In SC this morning it is 18 degrees.





  • WndrWoman
    WndrWoman Member Posts: 333
    edited January 2015

    zero degrees here in RI so bundling up for rads appointment - better than a snowstorm because I don't want any snow days off - want to get it done

  • Pita119
    Pita119 Member Posts: 85
    edited January 2015

    Okay CoyoteNV...I'm attempting to post these pictures...we'll see how it goes lol. Some of the pictures aren't the clearest but at least it gives an idea of what I do. The welcome picture & the the gingerbread man are painted on roofing slate. The house with Santa's reindeer is cut wood & the disk spins when the music box is wound...plays "Santa Clause is Coming to town. The snowmen are wood candle holders and the calendar is wood...My daughter & 2 yo granddaughter love Winnie the Pooh so I painted 4 seasonal pictures (have a winter & easter picture to do yet). Takes a lot of time to do but I love doing it.

    image

  • Gongshow16
    Gongshow16 Member Posts: 26
    edited January 2015


    Fionascotti - thanks for the info.  I am having the teeth throbbing too.. and up the sides of my head - thought I was going crazy and of course thinking the worst... I called the triage nursing station at the cancer clinic here and she suggested I follow up with my Family doctor...and I now have to start tamoxefin.  I am really worried about it...I guess because before this whole 'gongshow' I was on 0 medications - not even glasses!! lol Taking a pill everyday and waiting for SE's to surface does not sound fun.

    I'm thinking of asking to have the Herceptin infused over a longer period of time but I'm not sure if that will make a difference or not.

    glad your rads are going ahead - sooner you get in the sooner you are done!! :-)

    Congrats to those finishing up!! It's a good feeling and a step in the right direction.

    -25 with the wind chill here today...brrr  can't wait 'til Spring!

     

     

  • Saltygirl
    Saltygirl Member Posts: 13
    edited January 2015

    Seriously thinking of backing out. I'm supposed to start Monday. Maybe it's just nerves. I don't know. I've never been sold on having the RADS as I am in the "gray area". I don't know if it's my gut telling me not to do it or just my fear. Could use some encouraging words or stories

  • eileenpg
    eileenpg Member Posts: 467
    edited January 2015


    Saltygirl=I have done 11 so far. No big deal. Hope it stays this way. I will do whatever it takes to not have BC return. You can do it. Chemo was the hard part. Good luck

  • Birdgirl11
    Birdgirl11 Member Posts: 51
    edited January 2015

    Saltygirl - wanting to back out is prety normal, I think. We've all had those moments and days. I read somewhere that radiation can reduce chances of recurrence by up to 70%! Between that and the chemo, you will be in a very good spot indeed! Keep reminding yourself that this is an investment for the years to come.

    Is it scary? Yes. Is it fun? No. But you can make it through one day at a time.

    Hugs to you!

  • ILCMom
    ILCMom Member Posts: 18
    edited January 2015

    So I started this thread. Promptly got sick. Got better and then got sick again. Started Rads and am at halfway point.


    I have a bolus. Right side is sore. I am on to physical therapy on Friday to see if I can improve my range of motion.


    Salty - no one but you can make a decision on Rads. Does it suck? Yes but not as bad as chemo. Does it have side effects? Yes but so does chemo. For me it will boost my statistics up to 90% of this motherflipper never coming back. I will say one of my 3 great chemo buddies I still am in contact with did not have radiation the first time around and is battling again. We often fear the unknown or the anticipation of the procedures. I think for me looking at where I want to be in 10 years meant I had to surrender a bit to this process and stay calm/trust that I am doing what is right for me

  • Gongshow16
    Gongshow16 Member Posts: 26
    edited January 2015

    saltygirl- you can do it- I had 30 rads including 5 boosts and I made out just fine! My skin isn't too bad at all. Like someone else said it's an investment in your future!! Good luck!

  • Saltygirl
    Saltygirl Member Posts: 13
    edited January 2015

    Thank you eileenpg and birdgil11. I know I felt this way before chemo too...the fear of the unknown. I keep telling myself once I do the first one and get the ball rolling I can stop analyzing the situation and just get on with it. I too want to do everything I can to prevent this from coming back but I'm afraid of the SE's. I already had reconstruction and have implants in place. I'm worried what is going to happen with that. I'm even more terrified of developing another cancer as a result of the RADS. I know it's supposedly a low risk but after having cancer once I'm not willing to accept increased risks of any kind of cancer. I just hate this whole situation

  • Carynbrit
    Carynbrit Member Posts: 51
    edited January 2015

    Rads# 20 today.. going out this morning at 9 degrees wasnt too brilliant.but its done.

    Congrats to the finishers..and as for good hubbys.. I am pleased for you all..and yes.. a bit jealous!!! Im glad you have that lovely support :-)

    My hubby is no help (unless there are people to impress at the time). The cancer for me halted my 'college/job/get out plans too.. I work with a womens shelter for my 'situation' hee at home.. im a bit stuck right now).and he presented with with a chart of 'how much cancer is costing me;

    I've gone solo pretty much all the time through this.. (and looking back for the 13 years.. have always done that)


    Sally.. I hear you.. I can remember my first time actually going in...and I got through it okay but admit to bawling my eyes out afterwards in the changing room because I was 'having' to do this. (25% chance of recurrence here without it...9% with it). and a lot of that 'pre' stress came out

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