November 2014 Starting Chemo Crew
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it's been 4 days since my first chemo treatment and my side effects are the dizziness, tired, and nausating. i am taking the A/C combination.
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Hang in there karen1971! I'm at day 10 and feel so much better. Day 3 and 4 were my worst. We all will get through this!
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hi girls! Anyone else on here think that chemo side effects are so similar to pregnancy? Extreme tiredness and falling asleep on the couch by 9pm. Random nausea, certain smells triggering it, peeing a million times in the night, anxiety, body aches. That list could seriously be my pregnancy symptoms or my chemo symptoms! And the both last about 9 months (at least from my diagnosis to when chemo is over). Only no sleepless nights for the next year when it's done. No cute baby either but I'm trying to think positive.
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My cancer nurse says that if you managed pregancy well then chances are that Chemo might not be has tough. I didn't have morning sickness with either of my pregancies, and seem to have escaped nausea and fatique with the chemo. Infections are another story though - we are all so different.
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Wow! We've been a busy board! I went MIA for a week due to SE. My nausea was hard to control and the dexamethasone made me jittery and anxious. Took about a week and I am finally feeling better. I don't get it because I hydrated like crazy. I'm disappointed in myself for handling it so badly.
Thatcameragirl- pregnancy IS exactly what it felt like for me! BUT I was a much better at handling pregnancy.
knittingpt- the scalp thing....my wig lady told me when you get the itchy creepy crawly feeling to rub green purell antibacterial gel on your head! ODD. Haven't lost my hair yet but I bought some purell just for when I do.
Bonnied- I sent you a message on FB. I think it will land in your other box. I'm Krysti Farnam.
Hope everyone who celebrates it had a happy Thanksgiving!
This Thurs is head shave day and chemo vs krysti round 2. Time to get out the pink gloves again!
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SCVA, double sided tape, of course!
Jovigirl; I think I'm past the itchy, prickly part (thank goodness!) I hope the purell with help others.
I know some of you are probably considering hats and such.Here's my info on the ones I have so far.Hats, scarves, and more has been my favorite vendor so far but all got me the items, as advertised, in a timely way!
Chemoscarves.com
- Cotton material
- Scarf like/pre-tied/kind of looks like a tied bandana or scrub hat
- Elastic on the back
- I found the woven cotton to be a little bit stiff on my head at first.
- I didn't think these quite covered my head well enough as I was losing my hair but seems to be okay now that I'm bald.
Hats, scarves, and more
- Luxury bamboo turban (3 seam)
- Very soft, fits my head well and doesn't give me headache
- Has a little bit of height and doesn't hug the head on top
- Cotton 3 seam turban (soft like t-shirt material)
- Very soft and also fits well and similar to the luxury bamboo
- EcoCloche
- Very cute and comfortable
- Is double material and kind of thick so this may end up being too hot for the desert.We shall see!
Uptown Girl headwear (through Amazon)
- Soft Comfy sleep/chemocap
- Fits very close to the head/basic beanie
- Soft material
- Have worn this alone and underneath head scarves to they would have something to "stick" to
Chemo Beanies (through Amazon)
- Rita:
- very, very cute
- A little bit dressy
- Fit well and elastic is comfortable
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Just had my first sign of hair loss. Feeling sad and overwhelmed. Just ran fingers thru and had alot of strands to come out.. each stroke more strands.Ugh.
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Hello Ladies! I have been following this board for the most part of this month and feel like I know you all already. I finally created a user name so I can join in the conversation. Preparing for my 2nd treatment on Wednesday.
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Greetings all.....hoping your Thanksgiving was awesome! Just caught up a bit on the board, was absent more due to being busy...a good thing! Kept as much hair as possible for holiday pictures...but was able to start pulling it out 3 days before....now have patchy bald spots and am anxious to get this part over with. #2 chemo on Dec 4th/Thursday, so it's gearing up for battle time again. My biggest problem was with the Neulasta shot.....took Claritin as suggested....stopped 4 days after shot, went to work....but could barely drive myself home.....felt like labor pains in hips and back...the pain got ahead of the ibuprofin and a claritin once I got home. Luckily had Vicodin... The next dr visit I told my story...said I could take claritin every day...and gave me a prescript for Vicoprofin for next time.
Thank you for the head toppings info....thinking I'll skip the wig thing, but who knows. Best wishes to you gals, keep posting your stories, it really helps to know we're not alone in this. Sure, we have our loved ones.....but no one truly knows what we have been dealt. HUGS!
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Hi. I just joined while researching relief for tightness on my scalp and/ headache; muscle soreness at neck and shoulders. I started Taxotere 11/24 but does the muscle soreness linger on a week after? The dose of Zofran I took was 2 days ago. I'm not taking anything else.
I'm also under a lot of stress and aggravation at home so it may be that too. Family members who are more needy than I am! I'm trying to drink lots of fluids but maybe not enough? Thank you for your help.
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Michelle, did you get the Neulasta shot? That causes bone pain for several days. Maybe try some Tylenol
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Hello, my chemo nurse told me about the Claritin. I used it for five days and I haven't had pain due to the dreaded "shot" it worked for me!
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Hi, I'm a ghost from November '13 here to cheer you on. If your not handling the SE well, please please don't blame yourself! You've got enough on your plate: you certainly don't need guilt. As for sleeplessness, yes it comes with the territory. I spent many night hours streaming tv shows and movies. One thing that helps: my MO told me to take one Ativan for nausea and two for sleep. Works like a dream. Ativan is the chemo wonder drug: it's the secret to how we get through. You go girls!
As for head coverings, my absolute favorite go-to item was from etsy. A woman in New Zealand makes these beautiful 1920's cloches that are comfortable, easy to wear, and beautiful. I assure you I am not a paid shill for this company!
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Leslienva, No, I did not get the neulesta shot. I may have to try some pain relievers if I can't figure this out. Maybe too much time in bed and not enough activity.
Michelle49
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Palameda, I saw those and thought they were adorable. I just wasn't sure how long it would take to ship to US? You are in California. How long did yours take? I ordered some stuff to get here pronto but now can shop more leisurely. And Christmas (and my birthday . . . known as Carynmas!) are coming.
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My oncology nurse told me not to take too much Ativan because it can make you depressed. But it works better than the Zofran on nausea. The only problem is it makes me drowsy, which is fine at night but not so good during the day.
What anti nausea meds are working for everyone?
Love those hats, Palameda
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Erica, HUGS, I am so sorry. You are beautiful either way, remember that, hair or no hair. (I coil my long hair atop my head nights, both yesterday and more so today it hurt to uncoil it). I am not ready for losing my hair at all...
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thatcameragirl, yes, I've described what I'm going through as just about the exact same as my oh so miserable pregnancy, which I was violently ill for the entirety of. Also from the standpoint that we have to hang in there until it's over, it's not a ride we can get off of if we feel like it (we could, but I wouldn't!).
Another poster, I got lost in the posts who, had trouble sleeping. I highly
recommend some good indica (marijuana). You don't have to smoke, you can do edibles (I do).
Anyone else doing mmj besides me?
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You're lucky to be in a state where it's legal!
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Hi Tally
I felt sheepish asking the nurse about having a glass of wine once in a while and she gave me a strange look, (and I'm writing this from wine country! )
2 days after my first round, I decided to see for myself , because I do believe in the benefits of a glass of red once in a while (I am French after all) and it was just fine, not the same pleasure for sure but it didn't make me sick and it may have given me more appetite.
I had another glass today while preparing lunch and that was quite nice - so my advice is, Listen to your body and don't deny yourself any little pleasure at this time, your body will tell you but if it's ok, however remember that the liver is affected first with chemo so it doesn't need any extra toxins or extra work to do.
Hugs,
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Hi Enlm
I'll be experiencing the same thing as you in about 10 days time. keep in mind you're losing your hair because the meds are working, they're helping you fight this battle and your hair will grow back, maybe even more beautiful than ever but in the meantime it's a sign of your fight, you're a soldier fighting a battle, you have many weapons in your arsenal and you will own each facet of this fight!
Just as when I see my scars on my chest I see them as a symbol of my victory over this enemy.
Embrace each moment, own it and live it in the present!
hugs to you
caseypunchy
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Thanks so much Casey and Chris, (in tears) these past months have been a roller coaster of emotions from shock to sadness to acceptance to gratefulness and back to (Is this really happening?! ). Casey you are right, the scars are a sign of perseverance and strength and I realized that this morning. I told my husband that I was really hurt lastnite about my hair but realized that I have to go thru this process and endure what comes with it and be grateful for life. It's truly a battle and we all are soldiers strong and mighty. Just have to fight on. Chris I'm not ready either... we're going this together and I'm so thankful for u and your support. Right now my head feels kinda itchy and slightly sore too so I guess we're on schedule as far as the hair side effects goes. Tomorrow marks a week before next treatment so I'm about to start getting my water in and prepare For what's to come. (HUGS)
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Knitting. I love that hat as well, perfect for the winter. I am in Auckland, New Zealand, and regularly send to the States. It seriously only takes about 5 working days via Airmail. I am sure you would get it really quickly.
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knittingPT, as Kiwi1966 said, it took perhaps a little over a week for the hat to get here. I was pleasantly surprised. What may not be obvious from the picture, it's made of light stretchy material which works well for hot flashes. I too used edibles during treatment (and now) to help with nausea, appetite, sleeping and general well being. Csnnot believe there are still states that deny cancer patients this medicine. I found that I could enjoy a glass of wine in my third week after chemo: week one not so much! Good luck ladies, this will be over quite soon, and you'll have a full head of hair rather quickly. I have the most beautiful curls, with one ringlet that drops perfectly over my forehead.
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No mmj here! My state sucks. Heck I don't even have Ativan. No wonder I felt so crummy. I'm demanding better drugs this time around!
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Erica, I was very much opposed to losing my hair, too. The first time I showered and it came out in my hands, I promptly stopped the shower and patted it dry very, very carefully. Now it is falling out so fast that I just want it gone. When I shower, I try to get as much out as possible. The "in between" bald spot stage seems worse to me than fully bald. I don't like the trail of prickly hairs behind me or on my shoulders. I've now moved on to "get it off me" so I can be done with it stage. It is funny how we have to go through all these emotional stages with every step of treatment. First it was the start of chemo, now the loss of hair . . .what will be the next big stage? I get my third round of chemo this week! I wonder what joys await me after that :-) I am trying to take it all in stride. Luckily, I have many friends with a morbid sense of humor and they help get through it with a smile while also letting me "feel the burn".
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Hi Bonnie, I started chemo on November 20th. I would like to be on the Facebook page. I'm kimberly Joyce Wilson-Smith on Facebook. Thanks so much.
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Erica
I am so thankful to be walking it with you, we can do this
hugs and love back!
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Knitting I can understand what u mean, I'm seriously considering just cutting it all off to skip the falling out in clumps phase. Honestly I tell ya, sometimes u just wanna scream then u realize it wouldn't help and you'll just look crazy lol. I'm wishing you the best on treatment #3, I pray to God it goes smoothly for you.
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thanks ladies on the alcohol tips. I am thinking a glass of wine, not shots of Patron. Lol
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