new member and a few thoughts

breastcancerhusband
breastcancerhusband Member Posts: 85

Hi all.

I am breast cancer husband. My wife who is 33 has just been diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer, 3cm tumour, she had a single MX last week, sential node biopsy was clear, although we get the full results end of the week. She will begin chemo very soon. She is also 18 weeks pregnant. Furthermore, she also lost her best friend to TNBC in September, although she was diagnosed at a very late stage. But we can't believe that cancer is back in our lives so soon.

Obviously we are both scared, but trying to deal with this head on. I work in medical research, not breast cancer specifically, although my lab have just begun to initate some breast cancer related projects (there will certainly be more now!). During our friend illness I was often the medical port of call and explained so much about what was happening. I never though I would be on the otherside.

I've read many of the posts on this site. Every single one of you are special and so brave and I only have the upmost respect and admiration for each of you.

I have been doing lots of reading and question asking over the past few weeks and have put together some thoughts and points. I hope many of you wonderful brave ladies can take something from my ramblings below. xxx

  • 1) Morewomen survive TNBC than don’t! – Ok, let’s look at the stats. According tocancer research UK, the overall 10 year survival rate for breast cancer is 75%.It’s still not high enough and medical science will not stop until its 100%.But this is significantly better than it was 20 years ago. This figure is from2007, anyone diagnosed with breast cancer in 2014 will have an even greaterchance of survival. Now, one cannot deny that the prognosis for TNBC doesappear worse; the 5 years survival rate is ~70%, (compared to 85% for hormonepositive cancers). However, I had a conversation with an oncologist last weekand he made this point which I thought was interesting. Taken very simply outof 10 women 7 will survive 5 years, 3 won’t. But why do those women notsurvive? Well of course there are the obvious reasons; more aggressive, greaterchance of reoccurrence etc, however there are other reasons. One of those women probably presented at a much later stage and was never going to make the 5years, one of those women may have been in her 70’s and elected not to have chemo that would have helped her survive. One of those women may have come froma rural part of the UK and may not have had access to the best care quickenough. One of those women may have been young, but refused chemo. One of those women may have been young, ignored the lump and by the time it was diagnosed had a worse prognosis. The take home point is, while the stats paint a pictureof a worse prognosis, more women still survive TNBC than don’t! And those don’tsurvive, of course it’s still an element of luck (i.e. how far the tumour hasspread, aggressiveness etc) but there are other reasons than might distortthese stats a bit. Also, when you read about TNBC you always see “poorerprognosis” but and this is a big but, this is poorer prognosis compared to the hormone positive breast cancers. You need to remember that compared to other types of cancer (i.e. lung, pancreatic etc) the prognosis for TNBC is actually very good! And keep this mind – more women survive TNBC than don’t!

  • 2)TNBC is “new!” – Well that’s not true, TNBC has been around for thousands of years,but it’s only over the past 10-15 years that scientists and medics have become more aware of TNBC. Indeed reading these discussions boards it is evident that many long term survivors presented as ER and PR negative, HER status wasn’t tested for! Many “double negative” survivors would have even been treated with hormone suppressing drugs years ago due to lack of understanding of hormonal status, especially in smaller cancer centres. Lots of retrospective studies have been done looking at survival rates etc and yes, again you can’t argue that maybe the prognosis isn’t as favourable as those with hormone positive tumours, but I wonder how many women out there have fought and beaten TNBC, but never even knew they were triple negative? And many of these have probably slipped through the net as it were and aren’t included in follow up studies. Also, lab tests for ER/PR and HER have significantly improved. Years ago, there probably would have been more false positives (i.e. path results showing positivity for ER/PR but these were false results). As we understand more aboutTNBC, more follow up studies will be done and I believe that the survival rateof TNBC will be significantly higher in 10 years’ time. Many of you ladies will become statistics, but of the good kind!

3) TNBC is scary, deadly, a nightmare – well yesit is. But so is any cancer. Any tumour has the potential to kill you. But while breast cancer is a very emotive issue, the success of screening programsand treatments that have led to excellent survival rates has in some respects pushed breast cancer down the headlines. What sells a newspaper or web article better? “34 year old woman beats breast cancer” or “Deadly breast cancer kicked into touch by brave young lady”

To be honest Iwould click on the latter. I’m not denying it’s a scary diagnosis, but becareful of what you read online!

  • 4) TNBC oftenresponds better to chemo – most of you will know this anyway. But since TNBC is normally grade 3 (aggressive cells) these are the cells most likely to succumb to the harsh chemo drugs used in clinical practice. Indeed, chemo has been shown (quite a few published studies) to be more effective against TNBC. Ok, there isn’tthe option of hormone suppressing drugs after chemo, but if caught early enough and treated appropriately, once that chemo and radio is done, there is no needfor further medication.
  • 5) Diet and exercise can help prevent reoccurrence of TNBC – still more work to be done on this but have a look at this research. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17179478 and this is the lead authors webpage http://www.cancer.ucla.edu/index.aspx?page=243&recordid=45
  • Ok, it doesn’t mean it won’t come back, changing your diet may not be the miracle cure, but then tamoxifen isn’t a miracle cure. You’ll certainly get less side effects from having an healthy diet!
  • 6) There are plenty of positive stories out there! – Yes there really are. Search the web hard enough and you’ll find them. Coming back to point 3, many are lost in the google hits generated by typing “triple negative breast cancer” (most people have clicked on the sensational headlines!). How many people really search past page 10 of their google search? You will also find that these discussion boards are bias towards the recently diagnosed and those in treatment. (And rightly so). Many “survivors” will only come back to post once or twice a year oncetreatment is done. I’m sure many never come back, cancer would have been a darkpart of their life that they want left behind. Also, a large majority of people diagnosed probably won’t be posting on these sites. I’ve found sites like these a God send, but my wife who is the one actually fighting this, never ventures onto discussion boards. There are plenty of survivors out there, (point 1 – more women survive), but most probably won’t be posting online.
  • 7) TNBC appears to be a blanket term – a subtype ofTNBC actually has excellent prognosis. The journal “Nature” is the gold standard for medical research. In the research world we all aspire to get ourname on a “Nature” paper. This link is for a recent paper published in Nature (http://www.nature.com/nature/journal/v486/n7403/full/nature10983.html) and this cancer research UK page gives a good summary; (http://scienceblog.cancerresearchuk.org/2012/04/18/increasing-the-resolution-on-breast-cancer-the-metabric-study/)
  • The data is from the METABRIC study, a large study of genes in breast tumours. The authors cluster tumours into 10 different groups.Ok, TNBC has a poorer outcome in the short term, but we knew that. What was very interesting is that the group termed cluster 4, includes a set of TNBC tumours and has excellent prognosis. These tumours had high levels of immune cells inthe tumour mass. Basically the immune system is getting involved and keep the tumour in check.
  • 8) Longer term survival is often better than hormone positive cancers – A number of retrospective studies show that although reoccurrence is greater in the first 3-5 years with TNBC once you are past that mark it significantly drops and indeed after 8 years you may well be considered cured. For hormone positive cancers reoccurrence can occur 15-20 years after the initial tumour.
  • 9) The odds are in favour of not reoccurring – again,coming back to stats and figures, even with hormone positive cancers there is a 15% or reoccurrence, overall for TNBC its twice this, 30%. But that still means that you are more likely not to reoccur. Also, for many women, the chance or reoccurrenceis much less than 30% (tumour size, node status etc).
  • 10) The medical world has more experience of treating TNBC now – I’m probably repeating myself now, but doctors know more about TNBC ,they have more experience treating it and they have an ever growing pool of studies and cases to draw from. More women diagnosed with TNBC today will be survivors in 10 years time and this period of cancer will be a distant memory.
  • 11) Finally, (thank God I hear anyone reading this cry!) the research world moves fast. Veryfast. I’ve been working in a research lab for 11 years now. Experiments that,11 years ago would have taken me a whole week can now be performed in a few hours. Sequencing a tumour genome was a massive undertaking, now it’s anautomated process that virtually any lab with a reasonable amount of cash can undertake. Funding bodies are pumping millions into fast tracking ideas from bench to bedside. New and novel ideas are emerging all the time. This study for example shows a method to kill circulating cancer cells in mice, granted a long way from clinical use, but the concepts are ideas are there. (http://www.pnas.org/content/111/3/930.full).
  • This study from this summer identifies possible targets inTNBC (http://clincancerres.aacrjournals.org/content/early/2014/09/10/1078-0432.CCR-14-0432.abstract) It also highlights the different TNBC subtypes and throws up the one that has the immune system involved.

Comments

  • belleeast
    belleeast Member Posts: 653
    edited November 2014

    Breastcancer husband,I am sorry for the reason you are here but welcome to the board! It is always good to read positive info to reinforce our hopes and positive outlooks and negate our fears. Even if it was long Lol😃😃😃😃 Seriously,thank you! I feel we have a new advocate on our side not just for TN but for all breast cancer,I regret the reason tho! I wish the best for your wife,you and your precious baby.

  • wrenn
    wrenn Member Posts: 2,707
    edited November 2014

    Thank you for taking the time to post all of this information. I really appreciate it and your wife is lucky that you are interested. I hope you are as interested in the psychological stuff she is going through as well especially being pregnant and what a worry that must be.  Although your post gave me hope (I am TN) I was reminded of my ex (who has been published in Nature) minimizing traumatizing events with academics. I wanted to smack him often.  :-) But again, thank you and I wish your family to be on the right side of the statistics. Take care. 

  • agatha6
    agatha6 Member Posts: 22
    edited November 2014

    thank you for the great info! It's hard to google info on TNBC for me because I am worried about seeing my projected prognosis in some statistic. I have shyed away from stats. 

    If you run across any info on supplements please post, my nutritionist wants me to see a cancer naturopath for those recommendations. In addition I will talk to my onc. L-Glutamine and B6 helped me avoid neuropathy I believe during taxol. I have minor neuropathy but believe it would have been worse otherwise. Ask your dr of course if interested, this is not intended to be medical advice! :) 

    Agatha

  • yellowdoglady
    yellowdoglady Member Posts: 349
    edited November 2014

    Been there and done that. Today, my mammo was better than perfect. Six years after being handed a death sentence. You don't have it all figured out. You just want to make it about you. It's not. Try paying attention to the woman you claim to represent. Do something to save your wife! Get with the program.

  • luckypenny
    luckypenny Member Posts: 150
    edited November 2014

    yellowdoglady-

    I think it's unkind to assume the op is self centered! You don't know his intentions any more than I do. And since I don't - I think it's only fair to have positive regard towards the op- Perhaps you are projecting your own experiences onto the op? Me personally- I love the fact that he is researching his wife's disease to make sense of it - as most likely a way to support - and why not share what he learned to encourage others? How do you know that he isn't supporting his wife or trying to 'save' her in other ways?

    Why in the world would you choose to attack a poster who is also affected by the this terrible disease? Geez.. I sure hope my husband never experiences this kind of rudeness if he chooses to come here

  • Kgallant
    Kgallant Member Posts: 5
    edited December 2014

    Can anyone give me hope? I just got my pathogy results from surgery and it shows my toumor is gone but still 9 positive nodes. I worked so hard doing 7 rounds of chemo my mamogram and ultra sound showed nothing! So surprised with the report

  • breastcancerhusband
    breastcancerhusband Member Posts: 85
    edited December 2014

    Kgallant

    Try not to panic. Thats good that the tumour mass has gone. What chemo were you on? Do you have more chemo to go? I would presume that you will have surgery now and those lymph nodes can be removed, then radiotherapy.

    There's ton's of hope.

    Hugs and prayers

    x

  • Elgen
    Elgen Member Posts: 7
    edited December 2014

    Hi,

    I appreciate your input. Here is some personal experience with a TNBC patient.

    Triple-negative breast cancer are those that cannot be classified based on the estrogen expression. every patient diagnosed with TNBC has unique gene mutation or deficencies. As a consequence, there is a lack of standard treatment like those with positive estrogen expressions. Using the drugs from the standard treatment is like to try out one's luck. If the drug works, great. If the drug does not work, move on to the next available one. Cancer cells could migrate (metastasize), and could mutate (develop drug resistance). Sometimes, once effective drug loses its potency after some period. I do not know what would happen when an oncologist runs out of the drug options to test on a patient.

    Treating breast cancer during pregnancy is a delicate matter. I hope your wife has a margin and is operable. That would be terrific. Good luck!

    Elgen

  • Redporchlady
    Redporchlady Member Posts: 113
    edited January 2015

    gallant, I am sorry you had some positive nodes. I know every night I pray for a NED abut I know they will follow up after surgery to those areas with radiation to kill anything left in that area. Stay strong. My oncologist told us that the different treatments target the tumors and to help kill or put anything that was floating out there in remission. Ask if you will have more chemo and see what your options are. My oncologist gave us options and I added Carbo every 3 weeks to my 12 weekly Taxol.

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